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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    Haven't heard anything about perineal massage. I'd love a copy of the instructions if you get them too?

    Anyone doing their pelvic floor exercises?


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    kildareash wrote: »
    Haven't heard anything about perineal massage. I'd love a copy of the instructions if you get them too?

    Anyone doing their pelvic floor exercises?

    When i remember i do, i did them even before i got pregnant, didn't know they were pelvic floor at the time lol

    in bed in bra and pants with both windows open and still sweating.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    Same here I even have cooling patches on my forehead I swear I normally love the heat this is just ridiculous!!

    I seriously think I might go eat an ice cream or something!!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    cyning wrote: »
    Same here I even have cooling patches on my forehead I swear I normally love the heat this is just ridiculous!!

    I seriously think I might go eat an ice cream or something!!

    Yes but now u have your own internal heating system you need less of the external one!

    Thank crunchie tomorrow is Friday. Have hospital appt in the morn, don't know if it's just to see doc to look at my blood glucose over the last couple of days or if it's the whole shebang. Either way it's going to be a long sticky wait!


  • Registered Users Posts: 141 ✭✭WWC1


    Hi,

    + me for the perineal instructions please!

    Oh man the heat last night in bed. Had the windows wide open and the duvet off and still melting. Had to jumpout of bed then at 5 with the WORST cramp in my leg, it's still sore now from it. Hope it snows today....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,065 ✭✭✭Kash


    kildareash wrote: »
    Haven't heard anything about perineal massage. I'd love a copy of the instructions if you get them too?

    Anyone doing their pelvic floor exercises?

    https://docs.google.com/viewer?a=v&q=cache:T96pIKu0SZUJ:www.doulaireland.com/perinealmassage2.doc+perineal+massage&hl=en&gl=ie&pid=bl&srcid=ADGEESjkMFwHccyV4ZVptqXLCkXW3gqq2wAUQZPO12KIr8TCFEuI8Su7j9D1qkppdMV3fQtcObioSug35igFXFM_kp0ulmDeG8_ow3sohAB5BHMzjgfNGJO-ljJmPSjGPHpXqAzOIhZs&sig=AHIEtbS6iKKLbQ7vwxPDkBbaU-JXNOkP2g&pli=1

    This is pretty much the same as the instructions I got at the antenatal class. One thing our physio did say is to start focusing less on squeezing your pelvic floor, and more on releasing it at this stage (unless you have signs of weakness there, such as peeing when you sneeze/cough)

    It says to do the massages from week 34 onward, so I'm waiting until next week to begin - and i think i'll use a Vit E oil if i can, or one of the lubes - the idea of using olive oil weirded me right out :P


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    Kash wrote: »
    kildareash wrote: »
    Haven't heard anything about perineal massage. I'd love a copy of the instructions if you get them too?

    Anyone doing their pelvic floor exercises?

    https://docs.google.com/viewer?a=v&q=cache:T96pIKu0SZUJ:www.doulaireland.com/perinealmassage2.doc+perineal+massage&hl=en&gl=ie&pid=bl&srcid=ADGEESjkMFwHccyV4ZVptqXLCkXW3gqq2wAUQZPO12KIr8TCFEuI8Su7j9D1qkppdMV3fQtcObioSug35igFXFM_kp0ulmDeG8_ow3sohAB5BHMzjgfNGJO-ljJmPSjGPHpXqAzOIhZs&sig=AHIEtbS6iKKLbQ7vwxPDkBbaU-JXNOkP2g&pli=1

    This is pretty much the same as the instructions I got at the antenatal class. One thing our physio did say is to start focusing less on squeezing your pelvic floor, and more on releasing it at this stage (unless you have signs of weakness there, such as peeing when you sneeze/cough)

    It says to do the massages from week 34 onward, so I'm waiting until next week to begin - and i think i'll use a Vit E oil if i can, or one of the lubes - the idea of using olive oil weirded me right out :P


    Thanks for that! It looks scary! I'll print it off later and read it properly


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    kildareash wrote: »
    Do u think can the heat effect braxton hicks? I know I haven't drank as much water as I should have either today, but I've been getting them all afternoon.

