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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    silly wrote: »
    javagal wrote: »
    silly wrote: »
    javagal wrote: »
    I think I'm up about a stone lol!!

    But I'm reigning in my diet now so hope not to go too overboard

    Knacked after putting on that decal piece by piece, pic attached if anyone wants to see..

    Ladies, Should I be taking iron?? I'm on pregnacar atm
    Thats fab! Must get something like that. Our nursery is very big and I'm worried about it looking very bare, so hopefully something like that will make it look nice. Was it easy to put on? Are they stickers?
    yeah they are stickers silly! once you cut it all out its just transfer straight onto wall. there is some amazing ones on etsy.com. there is some big ones that would be great to take up wall space in a bigger room !

    woke up 2 hours late for college would hugely swollen glands and sore ears. day in bed well needed!
    Cut it all out??? Aw man!
    Swollen glands, ouchies! Used to get it alot when I was younger...feel your pain.
    Stay in bed!
    i did lol!when i say i woke up 2 hours late. i didn't get up! just stayed in bed till now!
    went to my mam.s house yesterday who kept insisting i haven't got a bump yet. well yesterday she didn't take her hands off it!she's so excited for her first grandchild that she thinks ringing me at one am to see if i can feel the baby moving is acceptable!hope she's so enthusiastic when i need a baby sitter!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,065 ✭✭✭Kash


    javagal wrote: »
    Knacked after putting on that decal piece by piece, pic attached if anyone wants to see..

    Java, I LOVE it. I love it so much, I want one like it.
    I must go have a look on etsy - I love so much stuff on it :)

    Ladies, I got two free iron supplements in my eumom gift box, that I picked up in supervalu. You get a leaflet inside that blue plastic envelope they gave you in the hospital. I was really impressed with the box of stuff actually... if you haven't picked yours up yet, I recommend it!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    Kash wrote: »
    javagal wrote: »
    Knacked after putting on that decal piece by piece, pic attached if anyone wants to see..

    Java, I LOVE it. I love it so much, I want one like it.
    I must go have a look on etsy - I love so much stuff on it :)

    Ladies, I got two free iron supplements in my eumom gift box, that I picked up in supervalu. You get a leaflet inside that blue plastic envelope they gave you in the hospital. I was really impressed with the box of stuff actually... if you haven't picked yours up yet, I recommend it!
    thanks kash!x
    where do you get them boxes? i dont wanna look like a div asking and the shop not knowing what im on about


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,065 ✭✭✭Kash


    Did you get a big blue and white plastic envelope with booklets and things in it during your first hospital appointment? It has eumom.ie written on it.

    Inside is a small booklet from eumom, and inside the front cover is a voucher/coupon/form thingy that you can hand it to any supervalu listed (seems like all of them to me)

    Then you just fill in the form and give it to the cashier.
    The cashier knew what it was straight away and the shop had loads of banners up promoting it.

    Then they give you a pink box which is chocablock with free samples - everything from sudacream to dettol anti-bac wipes, a bag to chuck it all in, a teething toy from bonjella, and even a height chart which made me almost die from the cuteness :)

    I was over the moon with it anyway !


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    Kash wrote: »
    Did you get a big blue and white plastic envelope with booklets and things in it during your first hospital appointment? It has eumom.ie written on it.

    Inside is a small booklet from eumom, and inside the front cover is a voucher/coupon/form thingy that you can hand it to any supervalu listed (seems like all of them to me)

    Then you just fill in the form and give it to the cashier.
    The cashier knew what it was straight away and the shop had loads of banners up promoting it.

