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Now Ye're Talking - to an Irish escort

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    #212
    midlandsmissus
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,838 ✭✭✭midlandsmissus


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    midlandsmissus wrote: »
    Why did you want to do this thread?


    To show people that escorts arnt all miserable and not all locked up in houses with no choices as to who we see and what hours we want to work .
    Thank you. I appreciate your honesty on this thread.


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    #213
    small town girl
    Registered Users Posts: 682 ✭✭✭small town girl


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    I see men in a completely different light now. I find myself looking at married couples all the time and thinking to myself hhmmm I wonder if he sees escorts. You have to understand, a lot of my clients have grown to trust me. They have shown me pics of their stunning wives and beautiful children so now I know that it can be any man I know! My dad, my brother, my uncle , my brother in law .... anyone. And on the other hand I find myself looking at women and think hhmmm I wonder if she does what I do.
    I've become hard as nails over the last couple of years. I've developed a thick skin and I take everything anyone says to me now especially men I've dated with a pinch of salt.
    What I do will always be going on and men will always visit us. It's terrible for wives and girlfriends but it's fact.
    I have one friend who I can vent to at times if I need to but as I've already said I've learned to leave it at the back of my mind once I'm home.

    It sounds like your eyes are wide open.

    I'll ask one more question if you don't mind. Despite the money and the time freedoms, do you have any regrets about doing this? I'm a strong woman like you, so also wear titles like thick skin and hard as nails but know that I'd prefer to be naive in some ways to avoid seeing what I've seen. Can you relate to this.

    All the best for the future :)


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    #214
    Ferrari3600
    Closed Accounts Posts: 617 ✭✭✭Ferrari3600


    Are you Roman Catholic by background?

    Regardless of whether you are or are not, do you believe that Catholic social conditioning is a factor in puritanical/judgemental attitudes to adult industry workers?


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    #215
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Toots wrote: »
    Really interesting Amazing!

    Have you ever had a client request or offer to pay extra to not use condoms?

    You mentioned you use hotels to meet clients - do you rotate between the same few hotels all the time, or do you always use a different one?

    Do clients ever just not show up?

    Yes clients have offered to pay more to not use a condom. Obviously my health and safety is worth more than any money so it's not worth it. If I'm not STI free and if I'm unhealthy then I'll lose money and I wouldn't risk it.

    If clients don't show up I block them on my phone, end of


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    #216
    Dial Hard
    Registered Users Posts: 13,386 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    bajer101 wrote:
    Re the period question, does that mean that you take meds that prevent your period? If so, are there any health or possible fertility implications?


    The Pill does this perfectly safely.

    Apols if I've broken an AMA rule by answering this.

    Q for Lara: what made you decide to take the first guy up on his offer? I've had similar propositions on online dating sites but can't say I ever considered them!


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    #217
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    small town girl wrote: »
    It sounds like your eyes are wide open.

    I'll ask one more question if you don't mind. Despite the money and the time freedoms, do you have any regrets about doing this? I'm a strong woman like you, so also wear titles like thick skin and hard as nails but know that I'd prefer to be naive in some ways to avoid seeing what I've seen. Can you relate to this.

    All the best for the future :)

    I've been burnt badly in the past by guys. Having thick skin suits my heart x


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    #218
    small town girl
    Registered Users Posts: 682 ✭✭✭small town girl


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    I've been burnt badly in the past by guys. Having thick skin suits my heart x

    Really sorry to hear that. Could talk to you all night but will let others get their questions in.

    Adele said it better, wish nothing but the best for you :p xx


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    #219
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    BigBulldog wrote: »
    What do you do with all the extra dosh you are making?
    Have u a coke habit or are you paying off loans etc

    Why would you think I have a coke habit ? No I do not. If you had read my previous answers you'd know I do not smoke and rarely drink. I pay my bills, buy myself nice things and holiday twice a year !


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    #220
    Mirror game
    Registered Users Posts: 82 ✭✭Mirror game


    Would you ever pay for any services with sex going along the same rates you charge. For example you owe a mechanic x amount for work on your car! or is that only in the pornos?


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    #221
    Mister Vain
    Registered Users Posts: 6,040 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    How long do guys generally last?

    Do any of them get nervous and have difficulty performing?

    Is sex outside of your profession less enjoyable now?


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    #222
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Mirror game wrote: »
    Would you ever pay for any services with sex going along the same rates you charge. For example you owe a mechanic x amount for work on your car! or is that only in the pornos?