    I definitely noticed an increase in Braxton Hicks with this weather. The office ran out of water bottles for the cooler day before yesterday :eek: and only got it back late yesterday so I was rationing the water in my bottle and I'm sure that contributed to it. Definitely making a conscious effort to drink loads.
    mamaheidi wrote: »
    Just a question (and sorry for TMI) but has anybody thought about doing perineal massage?

    I'm definitely going to be doing this, so will be interested to hear what you ladies (further along) actually use for it. I can only associate olive oil with cooking! I don't see why you can't use baby oil but there must be a reason.
    Robinc wrote: »
    She said something like KY Jelly would work too..

    I'd use it if it was the best thing to use but I'd feel very odd as a preg woman going into shop to buy it :o

    I'm really noticing the heat now that I'm heavily pregnant but I'm trying to enjoy it as much as I can as I've missed this heat for, what, a year!! I don't want it to go away so I'm doing my best to get comfortable in it. I'm sauntering around in vests & knickers in the house and putting shower very cool.

    Well got my car last night so I'm a happy chappy, putting it in for a full service and general safety check tomorrow. I don't know what to do with my old car as I really don't see anyone driving it. I might have to pay someone to take it away!

    Is anyone going to do a bit of sunbathing? I think I'll do a little just to get the vit D, using sunscreen of course. I'm going to keep my belly covered as the skin there is so tight it would burn in minutes. Maybe just keeping it to no more than 20 mins/ half hour exposure so don't overheat. I'm not looking to get a tan, but a healthy glow for those post birth pics would be great!


  • Registered Users Posts: 776 ✭✭✭TwoMums2Be


    Geez I was up at 1.15ish to pee & then I got a tiny lick on the hand at 3.30ish from the dog...she needed to pee too...I guess she was a good dog & drank loads yesterday :D

    I do pelvic floors when I remember but I've not been great at remembering :rolleyes: I have done them on & off for years :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 776 ✭✭✭TwoMums2Be


    Mink - the only thing KY jelly is good for is a doppler :D its prob what your doc is using when they listen to your baby! So pregnancy is the best time to buy it ;)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭silly


    i actually didnt mind the heat yesterday once i got home and into comfy clothes.
    I wouldnt be one to sunbathe or tan or anything, i just burn so i generally stay out of direct sun anyway. The car journey was hell going home yesterday, meant to park car in the shade this morning, but i forgot, but its still a bit dull here, so hopefully it wont get too hot..

    i sleep really well, and i always wake the minute hubby gets up, but this morning i didnt wake until i got my kiss goodbye...
    He has silage men around this eve so i have to feed like 8 men tonight!!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    silly wrote: »
    i actually didnt mind the heat yesterday once i got home and into comfy clothes.
    I wouldnt be one to sunbathe or tan or anything, i just burn so i generally stay out of direct sun anyway. The car journey was hell going home yesterday, meant to park car in the shade this morning, but i forgot, but its still a bit dull here, so hopefully it wont get too hot..

    i sleep really well, and i always wake the minute hubby gets up, but this morning i didnt wake until i got my kiss goodbye...
    He has silage men around this eve so i have to feed like 8 men tonight!!


    Thank god for air con, I think I would literally die in the car without it now!

    There is only shade at one place in my office and only 2/3 cars fit there. The rest is so open.

    I'm not wearing traditional office clothes in today. I won't be in till lunch time anyway and I've lots of desk work to do so won't be meeting anyone. We don't have a dress code as such so I can get away with it. Still, i don't feel professional in a flowery top an leggings!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    Try a packed train in this heat!

    Just to throw it out there to anyone who's been absent for a couple weeks, there is a FB group set up for users of this thread. It's set to a private closed group so as not to give away our top secret Boards ID's to our friends/families :D Tis handy if we want to post photos more personal pics, arrange meet ups etc.

    If you want to join in, just PM me your FB name (ie; the exact name your FB account is under), I can't search via email addresses.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭NyquistFreak


    Mink wrote: »
    Try a packed train in this heat!