    Then they give you a pink box which is chocablock with free samples - everything from sudacream to dettol anti-bac wipes, a bag to chuck it all in, a teething toy from bonjella, and even a height chart which made me almost die from the cuteness :)

    I was over the moon with it anyway !
    brilliant ill search that out today. im sure oh 'cleaned' it anyway somewhere!

    any ladies going to portlaoise hear anything about the ante natal classes? ill be going to the Saturday ones when i find out the exact date if anyone wants to tag along they are more than welcome to park at my house and go together as parking up there is a nightmare!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    If you've lost the little form that came in the pack, I think there is one you can print off the net.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭silly


    Kash wrote: »
    Did you get a big blue and white plastic envelope with booklets and things in it during your first hospital appointment? It has eumom.ie written on it.

    Inside is a small booklet from eumom, and inside the front cover is a voucher/coupon/form thingy that you can hand it to any supervalu listed (seems like all of them to me)

    Then you just fill in the form and give it to the cashier.
    The cashier knew what it was straight away and the shop had loads of banners up promoting it.

    Then they give you a pink box which is chocablock with free samples - everything from sudacream to dettol anti-bac wipes, a bag to chuck it all in, a teething toy from bonjella, and even a height chart which made me almost die from the cuteness :)

    I was over the moon with it anyway !
    Have been meaning to go in and get it with ages!! Like Supervalu is literally around the corner from where I work.
    If you didn't get the first blue envelope in the hospital you can go into the eumom website and download the form there.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭theg81der




  • Registered Users Posts: 79 ✭✭trions


    Hi All,

    javagal - the decal looks fab - love it, will def check out etsy when i start decorating - have to find a house first though ;)

    Mink -was giggling reading your post, also went to cinema last night, wanted to see war horse but figured seeing a tearjerker in my emotionally fragile state should prob be done in privacy of own home... went to see Girl with the dragon tattoo instead- def no tears there!

    can't remember who posted on the 'energy boost' of the second trimester.... think it's a myth, along with the glossy hair and glowing skin... am still wrecked with spotty skin and frizzy hair :(

    Am 17 weeks now and still no flutters - have been getting a weird tickly/itchy feeling just under my belly button for the last few days - not sure if it's baby??? my hubby told me he had his hand on my tummy while I was asleep last night and he felt the baby move - he was so so excited - bless him - didn't have the heart to tell him it was prob just indigestion.....

    Tinkerbell - hope your little ones are feeling better...

    hope every one is doing well?
    Take care,
    T x


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭silly


    Thank god I found this, cos I thought I was huge! Sienna miller due in July. I think I may be a little bigger than her, but that's probably because I wasn't like a size 8 before getting pregnant, more like a 12 sometimes 14.
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2101324/Sienna-Miller-shows-pregnancy-shape-flowing-black-gown.html


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    I just went to the shop to buy something for dinner: instead I got minty kit kats, time outs, 2 cream donuts and an eclair, burger bites, diet coke (and yes I know it is awful for me but it is my one real true vice!), 32 cheese strings, microwave popcorn and freddo bars :rolleyes: I wouldn't mind but I haven't kept anything down since last night so its not like I can eat it anyway!!

    I've got to say my hair has never looked better, my skin has improved dramatically, and my nails are growing like theres no tomorrow! But I'm exhausted and pale so that "energy boost" not happening for me either!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭silly


    cyning wrote: »
    my nails are growing like theres no tomorrow!
    mine too!!
    Mine are normally very weak but I have to file them down every few days as I can't use the touch screen on my phone when they get long!


  • Registered Users Posts: 307 ✭✭Saurelin


    My nails are as they were before (but I always had ok nails). My hair is growing so fast, that's crazy.

    Cyning try eating anything. Few weeks ago I had 3 days when I wasn't able to even keep water, and I was craving for something sweet. I had 1 time out and that was the only thing that stayed in my stomach

    I spend whole day sleeping today, I wake up with headache and I barley could move my head. I had breakfast and antibiotics and straight back to bed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    silly wrote: »
    Thank god I found this, cos I thought I was huge! Sienna miller due in July. I think I may be a little bigger than her, but that's probably because I wasn't like a size 8 before getting pregnant, more like a 12 sometimes 14.
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2101324/Sienna-Miller-shows-pregnancy-shape-flowing-black-gown.html

    I have to say, she looks very cute. I'd be about the same size as her but in much larger proportions :D Def my bump is sticking out like that more or less.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    id be similar to that bump too but my rear sticks out just as much!
    Buddha belly and bum!


