Porklife wrote: » My issue is not doing it per se, it's the fact that it's so readily requested these days and I just don't know if I'm ok with that.
Wibbs wrote: » This pretty much. It doesn't give you the all around pressure/pleasure either. Ah it is and it isn't PStuka. Depends on the environment. The Tinder neck of the woods is more likely to have that kinda thing. Meeting people through work/hobbies/pub is gonna give you a different flavour. Arseholes are always full of questions. Oh wait that's the bipedal variety. You kiss her with the mouth you eat with. Your hands are covered in bacteria most of the time and you and her will have those same hands all over each other's intimate bits. You're also the "organ you urinate" with into where any kids you have will pass through. And blood once a month etc.
endacl wrote: » Pain in me hole with this thread.
neonsofa wrote: » But as you said, they're all pretty much one night stands/casual things, you're both there for the same thing and it's not like ye know each other and what the person likes/dislikes, so the only way either of you is gonna get what you want is by asking for it directly.
chicorytip wrote: » Saliva is not a transmitter of gonhorrea.
Porklife wrote: » Morning folks, As this is AH, I'm expecting a plethora of vulgar answers but I'm genuinely wondering, what's the story with men and anal sex? Every guy I've been with over the last few years has asked for it. I can't think of a single guy who hasn't asked me if I'm up for it. Nothing at all wrong with that, I have done it in the right circumstances when the mood has taken over but I definitely don't enjoy it. I'm just wondering why men like it so much. I think the.. for want of a better word, normal way, is much nicer. Is it because its a bit taboo (or is it even?), is it because it shows the girl has a dirty side? Also.. And this hugely worries me, are you put off by a girl who does it? Do you judge her in some maybe even subconscious way? Sorry to be so vulgar at breakfast time on a lovely Christmas Saturday folks but I have my reasons for asking 😉😑😜
Porklife wrote: » True, the new guy is a different ballgame (hheeyyooo) and I just need to chill I reckon.. maybe I should watch some porn :pac::p Serioulsy though, I genuinely appreciate the advice and serious tone AH posters took to give me solid advice today. I love boards.ie and it's the best haven in the world for advice. This has helped me alot and a huge thank you to each and every poster. Thanks guys:) Gonna blare feed the world and drink a beer and stop worrying.. you guys all rock and thanks once again Hope everyone has a great Christmas too!
IamtheWalrus wrote: » I saw a girl’s Tinder profile recently and she wrote ‘not into Coldplay or pegging’.
skimpydoo wrote: » Do what you are safe and comfortable doing and if you are outside your comfort zone don’t be afraid to say so. If he is the right guy for you he will understand.
chicorytip wrote: » Javier Fierce Moon wrote: Oral sex is a perfectly pleasurable experience - once people keep themselves clean down there it's extremely enjoyable, it's not sore, you don't need lube. As with any sex act, best with someone you really like/love but how could something so pleasurable be unacceptable? I think it's abominable. From my male perspective it would demonstrate a complete lack of respect toward my female sexual partner by expecting her to take into her mouth the organ with which I also urinate.
Javier Fierce Moon wrote: Oral sex is a perfectly pleasurable experience - once people keep themselves clean down there it's extremely enjoyable, it's not sore, you don't need lube. As with any sex act, best with someone you really like/love but how could something so pleasurable be unacceptable?
Porklife wrote: » awwww does someone need a lil anal..huh..do they, g'wan cutie, you may even like it :pac:
Deleted User wrote: » God I find this depressing. That anyone would have every guy she gets intimate with asking for anal sex ?? Really ? Surely on a ONS it’s just regular or oral sex? I’m a lot older. I’ve tried anal sex once or twice. It was always within a long term committed relationship. I found it a turn on and very intimate. If anything it brought us closer but I’d emphasize that’s because we were in a relationship and we were both turned on by it. It was very occasional , it takes much more time and prep , not something you can rush. Also with us it was more messing around sensual stuff rather than deep penetratitive anal sex. What I find depressing is that reading most posts it’s all about non committed one night stand stuff. Obviously I’m showing my age but I’d prefer no sex than that. Intimacy is incredibly arousing, nothing is off the cards when there is trust , I just couldn’t do that stuff with men I didn’t have an existing connection with. I’d hate to be 30 looking for a really good guy to fall in love with and have great meaningful sex with and a future with. Especially if they’re all looking for anal sex first time out !! Even though I’m older I’ve lots of male interest and I can keep guys interested by NOT jumping into bed with them. I’m no prude but anal sex and stuff like that is better within a relationship and with someone you’re already very intimate with and where things are completely mutual.
chicorytip wrote: » I think it's abominable. From my male perspective it would demonstrate a complete lack of respect toward my female sexual partner by expecting her to take into her mouth the organ with which I also urinate.
Porklife wrote: » Perfect advice thank you
fattymuatty wrote: » Sardonicat wrote: » Big LOLS all round, I'm sure. Bet her life is one great big LOL. ^^^This, Jesus. That post turned my stomach, that poor lady.
Sardonicat wrote: » Big LOLS all round, I'm sure. Bet her life is one great big LOL.
corks finest wrote: » fattymuatty wrote: » Sardonicat wrote: » Big LOLS all round, I'm sure. Bet her life is one great big LOL. ^^^This, Jesus. That post turned my stomach, that poor lady. Yep,worked in Romania,and a lot of kids once turned 18,turfed out of the state orphanages and a lot ended up in Belgium, Amsterdam,and Germany catering for weirdos like those 2
jimbobaloobob wrote: » If a woman finds something that she likes sexually, she usually wants that repeated again and again. Whereas men seem to need different stimuli to stay engaged. The anus and anal sex is more taboo than vaginal sex; it’s perceived as ‘dirty’. If a woman is open to it, it implies that your sex life is ‘dirtier’, too.” And ‘dirty’ is a label that novelty-addicted guys crave – not fear.
At the end of the day the Cadbury cul de sac is fair game if both parties are happy with it.
LETHAL LADY wrote: » For some strange reason I read your post in the style of Swiss Toni.
The Princess Bride wrote: » Reaches for selection box. Puts away selection box.:( Many years ago, my then boyfriend told me about his friend who'd an Aussie girlfriend. About to have sex, she turned to him saying, " I'm on the blob, do me up me sh!tter. Such a romantic. :rolleyes: Suddenly remembered this tonight and all these years later, I'm wondering whether my BF was in actual fact, dropping a hint at me? Jeez. Personally? I couldn't be arşed.
corks finest wrote: » fattymuatty wrote: » Sardonicat wrote: » Big LOLS all round, I'm sure. Bet her life is one great big LOL. ^^^This, Jesus. That post turned my stomach, that poor lady. Yep,worked in Romania,and a lot of kids once turned 18,turfed out of the state orphanages and a lot ended up in Belgium, Amsterdam,and Germany catering for weirdos like u 2
jimbobaloobob wrote: » Maybe I defy the law of averages but I've never thought it appealing and never asked to put the golden ticket in the chocolate factory.
PARlance wrote: » Not even a Wonka at the thought of it?
