Girl Friend \ Boy Friend - what annoys you the most

when he uses my shampoo & conditioner

when he dosnt clean the loo after himself

when he clears his plate but not mine

when he talks down to me about doing the washing (or not doing the washing as the case more often is) etc. etc.

when he dosnt use a coaster and then proceeds to not wipe the ring of milk left to dry in

when he dosnt make an effort to have a chat or make conversation with my family.


other than that hes bloody perfect and i love him to bits.

What generally pisses me off when I'm in a relationship is constant contact and general neediness. Nothing more of a turn off, and for some reason most of my relationships I've had have been like that.

Other than that, cancelling plans last minute. :mad:

Ronny Mitchell wrote: »

Does not having one count as an annoyance?

+1

shellyboo wrote: »

+1

Especially the conditioner... your hair is like an inch long, wtf are you using conditioner for? And nine times out of ten it's because he thought it was shampoo...

Remove the contents of the conditioner bottle and replace it with immac (or now known as veet) it wont happen again

In my case the list is a mile long.

Like How the fcuk does he get green shaving gel on the walls?

Can he not pick up his own jocks off the bathroom floor?

I hate this when i am cleaning or doing the washing up and i get told "leave it i will do it later!" and later never ever comes and i end up doing it myself anyway.

Why is it that when i go out (3 times in 3 years) do i have to ask is that ok can you mind them and he is "babysitting" yet when he goes out i'm not babysitting i am just taking care of my own children??

Currently in my huffs as i am ill at the moment and still have to look after my kids. This is nothing new all mothers do it except this time its scary cos i keep losing my balance and falling and i cant look after the baby. He had to put me to bed at 8pm last night i coudnt stand up and when i woke up this morning i was confused and disorientated. He had just got up and gone to work i thought given the state i was in the previous night he might have taken the day off or something. My Dad had to come get me adn the kids :mad:

ps i am well aware i am sitting on the net so cant be that bad but i am having a good spell at the moment and can hold myself up

Thaedydal wrote: »

I've been there Trinity1 and it sucks and it didn't get any better until we broke up.

Sounds like things need to change but he is happy and doesn't see that you are not.

We break up every few weeks Thaedydal. Things change for a week or 2. I'm hardly innocent i give him a dogs life in other ways I dont know how he puts up with it tbh I'd have left me a long time ago .

He did take care of the cleaning and kids last night in fairness to him. Hes not a bad guy underneath it all just lacking in maturity and cop on. I'm older.

A couple of his friends are utter gobsh1tes (one stupid little bitch in particular but everyone else hates her too and only puts up with her because of her boyfriend so it's not just me)....that's my biggest complaint. Unfortunately you can choose your friends but you can't choose your other half's. I know he doesn't like a couple of mine too so we're even.

Apart from that he's a bit too much of a perfectionist at times whereas I'm the complete opposite and that annoys him

Nothing major though, if he annoyed me anymore than that I probably wouldn't be going out with him so it's all good

Thaedydal wrote: »

I think it is to do with how they are reared, if they weren't made to help out around the house and certain things were women's work and if they never learned to clean then it's an uphill battle. esp when you become a stay at home parent they seem to think everything is your default responsiblity like it was thier mothers.

You know you hit the nail on the head there. I didnt wanna hijack the thread but i even had it typed and deleted it. he is an only child and our last row was over him running to his mother. i told him he was a mummys boy and would want to man up and grow up!! Never had a days responsibilty in his life.

Anyway i'll say no more

Hmm..

The ridiculously large TV thats now sitting in my not so large sitting room. There was nothing wrong with the last one.
If theres something techy he has to do it has to be done right there and then, but the dirty dishes can sit on the counter for a week.
He takes ages to make a decision on anything.
I always end up doing the dishes/hoovering/ironing/cleaning because "I'll do it later" seems to be man-speak for "I'm going to ignore it until you crack and do it yourself."

Apart from all that he's wonderful

Malari wrote: »

Yes! What the hell!? I convinced him to downsize slightly, thank goodness. Feels like sitting in the front row of the cinema at times.

I think that is the point.