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2016 brides!

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  • Registered Users Posts: 460 ✭✭Shybride2016


    hi ladies,

    Have any of you got your bridesmaids sorted yet? I'm having one bridesmaid but so far not having much luck finding a nice dress for her. We're based in Dublin so suggestions welcome!

    Also, how many different shades of white are there?! The search for a matching flower girl dress is getting ridiculous now. I bought two dresses neither of which match my dress so they look weird next to mine. When do communion dresses appear in the shops?!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 148 ✭✭emzibob


    hi ladies,

    Have any of you got your bridesmaids sorted yet? I'm having one bridesmaid but so far not having much luck finding a nice dress for her. We're based in Dublin so suggestions welcome!

    Also, how many different shades of white are there?! The search for a matching flower girl dress is getting ridiculous now. I bought two dresses neither of which match my dress so they look weird next to mine. When do communion dresses appear in the shops?!

    Debenhams is a popular choice for bridesmaids I got mine on ASOS and they are fabulous only problem is finding matching dresses for my junior bridesmaids also. I never thought finding two childs dresses would cause so much trouble but if you want anything other than white its nearly impossible! anyway try roco clothing for your flower girls they have a lot of really well priced white / ivory styles not sure when communion styles come out but I'd imagine it is early next year :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,146 ✭✭✭stargazer 68


    Pamela Scott have lovely stuff too. A lot of it is quite Debsy but you may see something in there.

    Re shoes: I got mine from Elegant steps - fabulous online but I went to their shop.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,649 ✭✭✭✭fits


    hi ladies,

    Have any of you got your bridesmaids sorted yet? I'm having one bridesmaid but so far not having much luck finding a nice dress for her. We're based in Dublin so suggestions welcome!

    Also, how many different shades of white are there?! The search for a matching flower girl dress is getting ridiculous now. I bought two dresses neither of which match my dress so they look weird next to mine. When do communion dresses appear in the shops?!

    If you have one bridesmaid buy in a sample sale. My bridesmaid got a beautiful silk dress for 65 euro in the suite! Fabric alone was worth more than that!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 762 ✭✭✭Pistachios & cream


    hi ladies,

    Have any of you got your bridesmaids sorted yet? I'm having one bridesmaid but so far not having much luck finding a nice dress for her. We're based in Dublin so suggestions welcome!

    Also, how many different shades of white are there?! The search for a matching flower girl dress is getting ridiculous now. I bought two dresses neither of which match my dress so they look weird next to mine. When do communion dresses appear in the shops?!


    Also take a look at places that sell evening wear. I got my sisters navy lace dresses from Hose of Fraser. They cost less then most traditional bridesmaid dresses and they can wear them again.


  • Registered Users Posts: 460 ✭✭Shybride2016


    Thanks for all the replies and suggestions. Haven't a clue how to multiple quote! I've looked in Debenhams but didn't see any we liked.

    Never even thought of House of Fraser or Pamela Scott, thanks!

    Found a place online called Dresscode that seem to have loads of styles and colours, anyone any experience of them?

    Re shoes, I got flats in Korkys there a few weeks ago. Wasn't looking for them but spotted them in the window and they fitted perfectly.


    http://www.korkys.ie/white-slip-on-pump-ett352-wht


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,228 ✭✭✭honerbright


    Went wedding dress shopping for the first time today. Think I fell in love with a dress... we haven't really discussed derss budgets yet, but I just know it's well over it, lol!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    Went wedding dress shopping for the first time today. Think I fell in love with a dress... we haven't really discussed derss budgets yet, but I just know it's well over it, lol!

    You'll find a way. Just make other things less of a priority


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,228 ✭✭✭honerbright


    You'll find a way. Just make other things less of a priority

    I really don't know about that! The band we ended up falling in love with was about €500 over projected budget, and at €2300 the dress is nearly €1000 more than I'd anticipated paying in my own head :( so I guess it's time to start playing the lotto :P


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,649 ✭✭✭✭fits


    I really don't know about that! The band we ended up falling in love with was about €500 over projected budget, and at €2300 the dress is nearly €1000 more than I'd anticipated paying in my own head :( so I guess it's time to start playing the lotto :P

    You might be able to save 1500 in other areas.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    I really don't know about that! The band we ended up falling in love with was about €500 over projected budget, and at €2300 the dress is nearly €1000 more than I'd anticipated paying in my own head :( so I guess it's time to start playing the lotto :P

    Dresses are expensive but there's a reason as there's so much work goes into them. I would have said 2500 was an average budget for a dress. You can get them for less but there's a lot more higher end designers available in Ireland which pushes up the average.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,528 ✭✭✭ShaShaBear


    Dresses are expensive but there's a reason as there's so much work goes into them. I would have said 2500 was an average budget for a dress. You can get them for less but there's a lot more higher end designers available in Ireland which pushes up the average.