    Just to throw it out there to anyone who's been absent for a couple weeks, there is a FB group set up for users of this thread. It's set to a private closed group so as not to give away our top secret Boards ID's to our friends/families :D Tis handy if we want to post photos more personal pics, arrange meet ups etc.

    If you want to join in, just PM me your FB name (ie; the exact name your FB account is under), I can't search via email addresses.

    Hi Mink, I sent a pm there a few days ago alright, I can't remember if my account is searchable at all though! If you have trouble get back to me anyway :)

    kildareash ya i was wondering what the hell was up yesterday with the belly going round doing my messages! picked up 6 x 2litre bottles of water for 2.50 in aldi though so that should help!

    So baby has a new and terrible game: punch mam in the cervix. Happened about 3 times last night, the first one was so horrible and unexpected I actually nearly dropped my dinner, I was just after standing cooking and bringing the wok to the table, stopped me in my tracks! I got another this morning, not liking it very much, feels weird, and only 33weeks now tomorrow. Maternity appointment Monday so will ask about it then - of course muggins here realised that she knows neither her doctors number, or name. just where to find her one day a week, how the hell did i manage to go this long and only realise this now! on the case to find out anyway, but she's not even listed in the clinic when i looked it up! eh - eek!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    Hi Nyquist, I sent you a friend request I think last weekend, you gotta add me & the I can add you to the group. I'll PM you my actual name ;) now. If it still doesn't show up, just search for me and friend request me.

    I hate those feelings in the cervix. I feel most of baby's hiccups down there for some bizzare reason! It's so strange


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭NyquistFreak


    Mink wrote: »
    Hi Nyquist, I sent you a friend request I think last weekend, you gotta add me & the I can add you to the group. I'll PM you my actual name ;) now. If it still doesn't show up, just search for me and friend request me.

    I hate those feelings in the cervix. I feel most of baby's hiccups down there for some bizzare reason! It's so strange

    Found you there lady, my friend requests don't seem to come up as a notification at all for some reason, cheers! :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭NyquistFreak


    So just did the obligatory Facebook nosing there and realised I've already met one of you in the real world in another life about 10 years ago through a friend of mine, madness! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    I'm now trying to knit a baby cardigan: I think my version of nesting involves alot of knitting for some reason... now if only I was actually any good at it it would be great :D Also I don't know what half the stuff in the pattern means: just aswell the lady in the knitting shop is so nice!!

    My belly looked like a pyramid last night: it was so odd! Baby was pushing a body up through my belly: it was kinda icky in a cool way!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    So, just back from the hospital. After waiting ages to see the consultant himself on the nurses request another doctor seen me and almost had a go because some of my blood glucose tests were a bit high. But she Cldnt read the book I record my results in and tried to accuse me of not doing the tests!

    She didn't take it too kindly When I pointed out that I was so borderline a nurse and doc missed that I failed the test five weeks ago! and despite 2 requests from the hospital the dieticians still don't have an appt for me.

    Apparently, I have to see the diabetic nurse at all appts now but I wasn't told that either!

    Baby measuring at 35wks and I'll be 33 tomorrow so they're not happy about that. Doc last week said cld be because of history of big babies on both sides of family, but this weeks doc dismissed that completely!

    Anyway, diabetic nurse cld not have been nicer. Really reassured me that I have been doing everything right the last few days and it's just a matter of balancing out the carbs, maybe only having one slice of bread with an egg as opposed to two for breakfast, things like that.

    Ok, moan over. Back to work!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    Jesus when are people going to learn that YOU DO NOT GIVE OUT TO OR WORRY PREGNANT WOMEN!! I don't care if you are a doctor!! It just makes us so worried & the blood pressure goes up etc. Kildareash I'm sure it will all be fine, do what you can to avoid that doctor for the future. I don't know why they are worrying you re baby measuring a little ahead, I've always heard it can vary by up to 2 weeks which is the case with you.

