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Is the Western World anti-man?

  • 19-08-2015 12:20PM
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,571 ✭✭✭0byme75341jo28


    I think it is clear to see for anyone who can think for themselves that the western world is currently extremely anti-man. The examples are everywhere, from gender quotas to cries of "sexual harrassment" for being stared at. Misandry is now acceptable in most areas of life, whilst any attempt to point this out is usually received with a backlash of abuse, and quite ironically, more misandry.

    In my opinion the media and large portions of the Internet are doing their best to attach a shame to being male, similarly to what's happening to white people. Somehow it's my fault for being male and therefore benefitting from this imaginary "male privilege", and I should be ashamed of that. Nonsense.

    I'm sick to the back teeth of attempts being made to make me feel bad about my masculinity. I'm a man, and I'm proud of that fact. I hope everyone feels the same way about themselves, even those who have changed gender.

    The equality movement has gone too far.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    bros before hoes man.


    I'm with you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,154 ✭✭✭✭Neil3030


    It's a crying shame. Madness even. Gone are the days when you could stare at a woman and face no consequences, or leapfrog female colleagues with tried and tested hiring biases.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,389 ✭✭✭NachoBusiness


    Yes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,674 ✭✭✭Mardy Bum


    Is the western world becoming insecure?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,117 ✭✭✭Melisandre121


    Women are heroes men are zeroes


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W



    So it's true because there's a book about it?


  • Posts: 22,384 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I have some close female friends.

    From hearing what they go through, objectification, abuse, groping, and just the general way in which they are treated like meat and how many men, even married friends of mine, have tried it on with them, assuming they hardly have the self esteem to not want to be a dirty little secret, it's depressing. The worst are the many men who go from pleading to abuse when knocked back.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,417 ✭✭✭Tefral


    If it is its only because men couldn't give a ****. We sit here mumbling about how this and that has changed, but willing to do **** all about it.

    Women conversely are highly organised in groups and are able to get their point across.

    The only grumble I have in Ireland really is fathers rights, after that nothing else effects me, in fact the modern woman is great. The missus comes home with just as much money as I do, she pays for half of everything, she can drive so I don't have to drive her around. I can feck off to the pub and not get hassle, she's the one who bought me my PlayStation, she loves cooking, any of my female friends love making me sandwiches I think its great anyway!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,980 ✭✭✭buried


    Neil3030 wrote: »
    It's a crying shame. Madness even. Gone are the days when you could stare at a woman and face no consequences, or leapfrog female colleagues with tried and tested hiring biases.

    yeah those TV adverts for diet coke were a total disgrace

    Bullet The Blue Shirts



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,436 ✭✭✭c_man


    I think it's quite clear that a lot of the "sticks" used to drum up the feminist agenda are BS, but bring that up at your peril.


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  • Moderators, Politics Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 24,279 Mod ✭✭✭✭Chips Lovell


    Sigh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    c_man wrote: »
    I think it's quite clear that a lot of the "sticks" used to drum up the feminist agenda are BS, but bring that up at your peril.

    Examples?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,770 ✭✭✭The Randy Riverbeast


    There are some anti men groups, but there are anti everything groups. The best thing to do is ignore them. Giving these kinds of people attention just makes them think that people take them seriously.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,571 ✭✭✭0byme75341jo28


    Neil3030 wrote: »
    It's a crying shame. Madness even. Gone are the days when you could stare at a woman and face no consequences, or leapfrog female colleagues with tried and tested hiring biases.

    And here are the days where a woman can get a job over a man, simply because a company needs to hire a certain amount of female staff to give the impression they're not "sexist".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,591 ✭✭✭ahnowbrowncow


    Kev W wrote: »
    Examples?

    The gender wage gap.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,160 ✭✭✭Huntergonzo


    But women rule the world, you see basically everything a man does is more or less aimed towards gettin some poontang and women own the distribution rights to poontang hence men bow to women and naturally women rule the world.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,389 ✭✭✭NachoBusiness


    Kev W wrote: »
    So it's true because there's a book about it?

    Eh, no. The other way around: There's a book about it because it's true. Not one book by the way, many ;)

    Helen Smith wrote a recent book about it also called Men On Strike. Short interview here regarding her views.




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    The gender wage gap.

    The gap exists. Any more?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,180 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    I think it is clear to see for anyone who can think for themselves that the western world is currently extremely anti-man.


    I can think for myself, and I don't think at all that the Western world is "anti-man". I see lobby groups lobbying, but I don't think they're at all representative of the general population in society.

    I'm sick to the back teeth of attempts being made to make me feel bad about my masculinity. I'm a man, and I'm proud of that fact. I hope everyone feels the same way about themselves, even those who have changed gender.


    Learn to shut them out. You should be proud to be who you are. People who will try to put you back in your place and humiliate you are a fact of life. Don't let them make you feel like that.

    The equality movement has gone too far.


    I'm a man too and I too am proud of that fact. I'm also a reasonable person who can think for myself, and I think it's less of an "equality movement", and more of an increase in a "whingers movement", a movement where anyone can be a member, and they all share the same basic ideology - the world doesn't suit them.