    You definitely watch too much porn 😂


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    #223
    Mirror game
    Registered Users Posts: 82 ✭✭Mirror game


    LaraLushhhhh wrote: »
    You definitely watch too much porn 😂
    It's FREE :D


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    #224
    athtrasna
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,420 ✭✭✭✭athtrasna


    Really fascinating thread, thanks for letting us see inside your world.

    You say you only see regulars now and up to 5 a day for 3-4 days. How big is your pool of regular guys?


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    #225
    JamboMac
    Registered Users Posts: 3,952 ✭✭✭JamboMac


    Have you ever answered the phone to a client and think you know them personally somehow and make up an excuse?


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    #226
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    JamboMac wrote: »
    Have you ever answered the phone to a client and think you know them personally somehow and make up an excuse?

    No, thank god


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    #227
    Mirror game
    Registered Users Posts: 82 ✭✭Mirror game


    Admin Note - Snipped, per the OP
    She will not be answering any questions about her home or personal life; please do not ask questions of this nature and be respectful at all times.


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    #228
    monkeysnapper
    Registered Users Posts: 2,575 ✭✭✭monkeysnapper


    Do you have any rules ie , love bites , pinching ( bruises) . basically men being a bit rough with you .


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    #229
    OU812
    Registered Users Posts: 6,035 ✭✭✭OU812


    Do you post regularly to boards under a different handle & if so, for how long?
    Thanks for being so honest.


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    #230
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 3,637 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Have you ever thought about blackmailing any of your clients?


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    #231
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    JayZeus wrote: »
    Have you ever thought about blackmailing any of your clients?

    That would be going into dangerous territory so no, definitely not. The less drama the better


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    #232
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    monkeysnapper wrote: »
    Do you have any rules ie , love bites , pinching ( bruises) . basically men being a bit rough with you .

    As I said before I'm quiet lucky to have a regular clientele. They all know at this stage what's what and any roughness or love bites would not be tolerated ! Unless they want me to do it to them of course :P


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    #233
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Have you been in a relationship since you started and how does it impact on your sex life, does it make it less special?

    Sex in my "normal" life is completely different ! It's much better obviously and I don't need to act !!


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    #234
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Colser wrote: »
    Going back to your early days... when you met up with strangers do you think that if you were far from good looking that they would still have gone ahead with the appointment..in other words do you think that for some men it doesn't matter what the woman looks like?

    I honestly don't know, it didn't happen me so I don't know


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    #235
    Hollister11
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,482 ✭✭✭Hollister11


    Do you ever have a fear of getting pregnant?


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    #236
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    SimonTemplar wrote: »
    Thanks for answering.
    Has any of your regular clients mentioned the upcoming new legislation and if it will affect their habits?

    I don't think it will affect me or them. As I said I work from a safe place so if the guards burst in what would they find ? Two adults having consensual sex


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    #237
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    Hollister11 wrote: »
    Do you ever have a fear of getting pregnant?

    No, I have that under control! In more ways than one


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    #238
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    irish_goat wrote: »
    Do you offer a 2min special? Asking for a friend...

    Also, what sort of level of attractiveness are the majority of your clients? Is it generally less attractive sorts who can't find women (apart from the unhappy husband clients)?

    It's a mixture really! Young, older, small (in every department) quiet a lot of larger men too (as in heavy)


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    #239
    deaddonkey15
    Registered Users Posts: 3,574 ✭✭✭deaddonkey15


    What age was the youngest guy you've seen? What age was the oldest? What age are you?


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    #240
    bcklschaps
    Registered Users Posts: 1,059 ✭✭✭bcklschaps


    Hi lara,

    Welcome to Boards... good AMA. As a 'John' myself, I feel the recent changes to criminalize the purchase of Sexual services in Ireland are

    misguided (as in the legislation is already in place to prosecute brothel owners, kidnappers or perpetrators of violence),
    stupid (as in it will be laughably impossible to police),
    potentially dangerous (now the John's have something to fear/hide which makes them more unpredictable) and
    downright sexist (only going to affect men, who were too spineless to speak up for themselves during the debate) ...whats your opinion?


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    #241
    LaraLushhhhh
    Registered Users Posts: 282 ✭✭LaraLushhhhh


    deaddonkey15 wrote: »
    What age was the youngest guy you've seen? What age was the oldest? What age are you?

    The youngest was 19!!! That was a one off. The eldest in his 70s


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