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Do you have any sympathy for George Best?

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  • 27-10-2005 5:54pm
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    Pighead
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    As the legendary George Best lies in a hospital bed fighting for his life Pighead asks do you have any sympathy for the man.
    He is revered and adored by millions but has tested peoples patience with his apparent disregard for life.The man was a wonderful footballer. That cannot be denied. But in recent years he has become an embarrassment to himself and his family and many cannot understand the attention given to him by the media. In 2002 he was given a brand new liver and a chance of life that many are denied.instead of seizing this opportunity to start afresh he returns to the behaviour that destroyed his health in the first place. The man is a lost cause.

    George turned to drink in the 60's when he suddenly he had all this wealth and stardom- this is not to be criticised, alcohol is an addiction that loads of people from his era have suffered from and is apparently a very hard monkey to get off your back
    So do you feel sorry for the man or are you angry with his apparent disregard for life?

    Do you feel sorry for Bestie 115 votes

    No hes brought it on himself
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    Yes i do.
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    Mr.Nice Guy
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    Yes I have sympathy for him. The man is a legend. I hope he pulls through.

    'It is better to walk alone in the right direction than follow the herd walking in the wrong direction.'



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    The General
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    He's had a lot to deal with, i'll give him that, but he still fu(ked everything up


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    The General
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    Mr.Nice Guy wrote:
    Yes I have sympathy for him. The man is a legend. I hope he pulls through.

    :rolleyes:


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    yermandan
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    I agree with you 100% pighead.George Best has shown an utter disregard for his own life and although I do not know him personally, the constant media attention over his career has brought to light every single time that he has fallen off the wagon and chose to systematically [sp??] ruin his own life.
    Feeling total disregard for someone as poorly as him is really difficult for me as empathy is one of my core beliefs and values.But seeing what he has done to himself makes it extremely hard to feel sorry for him.
    Its his family I pity.

    Dan:cool:


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    The General
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    i thought it said george bush oops


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    Mr.Nice Guy
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    The General wrote:
    :rolleyes:

    Fabulous.

    'It is better to walk alone in the right direction than follow the herd walking in the wrong direction.'



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    Rb
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    no I don't have any sympathy for him tbh, he brought it on himself and is now paying the price.


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    0utshined
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    No,

    He got a second chance when he got a new liver a few years ago. If he had not taken it then someone else would have had it. He had the chance to make a go of it again but didn't. It is tragic that he is dying and I feel sorry for his family but no sympathy for him.


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    fade2black
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    Some people are born with a weakness for attention and spotlight. Some actors/rock stars/comedians/footballers can walk home after a gig or match and avoid the groupies and after show drinks...for others it aint so easy. It's easy to say that he threw his life away but like any addiction, drinking is an illness and is something that can only be understood by the victim. He was adored as a young footballer and that was his curse in the end.

    George Best, like all alcoholics, deserves sympathy in my opinion.


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    Mossy Monk
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    yes i do sympathise with him. the man has an obvious addiction and obviusly doesnt have the strength to quit it. an addiction is a horrible thing for anyone to have


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    Pighead
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    Yes but George knows he has an addiction.And if he knows this, which he must, unless he's mentally challenged, then that means he is consciously making himself this way. YHe is destroying his liver, entirely of his own free will, and therefore must be willing to accept the consequences. If you keep making these decisions, if you don't get help, either professional or from getting off your arse and going to the gym, you are a drain on society.

    These are the people I don't really have time for. It annoys me to see people who sit on their arse, like George, and whinge about how fcuked up their situation is when they did it themselves. George's not really doing anything to help his situation, he's just taking a happy-super-funtime shot every day to delay his problem.
    I prefer to remember the way he mesmerised Benfica, regarded as one of the finest teams in Europe, by scoring twice in the opening 10 minutes as United become the first team to inflict a European defeat on the Portuguese side in the Stadium of Light.Fantastic


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    nesf
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    Pighead wrote:
    Yes but George knows he has an addiction.And if he knows this, which he must, unless he's mentally challenged, then that means he is consciously making himself this way. YHe is destroying his liver, entirely of his own free will, and therefore must be willing to accept the consequences. If you keep making these decisions, if you don't get help, either professional or from getting off your arse and going to the gym, you are a drain on society.

    These are the people I don't really have time for. It annoys me to see people who sit on their arse, like George, and whinge about how fcuked up their situation is when they did it themselves. George's not really doing anything to help his situation, he's just taking a happy-super-funtime shot every day to delay his problem.
    I prefer to remember the way he mesmerised Benfica, regarded as one of the finest teams in Europe, by scoring twice in the opening 10 minutes as United become the first team to inflict a European defeat on the Portuguese side in the Stadium of Light.Fantastic

    You have no understanding of addiction Pighead. It's not a matter of rational choice we're talking about here.

