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Brian Shanahan wrote: »Regular periods is actually a fairly recent phenomenon. For most of history women have tended to be pregnant too often to attain monthly periods (except for possibly soon after becoming teens). And you've also got to factor in that stress factors can often disrupt the reproductive cycle, so working as a homocide cop could cause havoc with it.
The first point is irrelevant, Laure isn't meant to be living in a time when women were constantly pregnant, is she?
The second one too, really. I'm saying that if she hadn't had her period for three months, when she found blood she would just assume she'd started her period. IMO anyway, that is what most (modern) women would assume.
So why did she race off to A&E? But it's a minor gripe really. It just seems a little bit of stretching reality to make a good storyline that's all.0 -
That's unfortunately a common experience. And the law here doesn't care about a woman's health when she's pregnant, only her life. Unless your life is under threat, you just have to put up with it. There's zero balance of rights if its 'only' your health that is under risk.
It's hard to imagine how prioritising a womans health over a childs life would be more balanced?That's exactly the sort of thing that needs to be brought to people's attention, 2ndrowgirl. In the UK, the woman is the patient, and has the final say in her health care. In Ireland, the fact is that we know that isn't the case.I think many people just presume (hope?) there's no difference in how they'll be treated in Ireland compared to other countries until they find themselves on the wrong end of the legal situation.I remember reading about Praveen Halapannavar, who said that of course they knew there was no abortion in Ireland - but that they had never thought that could apply to them, because they believed it was about women who didn't want a baby, rather than women whose health was affected by a pregnancy.But of course when it happens it's too late for the woman concerned.It may make it less likely that doctors will just presume they are entitled to ignore the woman as though she were too stupid to know what is being done to her.0 -
Actually, just out of interest and given my post above, I wonder can any of you ..em..."pro-life" fellas imagine what it must be like as a girl growing up knowing this, and going on to have children in our country? Of course, the answer is that you can't, but if you're not kidding yourselves beyond the realms of possibility then you must be able to imagine the fear and the disgust at the potential choices the realms of the state will take over you. There are girls growing up now who will become mothers one day. They will look back and remember that the possibility remains that their dead bodies could be desecrated for their baby in this country. Think on that.
You'll probably meet more resistance to the idea that an unborn babys life shouldn't be prioritised over a womans health; that would certainly be a sticking point for many "pro-life fellas" I'd imagine.
And you might get some argument over an unborn babys life being prioritised over a womans life, since no one seems to be arguing this should be the case, and only the "pro-choice fellas" are arguing that it is the case; neither the Constitution nor the legislation supports the position.
As for dead bodies being 'desecrated for their baby', I may be on my own here (though I strongly suspect I'm not) but I'd desecrate away if there was a chance of saving an innocent life. If someone is prepared to put the life of a child before the health of a woman, why wouldn't they put it before the dignity of a corpse?So let's break this down a bit into how it relates to 2015. Secondrowgal, you have a fairly typical example of a woman who asked for an early delivery (thinking of the best case scenario for herself and her baby combined presumably, since she is an adult woman knowing her own mind and wanting a safe delivery for her child) because she could not start pain treatment otherwise.At what point does the mother get to choose - "I can't take this pain any more, even at the expense of the baby"?. We don't get that choice. Doctors are bound by the constitutional imperative to protect the unborn's life, but to what extent? In this country "As far as is practicable" is to the extent that severe painkilling/cancer treating drugs be not given to the mother.At what point does the mother get to choose to start cancer treating drugs at the expense of the baby? At no point. To my knowledge.Please, oh please correct me if I'm wrong. This is, after all, what our daughters are growing up knowing.0 -
It's hard to imagine how prioritising a womans health over a childs life would be more balanced?How many do you think? Personally I'm always reticent about presuming what kind of health care I'll receive in another country; I prefer to avoid countries where I'm not assured of receiving the care I will need.0
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It was torture, pure and simple. This lady was in such extreme pain that she didn't sleep properly for nearly three weeks. She would nod off for an hour, and then turn slightly resulting in the return of excruciating pain, waking her up. The "baby" was 34 weeks when this all started. More than safe to deliver at that stage.
