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SSM Referendum Spring 2015

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    #332
    Daith
    Registered Users Posts: 4,936 ✭✭✭Daith


    RobertKK wrote: »
    I know that, but my point on why adoption law is being changed still stands.

    No it's being changed to allow gay couples to adopt jointly.

    And to stop people confusing marriage with parenthood.


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    #333
    Daith
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Generally speaking....

    A freewheeling attitude to sexual promiscuity, a lot of gay men would have little or no concept of monogamy and the figures for HIV/ AIDS amongst gays are beyond shocking-they are a disgrace with the amount of info and precautions freely available.


    Obviously I accept there are exceptions, but unless attitudes to the above change drastically amongst gays, (can't see it happening myself any day soon) I will be voting no.

    Can I make up bull**** too?


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    #334
    Muise...
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Generally speaking....

    A freewheeling attitude to sexual promiscuity, a lot of gay men would have little or no concept of monogamy and the figures for HIV/ AIDS amongst gays are beyond shocking-they are a disgrace with the amount of info and precautions freely available.


    Obviously I accept there are exceptions, but unless attitudes to the above change drastically amongst gays, (can't see it happening myself any day soon) I will be voting no.

    What in the absolute fcuk are you on about?

    Oh yeah, homophobing generally with your general homophobia...


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    #335
    floggg
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    denhaagenite wrote: »
    I hope so but sometimes I do question some of the statements he makes. I have other gay friends with different political leanings that I would agree with much more. I appreciate that Senator Norris, for example, was instrumental in the gay movement of the 70s and 80s but I would oppose most of his more recent actions. Some gay "activists" seem to want to keep a level of isolation from the rest of the population. I favour inclusion rather than broad statements made on a soapbox to garner a reaction. Rory O Neill is a performer, as is Senator Norris and they have an innate need to be heard. If they were from any other group they would be shouting about something else. I think the lines can very easily be blurred between politics and entertainment these days. Russell Brand anyone??

    Did you actually listen to Panti's speech in the Abbey?

    Can you point to anything objectionable in that?

    I don't know if you yourself are a minority but I can tell you as minority everything she said truly struck a chord - and did so world wide.

    That was no grandstanding - it's was an honest and profound account of what prejudice and discrimination feels like for a minority.

    Honestly, if you can take offence at that than it's not the words spoken that's really upsetting you, and you truly lack empathy or understanding of what it feels like to be made feel less than


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    #336
    Ghost Buster
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Generally speaking....

    A freewheeling attitude to sexual promiscuity, a lot of gay men would have little or no concept of monogamy and the figures for HIV/ AIDS amongst gays are beyond shocking-they are a disgrace with the amount of info and precautions freely available.


    Obviously I accept there are exceptions, but unless attitudes to the above change drastically amongst gays, (can't see it happening myself any day soon) I will be voting no.

    So. Because some study or other you choose to accept as truth paints all gays as promiscuous you want to prevent those who wish to formally commit to a monogamous relationship from doing so.
    Jesus wept.....


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    hoodwinked
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Generally speaking....

    A freewheeling attitude to sexual promiscuity, a lot of gay men would have little or no concept of monogamy and the figures for HIV/ AIDS amongst gays are beyond shocking-they are a disgrace with the amount of info and precautions freely available.

    i know a lot more married heterosexuals having extra marital affairs than i do homosexuals who have cheated on their partners, you are judging peoples actions which is down to their lack of commitment rather than related to their sexuality.


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    #338
    floggg
    Registered Users Posts: 5,820 ✭✭✭floggg


    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Generally speaking....

    A freewheeling attitude to sexual promiscuity, a lot of gay men would have little or no concept of monogamy and the figures for HIV/ AIDS amongst gays are beyond shocking-they are a disgrace with the amount of info and precautions freely available.


    Obviously I accept there are exceptions, but unless attitudes to the above change drastically amongst gays, (can't see it happening myself any day soon) I will be voting no.

    No, that's not generally speaking.

    That's misinformation with a heavy dose of prejudice speaking.


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    #339
    denhaagenite
    Registered Users Posts: 1,169 ✭✭✭denhaagenite


    floggg wrote: »
    Did you actually listen to Panti's speech in the Abbey?

