Deleted User wrote: » God I find this depressing. That anyone would have every guy she gets intimate with asking for anal sex ?? Really ? Surely on a ONS it’s just regular or oral sex? I’m a lot older. I’ve tried anal sex once or twice. It was always within a long term committed relationship. I found it a turn on and very intimate. If anything it brought us closer but I’d emphasize that’s because we were in a relationship and we were both turned on by it. It was very occasional , it takes much more time and prep , not something you can rush. Also with us it was more messing around sensual stuff rather than deep penetratitive anal sex. What I find depressing is that reading most posts it’s all about non committed one night stand stuff. Obviously I’m showing my age but I’d prefer no sex than that. Intimacy is incredibly arousing, nothing is off the cards when there is trust , I just couldn’t do that stuff with men I didn’t have an existing connection with. I’d hate to be 30 looking for a really good guy to fall in love with and have great meaningful sex with and a future with. Especially if they’re all looking for anal sex first time out !! Even though I’m older I’ve lots of male interest and I can keep guys interested by NOT jumping into bed with them. I’m no prude but anal sex and stuff like that is better within a relationship and with someone you’re already very intimate with and where things are completely mutual.
chicorytip wrote: » I think it's abominable. From my male perspective it would demonstrate a complete lack of respect toward my female sexual partner by expecting her to take into her mouth the organ with which I also urinate.
Porklife wrote: » awwww does someone need a lil anal..huh..do they, g'wan cutie, you may even like it :pac:
chicorytip wrote: » Javier Fierce Moon wrote: Oral sex is a perfectly pleasurable experience - once people keep themselves clean down there it's extremely enjoyable, it's not sore, you don't need lube. As with any sex act, best with someone you really like/love but how could something so pleasurable be unacceptable? I think it's abominable. From my male perspective it would demonstrate a complete lack of respect toward my female sexual partner by expecting her to take into her mouth the organ with which I also urinate.
Javier Fierce Moon wrote: Oral sex is a perfectly pleasurable experience - once people keep themselves clean down there it's extremely enjoyable, it's not sore, you don't need lube. As with any sex act, best with someone you really like/love but how could something so pleasurable be unacceptable?
skimpydoo wrote: » Do what you are safe and comfortable doing and if you are outside your comfort zone don’t be afraid to say so. If he is the right guy for you he will understand.
IamtheWalrus wrote: » I saw a girl’s Tinder profile recently and she wrote ‘not into Coldplay or pegging’.
Porklife wrote: » True, the new guy is a different ballgame (hheeyyooo) and I just need to chill I reckon.. maybe I should watch some porn :pac::p Serioulsy though, I genuinely appreciate the advice and serious tone AH posters took to give me solid advice today. I love boards.ie and it's the best haven in the world for advice. This has helped me alot and a huge thank you to each and every poster. Thanks guys:) Gonna blare feed the world and drink a beer and stop worrying.. you guys all rock and thanks once again Hope everyone has a great Christmas too!
Porklife wrote: » Morning folks, As this is AH, I'm expecting a plethora of vulgar answers but I'm genuinely wondering, what's the story with men and anal sex? Every guy I've been with over the last few years has asked for it. I can't think of a single guy who hasn't asked me if I'm up for it. Nothing at all wrong with that, I have done it in the right circumstances when the mood has taken over but I definitely don't enjoy it. I'm just wondering why men like it so much. I think the.. for want of a better word, normal way, is much nicer. Is it because its a bit taboo (or is it even?), is it because it shows the girl has a dirty side? Also.. And this hugely worries me, are you put off by a girl who does it? Do you judge her in some maybe even subconscious way? Sorry to be so vulgar at breakfast time on a lovely Christmas Saturday folks but I have my reasons for asking 😉😑😜
chicorytip wrote: » Saliva is not a transmitter of gonhorrea.
neonsofa wrote: » But as you said, they're all pretty much one night stands/casual things, you're both there for the same thing and it's not like ye know each other and what the person likes/dislikes, so the only way either of you is gonna get what you want is by asking for it directly.
endacl wrote: » Pain in me hole with this thread.
Wibbs wrote: » This pretty much. It doesn't give you the all around pressure/pleasure either. Ah it is and it isn't PStuka. Depends on the environment. The Tinder neck of the woods is more likely to have that kinda thing. Meeting people through work/hobbies/pub is gonna give you a different flavour. Arseholes are always full of questions. Oh wait that's the bipedal variety. You kiss her with the mouth you eat with. Your hands are covered in bacteria most of the time and you and her will have those same hands all over each other's intimate bits. You're also the "organ you urinate" with into where any kids you have will pass through. And blood once a month etc.
Porklife wrote: » My issue is not doing it per se, it's the fact that it's so readily requested these days and I just don't know if I'm ok with that.
Deleted User wrote: » (Sorry I can’t highlight certain paragraphs on my iPad so quoting entire post ). You say you really respect this guy and like him. It’s a tough one, but no way would I entertain anal sex this soon. I’d want to know I could blow his brains by regular sex first, that he was really into me anyway , as a person, as well as sexually . I wouldn’t want to be an experiment . Stand up for what you want or don’t want. Stand up for yourself. If he walks he’s not worth it. If you’re just an experiment for him he can find that anywhere. Why would you do something to keep a guy if you’re not comfortable with it too. Why would you “respect “ him? I wouldn’t if he keeps pushing this . Talk to him, explain this, if he’s into you and respects you back he should understand .
sk8erboii wrote: » Yeah i know, im saying we've cut out the middle man
skimpydoo wrote: » No ATM is when she sucks your mickey after anal.
Sardonicat wrote: » Flavoured condoms?
sk8erboii wrote: » Lol? everyone 16-23 ish is eating ass these days
skimpydoo wrote: » Has anyone mentioned ATM something that does not turn me on.
Sardonicat wrote: » OP, why are you even contemplating doing something you know you don't enjoy? Seriously ?
Pac1Man wrote: » And still, nobody has mentioned the prospect of a sh!tty willy, your GF's or not.
Wibbs wrote: You kiss her with the mouth you eat with. Your hands are covered in bacteria most of the time and you and her will have those same hands all over each other's intimate bits. You're also the "organ you urinate" with into where any kids you have will pass through. And blood once a month etc.
skimpydoo wrote: » As a 48 year old guy I don’t see the attraction of Anal. The women goes through pain for my pleasure which makes me wonder how many guys on here would allow a woman to use a strap on with them? Be honest guys.
Wibbs wrote: » You kiss her with the mouth you eat with. Your hands are covered in bacteria most of the time and you and her will have those same hands all over each other's intimate bits. You're also the "organ you urinate" with into where any kids you have will pass through. And blood once a month etc.