    I have no problem with people fighting for what they believe in and working towards a world which better suits them (it's how humanity as a whole evolved - we don't adapt to our environment, we adapt our environment to suit ourselves), but there's a world of a difference between those people, and whingers, who expect everyone else to do all the work. That's not how the world works.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,951 ✭✭✭frostyjacks


    Yes. Masculine traits such as reason and logic are getting overruled by the feminine traits like emotion and (hyper)sensitivity. Men and women are fundamentally different, it's ridiculous that we have to pretend we're all the same.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,160 ✭✭✭Huntergonzo


    Yes. Masculine traits such as reason and logic are getting overruled by the feminine traits like emotion and (hyper)sensitivity. Men and women are fundamentally different, it's ridiculous that we have to pretend we're all the same.

    Reason and logic are no match for spontaneous manipulative tears, us lads are going to have to catch up quick or eventually we'll be confined to museums!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 37,333 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    Kev W wrote: »
    The gap exists. Any more?

    Which is due to choices women make rather than the discriminatory reasons many bang drums about.

    If women were indeed cheaper labour than their male counterparts, then why don't companies aim for a female only workforce? Would save a fortune.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    Eh, no. The other way around: There's a book about it because it's true. Not one book by the way, many ;)

    Helen Smith wrote a recent book about it also called Men On Strike. Short interview here regarding her views.



    There are books about Batman, that doesn't prove Batman is real.

    That clip seems mostly focused on marriage, it's a bit much to use that as evidence that the western world is ant-man. If anything the elements of marriage that are disadvantageous to men are holdovers from the times when marriage for all intents and purposes conferred ownership of a woman to a man.

    There's certainly an inequality there that needs to be addressed but it's not as if a woman has never had to pay alimony to a man after a divorce, for example. Alimony is itself kind of a bull**** concept regardless of who's paying whom.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,389 ✭✭✭NachoBusiness


    Kev W wrote: »
    The gap exists. Any more?

    The gender pay gap is a myth.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,745 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    Eh, no. The other way around: There's a book about it because it's true. Not one book by the way, many ;)

    Helen Smith wrote a recent book about it also called Men On Strike. Short interview here regarding her views.
    Yeah, they only write books about true things you know! I read this one about how there's a digital signature encoded into our DNA that proves God made us all. They wouldn't write a book about it if it wasn't true! There was another one about how the world is secretly run by a group of lizards in human-suits. They wouldn't have written a book about it if it wasn't true. :rolleyes:

    Dude, if you give a publishing company a cheque and they'll publish anything you like.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,430 ✭✭✭RWCNT


    I think it is clear to see for anyone who can think for themselves that the western world is currently extremely anti-man. The examples are everywhere, from gender quotas to cries of "sexual harrassment" for being stared at. Misandry is now acceptable in most areas of life, whilst any attempt to point this out is usually received with a backlash of abuse, and quite ironically, more misandry.

    In my opinion the media and large portions of the Internet are doing their best to attach a shame to being male, similarly to what's happening to white people. Somehow it's my fault for being male and therefore benefitting from this imaginary "male privilege", and I should be ashamed of that. Nonsense.

    I'm sick to the back teeth of attempts being made to make me feel bad about my masculinity. I'm a man, and I'm proud of that fact. I hope everyone feels the same way about themselves, even those who have changed gender.

    The equality movement has gone too far.

    Stopped reading after you asserted that male privilege is imaginary. If that is your opinion then you're either severely deluded or you don't understand the terms meaning, no other option applicable.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,800 ✭✭✭✭hatrickpatrick


    Kev W wrote: »
    That clip seems mostly focused on marriage, it's a bit much to use that as evidence that the western world is ant-man. If anything the elements of marriage that are disadvantageous to men are holdovers from the times when marriage for all intents and purposes conferred ownership of a woman to a man.

    But that's the point. By abolishing all the aspects which were unfair to women (rightly) but turning a total blind eye to the other side of the coin, the institution has now become profoundly anti-male - and men are regularly shouted down for pointing this out.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,808 ✭✭✭✭smash


    I was with you until this:
    I'm a man, and I'm proud of that fact.

    Don't be proud of your gender, be proud of your personal achievements.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 36 meliselis


    I think it is clear to see for anyone who can think for themselves that the western world is currently extremely anti-man. The examples are everywhere, from gender quotas to cries of "sexual harrassment" for being stared at. Misandry is now acceptable in most areas of life, whilst any attempt to point this out is usually received with a backlash of abuse, and quite ironically, more misandry.

    In my opinion the media and large portions of the Internet are doing their best to attach a shame to being male, similarly to what's happening to white people. Somehow it's my fault for being male and therefore benefitting from this imaginary "male privilege", and I should be ashamed of that. Nonsense.

    I'm sick to the back teeth of attempts being made to make me feel bad about my masculinity. I'm a man, and I'm proud of that fact. I hope everyone feels the same way about themselves, even those who have changed gender.

    The equality movement has gone too far.

    you're actually right... :-/


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,027 ✭✭✭sunshine and showers


    Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha...

    Thanks, OP, I needed a laugh.


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