The Brooding Corner

Crumble Froo · 09-04-2009 10:56am

exact same with me. no fights, no fall outs. just distance.

if twas me, i'd keep texting her, let her know you're still there and thinking of her. she'll come round

CO19 · 09-04-2009 11:08am

Crumble Froo wrote: »

exact same with me. no fights, no fall outs. just distance.

if twas me, i'd keep texting her, let her know you're still there and thinking of her. she'll come round

Yea I hope so cause I feel unbelievably sh*t couldn't even sleep last night it was bothering me so much,thought by this morning I'd feel better but don't really

just don't wanna look like a twat for texting her if she ain't replying to me.
Been hearing alot of this song from Nickelback http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDhVj_v2Vog so going to apply what is said in it and hopefully it'll pay off....hopefully !

Crumble Froo · 09-04-2009 11:16am

hopefully. and don't worry baout seeming like a prat. ive always felt nickelback took more slack than they really deserved. oddly, was listening to silver side up today for the first time since...

well last time i listened to it, it was on tape.

RxQueen · 09-04-2009 1:08pm

tbh i would just leave her be for a while, obv theres some issue that is preventing her from textin you

i think theres nothing worse than being bombarded with texts etc etc..

thats just me tho, but if she feel like me, then it would only cause her to back off more, leave it a while

anonymous_joe · 09-04-2009 1:31pm

Emo might be right.

Sometimes people get all weirded out for no reason and stop liking you for the slightest of things.

Those are the kind of people who can get annoyed by you texting/ringing. It might not make sense to you, but it's a real factor. :pac:

Crumble Froo · 09-04-2009 1:36pm

i've never really counted those people as the ones im close friends with/want to stay close friends with.

but meh, shutting up now, ive given my views and prior experience on this one already.

anonymous_joe · 09-04-2009 2:21pm

Crumble Froo wrote: »

i've never really counted those people as the ones im close friends with/want to stay close friends with.

but meh, shutting up now, ive given my views and prior experience on this one already.

Well Froo you're not wrong and Emo's not either.

If I was CO19, I'd send a text or something, or ring, maybe once a month or something?

RxQueen · 09-04-2009 3:04pm

not saying your wrong Froo

but he said he is doing what you said and there is still no contact.

2 types of people,
1) people who dont mind being contacted the whole time
2) people who do mind being contacted or bombarded withtext etc

id back right off if someone did that to me, but thats just me:)

It clear she wants some space just give it to her

CO19 · 09-04-2009 3:53pm

emo!! wrote: »

not saying your wrong Froo

but he said he is doing what you said and there is still no contact.

2 types of people,
1) people who dont mind being contacted the whole time
2) people who do mind being contacted or bombarded withtext etc

id back right off if someone did that to me, but thats just me:)

It clear she wants some space just give it to her

Been almost 2 months since we talked so she's certainly getting space

anyway its just been gettin me down for some reason over the last few days is all.

Crumble Froo · 09-04-2009 3:55pm

... so nothing to lose, right?

*shuts up*

CO19 · 09-04-2009 3:58pm

Crumble Froo wrote: »

... so nothing to lose, right?

*shuts up*

Aww no don't do that !!

cHaTbOx · 09-04-2009 4:06pm

CO19 wrote: »

Been almost 2 months since we talked so she's certainly getting space anyway its just been gettin me down for some reason over the last few days is all.

We all have ups and downs , it's natural .

Think of the signals ,there is something up it's been two months .

I would personally move on , if someone stopped talking to me and I done nothing wrong and I can see they are plainly avoiding me , well it is there loss if I haven't done anything wrong.

If you are going to text at all , text " Hi , how are you ?" no more , no less. If you don't get a reply MOVE ON .

gl

Crumble Froo · 09-04-2009 4:12pm

CO19 wrote: »

Aww no don't do that !!

anything i say after that is just repeating myself.

*drunken ramble*

CO19 · 09-04-2009 4:35pm

Crumble Froo wrote: »

if it takes a ridiculous amount of effort to make sure i keep them, then so be it. i'd rather that, than lose them altogether.

Exactly

if it takes that long I'll do it cause I don't want to loose her she means too much to me !

star-pants · 09-04-2009 8:07pm

losing friends is ghey

Ever want to go asleep and wake up in a few months?

feylya · 09-04-2009 8:42pm

All the time.

Handsome Bob · 09-04-2009 8:42pm

star-pants wrote: »

losing friends is ghey

Ever want to go asleep and wake up in a few months?