    2500???
    Ouch :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    ShaShaBear wrote: »
    2500???
    Ouch :(

    Depends on priorities. Some brides are happy to spend a lot more. I paid 2200 and had a budget of 3800 so felt it was a great saving for me. I love my dress and can't wait to wear it. I feel I've also paid for a year of excitement as well as the day wearing it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,649 ✭✭✭✭fits


    Its very hard to get a good dress for anything close to a grand unless you go preowned. I paid 1950 and it has gone up in price since.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,528 ✭✭✭ShaShaBear


    Depends on priorities. Some brides are happy to spend a lot more. I paid 2200 and had a budget of 3800 so felt it was a great saving for me. I love my dress and can't wait to wear it. I feel I've also paid for a year of excitement as well as the day wearing it

    Don't get me wrong, I've seen dresses I would consider ideal in that price bracket, but unfortunately for me the dress is one of the things I feel I have to cut corners on to make up for the rest of it! Luckily I'm not a dress sort of girl and am more excited about the party/food/dancing. A large part of our budget is actually going on the honeymoon - I'l bet there's people that are rightfully shocked at how much I am willing to pay for that!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    ShaShaBear wrote: »
    Don't get me wrong, I've seen dresses I would consider ideal in that price bracket, but unfortunately for me the dress is one of the things I feel I have to cut corners on to make up for the rest of it! Luckily I'm not a dress sort of girl and am more excited about the party/food/dancing. A large part of our budget is actually going on the honeymoon - I'l bet there's people that are rightfully shocked at how much I am willing to pay for that!

    You're entitled to spend it however you want. Drives me mad when there are expectations. The honeymoon is your biggest priority and that's fine. We actually don't mind not having 5 star for honeymoon. We prefer to spend less on that. Hopefully I'll sell my dress after but if not that's ok


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,228 ✭✭✭honerbright


    fits wrote: »
    Its very hard to get a good dress for anything close to a grand unless you go preowned. I paid 1950 and it has gone up in price since.

    I did loads of looking online and the ones I liked were around 1600 new, which is what we had in our estimated budget.. I tried them on, and they were lovely, but I just didn't feel in them like I felt when I tried on the 2300 one.
    The shop I was in did have a very good payment plan, and we're shuffling around the budget.
    This first shop was mostly to see how much things I liked on were so we could reassess the budget situation.


  • Registered Users Posts: 441 ✭✭Ms.Sunshine


    Wedding Dresses are so expensive! I got mine last week and it truly is my dream dress. I didn't start looking with a budget in mind as I didn't know how much they would be.
    Are there any October Brides out there??! How far along are you with planning!?

    Is anybody going to the wedding & honeymoon show in Dublin next month? I hope to be able to go. It looks fun.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    Wedding Dresses are so expensive! I got mine last week and it truly is my dream dress. I didn't start looking with a budget in mind as I didn't know how much they would be.
    Are there any October Brides out there??! How far along are you with planning!?

    Is anybody going to the wedding & honeymoon show in Dublin next month? I hope to be able to go. It looks fun.

    I've been to a couple of them and they aren't great in my opinion. Lots of people making you feel like you need to be skinnier /spend more money /need things you don't. Go with a friend and make sure to go for a drink after. I actually wish there was a decent one about as they are great in concept


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,657 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    My dress was €1300 as a practically unworn sample, and full price it was €1850. It looked like it cost multiples of that though. I tried on over a dozen dresses and none of them cost more than €2000 (without me specifying a budget) so you definitely don't have to spend a fortune if you don't want to.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,228 ✭✭✭honerbright


    Are there any October Brides out there??!

    We're October 13th! Have venue sorted, Band held for the date, Bridesmaids picked (Groom still trying to pick between too many friends :P ) and Wedding dress hunting has begun.

    Faith wrote: »
    My dress was €1300 as a practically unworn sample, and full price it was €1850. It looked like it cost multiples of that though. I tried on over a dozen dresses and none of them cost more than €2000 (without me specifying a budget) so you definitely don't have to spend a fortune if you don't want to.

    Sounds like you hit the jackpot with that!
    I didn't specify a budget either, and I think about 90% of dresses I tried on was well under the 2 grand mark, and I also tried on a gorgeous tea-length one for under €1000. I think the main thing is I've found a colour and shape that I like and I want to work with that at a few more shops and see what else is out there.