  • Registered Users Posts: 173 ✭✭mamaheidi


    Yep, I've definitely got a bump like that too and it scares me! I'm stumpy as it is & I dread what I'll look like by June / July :o Up a stone already - 10stone and am a stubby 5ft 2ish... definitely gonna be a waddler.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    I feel like I waddle too when I stand up to walk. I just ran a bit to catch the train and now I'm seeing stars. Need to chill out!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    uh oh baby java is a night owl! had my hand on my stomach and boom !proper kick right in the hand !its so lovely!
    hope you all feel loads of movement soon x


  • Registered Users Posts: 307 ✭✭Saurelin


    I didn't feel baby moving yet (or if I did I didn't recognized it yet).

    Ladies if you like funny books re pregnancy try Belly Laughs by J. McCartney or Blogs from the Belly.


  • Registered Users Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    javagal wrote: »
    uh oh baby java is a night owl! had my hand on my stomach and boom !proper kick right in the hand !its so lovely!
    hope you all feel loads of movement soon x

    Mine too Java! Night time comes and it's doing cartwheels!!!

    I brought my mum with me to the hospital on Tuesday as I thought I was having a scan. The Dr asked me when I went in to her had they scheduled a scan for me. I looked at her like she had 5 heads. I was thinking "You're the hospital not me, surely you should be telling me"!!!! She was very concerned when I said no and that I should be having a scan as I'm on enti epileptic drugs. And I should have had blood tests to check for my protein levels for spina bifida......

    I told her I had those tests done elsewhere and gave her the letter with the results. She was very happy with them but then her and the midwife started raving on about the hospital being useless and all these tests should be routine.....my mum joined in aswell. I was just like ah get me outta here!!!

    So she is arranging for me to have a scan as soon as possible. I did mention that I was going up North to have the fetal anomaly scan anyway. My mum was very disappointed that she didn't get to see the scan.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    notsobusy wrote: »
    Mine too Java! Night time comes and it's doing cartwheels!!!

    I brought my mum with me to the hospital on Tuesday as I thought I was having a scan. The Dr asked me when I went in to her had they scheduled a scan for me. I looked at her like she had 5 heads. I was thinking "You're the hospital not me, surely you should be telling me"!!!! She was very concerned when I said no and that I should be having a scan as I'm on enti epileptic drugs. And I should have had blood tests to check for my protein levels for spina bifida......

    I told her I had those tests done elsewhere and gave her the letter with the results. She was very happy with them but then her and the midwife started raving on about the hospital being useless and all these tests should be routine.....my mum joined in aswell. I was just like ah get me outta here!!!

    So she is arranging for me to have a scan as soon as possible. I did mention that I was going up North to have the fetal anomaly scan anyway. My mum was very disappointed that she didn't get to see the scan.

    The hospitals are so frustrating, and I think it's only going to get worse at the end of the month.
    What's the point of them opening a file for you, if they expect you to know what they or possibly another doc was thinking a few weeks ago!

    Is anyone doing any yoga or pilates? I used to go walking every night, but got out of the habit before Christmas when I didn't have the energy.
    Thinking of taking up pregnancy yoga now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,065 ✭✭✭Kash


    I want to do that too, but i have no classes nearby.

    I'm an ex yoga-bunny, so think I should be able to do it in the comfort of my own home if i can find a good dvd.

    I promised myself i would start that and listening to my hypnobirthing cds by week 20. Which is what, next week? So I'd better get off my sciatica plagued ass and find a dvd :)

    I am STARVING today. It's only half ten, and I've already eaten an entire Dr Otker pizza all on my own. Hopefully that will stop the belly grumbling for a long time!