    I miss my OH! He's been really busy all week and we went to bed at same time only once this week, we had dinner together once, he's not really been originating communication during the day. I have a sneaking fear I may have maxed out his capacity to absorb baby/pregnancy-talk! He's going on a work/bachleors party thing tonight (actually for a gay guy who is marrying his partner over in the uk this weekend which is cool) & then staying in his ma's so I won't see him til mid afternoon tomorrow. :(

    I must resolve to talk about other things and let him bring up baby stuff (which he won't probably :rolleyes:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭NyquistFreak


    My fella is the same, eyes glaze over and just lets me ramble on til "ugh can we talk about this later?!" he hasn't really learned the art of nodding and smiling yet. Like i have when he starts about politics, ha!


  • Registered Users Posts: 776 ✭✭✭TwoMums2Be


    Kildareash - glad to see you stick up for yourself :) honestly they make a mistake & then have a go at you re stuff! It's not your fault they realised so late that you are borderline GD :rolleyes:

    I'm also not sure why they are so worried re your baby measuring two weeks ahead! Our babies are due the same day & mines abdomen is measuring two weeks ahead at her 31+4 scan. Her legs were two weeks ahead at 26+4 but he couldn't get a good look at them last time but he did say she had a substantial foot :eek: . Her head has always been about a week ahead :) taking into account our donors size my consultant is happy with her size!

    If my memory is right it was you who told me about your tall nephew always being ahead in clothes size etc so if there is a family history of bigger genes in the family I can't see why it's a problem :)

    Don't let them stress you anyway :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    There's big babies on both sides, some of oh's cousins kids have been over 10lb!!!
    Apparently I was 24 inches long when I was born and the nurses thought I was huge. So I'm not really worried about the size, those machines can be out...just hope it's the minus rather than the plus!

    I'll get the hang of the diet over the next few days, it does require a lot of planning ahead and thinking about what it eating. There was only a few that we're out anyway. OH was ready to punch the doc coz of how she spoke to me!


    Aw Mink, that's hard when ye don't get to see much of one another during the wk.
    I think they're kinda afraid for us, the future etc too and r afraid to talk about or don't know how to!

    Maybe ye could plan a date night for tomorrow night or do something nice on Sunday. Something for u to look forward to and some uninterrupted QT where he can't escape the baby talk!ha! It's hard to talk about anything when our daily thoughts r consumed by ow that hurt or how long was it since I last felt baby move.

    I'm being brought to IKEA tomorrow!!! OH has never been, he said we wld be doing more browsing than buying but he's such an impulse buyer, I'll be reigning him!!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    You should have told me you were going to Ikea, I still have one of those 10% off Children section vouchers (sent one to Twomums). Well you know what area I'm in if you want to pick it up. I can PM you my mobile number if you want to get it. I can't really drive anywhere as car will be in garage.

    Yeah the baby stuff is pretty much on my mind all the time, can't help it - it's right in front of my face ;)

    He's gigging Sat & Sun night and we have to go out to a "thing" with friends on Sun for the whole afternoon. Feck it, I'll try see him the bank hol weekend :D I'm just freaking out a bit as we're running out of weekends and have a lot of sh1t to do and I'm not fit for much after work on the weekdays!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    Mink wrote: »
    You should have told me you were going to Ikea, I still have one of those 10% off Children section vouchers (sent one to Twomums). Well you know what area I'm in if you want to pick it up. I can PM you my mobile number if you want to get it. I can't really drive anywhere as car will be in garage.

    Yeah the baby stuff is pretty much on my mind all the time, can't help it - it's right in front of my face ;)

    He's gigging Sat & Sun night and we have to go out to a "thing" with friends on Sun for the whole afternoon. Feck it, I'll try see him the bank hol weekend :D I'm just freaking out a bit as we're running out of weekends and have a lot of sh1t to do and I'm not fit for much after work on the weekdays!

    Oh, I'd completely forgot about the vouchers. We only decided yesterday to go. Thanks anyway tho, your very kind.

    It's scary how little time we have left! I have to work Monday now but well be spending the rest of the week sorting the house out! I've so many jobs I want done, it was the only way we will get round to it coz weekends r just too busy and we both need time to just relax!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    Had such an enjoyable day with my oh. Finally got to have an anniversary day. He is very lovely and says about every man he sees with a baby girl "theres me and zo"
    love him more everyday!except the other day when he was a knob lol!

    How is everyone doing-heat was more bearable today with the breeze.

