Dick phelan wrote: » On the issue of term limit what should it be then? I find it hard to support abortion at a stage where babies are know to have survived, find it very hard to justify abortion at a late stage like 20+ weeks. So what limit would abortion be at, would it change as medicine advances, like it's lowered because babies can now potentially survive at this stage? At the moment i don't have an issue with abortions early into pregnancy, as pointed out the majority actually happen at the early stage, 9 weeks ect. Issue i have is when you see what i would consider babies of 20 weeks or thereabouts being aborted, i believe at that stage it's hard to not see it as a baby maybe not fully formed yet but certainly not just a collection of cells.
Selene Dry Apartment wrote: » How does telling someone if they are having sex they need to keep in mind the possibility (however small) of a pregnancy occurring (and if it happens then abortion should not be an option) = that drivel you are posting? How you are arriving at that conclusion is a mystery. I never said they should have known better or kept their legs together. I said if someone gets pregnant they should have the baby and an abortion should not be an option.
Selene Dry Apartment wrote: » Bizarre stuff completely unrelated to anything I posted.
Elyse Quiet Canoe wrote: » What brought us the Magdalene laundries was the hatred and stigma of female sexuality, actually. There were hundreds of thousands of unwanted pregnancies in good old contraception free Ireland which happened within the confines of marriage, but those were A-OK. Not every woman or girl who was committed to a laundry was pregnant. I mean the name of the laundries might give you a bit of a clue as to their ethos?
thattequilagirl wrote: » I believe 16 weeks is the earliest a baby can survive outside the womb, so I would support a limit of 14 weeks.
Arkady wrote: » Failing to see why this makes it ok to take another human life today.
Elyse Quiet Canoe wrote: » I was just responding to your mistaken assertion that it was a stigma against unwanted pregnancy that led to the laundries.
Arkady wrote: » It isn't, but still failing to see why this makes it ok to take another human life today ?
rainbow kirby wrote: » I'm comfortable with the UK limit of 24 weeks tbh - the overwhelming majority of procedures (90+%) are in the first trimester anyway with a high proportion of those being before 10 weeks, and many conditions which often result in a TFMR are only diagnosed at 18-22 weeks at the anatomy scan and after some further testing following that.
deseil wrote: » Children have such a financial emotional and physical effect on every parent who has them. I respect your opinion and your right to never abort but why should you get to choose anothers path because of your views? The state does not raise a child, a parent does and if they do not feel able or ready they should be allowed the choice not to.
Arkady wrote: » They already do, there are thousands of Irish people on waiting lists desperate to adopt who can raise the child and give them a loving fulfilled life and home, where they can become wanted members of Irish society, there isn't any need to end their life because the timing is inconvenient for someone else.
deseil wrote: » Ah come on!are you seriously suggesting a woman goes through the trauma of carrying a child and giving birth with all her family friends and work colleagues obviously knowing,and then she just gives the baby away and nobody ever talks about it again and she goes on with her life? Its not going to happen unless we hide her away and go back to the laundry days.
Selene Dry Apartment wrote: » Imagine what people will think of her if they find out she had an abortion (and word of these things always gets around) if they think giving the baby up for adoption is such a talking point.
deseil wrote: » Forcing your views on someone you dont know or support in anyway is just plain wrong.
eviltwin wrote: » Believe it or not most people couldn't care less if a woman has had an abortion.
Kirby wrote: » Gay marriage passed. This leads me to believe enough of the population are finally enlightened enough that this would pass. Not everyone, this is still Ireland after all. After the states, we are easily the most religions of the 1st world nations. That's going to take more time to correct.
Selene Dry Apartment wrote: » . I'd also imagine that everyone who would vote no, which is very possible to be over 50% of voters would have issue with people who have had one..
CaraMay wrote: » That's not the case. I Have two friends who have had an abortion and I privately found it very upsetting for a long time after they told me.
SEPT 23 1989 wrote: » I actually think debate on this issue is pointless your personal decision is a gut instinct basic reaction Just let the people vote no arguments
eviltwin wrote: » Are you still friends?
CaraMay wrote: » Very much so. We are going on holidays in May. I've never expressed my feelings to her on the subject but silently I find it sad.