I expect I may not be the only one experiencing this. My wife is a carer for her 87 yr old Mother. I know the stress and emotional roller-coasting this causes my wife 365 days of the year. It's a tough and thankless job. She receives the Carers Allowance for this. This is means-tested (which I think is crazy). Recently we got a letter telling us we are being reviewed for this payment.
They sent out a form with many pages for us to fill out which we did. Then they were asking for bank statements. I sent them a screenshot of my online bank with the account the queried and had the current balance on it. That was rejected. They said they wanted 3 months statements. Then I was thinking, what business is it of theirs what we actually spend our money on, isn't that very personal.
So I did send on the statements with the transaction text redacted and the amounts left intact which I think is the only relevant part they should see. Its a numbers game is it not?
Once again it was rejected and they threatened to withdraw the allowance if we didn't dance to their tune in whatever key the choose to play it in and whenever they felt like playing it.
Now, our statement text is sadly very tame indeed. But what if someone had bought from di*do.com or po*n.com etc. You see where I'm coming from? Surely they should be spared the indignity of some 'pen pusher' at a Government office seeing that.
Basically I want to take a stand on this. To me this is bullying at the highest level.
Has anybody any good advise here. Anybody in a similar situation?