    It's funny though how you can go in with one idea in your head of your dream dress and come out of your first visit with something different entirely!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,186 ✭✭✭stickybookmark


    I was absolutely delighted with my dress, probably the part of the wedding (apart from choice of groom haha) that I'm most happy about.
    It really was the perfect dress for me and it cost 1200 (plus approx 150 for tailoring) I bought off the rails already in my size so no waiting around for it to arrive etc. I didn't delibearately scrimp on the budget with my dress this was just ''the one'' so I bought it. From what I've seen there are beautiful options in all price ranges.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 902 ✭✭✭lainey316


    had no intention of spending anything like the money it turned out dresses cost - the one I liked best was 2700! Plus alterations like... as it turns out because of the style I can get it made by a designer a friend has used (her dress was one of my faves ever) for hundreds less.

    It seems mad money but if you are in for 1500 you might as well be in for 2300 to be happy with the dress. It'd be awful to spend the 1500 and not love the dress!

    We're done now for the big things - venue, DJ, ceremony music, dress, registrar, notice appointment done (tho I need to send the forms on). Local florist lined up. There's not much else I can do for a few months so focused on stationery (we've no bridal party to outfit thankfully)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    I won't be wearing a wedding dress, not my style at all, wouldn't feel comfortable! Might get a white and floral swing dress, or maybe a coloured top and a big white skirt :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 852 ✭✭✭shortstuff!


    My dress was a sample, perfect condition & only €700, 1450 to order! Such a bargain I bought a second dress for dancing, a messily €150! I absolutely adore both dresses & despite watching hours of say yes to the dress while on maternity I don't have any second thoughts! Ive spent just over 1k on both mine & 3 bridesmaids (debenhams on sale), they are as nice as anything I've seen at a wedding!

    The dresses & a great package with the hotel are my main savings! Blowing the budget on photographer, cinematographer & entertainment :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,691 ✭✭✭michellie


    I did loads of looking online and the ones I liked were around 1600 new, which is what we had in our estimated budget.. I tried them on, and they were lovely, but I just didn't feel in them like I felt when I tried on the 2300 one.
    The shop I was in did have a very good payment plan, and we're shuffling around the budget.
    This first shop was mostly to see how much things I liked on were so we could reassess the budget situation.

    Have you asked the shop is that the best price they can do? My mam asked and they immediatly knocked 10% off, thats a LOT! (Good haggling Mothers lol)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,000 ✭✭✭andreac


    Exactly 1 year to my wedding!! Countdown is really on now!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,528 ✭✭✭ShaShaBear


    andreac wrote: »
    Exactly 1 year to my wedding!! Countdown is really on now!!

    Exactly two weeks before mine :D


    .... wait, we only have a year? :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,146 ✭✭✭stargazer 68


    ShaShaBear wrote: »
    Exactly two weeks before mine :D


    .... wait, we only have a year? :eek:

    And 2 weeks after mine! OMG!! :eek::eek::eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    1 year minus 3 weeks for me!

    Had a dream last night I was in the hotel about to get ready and opened my case to realise I forgot my shoes and dress!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    It's going to be the quickest year of your lives - enjoy it! :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,000 ✭✭✭andreac


    1 year minus 3 weeks for me!

    Had a dream last night I was in the hotel about to get ready and opened my case to realise I forgot my shoes and dress!

    Oh im having dreams already, dreamt my make up artist couldnt come as she had the wrong date and loads of other things. What will i be like next year when its really close :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 148 ✭✭emzibob


    just over 6 months to mine and I thought I was mad having those dreams haha phew


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    I'm six and a half months according to my countdown app. I'm starting to feel the weight pressure


  • Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,947 Mod ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    My dress was pricey, but I've no regrets, it's amazing. Though I did book a really posh place for a laugh - it was fun trying on designer dresses that cost €10,000. Sure when else will you get to stick on a frock that costs more than the value of everything you possess, including cars?? :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 148 ✭✭emzibob


    I'm six and a half months according to my countdown app. I'm starting to feel the weight pressure

    Me too its so hard but with the clock ticking the pressure is definitely on :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    emzibob wrote: »
    Me too its so hard but with the clock ticking the pressure is definitely on :o

    I can't seem to get motivated


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,528 ✭✭✭ShaShaBear


    Neyite wrote: »
    My dress was pricey, but I've no regrets, it's amazing. Though I did book a really posh place for a laugh - it was fun trying on designer dresses that cost €10,000. Sure when else will you get to stick on a frock that costs more than the value of everything you possess, including cars?? :pac:

    I need to do this! :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    ShaShaBear wrote: »
    I need to do this! :pac:[/quote

    Usually you have to pay a deposit to try on these dresses


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 852 ✭✭✭shortstuff!