Her screams could be heard throughout the hospital!
If I were her mother, I would have bundled her into a car and up to Newry pronto.0 -
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rainbow kirby wrote: »It should be a decision made between a woman and her doctor as to whether to choose to take chances with the woman's health.rainbow kirby wrote: »It shouldn't be the law - a blunt instrument doesn't get the nuances of this in actual practice. Far too many women are left with serious health complications after the birth of their children because of the Irish attitude of "it's all about the baby, f*ck your health".rainbow kirby wrote: »A very good reason to try and stay over here if I became pregnant tbh - I would not be certain of receiving all necessary medical care if I was in Ireland and something happened, thanks to the 8th amendment.0
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secondrowgal wrote: »It was torture, pure and simple. This lady was in such extreme pain that she didn't sleep properly for nearly three weeks. She would nod off for an hour, and then turn slightly resulting in the return of excruciating pain, waking her up. The "baby" was 34 weeks when this all started. More than safe to deliver at that stage. Her screams could be heard throughout the hospital! If I were her mother, I would have bundled her into a car and up to Newry pronto.
I don't imagine the medical staff were likely to want to torture someone, do you?
And if they thought (and we've no real reason to imagine they did) that it was all about the baby, and the woman was simply 'just another incubator situation' wouldn't they still want to ensure the baby it was 'all about' was as comfortable as possible, and not being subjected to the trauma of it's mother pain?
I suspect that there may be a bit more to the story than what you gleaned from a conversation with a lady whose daughter gave birth quite recently and couldn't be given x, y or z drugs because of the "baby". Like... even what x, y or z drugs are.0 -
I don't know; obviously I wasn't there, I haven't reviewed the evidence, and I'm not a doctor, so I couldn't say whether it was more than safe to deliver the baby, or if it was torture, or if there was appropriate medication she could have safely been given. I think to express an opinion on any of that one would need to know a great deal more than you or I do.
I don't imagine the medical staff were likely to want to torture someone, do you?
And if they thought (and we've no real reason to imagine they did) that it was all about the baby, and the woman was simply 'just another incubator situation' wouldn't they still want to ensure the baby it was 'all about' was as comfortable as possible, and not being subjected to the trauma of it's mother pain?
I suspect that there may be a bit more to the story than what you gleaned from a conversation with a lady whose daughter gave birth quite recently and couldn't be given x, y or z drugs because of the "baby". Like... even what x, y or z drugs are.
You're right, you weren't there. Yet you've still managed to twist this your own agenda with a load of "don't imagines" and "suspect" and other meaningless and unback-upable whataboutery.
You really should be on the stage.
There's plenty more to the story, which I can't go into, and which I said in my first post, and which, as per unerringly usual, you have ignored.
You have no idea of my medical qualifications.
I NEVER said that the medical staff wanted to torture her., and am highly insulted that you would insinuate same.
I DO know what the drugs were and what they are is irrelevant because they couldn't alleviate her pain.
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secondrowgal wrote: »You're right, you weren't there. Yet you've still managed to twist this your own agenda with a load of "don't imagines" and "suspect" and other meaningless and unback-upable whataboutery.secondrowgal wrote: »You really should be on the stage.secondrowgal wrote: »There's plenty more to the story, which I can't go into, and which I said in my first post, and which, as per unerringly usual, you have ignored.
1) You had a conversation with a lady whose daughter gave birth quite recently.
2) You give the impression that the mother said the daughter said that she was in the most horrendous pain for 6 weeks - couldn't sit down, couldn't lie down, couldn't sleep, could barely eat, couldn't be given x, y or z drugs because of the "baby".
