***Motors Chat Thread*** Round 1

CianRyan wrote: »

I'm now an uncle x4.
Starting to feel old now, as long as I don't end up with my own soon I guess I'm alright. :P

Congrats!

Thanks so much everyone, it means so much to me

After today I feel much better. Got talking to many different people with different advice on the situation and I've learned so much today. Really opened my eyes most importantly, I learned time heals all. I can't rush that, must learn to slow down in life. Enjoy things once more, time for myself now and again I have a very busy lifestyle alone between college, reserves and maintaining the fleet... Other stuff squeezed in too :eek: I never have time to myself, ever, always busy doing something

My gut instinct is for her is diminishing bit by bit. She suggested that there might be a future for us in due time when she's ready but I'm not holding my breath. She needs to stand up for what's right, for herself like I did for us on many occasions. She needs to make a decision for her happiness, make her own decisions without any influence from other people... :mad: but I'm not going into the last part... Essentially I can't see anything happening until she moves out of her parents house and gets her own place. I feel that her mind isn't matured enough to deal with a relationship along with juggling work, college and minding siblings. Then I might just consider it if she asks but I'll have to do a lot of thinking about it, I can't have her breaking my heart again. I guess its natural to think like this at this stage (only my cars are allowed to break my heart btw )

I just need time to adjust and move on. Last time a major break up happened when I was 19, I thought that was it, I'd never meet another one like her etc... Much more gutted. Downed a bottle of whiskey and made an ass of myself in the local pub. All for what? Nothing. Pointless. Now I can't stand the sight of her in public! And when I first met my now ex, she was 1000 times better then everyone else before, fatal attraction from the night we met! So my way of looking at it is if I put enough effort in I'll find someone else, in due time. When I feel ready, I'll be hitting the pubs and clubs, getting back out there once more, find a new drinking buddy etc

I hope this is the end to a side of me that I'm sure none of you want to see. I can't guarantee that this will be the last sop sop post in present times but alas, I'll do my best I hope to have more posts on the fleet, dismantling stuff and random trips asap

It's comforting to know that there are people out there prepared to listen to stuff like this on a daily basis, to try and help others through tough times. I'm so grateful to those people

So once again, big thank you to everyones support and I hope to be down on Sunday in a fit state

Apologies mods for the very long OT post, but I felt I had to share with all! Writing this was difficult in places but it's all for the good of health

Hal1 wrote: »

Just go for a hoon in your favourite chariot, playing your favourite metal soundtrack. All will be well then .

+1

And a few tunnel runs!

166man wrote: »

Couldn't be his car... it's not clean enough! Would MM really take pics of the car not valeted!?!

Washed and waxed every Saturday

By the look of the pictures, it dosnt look that way.

MetzgerMeister wrote: »

Yes but I'm not that much of an a**hole to post them

Let's just say it was a hitler eyebrow!

Il have to use my imagination.

Im sorry to hear that. R.I.P