    Planning on making my own wedding cake. Was my sons 1st birthday on Wednesday so did a bit of a trial run with sponge recipe (top tier) & decorating (butter icing). Turned out great! Made 2 & just ate a slice from the second which hadn't been cut & it's delicious & still fresh. At least now I know I can do that 3days before the wedding now!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,228 ✭✭✭honerbright


    I've started getting wedding nightmares already! Lol I feel like this is happening a bit soon, I can't take another 408 sleeps of this :P
    Last night I dreamt I didn't book someone to do my hair/makeup, the night before I dreamt that we told people the wrong time and when they turned up I was just wearing a dressing gown over my dress around the house. All very silly, but stupidly stressful dreams :P :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    I haven't stressed once about the actual wedding. Maybe its because I work in the industry and see weddings go well all the time. I'm stressing about the budget and my weight but I think I've got a plan together for that now. It's only because we upped our honeymoon so have a bit of extra cost but it's doable


  • Registered Users Posts: 135 ✭✭miss.lost


    Havnt had the chance to read this whole thread , was following it religiously!! Any other brides around the week of 17/18/19th March? 6 and a half months away now and Would love to know how much you have planned/Havnt got around to yet etc!!! I am in total shock at how quickly time is passing....!! Everybody tells you "time will fly by" but I didn't realise it would fly like a blinking jet plane!!!!! :/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    miss.lost wrote: »
    Havnt had the chance to read this whole thread , was following it religiously!! Any other brides around the week of 17/18/19th March? 6 and a half months away now and Would love to know how much you have planned/Havnt got around to yet etc!!! I am in total shock at how quickly time is passing....!! Everybody tells you "time will fly by" but I didn't realise it would fly like a blinking jet plane!!!!! :/

    PM me and I'll fill you in, am just before that :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    Anyone going to this? http://onefabday.com/ie/welcome-to-the-glitter-studio/

    It looks really interesting, I just bought a ticket. could be good for inspiration as I've a lot bought already.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 148 ✭✭emzibob


    miss.lost wrote: »
    Havnt had the chance to read this whole thread , was following it religiously!! Any other brides around the week of 17/18/19th March? 6 and a half months away now and Would love to know how much you have planned/Havnt got around to yet etc!!! I am in total shock at how quickly time is passing....!! Everybody tells you "time will fly by" but I didn't realise it would fly like a blinking jet plane!!!!! :/

    I'm the week before you have most of the big stuff done church, venue, band, dress, photographer, entertainment, marriage course, suits, bridesmaid dresses, honeymoon booked, picked our rings last weekend still have transport to sort, a lot of diy to do and about two stone to loose so that ticking clock is definitely getting louder!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 902 ✭✭✭lainey316


    Anyone going to this? http://onefabday.com/ie/welcome-to-the-glitter-studio/

    It looks really interesting, I just bought a ticket. could be good for inspiration as I've a lot bought already.

    yes, I have nothing bought at all so hoping for lots of inspiration! Our venue has a fairly strong colour scheme already (it's more a restaurant) so limited enough in ways, so it's details I am hoping to spot. Sure for the ticket price hard to go too wrong I suppose


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭westernlass


    lainey316 wrote: »
    yes, I have nothing bought at all so hoping for lots of inspiration! Our venue has a fairly strong colour scheme already (it's more a restaurant) so limited enough in ways, so it's details I am hoping to spot. Sure for the ticket price hard to go too wrong I suppose

    I reckon it'll be my last 'outing' as a bride as there'll be no time after Christmas so I'm looking forward to it. I still haven't decided on flowers or cakes so ideas would be great. I keep changing my mind a lot.


  • Registered Users Posts: 441 ✭✭Ms.Sunshine


    One more thing ticked out the list - Florist booked. I'm really happy with her. She is a lovely lady and showed me loads of photos of her previous work so was able to tell me what worked and didnt work at our venues.. Which is always a help!

    That One Fab Day event sounds really nice..Wish I was free to go :( Was going to go to the wedding & honeymoon show this weekend but don't see it happening now. Maybe I wont be missing out on anything though? That's what I'm telling myself anyways....!!

    Is anybody getting favours for their guests? If so what? I'm trying to think of ones to place on everyone's table setting. What did ye think of the Tayto & Bread sambo favours in Athlone at the weekend!!??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,528 ✭✭✭ShaShaBear



    That One Fab Day event sounds really nice..Wish I was free to go :( Was going to go to the wedding & honeymoon show this weekend but don't see it happening now. Maybe I wont be missing out on anything though? That's what I'm telling myself anyways....!!

    Is anybody getting favours for their guests? If so what? I'm trying to think of ones to place on everyone's table setting. What did ye think of the Tayto & Bread sambo favours in Athlone at the weekend!!??

    Would love to go too, but I'll be way too pregnant to enjoy it :(

    A good friend is making little candles in the shape of a three-tier wedding cake in our colour theme and we are putting them in coloured net bags with a few sweets from a Roses/Quality Street tin ;)


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