    Yes, it is possible for an alcoholic to get off the drink but it isn't as simple as them stopping choosing to stay on it.


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    Mossy Monk
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    Pighead wrote:
    Yes but George knows he has an addiction.And if he knows this, which he must, unless he's mentally challenged, then that means he is consciously making himself this way. YHe is destroying his liver, entirely of his own free will, and therefore must be willing to accept the consequences. If you keep making these decisions, if you don't get help, either professional or from getting off your arse and going to the gym, you are a drain on society.

    These are the people I don't really have time for. It annoys me to see people who sit on their arse, like George, and whinge about how fcuked up their situation is when they did it themselves. George's not really doing anything to help his situation, he's just taking a happy-super-funtime shot every day to delay his problem

    you really dont have a clue do you?


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    Pighead
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    nesf wrote:
    You have no understanding of addiction Pighead. It's not a matter of rational choice we're talking about here.

    Yes, it is possible for an alcoholic to get off the drink but it isn't as simple as them stopping choosing to stay on it.

    nesf of course I am aware that getting off the drink isn't as simple as the addict stopping choosing to stay on it.All i'm saying is that to a certain extent we believe that alcoholism and drug addiction are diseases because we want to believe it. It makes us feel better to think that our problems are beyond our control.

    We desperately search for something outside of ourselves to blame things on. And todays PC society enables us to do that.It's easier for addicts to accept their behavior by blaming it on the demon drink and denying their own participation it. But the problems and the solutions are all within us.


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    Sandals
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    Mr.Nice Guy wrote:
    Yes I have sympathy for him. The man is a legend. I hope he pulls through.

    Oh he always pulls.


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    Pighead
    Registered Users Posts: 14,182 ✭✭✭✭Pighead


    Mossy Monk wrote:
    you really dont have a clue do you?
    Usually a statement like this is followed up by some reason why you are of that opinion.Mossy stop being a lazy poster and get them fingers typing.Pighead has checked the charter and it is quite alright to submit a post with more than one line in it.Good lad.


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    nesf
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    Pighead wrote:
    nesf of course I am aware that getting off the drink isn't as simple as the addict stopping choosing to stay on it.All i'm saying is that to a certain extent we believe that alcoholism and drug addiction are diseases because we want to believe it. It makes us feel better to think that our problems are beyond our control.

    We desperately search for something outside of ourselves to blame things on. And todays PC society enables us to do that.It's easier for addicts to accept their behavior by blaming it on the demon drink and denying their own participation it. But the problems and the solutions are all within us.

    Addictions are choices made by the addict. It stops being a choice and becomes a need when one is addicted to something.


    It's not todays PC society that has sympathy for addicts or offers them some understanding of what they are going through. It has nothing to do with being PC. Alcohol is addictive. It's not that a person chooses to drink a lot when they are an alcoholic.

    Life is not that simple. I'll assume you don't know many people who were/are alcoholics? Or if you do, you have never understood it.


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    funky penguin
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    Sympathy.....

    I had no sympathy for the people that died in the attack on the WTC, the people dying in Iraq, the Tsunami, the "No'lans" flooding or the earthquake in the middle east, so I'm definately not going to sympathise with him.

    It's not that I don't care, I just can't seem to sympathise.....or care.

    I'm a lost cause. :( (gimme some sympathy quick!)


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    WellyJ
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    Atari Jaguar?


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    Canis Lupus
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    George best.

    Could kick a ball in the general direction he wanted it to go therefore he is a legend.... indeed. He didn't invent a cure for cancer, he isn't even a member of the medical profession who can diagnose such a thing. He didn't solve third world debt nor bring about world peace. He didn't invent anything nor did he discover anything. But yet he is called a legend. That drives me insane. It drives me insane that he gets described as such in the papers and so many people hero worship him. Dammit hero worship a doctor or jeez, even a teacher. They are real "legends" and will do more for any of us than some alcoholic fu<ktard.

    The greatest thing George ever did was to rob a potential liver from someone more deserving and to squander it.

    But ultimately I just don't care.


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    Seraphina
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    Canis Lupus wrote:
    The greatest thing George ever did was to rob a potential liver from someone more deserving and to squander it.

    totally agree, no one else with a history of drinking like his would have been given a liver transplant. he got it because he was rich and famous, and someone who would have appreciated it probably died for lack of a liver.

    ****in disgraceful i think, i have no sympathy.


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    Mr.Nice Guy
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    Canis Lupus wrote:
    George best.