  • Registered Users Posts: 774 ✭✭✭notsobusy


    Yum pizza!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    I'm going to start pregnancy yoga classes Saturday after this (meeting the independent midwife this Sat to interview her).

    They're on a Sat late morning and 12 euro each time. There was no way I could commit to doing a whole 6 or 9 week course, so I'll just go when I can.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭silly


    Kash wrote: »

    I am STARVING today. It's only half ten, and I've already eaten an entire Dr Otker pizza all on my own. Hopefully that will stop the belly grumbling for a long time!
    Pizza in the morning!!! Sounds lovely!

    I just had Cheerios at 8.30 and I'm starving, I have an apple and a banana, but I think a scone at 11.30 will suit me down to the ground!

    I'd love to do yoga/Pilates, but working full time with a child already at home, I just don't have the time!! Hubby works until 9/10/11 most nights.

    Went to see the woman in black last night, it was so not scary.. Dissapointing! Met my nrighbour and wife and they are due in July also!! Crazy! Apart from you guys I know, 5/6 due in July ( not including sienna miller!) and about 3 for aug.

    I'm waiting for about €110 worth of maternity clothes to arrive in the post. I've bought 3 maternity tops, 2 dresses ( have wedding, confirmation and 2 communions coming up) and a bump band thingy. A girl I know used to wear her normal jeans while pregnant, leave the top button open and put the bump band thing over it. Ordered from Asos and Naoimi.com


  • Registered Users Posts: 41 Minxy Moo


    Hi girls,

    Hope your all keeping well :). When I was in Aus I picked up a Belly Belt pack, so I can keep wearing my normal jeans. They come in three different sizes and act like an extension for the waistline. I'm finding them to be really good :). Kinda hard to explain so here's a link to an Irish based website that sells them.

    http://www.littleangels.ie/maternity-/15-belly-belt-combo-kit.html

    Same idea as the belly band I guess :).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,065 ✭✭✭Kash


    I hope you're not waiting as long as I am!!

    I ordered 160 euros worth of maternity stuff from mothercare online on the 17th of January - and I still have nothing!!!!

    Their international delivery FAQ says 7 working days, but in the small print, it says it can take 30 days if it is sent by airmail. I chose standard delivery, not airmail, and they charged me 16 euro for the privelage. But, it's gone by airmail, and I have nothing to show for it. Their customer service never, ever answer an email, and their phone staff (although very nice) are completely unable to help.

    I was basically told to call them back after the 30 days are up so that they can look into a refund. And despite it saying on the website that I can get a tracking number - they don't have one.

    The annoying thing was, I ordered it all a good 2 weeks before I had to go on a work trip, and was relying on them for that. Instead, I was dossing around in badly fitting clothes that made me both self conscious and uncomfortable. Cue a minor hissy fit on the phone with the last girl i spoke to demanding to know why they would upset a pregnant lady!! :o

    tl:dr If you're using mothercare, shop in store!


  • Registered Users Posts: 307 ✭✭Saurelin


    Mink where are your classes?
    I hope I will get green light from my doc finally to do something else then walks and bed ;-)
    Kash mmm pizza.
    I wake up today with completely blocked nose! I had that.

    One of my friends asked me for baby shower – she is willing to do it for me. Are you planning to have baby shower as well?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    My classes will be in Maynooth. If you're doing them make sure they are classes specifically for pregnant women.

    If you've been put on bed rest by your doc or are generally getting over an illness, I wouldn't start doing an excercise routine. Clear it with your doc but I'm sure they'll be fine with it. Preg yoga is highly recommended in the Rotunda and they have classes in there too.