    Can you point to anything objectionable in that?

    I don't know if you yourself are a minority but I can tell you as minority everything she said truly struck a chord - and did so world wide.

    That was no grandstanding - it's was an honest and profound account of what prejudice and discrimination feels like for a minority.

    Honestly, if you can take offence at that than it's not the words spoken that's really upsetting you, and you truly lack empathy or understanding of what it feels like to be made feel less than

    I listened to it and I had a friend who was there. She said that if she wanted to go to an anti- homophobia rally she would have gone to an anti- homophobia rally. She went to see a show, she went for a bit of fun, she didn't go for a civics lesson. Being a drag queen doesn't even have anything to do with sexuality, don't you think that if he wanted to be taken seriously as an activist he would've done it as himself instead of his alter ego??


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    #340
    Daith
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    I'm voting NO to Same Sex Marriage because the gays have more sex then I do!


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    #341
    PopePalpatine
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Generally speaking....

    A freewheeling attitude to sexual promiscuity, a lot of gay men would have little or no concept of monogamy and the figures for HIV/ AIDS amongst gays are beyond shocking-they are a disgrace with the amount of info and precautions freely available.


    Obviously I accept there are exceptions, but unless attitudes to the above change drastically amongst gays, (can't see it happening myself any day soon) I will be voting no.

    Oh, you're a charmer.

    Do you whinge about heterosexual "promiscuity" too? Do you yearn for the days when you could threaten your daughter with a Magdalene Kazett?


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    #342
    Daith
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    denhaagenite wrote: »
    Being a drag queen doesn't even have anything to do with sexuality, don't you think that if he wanted to be taken seriously as an activist he would've done it as himself instead of his alter ego??

    The entire gay rights movement which sparked off from Stonewall in New York came from mostly drag queen and trans people.

    Honestly I'd love for Panti to debate David Quinn. Entertaining and enlightening. What more would you want?


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    padd b1975
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    hoodwinked wrote: »
    i know a lot more married heterosexuals having extra marital affairs than i do homosexuals who have cheated on their partners, you are judging peoples actions which is down to their lack of commitment rather than related to their sexuality.
    Of course it's to do with their sexuality.

    The sexual behaviour and attitudes of a gay man differs enormously from that of a straight guy.


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    #344
    PopePalpatine
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    floggg wrote: »
    No, that's not generally speaking.

    That's misinformation with a heavy dose of prejudice speaking.

    If the Iona ****lords could feel affection they'd probably awkwardly try to hug padd.


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    comongethappy
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Of course it's to do with their sexuality.

    The sexual behaviour and attitudes of a gay man differs enormously from that of a straight guy.

    Please explain how.

    And as a follow up.... What on earth has any of it got to do with a couple getting married?

    Aaaand. Go!


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    #346
    Daith
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Of course it's to do with their sexuality.

    The sexual behaviour and attitudes of a gay man differs enormously from that of a straight guy.

    Are you saying straight guys can't be promiscuous? Bloody hell.


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    #347
    rainbow kirby
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    PopePalpatine wrote: »
    If the Iona ****lords could feel affection they'd probably awkwardly try to hug padd.

    CHRISTIAN SIDE HUG!


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    eviltwin
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Of course it's to do with their sexuality.

    The sexual behaviour and attitudes of a gay man differs enormously from that of a straight guy.

    Please explain how they differ, I could do with a laugh this morning.


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    #349
    hoodwinked
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Of course it's to do with their sexuality.

    The sexual behaviour and attitudes of a gay man differs enormously from that of a straight guy.

    how so? i know a straight guy, married with a kid, also bangs any girl he meets on a night out, i know a gay guy who had been with his partner monogamously for over 10 years.

    which of those two do you think deservers to be married more?


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    #350
    Corkfeen
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Of course it's to do with their sexuality.

    The sexual behaviour and attitudes of a gay man differs enormously from that of a straight guy.

    God, you are full of bollocks. You're literally reciting stereotypes and expecting us to take you seriously.


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    #351
    padd b1975
    Registered Users Posts: 10,706 ✭✭✭✭padd b1975


    floggg wrote: »
    No, that's not generally speaking.

    That's misinformation with a heavy dose of prejudice speaking.