    Ohs mam is having a eurovision bbq tomorrow, they've made a big deal about it and now i have to go , just wanna stay home and relax rather than have another night around drunkards


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    Kildareash that sucks... it took them 5 weeks to tell you you had it because you were so borderline and then have to listen to that... sometimes docs are just painful. I'm not sure why they are worried about the two weeks ahead thing either: as twomums said some babies are just bigger, and with gd its highly unlikely you'd go over your due date regardless? Also I'm very jealous of you off to Ikea :p


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    I think I've dreamt a few times now that I'm having leg cramps in the night! Weird or what!
    I wake up in the mornings wondering dd that really happen!!!


  • Registered Users Posts: 776 ✭✭✭TwoMums2Be


    I wonder if you are having them but not bad enough to wake you so your body just incorporates them into your dreams :)

    Enjoy ikea today :D

    Looks like another lovely day out there today although I'm judging that on the brightness through the curtains as I'm still in bed :) It was lovely at 6.30am when I was up feeding the dog :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users Posts: 776 ✭✭✭TwoMums2Be


    Does anyone see specific baby body parts sticking out yet? I can guess what certain things are based on her position but nothing is obviously a hand or foot etc! I was wondering if any of you have seen a mini foot or the likes :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    Oh it's gorgeous out, great clothes drying weather!

    I can't tell at all what's sticking out of me, I'd imagine it's a foot or a bum.

    Need to confront weeding the garden, just can't get the motivation!

    Painted my toenails last night and it was a real struggle, also got very swollen feet for the first time, went down when I put them up but it's a taste of what's to come. They looked like old lady feet!


  • Registered Users Posts: 776 ✭✭✭TwoMums2Be


    It is Mink, I put on two loads last night specifically for the line this morning :) drying away now!

    The bump had hiccups for the first time (that I've felt) this morning :) all I know is everytime my partner has bump time she gets lifted off the bump by a foot :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭NyquistFreak


    Mink wrote: »
    Oh it's gorgeous out, great clothes drying weather!

    I can't tell at all what's sticking out of me, I'd imagine it's a foot or a bum.

    Need to confront weeding the garden, just can't get the motivation!

    Painted my toenails last night and it was a real struggle, also got very swollen feet for the first time, went down when I put them up but it's a taste of what's to come. They looked like old lady feet!

    ugh you've just reminded me I've a couple plants to move on to the ground before the die in their little boxes!

    Seriously swollen feet here for the first time two yesterday, it was horrible! Feel so sorry for any of ye that's been dealing with that so far, I had one little evening of it and I was a walking whinge! Probably the heat, although I drank 2litres of water yesterday! Wondering how i can avoid same again now this evening. I've my uncles 50th to go to later, all the family will be there and I don't want to be broken in the corner!

    Hope ye're all getting to enjoy a bit of the nice weather anyway :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    Urgh my oh is annoying me . Literally since the good weather started we've been at a bbq which i suppose is a wrong reason for complaining but he has drank and i have driven EVERYWHERE, today his mam is having a euro vision party, starting in a bloody hour , so it means all his brothers and uncles Will be up drinking from one and he doesn't understand why i dont wanna go up.

    Feel like a bloody chauffeur when all i wanna do is stay home and weed my garden and he is saying everyone Will think im boring.

    Stupid bloody men Urgh


  • Registered Users Posts: 776 ✭✭✭TwoMums2Be


    Javagal - starting at 1 when you can't join in is a lot to ask - you could always head down a little later :) esp as you have been the driver all week! I can understand why you are somewhat pissed off at this stage :)

    My partner is the other extreme & is (by her own decision) on non-alcoholic beer until the baby is here! I've told her she can drink if she wants to - she doesn't have many anyway but I think the fact that she had planned on having a beer the night I fell really affected her & she wants to be alcohol free in case anything happens :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭NyquistFreak


    Java I hear you on that, my OH is the very same, at least I don't drive so Im not playing the cart horse on top of everything, but ya I'm starting to get well pissed off about watching everyone else get drunk and have good time, its really becoming clear to me what a serious drinking culture we live in! His buddy was there buying him tequila in front of me the last day, whatever about a social drink now that was the last straw like! (unreasonable part coming right up) so I had a bit of a hissy fit and said its up to him if he wants to be getting so drunk, but if I DO go early and he's in that state he won't be coming in with me, it'll be my mother, couldn't be dealing with that! Same now as some of ye, theres barbecue and birthdays (including his own!) and all sorts pretty much every weekend between now and the Scary Day. He's the other way with me though, trying to put me off coming along cos he knows I'll just be sitting there sober, judging everyone from my sober judging stool. ha. Its actually no fun, but at least he's trying to include you. :) Anyone else getting pure nervous of crowds lately though? Got co elbow into the belly there (barely touched me now in fairness, didn't hurt but just felt weird?) and I'm gone very odd about having too many people around me now at all!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    Java I hear you on that, my OH is the very same, at least I don't drive so Im not playing the cart horse on top of everything, but ya I'm starting to get well pissed off about watching everyone else get drunk and have good time, its really becoming clear to me what a serious drinking culture we live in! His buddy was there buying him tequila in front of me the last day, whatever about a social drink now that was the last straw like! (unreasonable part coming right up) so I had a bit of a hissy fit and said its up to him if he wants to be getting so drunk, but if I DO go early and he's in that state he won't be coming in with me, it'll be my mother, couldn't be dealing with that! Same now as some of ye, theres barbecue and birthdays (including his own!) and all sorts pretty much every weekend between now and the Scary Day. He's the other way with me though, trying to put me off coming along cos he knows I'll just be sitting there sober, judging everyone from my sober judging stool. ha. Its actually no fun, but at least he's trying to include you. :) Anyone else getting pure nervous of crowds lately though? Got co elbow into the belly there (barely touched me now in fairness, didn't hurt but just felt weird?) and I'm gone very odd about having too many people around me now at all!

    I hear ya about the drinking culture.
    My ohs mam has a drinking problem-they all know it but still go up and drink with her and then when she turns nasty when she's drunk , they get upset about it to the ladies in their lives!

    I feel the same about crowds, im very protective of my bump, i find no one Will move out your way if they're blocking you, as if its my fault they're in my way.

    Today is just pissing me off from all angles. So im out my back in my maxi dress with garden gloves taking some frustration out on weeds. My oh best not come near me yet,

    or worms,

    or else!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    I think babs is the wrong way around and lying diagonally: I keep thinking its a head up by my ribs and getting kicked to death on my right side: I'm probably totally wrong: but something keeps coming out the side of my tummy and I'm sure kicks are stronger than punches??!

    Java and Nyquist: I'd be pissed too: although like Twomums my oh is nearly gone to the other extreme these days!

    Was back in inlaws house earlier and there was visitors and we were all out sitting in the sun: and I had to go puke: I was mortified but I was so hot and kept drinking water which triggered puking. I was even on a swing seat under a canopy to keep cooler :( Seriously embarassing :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭NyquistFreak


    cyning, oh no! well if its any consolation i went into the house for the bit of shade about half two and passed out for myself, only just woke up there now with most of the day gone!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    Java and Nyquist totally understand where ur coming from. It's so frustrating, I don't think they understand what it's like.

    My OH has a self imposed cut off point for drinking about 4 weeks before baby is due. He's working on a project in work for a festival and it finishes up on June 16 so that's his last hooray, as it will be the end of the festival and his involvement with a certain group. I'm happy enough with that. Hes going out with that group tonight and he probably won't be out again till that night so I can't really complain. And he's offered to stay at home tonight because I've no
    Plans and we've had a lovely day together.

    Got everything we wanted and more in ikea today. Didn't go overboard and picked up a few extras for the nursery! My feet r a bit puffy now from all the walking but I'll keep them up tonight and hope for the best.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    Hope everyone enjoyed the weather! It seems our OH's are doing some drinking this weekend

    Well my OH didn't get back to the house til about 1.30 today (he stayed in his mam's last night as nearer town) then I had my midwife come, then he had to take a nap as he was so hung over and then he was straight out to a gig so I was pretty much on my own today. Boo hoo :-) ah well I think we'll see each other during these weekday evenings.

