Tim Robbins wrote: » Ross Byrne ahead of some of them. Don't forget there's a lad called Madigan as well.
NAGDEFI wrote: » Johnny McPhillips, McCarthy.. a huge cue ahead of him now and he may never reach the standards he reached against Scotland in the 2013 6 Nations again..
NAGDEFI wrote: » My problem is actually not so much with the language the lads used but with older people who should no better saying it's just banter. We have to move on from that attitude. The times are different. Those men are repeating what goes on in the bubble. But leaders have to have the courage, in all aspects of life, to say no this is wrong rather than trying to be one of the lads. Education...
NAGDEFI wrote: » When you talk of personal feeling on a public forum you're really dealing in pure guessing. But for some reason i feel more general remorse from Stuart Olding. Paddy seems to be playing PR catch up. And i just don't feel as 'forgiving' as i do towards Olding. Pure bull personal interpretation i know!
FrancieBrady wrote: » You say it was crass. That is your value judgement. They make value judgements about certain people and they are misogynist. Can you see the hypocrisy in this?
Personally though, I don't agree with certain actions outlined and admitted throughout the trial that were done by certain people towards a certain person. I don't believe they are appropriate of someone representing a Province or Country. Nothing to do with legality. And nothing to do with forgiveness. I just don't agree that someone who behaved in such a manner, should represent Ireland or a Province in Ireland. that's all. Is that unreasonable
NAGDEFI wrote: » Education...
BoatMad wrote: » it is not up to you to " accept " anything , the law was not broken as determined by the judicial process , we do not prosecute " thought crime " , even if some semi-histerical journos advocate that where we to seek " forgiveness " for language , half the country would be in confessionals !
cloudatlas wrote: » No hypocrisy would be if I called women sluts and prostitutes and then criticized them for calling women sluts and prostitutes
NAGDEFI wrote: » No but you have to accept that people were genuinely offended. They are not a 'mob', they haven't been out on the streets. But they're opinion is as valid as anyone else. This is where the crux will lie. Would Schmidt be, i don't like the word 'forced' but be encouraged to play the lads? Will public opinion make it not worth the hassle? These are big 'ifs'.
BoatMad wrote: » more importantly , the " language " was not uttered in public , so are you suggesting that private conservations , should result in sanction. Do you apply that to all private conversations The fact is , this conversation was only in the public domain because of a trial , its entirely wrong to judge this as if they had uttered it knowingly in public
BBDBB wrote: » Perhaps, however I think we can extrapolate to other club sides, especially those named after their home town or city and say they would feel equally aggrieved, ie no more or less than a provincial side
FrancieBrady wrote: » If they are playing well for Ulster, I think he wouldn't think twice about it.
NAGDEFI wrote: » That's an anachronism. A verbal conversation between two, three people may be private. Nothing on social media is private. Digital record. Herein lies a lot of the problem.
BoatMad wrote: » sorry , it was made public as a result of the judicial process , they are entitled to their privacy , merely because I , say , use , what app , do not entitle you or anyone to sit in judgement as to my language and then suggest I publicly apologise for it , this is getting very close to "thought crime" or form of witchcraft trials
NAGDEFI wrote: » Trouble with all these 'moral' debates is the polarisation. I was accused of being a 1950s priest last night:D But i think all parties have to meet half way and recognise the genuine opinions and insights of all. There is no right or wrong but we have to respect each others opinions. The changing morality in society. Yet protection of the young and vulnerable.
Deleted User wrote: » I'm not getting involved in either justice or vengeance. I'm not getting involved in discussions re: the legal decision made in the NI courts. That's done with. Personally though, I don't agree with certain actions outlined and admitted throughout the trial that were done by certain people towards a certain person. I don't believe they are appropriate of someone representing a Province or Country. Nothing to do with legality. And nothing to do with forgiveness. I just don't agree that someone who behaved in such a manner, should represent Ireland or a Province in Ireland. that's all. Is that unreasonable?
blanch152 wrote: » You are forgetting employment law. They were found innocent, unless there is something in their contract in respect of behaviour that is enforceable, they will have a case for restraint of trade and loss of earnings.
freshpopcorn wrote: » You got accused of being priest and I got accused of having threesomes!
NAGDEFI wrote: » I think we hit the middle ground Fresh!!
BoatMad wrote: » people are offended by elections, the weather, the politicians , being " offended " in itself is irrelevant , there is no court of public opinion . most of this " offence " is a form of public virtue , private vice issue, that " we" want things in public to be seen to be clean and virtuous, but in reality we turn a blind eye to things in private , a form of decadence that allowed the clerical abuse scandals to develop
NAGDEFI wrote: » Yes but a one on one conversation is nigh on impossible to use in a courtroom as evidence. Social media is different, it's recordable and obviously not private when it's in the papers before a court case. Gary Walsh of Laois made what he felt was a personal tweet. It wasn't, he wore a Laois jersey, with sponsors MW Hire, who kicked up. No pronouncement online is private now.
FrancieBrady wrote: » The hoo ha seems to have died down if my FB is anything to go by. A one week wonder to be replaced by outrage about McGregor.
FrancieBrady wrote: » I was called a rapist. Triple whammy.
BBDBB wrote: » its interesting to note that the contrition showed by PJ is more thought through than SO, does that make it more or less genuine? Does that indicate its less sincere or more? How close is it to the genuine values of the two?
NAGDEFI wrote: » It is.. The area is as grey as grey can be. At the end of the day we just don't know what went on. But when the defendants were found not guilty you have to accepte the judicial process as part of democracy. As we can see on here, ethics, morality, whether the lads should play again. It's all dependent on our very diverging views.
tretorn wrote: » But if the boorish jock culture is part of rugby then dont go to VIP nightclubs in the hope that your idol will give you a quick shag. Let the rugby people behave the way they like, if they want threesomes in the bed and women are happy to be the spit in the roast then you mind your own business. Lots of people here claimed to know what a spit roast was, ie two men and a woman, they know what it is even while they say they recoil clutching their holy beads and bottles of holy water to their chests. For people who claim to be horrified and shockified by lads texts they have no problem repeating the contents of texts ad nauseum. If you werent shocked and most people arent by the texts then hearing them repeating continously isnt going to change that. Paddy knows exactly who has been in various beds doing what and the IRFU know this. He probably has all sorts of whatsapp messages on his phone that would make the chat he was involved in look like a nuns whatsapp group. He will have to be handled with kidgloves.
I’ve known some successful rugby players, seen them being mobbed by starry-eyed girls yet be still able to hang on to their essential decency and self-respect. I’ve also known some who were encouraged – by both men and women – to see themselves as helpless wee creatures in the face of all that adulation. Sure how could any man resist...?
BoatMad wrote: » I simply make the point that they were using a private media , to communicate between themselves , it wasn't twitter and whats app isnt social media , its a private ( and encrypted ) communications channel what you are suggesting is that by merely using any communications medium , I should apologise publicly for bad or appropriate language , thats clearly nonsense Despite what you say people have a right to have their conversations that they expect to be private ,remain private The fact that through a fault of the criminal justice system in NI. all this evidence was available to the papers , simply does not suddenly make a private conversation public Was is poor behaviour and distasteful , probably , howver it was intended to be private , hence should they be contrite about it , no , I dont beleive so.