so many married women want an affair

digitally-yours · 16-02-2009 5:39pm

just read this article

no strings ...

so you are not alone I think

Loomis · 16-02-2009 5:42pm

Trí wrote: »

In all fairness, it's the people who are in the relationships that are ruining them. He can't make others cheat. The people obviously were hell bent on cheating on their partners if they signed up to a website and everything.

It's not the most moral method of scoring. But the OP is not in a relationship himself so in essence, he isn't actually doing anything wrong nor deceiving anyone. Its the person in the relationship that is doing this.

He's not doing the deceiving but he's taking part in it.
A driver might not rob a bank but driving the get away car puts him right in the middle of it.
The guy knowing he's screwing a married women has blame all over him. If he's big enough to let everyone know he got the ride then he should be man enough to accept that what he's doing is really ****ty and he's in no way innocent.

Professey Chin · 16-02-2009 5:44pm

Mr. Anderson wrote: »

He's not doing the deceiving but he's taking part in it.
A driver might not rob a bank but driving the get away car puts him right in the middle of it.
The guy knowing he's screwing a married women has blame all over him. If he's big enough to let everyone know he got the ride then he should be man enough to accept that what he's doing is really ****ty and he's in no way innocent.

But only 1 of these is really illegal (I think

)
Personally consciences are over-rated
*goes to sign up page

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asdasd · 16-02-2009 5:45pm

Is it spam when people ask?

Kold · 16-02-2009 5:54pm

Mr. Anderson wrote: »

He's not doing the deceiving but he's taking part in it.
A driver might not rob a bank but driving the get away car puts him right in the middle of it.
The guy knowing he's screwing a married women has blame all over him. If he's big enough to let everyone know he got the ride then he should be man enough to accept that what he's doing is really ****ty and he's in no way innocent.

About as guilty as we are for not making sure all our products are fair trade. Or enjoying benefits of Western Society when we know how much damage it's doing to others.

asdasd · 16-02-2009 5:58pm

About as guilty as we are for not making sure all our products are fair trade. Or enjoying benefits of Western Society when we know how much damage it's doing to others.

There's a part of the leftie mind which never ever misses a trick to be a sanctimonious self-important bore. It tends to be off-topic too.

Kold · 16-02-2009 6:02pm

asdasd wrote: »

There's a part of the leftie mind which never ever misses a trick to be a sanctimonious self-important bore. It tends to be off-topic too.

I'm just saying his cut and paste sense of morality isn't particularly well placed. Also, shut up.

Leprachaun · 16-02-2009 6:04pm

PrettyInPunk wrote: »

Do you know what the ironic thing is?!?! Another car -a taxi which is weird drove up and parked in the corner and your man hopped on the passenger. We decided then to drive off.. Its not a dogging spot thought its the carpark on the coast road beside Esso

Guess it was something in the air tonight

Sounds like a rapist taxi driver was in the air to be honest.

Terry · 16-02-2009 6:07pm

Kold wrote: »

I'm just saying his cut and paste sense of morality isn't particularly well placed. Also, shut up.

No, you shut up.

Don't link to that site again.

Also, it sounds like prostitution to me*. Not that I'm against it, but it is illegal.

*Man pays to meet women for sex.

Leprachaun · 16-02-2009 6:13pm

RaverRo808 wrote: »

Well I know most women are c*nts,but she's one the good ones,and Im nearly positive she'd never contemplate cheating,but she knows if she did and I found out not long after she'd be in a hole in the ground,I would do life for it,I wouldnt care less,its the worst thing someone can do

Except for,you know,putting people in holes in the ground.

Wossack · 16-02-2009 6:21pm

PrettyInPunk wrote: »

I was in Sandymount tonight and i stopped in one of the carparks with a friend, saw this guy doing a girl doggy in their car. When they drove off she had her face in her lap so no one could see it.

IT WAS YOU WITH YOUR AFFAIR LADY!

hiding her shame? no, trying to finish the job :pac:

Kold · 16-02-2009 6:25pm

Terry wrote: »

Also, it sounds like prostitution to me*. Not that I'm against it, but it is illegal.

*Man pays to meet women for sex.

The fee is paid to the site afaics, the women aren't doing it for profit. Can't see how it would be illegal.

Wagon · 16-02-2009 6:30pm

Terry wrote: »

*Man pays to meet women for sex.

It goes to the website. And lets face it, these women are all talking the time to set up a profile so they're up for it as well. It can hardly be called prostitution. Think of it more as having numerous brief affairs and potentially ruining your family.

Wurly · 16-02-2009 7:15pm

Yeah, I agree that it's immoral. I said that in my last post. And I for one would never go after someone attached. I would want better for myself tbh and I would also not like to cause anyone any hurt.