    I don't know of anyone doing baby showers over here. It's a very American thing to do which hasn't seemed to travel over here. I can gather what's supposed to happen at them from watching 16 & Pregnant. They are really about helping out the new parents by everyone bringing them things they need for the new baby. If someone wanted to throw one for me I'd be happy about it but I don't think it would cross the minds of anyone I know.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 307 ✭✭Saurelin


    Thanks Mink,

    I was doing baby shower for my friend 2 years ago (she is single mum and we wanted to cheer her up a little bit). It was great crack :)
    I was surprised that one of our mutual friends asked me can she arrange this for me.
    I'm happy and I hope it will be great fun :)

    I'm going to hospital for meeting with consultant next week - I hope they will clear me for some exercises :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    i can get on board with pizza for breakfast!
    stayed in my mams last night and had a carbon monoxide alarm scare al 4am ! knackered now, had to postpone my gender scan till Monday night cause oh has work, never thought i.d wish for Monday in my life!
    think the baby is playing wii sports in there


  • Registered Users Posts: 173 ✭✭mamaheidi


    Hi ladies,

    Just venting - went to my combined care GP appointment this morning & she was horrified that I haven't had a scan of my cervix to see how long/ strong it is. After nearly 3 years of smear tests which started at aged 20 as a random test to understand why I had irregular periods I ended up having 2 colposcopies and 2 Lletz procedures over the following years. At my first hospital appointment the consultant was in and out in 30 seconds. Literally. And left the room moaning about how medical students use too much tissue paper to wipe the gel from the patients' bellies. Anyway. I didn't get a chance to say it to him but I mentioned it to the midwife who said 'ah yea that'll be grand' and nothing more. All the while my GP letter was in the file and he didn't mention it - even though he flicked through it. The GP told me today that I need to insist that they do this scan as I'm 50% more likely to give birth early and to have an underweight baby unless I get a stitch in my cervix which is taken out just before my due date. This scares the life out of me. So I called the hospital, got transferred to about 9 different people before I got an appointment for Monday morning with the same consultant I saw the first day. Then I was told that if I needed a stitch they only do it at 12 weeks and not after that - I didn't even have my first hospital appointment at that stage!

    I'm so upset about it - they just don't care. My Oh is away and I just feel so worried! I have had such a trouble-free pregnancy so far and I really felt for those of you who have had bleeding, morning sickness etc. and I'm just so worried that I've got off so lightly so far that something bad is going to happen :(


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    *Hugs Mama*

    Please don't be worrying about bad things sweetie, I'm sure everything will be fine.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭silly


    mamaheidi wrote: »
    Hi ladies,

    Just venting - went to my combined care GP appointment this morning & she was horrified that I haven't had a scan of my cervix to see how long/ strong it is. After nearly 3 years of smear tests which started at aged 20 as a random test to understand why I had irregular periods I ended up having 2 colposcopies and 2 Lletz procedures over the following years. At my first hospital appointment the consultant was in and out in 30 seconds. Literally. And left the room moaning about how medical students use too much tissue paper to wipe the gel from the patients' bellies. Anyway. I didn't get a chance to say it to him but I mentioned it to the midwife who said 'ah yea that'll be grand' and nothing more. All the while my GP letter was in the file and he didn't mention it - even though he flicked through it. The GP told me today that I need to insist that they do this scan as I'm 50% more likely to give birth early and to have an underweight baby unless I get a stitch in my cervix which is taken out just before my due date. This scares the life out of me. So I called the hospital, got transferred to about 9 different people before I got an appointment for Monday morning with the same consultant I saw the first day. Then I was told that if I needed a stitch they only do it at 12 weeks and not after that - I didn't even have my first hospital appointment at that stage!

    I'm so upset about it - they just don't care. My Oh is away and I just feel so worried! I have had such a trouble-free pregnancy so far and I really felt for those of you who have had bleeding, morning sickness etc. and I'm just so worried that I've got off so lightly so far that something bad is going to happen :(
    That is absolutely disgraceful behaviour from a hospital! I cannot believe the unprofessionalism from some "qualified" medical staff. Hopefully all goes well with the scan on Monday. I'm actually furious for you, and I wouldn't let anyone get off lightly with this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    I think with doctors and midwives you need to sometimes shout to be heard. I have an uncontrolled underactive thyroid. I've known for years that when I got pregnant I would need to be monitered more closely: firstly because I'd have an increased risk of miscarraige and secondly because the antibodies in my blood can affect baby. They can have a goitre when they're born which can affect breathing. They can go into shock when they are born if they're not producing thyroxine.