    Could kick a ball in the general direction he wanted it to go therefore he is a legend.... indeed. He didn't invent a cure for cancer, he isn't even a member of the medical profession who can diagnose such a thing. He didn't solve third world debt nor bring about world peace. He didn't invent anything nor did he discover anything. But yet he is called a legend. That drives me insane. It drives me insane that he gets described as such in the papers and so many people hero worship him. Dammit hero worship a doctor or jeez, even a teacher.

    Definition of a legend - "a famous or remarkable person or event."

    He is certainly one of the most remarkable sportsmen of all time.
    Canis Lupus wrote:
    They are real "legends" and will do more for any of us than some alcoholic fu<ktard.

    A man with a disease is a 'fu<ktard'? Dear oh dear...
    Canis Lupus wrote:
    The greatest thing George ever did was to rob a potential liver from someone more deserving and to squander it.

    But ultimately I just don't care.

    You have an awful lot of hate in you for someone who doesn't care.

    'It is better to walk alone in the right direction than follow the herd walking in the wrong direction.'



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    Canis Lupus
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    Disease.... HA... rotfl. Poor Georgie maybe if he gets better we should give him another liver?

    and to correct my post. I don't care if he dies or not.


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    Hugh Hefner
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    I pity him but I don't have any sympathy for him. It's the same way I feel towards serial killers drug dealers.


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    Pepe LeFrits
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    I have sympathy for him. Not because he was a great footballer, but because he's a human being and what he's going through now is very sad regardless whether he brought it on himself or not.

    Spare a thought for his family.


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    chelle2ie
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    I have to agree, his abilities as a footballer have nothing to do with it. I have sympathy for him and his family, however I am very confused as to how someone with such an abvious addicition that he couldn't control should be given a liver? Surely it would have been better for him long-term to be left to die back a few years instead of prolonging it so he could drink himself to death all over again?


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    Pighead
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    nesf wrote:
    Addictions are choices made by the addict. It stops being a choice and becomes a need when one is addicted to something.


    It's not todays PC society that has sympathy for addicts or offers them some understanding of what they are going through. It has nothing to do with being PC. Alcohol is addictive. It's not that a person chooses to drink a lot when they are an alcoholic.

    Life is not that simple. I'll assume you don't know many people who were/are alcoholics? Or if you do, you have never understood it.

    Of course alcohol is addictive!Of course its hard to give up!I have never disputed that fact.What i'm saying is that when a man is given a second chance and is told "Right george,any more drinking and you're gonna die"he has to be seen to be making some sort of attempt to sort himself out.George Best has shown time and time again that he has not got the character to even try and beat his addiction

    The reason that the disease concept is so popular is because of greed and money. Alcohol and substance abuse treatment programs like The Priory are predominantly private agencies that are run for profit. They invented the disease concept and you nesf has bought into it, hook, line and sinker. What makes matters worse is that there is so much competition among treatment centers that they will say practically anything to keep up their share of the market. They air commercials filled with misinformation designed to scare parents into thinking that drug and alcohol use is such a serious problem that their offspring will probably die unless they get treatment.


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    Necronomicon
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    Canis Lupus wrote:
    Disease.... HA... rotfl. Poor Georgie maybe if he gets better we should give him another liver?
    Yeah, alcohol addiction is a disease. Have you ever had an addiction? I'm guessing not by the ignorant tone of your posts. You speak as if someone can just click their fingers and be over it.
    Secondly, the man is a legend. You may not have any interest in soccer, or even sport for that matter, but George Best is a sport legend and always will be. I'm not saying that should earn him extra sympathy, but you seem angry that the man has a huge fan-base. Grow up.

    As for my own opinion, I was pretty disappointed when he went back on the drink after his liver transplant, and I understand where people are coming from when they talk about his apparent disregard for life, but the man is a human being. Celebraties aren't invulnerable, they are just as prone to error as the rest of us. I think any person who struggles all their life with any kind of addiction, be it alcohol, smoking, whatever, deserves sympathy.
    And if you can't feel sympathy for Best, at least spare a thought for his family before you go off on a rant about how he brought it on himself.


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    padser
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    Bit of sympathy please people for what is probably a dying man.

    In answer to all those people giving out that he got a liver when someone less rich or famous mightened have......Thats hardly George Bests fault now is it? If you were in his position would you have turned down the liver on the basis that 'its unfair im getting it'? I think not!


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    Guy:Incognito
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    To all the people who say thay have no sympathy and he brought it on himself etc etc, do you or anyone close to you smoke? If so if your father/mother/brother/sister etc got cancer, would you have any sympathy for them or when they announce it would you say "ahh sure thats you own fault, stop whinging"? Whats the difference.

    I'm sure people with an alcoholic in the family or among the people they know will be able to see that its not a deliberate thing, its a disease at worst, an addiction at best.


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