Disgusting armpit hair on woman

If the sky fairy had wanted women to be hairless, they'd be (hmmmm) --- hairless and they'd all have what we call posliinipillu (porcelain pussy) in Finnish. That might be a good thing if it diverted the attention of paedophiles to older women.:):)

oakleafsfree wrote: »

society now...tells my boy mates to get buff, tatoos ,earrings and no body hair!!!! david beckhams fault

Depends on what social circles you move in, tattoos etc can make it difficult to get work for some people, but yeah in general your right, any recent American show has hairless men as the norm, even shows like Spartacus set in a time when men, slaves etc would undoubtedly have been hairy.

Personally I couldn't give a fig about female body hair, as long as they don't smell then I don't consider it a sign of bad personal hygine.

thought so. terrified of 'feminism' and probably wouldnt know how to define it... definately never taken a woman to the higher regions of intense pleasure...'cos , only certain men have the capacity, of self freedom to enable him, to make the woman feel truly wonderful, beautiful and intense soo sexy,out of this world!! and by eck...i mean it!!! and its soooooo true 'damn, i feel like woman' . (warts and all)

I knew it was general consensus, but I really can't believe how many people see female body hair, which naturally grows on post-pubescent women, as actually revolting. You can't stop it growing, FFS, and growing it is not a choice (shaving it off is the choice).

I am a woman in my late 20s. I do not shave my underarms or legs unless they're going to be on display. My OH doesn't mind, my Exes didn't mind, some even said that they found it sexier than going out with a hairless woman.

I decided to stop shaving when I realised that it was a battle that would never, never be won, and I decided to stop wasting resources on trying to hold back the tide for no good reason.

If a man refuses to have anything to do with a woman because she decides that she's comfortable with her natural body hair then 1) she's better off without him and 2) he should take the time to think about why he's disgusted by a woman's body growing hair in the same places that he doesn't shave.

If a man decided to let his beard grow no-one would label him as 'disgusting' or say that he wasn't grooming himself.

Body hair grows whether we like it or not, and whether you decide to let it grow or not is an individual choice, and if you don't like the choice someone has made then STFU and keep your nose out of their business.

i think craig doyle is better than most on rte!

Abi wrote: »

This ^


Off with legs, underarm, and coochie hair or I'd feel unclean. I've been doing that since I was about 16, and it's staying that way. I'll probably annoy people who aren't bothered by hair in those areas, but it just looks foul - in my opinion.

*whispers* I don't think I have one of those

smash wrote: »

but there is no sky fairy, and I'm pretty sure that paedophilia has nothing to do with body hair.

True, but the only two reasons I can think of for women deciding to shave are
1) To look younger. What females don't have leg, underarm, or pubic hair? Pre-pubescent females.
2) Porn. It's much easier to get close ups in porn without all that hair in the way. Somehow this became normalised in society, probably because porn is now young men's first introduction to naked women, and because of that they don't think hair looks right.

smash wrote: »

The point is that you do it though to look your best. In fairness you could save yourself a fortune by getting laser if you resent it that much. Every week there's 3/4 offers on groupon etc for laser hair removal.



I am calm. Sorry if I came across as abrupt.

No worries. You came across as defensive, more so than abrupt. I think a lot of men (those who have this extreme hatred of female hair) don't realise how conditioned they've been. I say that as a woman who has also been conditioned. Though I've been undoing as much of it as I can in my older years.

I wax my legs, because I like the feeling and look of silky smooth legs, but with waxing there has to be a period of growth, so there's something for the wax to grip, so there will be times there's hair there. I've never yet been with a man who has labelled me disgusting during those less than shiny smooth moments.

I found your comments curious, and wanted to know a bit more about how you divided what men should do to be considered 'well groomed' and what women should do.

For me, a man who reacts with borderline hysteria, as is illustrated on this thread, towards women that aren't permanently shaven and shorn, demonstrate more to me than their personal likes and dislikes on the subject of body hair - it's a snapshot into their basic beliefs about women, and not one I find favour with.

You wouldn't go out with me, because occasionally I'm not permanently 'groomed' - and I wouldn't go out with you (even on those occasions I am 'groomed') because your rigid views on 'what women should do' could possibly run deeper, and into scary territory eventually. Hope that makes sense - almost lunchtime and I'm starving, mightn't have expressed that as well as I could do.