I attended a Sex Party/ Orgy
As the title suggests, I attended an upmarket sex party in London recently. I only attended because I was roped in by a female friend who didn't want to go on her own. Neither of us were planning on taking part, my friend just wanted to see what all the fuss was about, apparently she has friends who attend these parties regularly.
We had to register on the organiser's website, filling out an application form as well as submitting a recent photo of ourselves to be vetted by other members. We 'passed' and I have to say it felt pretty good as only very pretty people attend these parties. Single men aren't allowed to attend these parties, only single women and couples. We obviously weren't a couple, but you know...Anyway my friend received an email the night before telling where and when the party was being held. The email also warned that if you didn't have a mask, you wouldn't be allowed entry. There was a theme, which was 'suits and cocktail dresses', so I wore a dark suit and my friend wore a nice, elegent dress.
It was taking place in a townhouse/ mansion in a well- heeled part of London. We arrived at 10.00pm and there was a bouncer as well as the organiser waiting to greet us at the entrance. She took our coats, told us where to go to get drinks and then led us in to a room where there were about 40 people mingling. Everyone looked to be in their early twenties to mid-thirties. We had our masks on at this point but a lot of people had taken theirs off so we decided to do the same. I was fairly nervous, even though I had told myself beforehand that I wasn't going to be taking part.. My friend grabbed us drinks and we had a look around.The lights were low in all the rooms and they were lit with candles. There were four bedrooms: one small room with a bed in the middle, two medium sized rooms, each with a double bed in the middle and a big room with four double beds. None of the beds had covers on them. There were also bowls of condoms and plenty of towels.
There were a lot of VERY pretty people there. I'd say it was about 30 guys to 50 girls. Everyone was well spoken and friendly. All professional people. We chatted to 3 Irish couples at the party, which I was shocked by. I'm in my late twenties but you still never imagine Irish people attending these parties. One couple we chatted to were really friendly and genuine, but they really were the Dublin 4, master-race stereotype. He was v.tall and built like a truck. She was absolutely stunning. Two very good looking people. They told us that it was their first party as well.
By 11.30 things were in full swing and people were having sex in all the rooms. People were doing everything you could imagine. It was mind blowing to watch but I didn't take part, neither did my friend. Maybe because it was a bit out of my comfort zone or perhaps it was down to the fact that I was never approached all night:( (It was very ego crushing I have to admit). My friend was approached a couple if times but politely refused. Everyone was so body confident, the 'D4 couple' got stark naked and put on a show for everyone. That's what shocked me the most, their confidence/ body confidence and lack of inhibition. Not everyone took part, I'd say it was about 70% people taking part, with the other 30% watching or staying at the bar/ mingling.
My friend and I left at around 12.30pm, though things were in full swing and it was very noisy. I learned a bit about myself, mainly that I may not be quite as liberal or open- minded as I thought I was, I'm not a prude though. Maybe I was a bit intimidated or taken aback by others people's lack of inhibition. The women were strictly in charge and only they were allowed to do the approaching. My ego is still a bit bruised over the fact that I was never approached, I saw some guys having sex with 2-3 different women. Had I been approached by a stunning woman, I probably would have had sex with her. I'm still glad that I went though.
Despite all the abandon, the enviroment was relaxed and non-judgmental. If I got the opportunity, I think I probably would go again.
Boardsies, would you be receptive to the idea of attending one of these parties?