3) You give the impression that the mother said the daughter said that she couldn't be delivered early because of the "baby", and so much more that you couldn't go into here.
4) You say that the woman you spoke to is is seriously considering making a complaint to the hospital but said that she knows from talking to the doctors that it was all about the needs of the "baby" not the mother.
5) You say that it happened in a hospital that should be more circumspect based on recent history.
6) You say that it was just another incubator situation.
Have I omitted anything salient? It doesn't seem you've said 'plenty more'?secondrowgal wrote: »You have no idea of my medical qualifications.secondrowgal wrote: »I NEVER said that the medical staff wanted to torture her., and am highly insulted that you would insinuate same.secondrowgal wrote: »I DO know what the drugs were and what they are is irrelevant because they couldn't alleviate her pain.secondrowgal wrote: »I actually feel sorry for you.0 -
On RTE's 3 PM news. The N.I. Human Rights Commission is taking a court case in the High Court, Belfast, today about the restrictive abortion law there. The gist of the case mentioned in the article below is this: A case brought by the Northern Ireland Human Rights Commission will be heard as the group argue that terminations should made possible for women who conceive as a result of rape or incest, or where there is “serious malformation of the foetus”. Regardless of whether the legal challenge is successful, merely having the case considered by the court is a huge success for many in the local pro-choice movement. It will be the first major challenge to the status quo in living memory, a once unimaginable point.
https://www.google.ie/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0CCMQqQIwAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.newstatesman.com%2Fpolitics%2F2015%2F02%2Fhave-we-reached-tipping-point-abortion-rights-northern-ireland&ei=v5bPVPXSKe3Y7AaejoCQBw&usg=AFQjCNEnt3Vl9rouJ-tEl3gJ9KXmVBG4qw0 -
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Sinn Féin abortion policy compatible with my Catholicism says Martin McGuinness
I feel like I've come 40 years too late to the game here, but Martin McGuinness is a practising catholic?
http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-northern-ireland-30855440BBC wrote:Sinn Féin's support for a woman's right to an abortion in certain limited circumstances is not incompatible with Catholicism, Martin McGuinness has said. He was responding to a comment from the leader of the Catholic Church in Ireland, Archbishop Eamon Martin.
Archbishop Martin had said any Catholic politician who supported abortion would not be "in communion with the church". The deputy first minister spoke to BBC's Inside Politics on Friday. "I try and be the best Catholic I can be," Mr McGuinness said. "The Catholic Church is made up of people who have different opinions on different issues."
Mr McGuinness repeated that Sinn Féin is opposed to abortion on demand but said he had been moved by meeting Sarah Ewart, a woman from Northern Ireland who had to travel to England for an abortion because her baby had no chance of survival. He said:"I think, in the context of my responsibility as a government minister and other government ministers who have a duty to pass legislation, when we're faced with the case of Sarah Ewart, we have to deal with that in the most compassionate way possible."
Northern Ireland's Department of Justice is consulting on whether abortion should be made legal in cases of "lethal foetal abnormality" and pregnancy as a result of rape. On Thursday, Archbishop Martin met Justice Minister David Ford to discuss proposals for amendments to two aspects of Northern Ireland's abortion laws. He said the church remained against any change to the existing laws.
The deputy first minister said he disagreed with people who believed a change in the laws would lead to an "opening up of the floodgates". He said: "I totally and absolutely contradict those people. I think what we need to do is recognise our responsibilities to support women when they make the choice.
"This is not about women being forced to do anything, they should be able to make their own choice. I absolutely respect the right of people to do that."0 -
Sinn Féin abortion policy compatible with my Catholicism says Martin McGuinness
I feel like I've come 40 years too late to the game here, but Martin McGuinness is a practising catholic?
http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-northern-ireland-30855440
Anyone else slightly sickened at how he seems to have had difficulty in balancing the notion of the death of a foetus with his faith? Considering, like...0 -
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Anyone else slightly sickened at how he seems to have had difficulty in balancing the notion of the death of a foetus with his faith? Considering, like...