    I went into an appt on Tuesday where they hadn't the letter my GP had sent. They hadn't my blood test results. They found all of them after, but only because I can rattle off my blood test results, and because I insisted I had seen the letter when I had been admitted previously: I knew it was in my file.

    I asked would I be monitered more closely towards the end of my pregnancy and got a blank look and was asked why.

    Sorry I know that's really long: but basically I now have extra appointments etc: but only because I spoke up and alot. Both me and my husband were upset leaving appt too: and that's no way to be treated in hospital. Especially when it comes to a little baby who has no voice of their own: you're trying to advocate for them far more than you'd ever advocate for yourself!

    If you can get a copy of the letter your doc sent consultant it might help. Hand it to them and don't let them walk away untill they have a plan of action for you. I know how difficult that is don't get me wrong.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 173 ✭✭mamaheidi


    Thanks ladies. I am furious. I asked to go with the midwives clinic but I knew that I had to be a low risk pregnancy to do so - that's why I stressed it so much with the midwife but she didn't pass any remarks. Maybe because I'm low risk in other ways as in I'm young, not obese and have no underlying medical conditions. I'm annoyed though because I trusted that she would know if something needed to be checked first. And how did the consultant miss it if he read my notes & then left the room - I even waited a few minutes for him to return until somebody came and told me I could go! I'll definitely be standing up for myself on Monday... just wish OH was here too. Angry mamaheidi will be out in force ;)


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    mamaheidi wrote: »
    Thanks ladies. I am furious. I asked to go with the midwives clinic but I knew that I had to be a low risk pregnancy to do so - that's why I stressed it so much with the midwife but she didn't pass any remarks. Maybe because I'm low risk in other ways as in I'm young, not obese and have no underlying medical conditions. I'm annoyed though because I trusted that she would know if something needed to be checked first. And how did the consultant miss it if he read my notes & then left the room - I even waited a few minutes for him to return until somebody came and told me I could go! I'll definitely be standing up for myself on Monday... just wish OH was here too. Angry mamaheidi will be out in force ;)


    That's so frustrating. They just don't care enough about patients anymore. We're just on a conveyor belt to them.
    They don't read the notes properly, they ask questions but don't really wait to hear the answer. It's disgraceful.

    Hopefully everything will be ok and you'll find a solution to the problem on Monday.

    I agree with Cyning, see if the your GP will give you a copy of the letter he sent the hospital. I'd photocopy it a few times, so if they take it from you next monday and don't give it back you will still have a copy at home for yourself.

    Do you have anyone at all to go with you for a bit of support next week? Mum/Sis/in-laws/close friend? I know it won't be the same as having your partner with you, but its better than having to go alone.

    As hard as it is, I'd maybe try and take a few notes when your with the doc or write down as much as you can remember when you come out. Be helpful when your trying to fill your OH in on what happened at the appointment.
    Really hope everything works out ok for you x


  • Registered Users Posts: 307 ✭✭Saurelin


    Mamaheidi your hospital is horrible!

    Fingers crossed for Monday. I hope you will be ok.

    I'm happy with Coombe, midwifes there were great during each visit I had. On the other hand I knew before pregnancy that I'm on high risk of kidney infection, diabetes (my mum is) and heart problems (my dad died when I was 18 due to heart failure) and I demanded from everyone proper attitude & care.

