hatrickpatrick wrote: » You know the world's gone off the deep end when self-styled 'feminists' actually put political correctness above the concept of consent when it comes to sex. Jesus Christ. :eek:
anna080 wrote: »
LadyMacBeth_ wrote: » I've seen plenty of documentaries on porn, and I am still conflicted. I think that people have every right to have sex on camera if they enjoy it and why the hell not get paid for doing something you enjoy. I could see myself enjoying making amateur porn for fun. Then again there is another part of me that wonders why someone would choose it as a viable career option and I can't help but wonder about their mental health/background. I know people have fetishes but I have seen some things in porn that just cannot be comfortable/enjoyable. Maybe I am just not into any kind of pain related sex so I don't get it, I don't know.
Vihaan Rancid Muck wrote: » I'd believe it personally. I got a world of hassle on boards before for saying I wouldn't sleep with a man who was born a woman. Apparently that's none of my business and people like me stop them from being true to themselves. God forbid you have a say in who you sleep with
DickSwiveller wrote: » I'm sorry, but if you enjoy seeing people being degraded then you need to see a doctor.
Deleted User wrote: » The money you can make in that sort of area is crazy. Once heard of someone, a cam girl, making about €2000 in about two weeks.
Sonics2k wrote: » This person is not a campaigner. This is scum under the guise of a campaigner. I've spent near 20 years of my life actively campaigning for things like gay marriage in Ireland, my mother has spent nearly 40 years doing the same. We campaigned by speaking to people, not attacking people. That is someone who cares more about their own self-gratification and smug self-satisfaction than actual equal rights.
Wibbs wrote: » and being an "escort". A more "respectable" euphemism for prostitution/whoring/hooking
Wibbs wrote: » Well of course she's not going to express regret. No matter what the life choice, bad, good or indifferent, but especially bad, people tend to play internal mind games to justify it. Even when they know it's a dodgy decision. People are naturally psychologically self protective. Again I'd generally sniff more mindwank there TBH. Plus on further viewing she's got engaged, so is setting some ground rules for him and self justifying her choice to sell her bits for cash. And if he objects he'll be painted as "not a real man" and the like.
Wibbs wrote: » Well.. Maybe, but either way the fact remains that men who have sex with men are at a much higher risk than men who don't, whether there's a video camera involved or not.
Wibbs wrote: » In your opinion. Hate to break it you Nozz, but that's all it is.
Wibbs wrote: » My opinion would be that maybe we need to question if paying for sex is OK, or filming people with their consent, especially minimum wage 18 year olds living on tips(Note that in general societies with more social safety nets have less porn). Nothing wrong with watching people having sex? Maybe. I've certainly strangled the monkey(sorry gorilla...) to porn, well, naked women with their wobbly bits exposed, the addition of naked male bits puts me off. So I'd be a hypocrite there, but I do acknowledge that hypocrisy, rather than try to explain it away as "it's all cool".
Wibbs wrote: » The corollary of that also supposes that you extend the same understanding to people, men and women, who will see their choices as dodgy. Not people who would seek to publicly admonish of bully them. I mean people who aren't dicks who feel this way. Or does this understanding only go one way?
DickSwiveller wrote: » The reason a lot of men are ok with watching this filth, is that they subscribe to the religion of 'my body my choice'.
DickSwiveller wrote: » Try and express concern about people being degraded, or question aspects of the bohemian lifestyle and you'll get these nuts screaming in your ear "HOW DARE YOU TELL ME WHAT I CAN DO WITH MY BODY".
hatrickpatrick wrote: » I'll just leave this here...
hatrickpatrick wrote: » Sexuality is weird, and the things people get off to are weird, but in no way does that make them mentally ill. A vast number of people - in fact, I'd honestly be willing to bet that it's the majority of the population, just that we don't tend to openly talk about it - has some BDSM fantasies, which will often involve either degrading or being degraded.
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » ....
Deleted User wrote: » Surely the OP is overreaching? To suggest there was some campaign by some group and this led directly to a suicide throws up at least 2 big questions. Was there really some orchestrated campaign and was it really the sole cause of the tragedy. I have doubts about both propositions.
PeterParker957 wrote: » So mass bullying is okay as long as it is in an ad hoc basis and the victim has a pre-existing condition "so it wasn't us, she'd have committed suicide anyway"?? Lovely.
ANXIOUS wrote: » Do you mean €20k?
Wibbs wrote: » Oh I forgot, you like longwinded and multi quote laden posts
JayZeus wrote: » You’re awfully long winded, aren’t you?
JayZeus wrote: » I think most any man with a wife, daughter, mother or sister thay they care about would not want them to accept money to be penetrated by strangers and filmed for consumption by men fapping away with smartphone in hand and trousers around their ankles.