And what about the other side? I don't recall the church exactly falling over itself to excommunicate any members of the IRA, INLA etc.
But then again, if they didn't excommunicate any serious percentage of the Nazi's, then I suppose our home-grown terrorists aren't going to attract much attention from whoever mans the Vatican's Department of Excommunications.0 -
He knows his electorate
I'm surprised he is making theological statements though; he should leave that to the men of the cloth.
I'm just happy we're not his electorate. He'd have a hard time persuading me with this bullsh1t, plus his well known views on "West Brits". What a winning combination of knuckle dragging and insult. I hope he doesn't do the pro-choice campaign too much damage with his "support".0 -
""The Catholic Church is made up of people who have different opinions on different issues."
Er, isn't that why the Catholic have a Pope? To tell all the different people with different opinions on different issues that they are wrong.0 -
It'll be interesting to see what, and if, the state does anything to Tara... and who comes out to pillory her http://indo.ie/IoqXO0
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No doubt the travelling roadshow of women who regret their abortions and Cora Sherlock will be along shortly to tell us that there's always a better way, and it involves remaining pregant no matter what.0
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aloyisious wrote: »It'll be interesting to see what, and if, the state does anything to Tara... and who comes out to pillory her http://indo.ie/IoqXO
Irish law specifically does not interfere with right to travel, so why would anyone have anything to say about her?0 -
Its a poorly written article, but it appears to be about one of many Irish girls who had an abortion in the UK, despite not wanting or perhaps wanting to travel.
Irish law specifically does not interfere with right to travel, so why would anyone have anything to say about her?
It was poorly written alright. Or maybe she interviewed poorly. I took her to mean that she had planned to travel around the world and then got pregnant by accident. Y'know, one of those reasons for an abortion that isn't "valid".0 -
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It was poorly written alright. Or maybe she interviewed poorly. I took her to mean that she had planned to travel around the world and then got pregnant by accident. Y'know, one of those reasons for an abortion that isn't "valid".
I was surprised the indo didn't use their usual trick of having a photo of a woman nine months pregnant next to the article. I looked at some of the comments too, I should have known better0 -
Irish law specifically does not interfere with right to travel, so why would anyone have anything to say about her?
So if I take my 12 year old daughter to the Yemen to have FGM and then to be married off to a 60 year old man, everyone in Ireland will be fine with that will they?
Only I believe the bride money for white girls is a lot higher than if she were Yemeni. Might be a real earner in these times of austerity. :rolleyes:0 -
I was surprised the indo didn't use their usual trick of having a photo of a woman nine months pregnant next to the article. I looked at some of the comments too, I should have known better
I have to say the one by the (apparently) male poster who went from "I'm prochoice" to "it was better when women were coerced into (having their babies and) giving them up for adoption" in about 4 lines made me laugh out loud.0 -
So if I take my 12 year old daughter to the Yemen to have FGM and then to be married off to a 60 year old man, everyone in Ireland will be fine with that will they? Only I believe the bride money for white girls is a lot higher than if she were Yemeni. Might be a real earner in these times of austerity. :rolleyes:0
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Well that's a bit melodramatic! However, in the case of FGM, whilst you are free to travel, you may be prosecuted for removing or attempting to remove a girl or woman from the State where one of the purposes for the removal is to have an act of female genital mutilation done to her. With regard to Recidites rather more appropriate to the subject point; Tara was entitled to travel without that entitlement being interfered with by the right to life of her foetus, and Ireland does not assert extraterritorial jurisdiction for the crime of the destruction of unborn life, so there's no reason to think (per aloyisious' post) that there is any reason the state would 'do anything' to her.
If abortion really is killing a person, how could it possibly be acceptable to have a law that allows someone to remove a fetus from the State in order to kill it, but not a child in order to marry her against her will, or to perform FGM on her?
