Playing Hard to Get or What TF?

con___manx1 · 11-03-2014 10:13pm

I wouldn't bother with the texting once your seeing d girl a while just call her. I hate texting. Call get all out of way .bye love u . And yr done for the day . Pointless texts that women read d wrong way only lead to trouble.

blacklilly · 11-03-2014 10:14pm

zetalambda wrote: »

That's all that matters to men. The rest of the stuff is just a chore we do to ensure we regularly get our dicks wet.

I take it your dick is dry a lot

con___manx1 · 11-03-2014 10:18pm

I wouldn't bother with the texting once your seeing d girl a while just call her twice a day. I hate texting. Call lunch and in the evening get all out of way .bye love u . And yr done for the day . Pointless texts that women read d wrong way only lead to trouble.plus if u really like her u should really want to talk instead of crappy texting.

maguic24 · 11-03-2014 10:19pm

zetalambda wrote: »

Thanks for your opinion but you'd lose your money if you placed that bet. Believe me, straight men don't play hard to get with women. Most men will jump at the chance of a shag as long as the woman isn't a complete gremlin.

I'm sorry, but you can't speak for 'most men', you can only speak for yourself. The same way I can't speak for most women. All men and women differ.

If men only cared about getting their dick wet, then why are there so many in relationships/married? Yeah you get regular sex but do they just stick with us insufferable gremlins to have sex? I'm not so sure.......

I think there's a few sneaky men out there who love their partners/spouses not just for the sex but because they're deadly. The sex is just an added bonus.

zetalambda · 11-03-2014 10:22pm

blacklilly wrote: »

I take it your dick is dry a lot

I bet men find you as attractive as Susan Boyle.

Chazz Michael Michaels · 11-03-2014 10:24pm

zetalambda wrote: »

Believe me, straight men don't play hard to get with women

I do. I just said I did earlier. And it works.

zetalambda · 11-03-2014 10:29pm

Chazz Michael Michaels wrote: »

I do. I just said I did earlier. And it works.

Maybe so but it's not normal. It's effeminate. You must have had an odd upbringing if you behave like a little girl in your adult life.

maguic24 · 11-03-2014 10:29pm

Ah lads, there's no need to be getting nasty about it.

blacklilly · 11-03-2014 10:33pm

zetalambda wrote: »

I bet men find you as attractive as Susan Boyle.

Ohhh deflecting my statement by trying to insult me, the operative word being "trying".

Anyway back on topic zatalambda (aka dry dick), some men, like some women play games. Most people don't like games, especially when they're on the receiving end of them

Chazz Michael Michaels · 11-03-2014 10:33pm

zetalambda wrote: »

Maybe so but it's not normal. It's effeminate. You must have had an odd upbringing if you behave like a little girl in your adult life.

I was raised by wolves. Female wolves. So yes, it was odd.

zetalambda · 11-03-2014 10:33pm

maguic24 wrote: »

Ah lads, there's no need to be getting nasty about it.

All my post were intended to be light-hearted.

Chazz Michael Michaels wrote: »

I was raised by wolves. Female wolves. So yes, it was odd.

Are you one of these Neil Strauss (the game) types? Cause he's single these days. Techniques might give you results in the short to medium terms but ultimately they'll get you nowhere.

maguic24 · 11-03-2014 10:38pm

zetalambda wrote: »

All my post were intended to be light-hearted.

They certainly don't come across that way and they're not even aimed at me.

Chazz Michael Michaels · 11-03-2014 10:40pm

zetalambda wrote: »

All my post were intended to be light-hearted.

Are you one of these Neil Strauss (the game) types? Cause he's single these days. Techniques might give you results in the short to medium terms but ultimately they'll get you nowhere.

No, I just noticed that turning the volume straight up to 11 in the early days of dating just chases women away, you got to turn the dial nice and slow. No game.

Sciprio · 11-03-2014 10:43pm

Years ago i would have chased a bit if they played hard to get but nowadays i just don't care so i don't bother my time and just move on. I've no time for that stuff to be honest.

zetalambda · 11-03-2014 10:45pm

blacklilly wrote: »

Ohhh deflecting my statement by trying to insult me, the operative word being "trying".

Anyway back on topic zatalambda (aka dry dick), some men, like some women play games. Most people don't like games, especially when they're on the receiving end of them

Lighten up girl. I'm just having a bit of banter. You can wet my dick anytime sweetheart. Are you going the the next beers?

El Guapo! · 11-03-2014 10:50pm

zetalambda wrote: »

Lighten up girl. I'm just having a bit of banter. You can wet my dick anytime sweetheart. Are you going the the next beers?

Ok, sweetheart, knock that shít off now please.

Pug160 · 11-03-2014 11:10pm

I've noticed that a lot of these threads are started by people over 30. To me that's kind of worrying. Don't get me wrong, it took me a while to figure certain things out, but I think there are fundamental basics you should figure out before a certain age.

Sam Quentin · 12-03-2014 1:57am

Pug160 wrote: »

I've noticed that a lot of these threads are started by people over 30. To me that's kind of worrying. Don't get me wrong, it took me a while to figure certain things out, but I think there are fundamental basics you should figure out before a certain age.

Well it seems I've worked fcuk all out, I was in a couple of lonnnnng relationships, that didn't start off with all this texting stuff, oh and I don't have a Facebook account! how weird am I

Pug160 · 12-03-2014 7:07pm

Sam Quentin wrote: »

Well it seems I've worked fcuk all out, I was in a couple of lonnnnng relationships, that didn't start off with all this texting stuff, oh and I don't have a Facebook account! how weird am I

I think being in relationships only gives you experience at being in relationships - not much else. Being frustrated and overly cynical about things usually comes from being unhappy with life in general. I get like that myself sometimes, but when I'm happier and more content it means I'm more level headed and relaxed, with more of an objective, care free attitude.

shopaholic01 · 12-03-2014 7:12pm

Sam Quentin wrote: »

Well it seems I've worked fcuk all out, I was in a couple of lonnnnng relationships, that didn't start off with all this texting stuff, oh and I don't have a Facebook account! how weird am I

Stop texting then and do what you have always done when you met someone.

beano345 · 12-03-2014 7:17pm

I don't play hard to get...I play easy to get hard!

simply simple · 15-03-2014 10:25pm

Some girls find it hard to trust someone. May be she is confused abt trusting u. Doent mean that you are not worthy of trusting but may be she is not able to make up her mind. And if u don't like the way she is then probably she is not the right one for you. But i would suggest give it one last 'actual' shot. Say it out loud to her abt ur feelings to her and if it doesnt turn out somewhat like u might have wanted then move ahead.

kittycati · 15-03-2014 10:56pm

I think the dating scene has changed so so much from years ago..but do think from day one you are better to be honest and upfront and lay your cards on the table..you will quickly sort the wood from the trees..Dont waste your time and energy on headwreckers who are only trying to boost their already inflated egos..