Sometimes I'd like to go to sleep and just fall into my own little world without ever waking up. I used to feel like that a lot, but not so much lately.:)

star-pants · 09-04-2009 9:16pm

Booourns to crap I say.

grames_bond · 09-04-2009 9:20pm

star-pants wrote: »

Booourns to crap I say.

i agree, crap is crap!!

star-pants · 10-04-2009 7:12pm

Grrrr Arrrggh and other such phrases

RxQueen · 10-04-2009 7:20pm

awww *hugs* for SP

star-pants · 10-04-2009 7:45pm

emo!! wrote: »

awww *hugs* for SP

Thanks - i'm sorry i really shouldn't be complaining. Just makes me seem self centred or a drama queen when I don't mean it that way.

KnifeWRENCH · 10-04-2009 7:56pm

Falling out with friends is ghey. I have some I haven't spoken to in months. Didn't really fall out with them, we just sort of stopped talking to each other.

I also wish I was more friendly with people on my course, but can't seem to get past just saying "how's it going?". I'd really like to get to know more people better but I'm just really bad at that.
The gheyest thing is that my four best friends are two couples, and being with them when I have no-one makes me feel like **** a lot of the time.

Enough about me though, hope you feel better SP. Oh and I think everyone has had a time in their lives where they want to fall asleep and not wake up. Happens to me every second week or so.

RxQueen · 10-04-2009 8:05pm

star-pants wrote: »

Thanks - i'm sorry i really shouldn't be complaining. Just makes me seem self centred or a drama queen when I don't mean it that way.

aww you dont come across like that at all *hugs* .. what your going through is hard*hugs* and i know it sounds like cliche ,but time is a great healer:)

*hugs*

square_igloo wrote: »

Falling out with friends is ghey. I have some I haven't spoken to in months. Didn't really fall out with them, we just sort of stopped talking to each other.

I also wish I was more friendly with people on my course, but can't seem to get past just saying "how's it going?". I'd really like to get to know more people better but I'm just really bad at that.
The gheyest thing is that my four best friends are two couples, and being with them when I have no-one makes me feel like **** a lot of the time.

Enough about me though, hope you feel better SP. Oh and I think everyone has had a time in their lives where they want to fall asleep and not wake up. Happens to me every second week or so.

people tend to move on or drift apart it sucks

it is gay about your four best friends. i kinda went through the same thing, maybe tell them how you feel.cause thing is they prolly dont notice

and small steps at getting to know people, start with a smile and a hi

*hugs*

KnifeWRENCH · 10-04-2009 8:11pm

emo!! wrote: »

people tend to move on or drift apart it sucks

it is gay about your four best friends. i kinda went through the same thing, maybe tell them how you feel.cause thing is they prolly dont notice

and small steps at getting to know people, start with a smile and a hi

*hugs*

Thanks for that.

In fairness to my friends, they don't act overly coupley when they're around me. Even if they did, I wouldn't want them to feel like they can't be themselves just because I'm around. I'm the one with the problem, not them.

As for getting to know people, I can do the smile and the hi, it's the next step I can't seem to master. All the friends I have now are people who have made the effort to get to know me, as opposed to me making the effort to know them. Either I'm just too shy or I'm just an unfriendly bastard! :pac:

entropi · 10-04-2009 9:40pm

square_igloo wrote: »

Falling out with friends is ghey. I have some I haven't spoken to in months. Didn't really fall out with them, we just sort of stopped talking to each other

think thats bad? Most of my old friends i Havent seen in up to 8 years, we were a large group that stuck together then started to drift apart, as most moved out of the area and i'm the only one left:P doesnt matter now as i've made some new friends over the years:) My little rant for today involves me playing a hurling match this evening, and busting 2 knuckles on one finger...grrrr it sucks, especially as its my good hand too:mad:i can barely tie my laces now

rainbow kirby · 10-04-2009 11:31pm

Sounds silly, but I ended up getting into a huge row with my mum this morning... over religion. *sigh*

cHaTbOx · 10-04-2009 11:40pm

rainbow kirby wrote: »

Sounds silly, but I ended up getting into a huge row with my mum this morning... over religion. *sigh*

It's worth it over bacon:D

/turns on serious mode

Look we all have fights over stupid things . Don't beat yourself up about it , it will be forgotten tomorrow .

Handsome Bob · 10-04-2009 11:41pm

rainbow kirby wrote: »

Sounds silly, but I ended up getting into a huge row with my mum this morning... over religion. *sigh*

Same here, my Mum got upset because I declined the offer of going to the Stations this morning. I think she's only beginning to realise that I don't have faith anymore. What makes it especially hard for her is that I always had strong faith, and I was the one child of hers that shared her religious convictions. I feel really ****ty right now.

rainbow kirby · 10-04-2009 11:47pm

LZ5by5 wrote: »

Same here, my Mum got upset because I declined the offer of going to the Stations this morning. I think she's only beginning to realise that I don't have faith anymore. What makes it especially hard for her is that I always had strong faith, and I was the one child of hers that shared her religious convictions. I feel really ****ty right now.