But my point is: These women that he's sleeping with are the one's in the 'committed' relationships. He is the one who is a free agent. So in terms of blame - she is much more to blame than he is.

Also - he's not shagging his best mate's wife or anything. He doesn't know the husband. I'm not saying that this is okay but it would be worse if he knew the blokes and had some form of obligation to them.

Look, these women on the website are going to cheat anyway. Cheaters nearly always get found out. And good enough for them. So in the end, the innocent party may get hurt but at least they can move on and find someone who won't deceive them.

I don't agree with what the OP doing this but in terms of doing something 'wrong' - I don't believe he is. Because the responsibility is not on him.

Valmont · 16-02-2009 8:53pm

RaverRo808 wrote: »

Well I know most women are c*nts,but she's one the good ones,and Im nearly positive she'd never contemplate cheating,but she knows if she did and I found out not long after she'd be in a hole in the ground,I would do life for it,I wouldnt care less,its the worst thing someone can do

Some man you are. "Put me woife in a hole for cheatin, wha". Pathetic. I hope she's getting rogered out of it by some internet nerd.

MJOR · 16-02-2009 9:02pm

RaverRo808 wrote: »

Well I know most women are c*nts,but she's one the good ones,and Im nearly positive she'd never contemplate cheating,but she knows if she did and I found out not long after she'd be in a hole in the ground,I would do life for it,I wouldnt care less,its the worst thing someone can do

Wow what a catch!

mumhaabu · 16-02-2009 9:36pm

peeka wrote: »

pm sent

Thanks for the link man, signed up today and have already got a few offers, looks like it will be a busy few weeks for me. Don't post the link here! By adding more users you are spoiling both our chances.

spoonbadger · 16-02-2009 9:50pm

mumhaabu wrote: »

Thanks for the link man, signed up today and have already got a few offers, looks like it will be a busy few weeks for me. Don't post the link here! By adding more users you are spoiling both our chances.

Alt. account ftw!.

Acacia · 16-02-2009 10:08pm

Peeka in "Married Women Get Bored And Have Sex Outside of Marriage Shocker!" :rolleyes:

Why is this big news in anyway? It's not unusual for people (both men and women) to cheat on their husbands and wives. It's not nice, but it's not exactly shocking either, tbh.

And can we please stop generalising men and women here? Not all women are cheaters and not all men are dopes.

DeCoR18 wrote: »

Heres your first mistake, never assume a woman will be faithful they are crafty as f_uck and many of the husbands of women on that site will be assuming the same as yourself.

Second one, you're better off carrying out those actions against your wife if the person she slept with was a stranger.

Thanks.

"Crafty as fcuk?" What are you on about? Not all women are devious cheaters out to trick 'innocent' men into staying with them. So should all men be highly paranoid that their partners will cheat? God help us if people actually trusted their partners instead of being over-protective and jealous.

And why would you physically hurt your wife if she cheated on you? I suppose talking to her or just walking out would be too much effort?

RaverRo808 wrote: »

Well I know most women are c*nts,but she's one the good ones,and Im nearly positive she'd never contemplate cheating,but she knows if she did and I found out not long after she'd be in a hole in the ground,I would do life for it,I wouldnt care less,its the worst thing someone can do

Ah, that's the spirit- violence solves everything! :rolleyes:

Again, most women aren't 'c*nts'- men cheat as well!

And if any man told me he would put me 'in the ground' if I cheated on him, I'd be out of there fairly sharpish.

DeCoR18 wrote: »

Of course he wouldn't, because he still hasn't realised to take women off the pedestal we've been told our whole life they should be on.

Thanks.

Again, seriously, what?

Who has been telling you to put women on a pedestal for your whole life?

Trí wrote: »

No, OP. You are doing nothing wrong at all. You are not the one attached. It's the cheater who is doing something wrong.

But I just don't understand why people get married if they're just gonna screw around. What's the point? And if you're unhappy - leave!

I don't get how one person can lead the other on into thinking they're in a loving, committed relationship... It's horribly unfair and one of the greatest betrayals.

I agree the majority of blame lies with the married cheater however the OP isn't exactly blameless or completely innocent in all of this. He had sex knowingly with a married woman.

I know personally if a man was married I'd stay the hell away, even if I really liked him. But that's just me.

Wurly · 16-02-2009 10:12pm

Acacia wrote: »

I agree the majority of blame lies with the married cheater however the OP isn't exactly blameless or completely innocent in all of this. He had sex knowingly with a married woman.

I know personally if a man was married I'd stay the hell away, even if I really liked him. But that's just me.

I agree. I'd stay away too.