JayZeus wrote: » It’s hard to reconcile a desire to watch porn with the reality that the performer IS being taken advatage of
JayZeus wrote: » It’s not. Yet men will justify it to themselves and shake one out anyway.
[Deleted User] wrote: » Surely the OP is overreaching? To suggest there was some campaign by some group and this led directly to a suicide throws up at least 2 big questions. Was there really some orchestrated campaign and was it really the sole cause of the tragedy. I have doubts about both propositions.
Deleted User wrote: » No, no. €2000. Perhaps for about 4 - 5 hours over those 2 weeks. That's for solo cam girls. I'm sure porn stars filming scenes could earn $20k.
[Deleted User] wrote: » I doubt it, there's nowhere near the money there used to be in it. So far as I know most of them make the proper money from escorting now.
Deleted User wrote: » I doubt it, there's nowhere near the money there used to be in it. So far as I know most of them make the proper money from escorting now.
Deleted User wrote: » I wonder whether the likes of Pornhub have changed the model much. They allow for the community to upload their own scenes, so seems like a lot of people pretty much film their own amateur stuff and upload it to the site. I haven't done much digging into it, but I'd be curious to know whether there's any monetary benefit to doing it.
One eyed Jack wrote: » The answer to the first question at least appears to be yes, there was an orchestrated campaign of harassment, intimidation and bullying carried out against this young woman for her attempting to highlight something that concerned her and that she thought other women should be just as concerned about. She was basically a whistleblower, and for that she was condemned and vilified. The answer to the second question then is that yes, the actions of her harassers led directly to her taking her own life as a result of their actions. They should be held accountable for the consequences of their actions, and I would argue that the concept of the "eggshell skull" rule applies here -The eggshell rule (or thin skull rule) is a well-established legal doctrine in common law, used in some tort law systems, with a similar doctrine applicable to criminal law. The rule states that, in a tort case, the unexpected frailty of the injured person is not a valid defense to the seriousness of any injury caused to them. Whether or not the young woman suffered from depression is irrelevant in examining the actions of the people who harassed her, they are still liable for what I would argue was the expected consequences of their actions, in that they wanted her to die. The idea that her suffering from depression was a contributing factor in her decision to take her own life doesn't arise because there is no evidence to support the idea that she was suicidal before she was harassed. There are thousands of people who experience depression and don't take their own lives, so using the idea that her suffering from depression led to her suicide just doesn't hold up. This is why online harassment and bullying needs to be taken more seriously, and I think this is the one situation I'm aware of where the law is actually way ahead of society in it's regard for the severity and the effects that a sustained campaign of online harassment can have on a persons mental state.
[Deleted User] wrote: » The eggshell skull rule has zero application here, it's a very narrow matter with very specific definition in a very particular arena, the world of tort and the law of negligence. In cherry picking one phrase from tort law, you are also missing the many elephants in the room, also available in tort law. For example, the absence of actus reus on the part of the commentators (they didn't partake in the act of suicide), the role of the person who actually committed suicide, novus actus intervenien etc. etc.
One eyed Jack wrote: » I wasn't just cherry picking one phrase from tort law though, Wikipedia is just handy for that sort of thing is all, I knew you'd be familiar with the concept already. It could also be argued that it applies in criminal law -Eggshell Skull Rule – must take your victim as you find them, with all their beliefs, idiosyncrasies and physiological flaws, even an ‘eggshell skull’. See generally, R-v- Holland , R –v- Blaue (refusal of treatment) I'm arguing that any traits of the victim you'd care to argue contributed to her death are irrelevant. The sole focus of any potential liability lies with the people who harassed her. They didn't take any part in the act of suicide itself, but I would argue that their behaviour was certainly the cause of her death (actus reus) -The accused’s conduct must have contributed to the end result in some sufficient way – a minor cause not above a basic level of de minimis will not suffice – The People (DPP) –v- Davis Source: FE1 CRIMINAL LAW NIGHT BEFORE NOTES In this case, the people who harassed her would be the accused, and the victim would have no liability. That's why I said earlier that any references to the victims mental state are the equivalent of the now debunked analysis of what a person was wearing or the actions of the victim which contributed to their demise. The victim wasn't violating any law in what she did, the people who harassed her should be held responsible for their actions, and there has been precedent set by previous cases where people were found guilty of harassment at the very least -Prosecuting counsel James Dwyer BL told the jury that “simply posting opinions on the internet is fine. But if it goes further, if it amounts to goading, which I would say is the case, that is not covered by a right to freedom of expression. That goes further and into the realm of harassment.” Source: Man who made posts online found guilty of harassing Garda sergeant