    Baby in perfect position (head down, back sort of facing my left) and measuring bang on 31 weeks so happy days.


  • Registered Users Posts: 776 ✭✭✭TwoMums2Be


    That's great re baby position Mink. Does she figure all that our from just feeling your bump?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭NyquistFreak


    Lads I'm at my uncles 50th, there was a band on a while ago now some sort of open Mic going on (musical family) but the man doing sound is just SOOO terrible at his job (yes, I'm also sound head and am on my sober stool of judgement) just watched him make sh*t of my own poor mother on stage, had her singing into a dead microphone til he turned it to the speaker for some lovely feedback...I've never felt such physical hate for a stranger before in my life (aaaaaaah!!!) it makes me want to take up smoking again just so I have an excuse to leave the building. bah. Sorry for the rant, it was either this or risk giving birth in prison!


  • Registered Users Posts: 307 ✭✭Saurelin


    Lads I'm at my uncles 50th, there was a band on a while ago now some sort of open Mic going on (musical family) but the man doing sound is just SOOO terrible at his job (yes, I'm also sound head and am on my sober stool of judgement) just watched him make sh*t of my own poor mother on stage, had her singing into a dead microphone til he turned it to the speaker for some lovely feedback...I've never felt such physical hate for a stranger before in my life (aaaaaaah!!!) it makes me want to take up smoking again just so I have an excuse to leave the building. bah. Sorry for the rant, it was either this or risk giving birth in prison!

    oh poor you! I would actually go to this guy and tell him what he is doing wrong.

    i broke one of my toe nails and I don't know when, strange.

    we spend yesterday afternoon at my friend house with bbq.
    it was really relaxing :-)

    have a great day ladies :-)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    TwoMums2Be wrote: »
    That's great re baby position Mink. Does she figure all that our from just feeling your bump?

    Yep, I don't know how midwives and docs figure it out, experience I guess.

    No lie-ins for me this weekend, woke up early today and yesterday. Loving this sun though, was out for half hour in it this morning, I'm going to be careful though.

    Nyquist I would of eaten the head off him, he was probably drunk!


  • Registered Users Posts: 307 ✭✭Saurelin


    I'm so pissed off
    my hubby wake up with cold
    reason yesterday during bbq he was feeling quite cold but he was to lazy to go to the car and get jumper
    so instead of going somewhere nice, outside we are stack at apartment :/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,065 ✭✭✭Kash


    My hubby has been drinking a bit this weekend too, while we've been at home having BBQs. I can't say I mind, he's going out of his way to make sure that I am well fed and watered and not overheating, and he's not getting smashed if you know what I mean.

    He's going to stop drinking in June too so that he's always able to drive.

    The heat is killing me though, it's too damn hot. I actually got burned yesterday, despite spending 90% of the day under a big tree with a book. Ouch. So, I'm in factor 50+ kiddie sunblock today!

    Looking forward to seeing the Avengers later :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    Kash wrote: »
    My hubby has been drinking a bit this weekend too, while we've been at home having BBQs. I can't say I mind, he's going out of his way to make sure that I am well fed and watered and not overheating, and he's not getting smashed if you know what I mean.

    He's going to stop drinking in June too so that he's always able to drive.

    The heat is killing me though, it's too damn hot. I actually got burned yesterday, despite spending 90% of the day under a big tree with a book. Ouch. So, I'm in factor 50+ kiddie sunblock today!

    Looking forward to seeing the Avengers later :)


    Awesome movie!

    Bought loads of plants for my freshly weeded rockery and every time i bend over i get cramps in my foot so oh is doing it to make up for yesterday!

    I am in his biggest shorts and a maternity t shirt bloody state of me !

    Since i finished college i have this new calm feeling over me that if i went into labour at any time-i could handle it. So im actually really enjoying these last 6 weeks!


  • Registered Users Posts: 776 ✭✭✭TwoMums2Be


    Sat on a step today to have cuddles with my dog & literally couldn't get up :D Had to be rescued so best not do that when I'm on my own!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    Twomums I'm not allowed to have a bath without OH being in the house for that reason! Can barely get out of bed!


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