Joey the lips · 16-02-2009 11:01pm

peeka wrote: »

ok long story short i came across a website which basically is for married men and women across the uk and ireland to meet up and have an affair or whatever

the men pay £119 per month and the women are free

so im a single guy in my 30s and decided to give it a bash as i hav nt been very successful as late in the fishing stakes

within three days my inbox had ten messages from women wanting to meet,chat,text or phone

ive already met three women one was a bit mad so wont say much about her,another i met in a hotel on my day off and after five mins she says listen ive booked a room so theres no point in wasting more time making small talk here ,so up we went and spent the next three hours like a pair of rabbits

the next one i met in a coffee shop after work she seemed very nervous in the shop with her fidgeting and looking at the door everytime someone entered so i asked would she like to go somewhere more private she said how about her car to which i agreed and she drove to a secluded spot where her animal instincts kicked in

already have another two lined up this week ,am i mad taking advantage of these women or am i just giving them what they advertised themselves for ,but what suprised me the most was the sheer amount of married women out there who are obviously not happy in there marraige and are looking for some kind of escapism

and yes before anyone asks i practiced safe sex

Will you PM that site to me. The wife is looking for a job. She can undercut by €20;)

Wibbs · 16-02-2009 11:04pm

Joey the lips wrote: »

Will you PM that site to me. The wife is looking for a job. She can undercut by €20;)

Well I lolled:D

builttospill · 17-02-2009 12:26am

Valmont wrote: »

Some man you are. "Put me woife in a hole for cheatin, wha". Pathetic. I hope she's getting rogered out of it by some internet nerd.

Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!

Touche dear boy. I couldn't have put it better myself. That guy is quite obviously a paranoid insecure wretch whose marriage is based on fear rather than love.

summer0f2007 · 17-02-2009 2:56am

Hi Peeka

Fair play to ye. I'm in a similar situation to yourself... mid-thirties and separated and all that. Have to say I'm intrigued and have been googling like mad trying to find out what the website is, but haven't found it.

Any chance of PMing it to me? Sound man if you do! Promise to tell of my adventures.

lol

This thread could become legendary!

S07

Loomis · 17-02-2009 9:14am

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

But only 1 of these is really illegal (I think)
Personally consciences are over-rated
*goes to sign up page *

Did I say it was illegal?
Because something is legal doesn't mean it can't be wrong.
Consciences are over-rated to you? Well it's one of the main factors that differentiates a normal person from a psychopath. You may be on your way.

pseudonym1 · 17-02-2009 9:36am

Op ever hear of KARMA?

Skipped a couple of posts sorry it if it has already been said

peeka · 17-02-2009 11:34am

pseudonym1 wrote: »

Op ever hear of KARMA

I have, ive also heard of the tooth fairy and santa !

stovelid · 17-02-2009 11:35am

pseudonym1 wrote: »

Op ever hear of KARMA?

It's for wimps. Good vindaloo is what you need.

17-02-2009 11:57am

Wibbs wrote: »

Well I lolled:D

So did I.

Kold · 17-02-2009 2:54pm

stovelid wrote: »

It's for wimps. Good vindaloo is what you need.

Good vibes aint all about scarring your tongue ya know.

Valmont · 17-02-2009 3:41pm

I think it's funny how some people here just can't accept that OP is getting lots of hoochy off married women with little or no baggage. They're consenting adults so get over it and stop pushing your old-fashioned Catholic morality onto us. Karma me arse.

RaverRo808 · 17-02-2009 4:26pm

Valmont wrote: »

I think it's funny how some people here just can't accept that OP is getting lots of hoochy off married women with little or no baggage. They're consenting adults so get over it and stop pushing your old-fashioned Catholic morality onto us. Karma me arse.

A little dope like you wouldnt get it,since no-one would marry you,and by the way Im not married,but my missus agrees with me,if either of us cheated the other would be dead,but we plan to get married and thats the whole point of marriage,you commit to the one person for the rest of your life,thats the point,if you want to f*ck around then dont get married,stay single,but thats lost on someone like yourself,dont worry kid,when your balls drop you'll understand

cider2001 · 17-02-2009 4:31pm

Hi
Any chance u could pm me that site?

Professey Chin · 17-02-2009 4:34pm

Mr. Anderson wrote: »

Did I say it was illegal?
Because something is legal doesn't mean it can't be wrong.
Consciences are over-rated to you? Well it's one of the main factors that differentiates a normal person from a psychopath. You may be on your way.