    I get upset just few seconds ago. I was talking to my boss last week - I told him I'm going for private appointment to gynaecologist on Saturday, but I will be on sick leave until end of February for sure (my tests results are still bad and antibiotics didn't helped much with kidney infection). I know it is not ideal situation but I asked him few times to get temporary PA for my position - on week to week basic. He is pressing me to speed up return to work while doc don't let me to leave home and said it is likely I will have to spend another few weeks in bed (he is afraid of kidney failure). I know it is hard on him but I need to be careful.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭kildareash


    Saurelin wrote: »
    I get upset just few seconds ago. I was talking to my boss last week - I told him I'm going for private appointment to gynaecologist on Saturday, but I will be on sick leave until end of February for sure (my tests results are still bad and antibiotics didn't helped much with kidney infection). I know it is not ideal situation but I asked him few times to get temporary PA for my position - on week to week basic. He is pressing me to speed up return to work while doc don't let me to leave home and said it is likely I will have to spend another few weeks in bed (he is afraid of kidney failure). I know it is hard on him but I need to be careful.

    Don't let him put pressure on you to come back earlier than you're ready to. Ready up on your rights and the companies responsibilities. I think it's the Health and Safety Act 1995 or something, but just browse around the citizens information site and you'll find everything you need to know.

    He shouldn't want to see you near the place until your doctor signs off that you are fit for work.
    You can't think about going back to work, unless the doc assesses you as fit for work.

    I bet even just a mention of health and safety or employment laws and your boss will back off completely, because he knows he's completely in the wrong!

    Delighted that you're being well looked after in the hospital.

    Bit of an odd day in work...our deadlines are changing, which will be a pain for a while, but we'll get used to it. But my boss told me that they will be getting cover for me. It was wierd to hear that. Even tho, it's great for my colleagues, but I was like I hope they're not better at my job than I am! It's strange hearing you're going to be replaced! Didn't think i'd feel like that.


  • Registered Users Posts: 307 ✭✭Saurelin


    Kildareash thanks,
    I told him I know my rights and I will feel it is necessary I will contact appropriate government agencies or my lawyer.

    Don't worry about your job - after maternity leave they will have to take you back :)

    Regarding maternity? When you girls are planning to start?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 173 ✭✭mamaheidi


    Saurelin, your boss sounds like a pig. If you are sick don't go to work. End of story. He needs to cop on and get over it.

    Re maternity leave - I think I'm going to take mine from mid-May to mid November. Trying to finish my PhD at the minute - should be done by the end of June but one of my teaching jobs finishes in May so I don't get paid for the summer so I want my maternity benefit to start when this ends. I'll go back to both part-time jobs in November and then start looking for something more permanent and full-time then.

    Hope you ladies are all happy to be hitting the half way mark. I'll be 20 weeks on Saturday and I can feel the baby moving a lot now- felt it from the outside for the first time yesterday, so exciting. Can't wait till OH can feel it too!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    Kildareash I'm not looking forward to getting replaced either, mainly as it's a major pain in the ar$e training someone in. I genuinely feel bad buggering off for 6 months, but hey we gotta repopulate Ireland!

    Saurelin I'll take my maternity leave two weeks before due date (unless I go earlier than that - I hope not as I want my two weeks rest before baby comes).

    Mamaheidi, I hope you are feeling better. That stitch is called a cerclage stitch. Apparently it works quite well when needed and I think it can be done at any stage (don't quote me on that, just from hearing from others :rolleyes:). When do you get back in to see the consultant?

    I've been so tired that I am not moving out of the one position the whole night until I wake up 1/2hr before my alarm to have a pee. So I'm sleeping on my left the entire night. I know you're supposed to favour your left but it can't be good for my joints to not move at all for the night.

    Tailbone is killing me when sitting in work all day
    Pregnant Womans Moan Thread a thataway
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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,260 ✭✭✭Mink


    mamaheidi wrote: »
    Hope you ladies are all happy to be hitting the half way mark. I'll be 20 weeks on Saturday and I can feel the baby moving a lot now- felt it from the outside for the first time yesterday, so exciting. Can't wait till OH can feel it too!