As for why you think it's melodramatic, I'm puzzled, women leave the state to kill their fetuses all the time. Since the basis of the ban in Ireland is that this is killing a person, how is that less dramatic than marriage or FGM, neither of which involve death?0 -
If abortion really is killing a person, how could it possibly be acceptable to have a law that allows someone to remove a fetus from the State in order to kill it, but not a child in order to marry her against her will, or to perform FGM on her?
As for why you think it's melodramatic, I'm puzzled, women leave the state to kill their fetuses all the time. Since the basis of the ban in Ireland is that this is killing a person, how is that less dramatic than marriage or FGM, neither of which involve death?A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer
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silverharp wrote: »Apples and oranges , the state doesn't doesn't consider a foetus to be a person. A foetus isn't given a social security number a foetus doesn't need a passport to travel. If a woman has a miscarriage the state doesn't issue a death cert. And I assume if a pregnant woman tried to commit suicide here they wouldn't be convicted of attempted murder of a foetus whereas if the same woman drove off a pier with her kids in the back she might be
I would like to agree with you, but why then can a woman be refused cancer-treatment (Michelle Harte) or other health-preserving treatment because of the fetus' (non) personhood?
In fact the whole "only to save the mother's life " business is explicitly predicated on the idea that if she dies then so too does the fetus. Not on the fact that she is a person and the fetus isn't. So even if the law hasn't given the fetus a legal identity, it insists that doctors behave as though it has.
In other words, there's no difficulty for everyone else, since only the woman has to actually pay any price for the state's "beliefs".0 -
I would like to agree with you, but why then can a woman be refused cancer-treatment (Michelle Harte) or other health-preserving treatment because of the fetus' (non) personhood?
In fact the whole "only to save the mother's life " business is explicitly predicated on the idea that if she dies then so too does the fetus. Not on the fact that she is a person and the fetus isn't. So even if the law hasn't given the fetus a legal identity, it insists that doctors behave as though it has.
In other words, there's no difficulty for everyone else, since only the woman has to actually pay any price for the state's "beliefs".A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer
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silverharp wrote: »I'm not saying the situation is logical, its religious preferences made law because of the flawed nature of democracy.
Yes,but at the time it was more of a theocracy than a democracy. That's a lot less true now, but there is still a significant level of control of schools etc, so the brainwashing still has some effect.
Like I say, abortion is a relatively easy one for the church to hang onto, because most people don't think it applies to them. Until it happens to them, or someone close to them, and then they're all horrified at how cruel and illogical the law is. Or someone dies, and it makes the headlines.0 -
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If abortion really is killing a person, how could it possibly be acceptable to have a law that allows someone to remove a fetus from the State in order to kill it, but not a child in order to marry her against her will, or to perform FGM on her?
But you know all this, since it has been discussed on the thread already. What you're really asking is why doesn't Ireland extend it's anti-abortion laws to a logically absurd degree so that they become absurd. The answer, of course, is still because that would be absurd.As for why you think it's melodramatic, I'm puzzled, women leave the state to kill their fetuses all the time. Since the basis of the ban in Ireland is that this is killing a person, how is that less dramatic than marriage or FGM, neither of which involve death?I would like to agree with you, but why then can a woman be refused cancer-treatment (Michelle Harte) or other health-preserving treatment because of the fetus' (non) personhood?
It's because the foetus has a right to life equal to that of its mother, except the mothers right has priority when it comes to a choice between the two. So whilst the foetus has a right not to be killed in order to preserve the health of its mother (per Michelle Harte), it doesn't have a right not to be killed in order to preserve the life of its mother.In fact the whole "only to save the mother's life " business is explicitly predicated on the idea that if she dies then so too does the fetus.Not on the fact that she is a person and the fetus isn't. So even if the law hasn't given the fetus a legal identity, it insists that doctors behave as though it has.In other words, there's no difficulty for everyone else, since only the woman has to actually pay any price for the state's "beliefs".0
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