    No it's not.

    Figures for AIDS/HIV amongst gays are easily googled.

    If you think the rest is misinformation, you know very little about the lifestyle of gays in general.


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    #352
    Benny_Cake
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Generally speaking....

    A freewheeling attitude to sexual promiscuity, a lot of gay men would have little or no concept of monogamy and the figures for HIV/ AIDS amongst gays are beyond shocking-they are a disgrace with the amount of info and precautions freely available.

    That's a grossly unfair slur. There is little of the above that couldn't also be applied to a large cohort of heterosexual men. Should all marriage be abolished?

    If, like me, you think monogamy is a good thing, why would you block gay men (and women, who are rarely mentioned by the anti-SSM side, funnily enough) from accessing the very institution which provides legal and social supports to monogamy? It makes no sense and calls your motivation into question.

    I know I shouldn't be surprised that attitudes like this exist, but it's depressing all the same.


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    #353
    padd b1975
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    hoodwinked wrote: »
    how so? i know a straight guy, married with a kid, also bangs any girl he meets on a night out, i know a gay guy who had been with his partner faithfully for over 10 years.

    which of those two do you think deservers to be married more?

    Straight guy is a scumbag, end of.


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    #354
    hoodwinked
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Straight guy is a scumbag, end of.

    but which of the two deserves the right to be married more in your opinion?


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    #355
    comongethappy
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Straight guy is a scumbag, end of.

    That doesn't answer the posters question.

    Which is more deserving of marriage?


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    Daith
    Registered Users Posts: 4,936 ✭✭✭Daith


    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Straight guy is a scumbag, end of.

    And he shouldn't be able to marry right?

    How many sexual partners should one have before they are denied the right to marry?


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    rainbow kirby
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    Gotta love too how homophobes completely ignore the fact that queer female couples exist, because it doesn't fit their WAHHH PROMISCUOUS GAY MEN narrative...


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    #358
    Links234
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Generally speaking....

    The heterosexual lifestyle is so much worse

    I saw a heterosexual shooting up heroin on a bus once, what a disgusting display of vile heterosexual behaviour! There were children who could see this. Go out at a weekend and dirty heterosexual males are getting pissed up to their eyeballs and beating the **** out of each other, clogging up A&E, wasting the valuable time of staff, heterosexuals are a drain on our health services. What is it with heterosexuals shoving their lifestyle in our faces all the time? They shouldn't be allowed to do that in public.

    See how you sound?


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    #359
    padd b1975
    Registered Users Posts: 10,706 ✭✭✭✭padd b1975


    comongethappy wrote: »
    Please explain how.

    And as a follow up.... What on earth has any of it got to do with a couple getting married?

    Aaaand. Go!
    Google AIDS/HIV amongst gay men.

    And as a follow up......Why do so many gay men lack the self-respect to practice safe sex??


    Aaaand. Go!


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    #360
    floggg
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    denhaagenite wrote: »
    I listened to it and I had a friend who was there. She said that if she wanted to go to an anti- homophobia rally she would have gone to an anti- homophobia rally. She went to see a show, she went for a bit of fun, she didn't go for a civics lesson. Being a drag queen doesn't even have anything to do with sexuality, don't you think that if he wanted to be taken seriously as an activist he would've done it as himself instead of his alter ego??

    Yes, so it wasn't the words.

    Why should the way she was dressed affect how she is treated, or whether her words are treated with respect or taken seriously? The words carried more than enough weight by themselves.

    Drag is in some ways a political statement as much as it is a form of entertainment and drag queens have always been at the forefront of gay rights movement.

    And the noble call is something that was done after all performances of that play by a range of speakers. If she was offended by having to see somebody discuss civil rights she was probably at the wrong performance.

    And if either of you would be offended at having to listen to a powerful, raw, and honest account of what it's like to be a minority than you seriously lack any empathy or understanding for minority groups or people generally.


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    #361
    eviltwin
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    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Google AIDS/HIV amongst gay men.

    And as a follow up......Why do so many gay men lack the self-respect to practice safe sex??


    Aaaand. Go!

    What has the rates of HIV / AIDS in gay men have to do with the right to marry :confused: Are they connected in some way? Am I missing something here?


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