    I'm 3 1/2 weeks behind! I must be the most far behind here with due date of 28th July. Boo!! I just feel jealous all the time reading all your posts - just kidding :P


  • Registered Users Posts: 307 ✭✭Saurelin


    I will be 18 weeks on Sunday :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭theg81der


    mamaheidi wrote: »
    Hi ladies,

    Just venting - went to my combined care GP appointment this morning & she was horrified that I haven't had a scan of my cervix to see how long/ strong it is. After nearly 3 years of smear tests which started at aged 20 as a random test to understand why I had irregular periods I ended up having 2 colposcopies and 2 Lletz procedures over the following years. At my first hospital appointment the consultant was in and out in 30 seconds. Literally. And left the room moaning about how medical students use too much tissue paper to wipe the gel from the patients' bellies. Anyway. I didn't get a chance to say it to him but I mentioned it to the midwife who said 'ah yea that'll be grand' and nothing more. All the while my GP letter was in the file and he didn't mention it - even though he flicked through it. The GP told me today that I need to insist that they do this scan as I'm 50% more likely to give birth early and to have an underweight baby unless I get a stitch in my cervix which is taken out just before my due date. This scares the life out of me. So I called the hospital, got transferred to about 9 different people before I got an appointment for Monday morning with the same consultant I saw the first day. Then I was told that if I needed a stitch they only do it at 12 weeks and not after that - I didn't even have my first hospital appointment at that stage!

    I'm so upset about it - they just don't care. My Oh is away and I just feel so worried! I have had such a trouble-free pregnancy so far and I really felt for those of you who have had bleeding, morning sickness etc. and I'm just so worried that I've got off so lightly so far that something bad is going to happen :(

    No thats wrong I had 3 lletz and I am under a high risk consultant and she said 18 weeks. The original appointment I had been told 12 weeks but she corrected them and told them the were mistaken. So either drogheda`s most qualified consulted is wrong or your misinformed and need to get in and fight your case!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,237 ✭✭✭javagal


    Let's do a little due date table??
    notsobusy-2nd July
    Mamaheidi-8th July?
    Cyning-8th July
    Javagal-9th July
    Kiwi2011-12th July
    Saurelin- 22nd July
    theg81der- 31st July
    Mink-
    Silly-
    Kash-
    KildareAsh-

    Sorry If I left anyone out.. Will ya's all fill in??

    There's enough of us isn't there!!
    We could make a babies of July 2012 football team


  • Registered Users Posts: 307 ✭✭Saurelin


    Javagal I'm due on 22nd of July :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭theg81der


    javagal wrote: »
    Let's do a little due date table??

    Mamaheidi-8th July?
    Javagal-9th July
    Cyning-10th July??
    Mink-
    Silly-
    notsobusy-
    theg81der- 31/7/2012 lol
    Kash-
    KildareAsh-
    Saurelin-
    Sorry If I left anyone out.. Will ya's all fill in??

    There's enough of us isn't there!!
    We could make a babies of July 2012 football team

    Safely say I`m last!


  • Registered Users Posts: 45 Kiwi2011


    javagal wrote: »
    Let's do a little due date table??

    Mamaheidi-8th July?
    Javagal-9th July
    Cyning-10th July??
    Mink-
    Silly-
    notsobusy-
    theg81der-
    Kash-
    KildareAsh-
    Saurelin-
    Sorry If I left anyone out.. Will ya's all fill in??

    There's enough of us isn't there!!
    We could make a babies of July 2012 football team

    Hi everyone - Just wrote a post and my computer just had a fit and now its gone!!! My due date according to me is 12th July (hospital says 22 july based on scan from 8 weeks but they have to be wrong!)


  • Registered Users Posts: 173 ✭✭mamaheidi


    theg81der, hmmm sounds like I've been misinformed. Hopefully on Monday the consultant will clear it all up. I'm hoping I won't need the stitch but if I do I hope it's not too late to do it!

    You had 3 lletz? Ouch. Poor you, they're awful. Have you had a stitch in or are getting one? Have you been told to avoid exercise or anything strenuous? Hope you're well anyway!


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