Hmmmmm
psychopath/calling someone who makes a joke a potential psychopath
psychopath/calling someone who makes a joke a potential psychopath
psychopath/calling someone who makes a joke a potential psychopath

Ill stick with psychopath
*gets knife*:pac:

partyguinness · 17-02-2009 4:39pm

RaverRo808 wrote: »

A little dope like you wouldnt get it,since no-one would marry you,and by the way Im not married,but my missus agrees with me,if either of us cheated the other would be dead,but we plan to get married and thats the whole point of marriage,you commit to the one person for the rest of your life,thats the point,if you want to f*ck around then dont get married,stay single,but thats lost on someone like yourself,dont worry kid,when your balls drop you'll understand

I am afraid thats all very good in theory and I'm sure everyone who does get married has the same good intentions but that site and the OP prove that in reality it doesnt always work out so rosy for everyone. Just a sad and depressing fact of life.

builttospill · 17-02-2009 4:44pm

RaverRo808 wrote: »

A little dope like you wouldnt get it,since no-one would marry you,and by the way Im not married,but my missus agrees with me,if either of us cheated the other would be dead,but we plan to get married and thats the whole point of marriage,you commit to the one person for the rest of your life,thats the point,if you want to f*ck around then dont get married,stay single,but thats lost on someone like yourself,dont worry kid,when your balls drop you'll understand

"Don't worry kid, when your balls drop you'll understand"

"no-one would marry you"

Staish Eddie Gein here throwing his toys out of the pram. I believe he also told someone in an earlier post that they had a three inch willy. It's kind of ironic that in an attempt to belittle others he acts like an insecure 12 year old schoolgirl.

And it's obvious by your posts that when you don't have your missus locked in the ironing cupboard she's out riding all around her.

partyguinness · 17-02-2009 4:49pm

Terry wrote: »

No, you shut up.

Don't link to that site again.

Also, it sounds like prostitution to me*. Not that I'm against it, but it is illegal.

*Man pays to meet women for sex.

I dont think so.

He is paying the site for access to its services. He pays the site regardless or whether he meets any women.

He or the site are not paying the women..not prostitution

Wibbs · 17-02-2009 4:50pm

While I can see where RaverRo808 is coming from re commitment, I would give one piece of advice, don't restrict yourself to absolutes and don't hang on too tightly to absolutes or loved ones. People are like soap, if you hold on too tightly it can just as easy fly out of your hands. Shít I'm Forrest fúkin Gump.:o:D

Wibbs · 17-02-2009 4:52pm

builttospill wrote: »

Staish Eddie Gein here throwing his toys out of the pram. I believe he also told someone in an earlier post that they had a three inch willy. It's kind of ironic that in an attempt to belittle others he acts like an insecure 12 year old schoolgirl.

And it's obvious by your posts that when you don't have your missus locked in the ironing cupboard she's out riding all around her.

Well by that last statement, regardless of provocation, you're not far off the schoolyard there either. It's only the interweb folks(and AH:eek::D)

Professey Chin · 17-02-2009 4:57pm

Wibbs wrote: »

Shít I'm Forrest fúkin Gump.:o:D

Nothing wrong with being like him but if you start using that chocolate line then we gots a problem :pac:

peeka · 17-02-2009 5:08pm

RaverRo808 wrote: »

,and by the way Im not married,but my missus agrees with me

FM104 phoneshow is that way

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builttospill · 17-02-2009 5:11pm

Wibbs wrote: »

Well by that last statement, regardless of provocation, you're not far off the schoolyard there either. It's only the interweb folks(and AH:eek::D)

I HATE YOU AND I WISH I WAS NEVER BORN!!! (slams door)

Wibbs · 17-02-2009 5:26pm

builttospill wrote: »

I HATE YOU AND I WISH I WAS NEVER BORN!!! (slams door)

Super-Rush · 17-02-2009 5:37pm

Go on pm me the link...i might see someone i know

Valmont · 17-02-2009 6:23pm

RaverRo808 wrote: »

A little dope like you wouldnt get it,since no-one would marry you,and by the way Im not married,but my missus agrees with me,if either of us cheated the other would be dead,but we plan to get married and thats the whole point of marriage,you commit to the one person for the rest of your life,thats the point,if you want to f*ck around then dont get married,stay single,but thats lost on someone like yourself,dont worry kid,when your balls drop you'll understand

It must be great having everything figured out, having the perfect morality and such a caveman view of relationships. How can your head be so far up your bottom? You actually condone murder if a partner cheats on their other half, don't you see how wrong that is? I bet you're the violent, jealous type who wouldn't think twice about giving your missus a whack for texting another male.

Valmont · 17-02-2009 6:25pm

Wibbs wrote: »

While I can see where RaverRo808 is coming from re commitment,

RE: That it's ok to kill your other half for cheating?

Wibbs · 17-02-2009 6:55pm

Nope about commitment and the vow of marriage. Obviously not about digging shallow graves in the mountains.

Professey Chin · 17-02-2009 6:56pm

Wibbs wrote: »

Nope about commitment and the vow of marriage. Obviously not about digging shallow graves in the mountains.

What about deep graves?

medic_1 · 17-02-2009 6:58pm

Whats the name of the site???

K-9 · 17-02-2009 6:58pm

Wibbs wrote: »

Obviously not about digging shallow graves in the mountains.

YEP, Bad mistake there, Deep ones FTW.

so many married women want an affair

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