Czarcasm wrote: » Isn't that how Ted Bundy coaxed his female victims into "helping him", pretended he'd his arm in a sling? I don't know about anyone else here, but my bullshìt meter just went crazy! Your story is less Ted Bundy and more Walter Mitty tbh.
Leftist wrote: » I don't really blame her in retrospect. That's why I tried to get in touch, couldn't get the nerve to call her until I had a few beers and then I went silent and it seemed to spook her more. By the time I saw her in the liffey valley car park she must have been terrified. The shame of that occassion was that she scared off the girl who was helping me with my bags to my car because I had my arm in a sling.
kylith wrote: » If you actually did that I'm not surprised that she called the gardaí on you. If I went out with a guy who took me to a film about a serial killer, and he then proceeded to grab me by the neck, refused to let me out of his car, and started driving off I'd have reported you to the gardaí too. If you'd said 'Look, these lads don't like me. Just stay in the car and I'll let you out around the corner' it'd all have been grand. Frankly, she should be posting about this horror date, not you.
Leftist wrote: » If you pushed someone out of the way of oncoming traffic, would that be assault? if getting someone in a headlock for the sake of their own safety is assault then i should have been charged, but I wasn't. Really? you can't know that.
Artful_Badger wrote: » That on its own might not be so far fetched, you seem like the type of fella that would ask a girl for a sneaky gobble in an estate. Its the Independent film festival, Date, Bundy, Gangs, Abduction, Gardai, Solicitor bit that has me skeptical.
Leftist wrote: » But because she didn't see these lads she spazzed out and bit me in the belly.
Leftist wrote: » don't see what's hard to believe about any of that. Like I said, I was trying to make a move, got knocked back and asked for a sneaky gobble before I left. She took offense. Not exactly far fetched.
Artful_Badger wrote: » How anyone could believe it is beyond me. Went to an independent film festival to see Bundy on a date, arguing because he "asked for a nosh",
bear1 wrote: » I didn't say I think, I said she might. I think you were way out of order with the headlock, imagine how scared you would be if it was the other way around. So you can try to justify your actions of headlocking her but I dont believe there is any excuse for that type of behaviour towards a woman EDIT:If this was the case, would it not have been easier/smarter, letting her off and just closing the door and driving off?
cunnifferous wrote: » Most likely nonsense anyway...
Gummy Panda wrote: » You put her in a headlock?
had to, she would have got out the car and left the door open for the potential assailants.
bear1 wrote: » You basically assaulted a helpless woman. I seriously thought this was an attempt at black humour but this doesn't seem the case. Are you surprised she ran the other way? Also, could you not warn her that there are shady characters around?
bear1 wrote: » Weird that you didnt want those 6 lads coming to the car but I think she would have been safer with them.
Mr Benevolent wrote: » With good reason. What the hell were you thinking, putting a woman in a headlock for no reason? No wonder she called the Gardai, you attacked a virtual stranger and tried to force her to stay in your car. Do you use the Deliverance theme as your ringtone, by any chance?
SHOVELLER wrote: » As we were takling our seats for the movie she says "This isnt working out, maybe I should go". To be polite I said we should at least watch the movie while secretly hoping she would **** off. She didnt and the movie lasted 2 and a half excruciating hours! Awkward wouldnt even begin to describe it. When I see that movie on tv now it brings it all back!
Leftist wrote: » I saw her once in the liffey valley car park and she took off running.
jonnyfingers wrote: » Anyway at the end of one night, as I was about to get a taxi, she found me separated from the herd and went in for the kill. As she went to kiss me I panicked and headbutted her
listermint wrote: » Or didnt get away....
Leftist wrote: » Ended up forking out 400 euros on a solicitor and spending the night getting questioned about an alleged abduction! Mad as a bag of cats that one, she even denied that there was any young lads. Thing is, I kind of liked her, i suppose she's the one that got away.
miamee wrote: »
Leftist wrote: » I had a terrible one about ten years ago. Went on a 2nd/3rd date to some independent film festival and The only thing we could agree on was Bundy. The film about Ted Bundy not Al. Anyway, anyone familiar with this clown will know that maybe isn’t the best early date film to bring a MOT along to see. To cut a long story short the mood afterwards was about as jovial as tour of Auschwitz. I tried some moves including the stop short, but she was as dry as a bowl of uncle ben’s brown rice. We ended up having a bit of a fight after I asked her for a quick nosh, some young lads were watching and one of them as a lad I had a run in with at a nightclub a while back. About 6 of them start walking towards the car and she tries to get out! So I grab her in a headlock and drive off, she ends up biting me on the stomach but by that time we were out of the estate so I let her go. Ended up forking out 400 euros on a solicitor and spending the night getting questioned about an alleged abduction! Mad as a bag of cats that one, she even denied that there was any young lads. This is, I kind of liked her, i suppose she's the one that got away.
wazky wrote: » Met with a woman off a dating site once, the woman that turned up was my actually my wife! Oh the hilarity that ensued.