My mum's known for about 12-13 years that I'm an atheist. She's never said much of anything about my lack of beliefs before, but she started freaking out when I went to make a cheese and ham toasted sandwich for my lunch. The usual "You shouldn't be eating that, it's Good Friday" ****e. Of course, I answered her back, she's now giving me the silent treatment and I can practically guarantee that she's going to try for a Serious Chat tomorrow, that's very much her style.

*sigh* Parents...

KnifeWRENCH · 10-04-2009 11:52pm

Ah don't worry rainbow kirby - Jesus is coming back Sunday and your mam will be so happy that she'll forget she's mad at you!

My Granny used always ask me constantly if I went to Mass and if I was saying prayers. Since she's been living with us for the last 6 months I think I went to mass once (Christmas Day) and surprisingly she hasn't said anything to me about it.

I'm sure she gives out about me to my parents though! :pac:

RxQueen · 11-04-2009 9:29am

my mam made ham pizza last night

but seriously we all have those row with the auld mother, the serous chat , just listen through it, and it will be all forgotten within an hour of that..

Handsome Bob · 11-04-2009 9:41am

rainbow kirby wrote: »

My mum's known for about 12-13 years that I'm an atheist. She's never said much of anything about my lack of beliefs before, but she started freaking out when I went to make a cheese and ham toasted sandwich for my lunch. The usual "You shouldn't be eating that, it's Good Friday" ****e. Of course, I answered her back, she's now giving me the silent treatment and I can practically guarantee that she's going to try for a Serious Chat tomorrow, that's very much her style.

*sigh* Parents...

Indeed, I guess we have to take the good with the bad when we are living under their roof.

entropi · 11-04-2009 1:07pm

Its true, we HAVE all had that argument at least once. Especially when i laugh hard at the religious jokes in south park, or at jesus on family guy, my mam always saying "oh thats terrible"...then manages to let out a giggle:D Sure my family keep asking me if i want burgers or even chipper food, and i've been veggie about a year and a half now:P

Sucks having to remind them.

feylya · 11-04-2009 2:30pm

I went to a nightclub last night. I remember why I don't go to niteclubs :mad:

RxQueen · 11-04-2009 2:58pm

Oh do tell

feylya · 11-04-2009 2:59pm

RxQueen · 11-04-2009 3:04pm

:rolleyes:

feylya · 11-04-2009 3:07pm

You really gotta get that eye rolling thing seen to. Can't be healthy for ya!

Must admit though, South Dublin niteclubs have some absolutely cracking women in them! Lots of clones though.

anonymous_joe · 12-04-2009 4:22am

You come home, and like, only person online's the only person you can't talk to. And like, you're just wondering what the funk the deal is. Why they so weird bout everything.

And yay, beer. Makes everything not matter. Like silly sentences that make no sense. :pac:

Galvasean · 12-04-2009 4:35am

anonymous_joe wrote: »

You come home, and like, only person online's the only person you can't talk to. And like, you're just wondering what the funk the deal is. Why they so weird bout everything.

Im not taht bad am i?

anonymous_joe · 12-04-2009 4:36am

There;s now three people on msn. The point remains the same.

Eveni if it's so nbadly articulated it doens;t make sense.

star-pants · 12-04-2009 10:40am

I do sort of understand joe. When there''s only one person you want to talk to , but they're the one person you can't. Tis ghey.

anonymous_joe · 12-04-2009 11:23am

In the grim light of the morn, you really do wonder why people fall out over the slightest of things. Waste of a good friendship.

But ah well, such is life. No point letting it get you down.

star-pants · 12-04-2009 11:43am

This is true, sometimes friendships fall out over silly things. When one or both sides won't compromise. Their loss though hun.
Also ghey when relationships fall out over small things too.

anonymous_joe · 12-04-2009 11:49am

Just a bit. ><

star-pants · 12-04-2009 11:50am

Aye BOOOUURNNS to sadness I say. BOOOOOOOOURNS.

Happy Easter btw

anonymous_joe · 12-04-2009 12:09pm

star-pants wrote: »

Aye BOOOUURNNS to sadness I say. BOOOOOOOOURNS.

Happy Easter btw

Yeah, sadness is lame. Happy Easter to all.

rainbow kirby · 12-04-2009 1:06pm

Happy Spring Chocolate Festival to all

Whine for today: I got up 2 hours too late for a rasher sandwich. Now there are no rashers left at home.

Miss_lady · 12-04-2009 8:20pm

my little rant ladies and gents is how head wrecking not knowing where you stand with certain ppl can be.... UGH! why cant everything just be clear and open and not all screwed up by mystery????

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