Wibbs wrote: » *though he was just a little bit too full on, very "how to meet people and influence them" kinda thing and the local women weren't buying it at all. He did say that Irish women were a hard sell.
Femme_Fatale wrote: » Think it should be ignored though - not even laughed at, as he seems to revel in any reaction at all. Best not to give such sinister abusive stuff oxygen.
Balaclava1991 wrote: » The secret is to learn from each encounter. Approaching 100 women and getting told to get lost is worthless if you didn't learn anything. Instead approach 20 women get rejected, then hit on 15 women and get 5 numbers, hit on 10 more women and get all their numbers and 1 kiss close, then hit on 10 women and get all their numbers, 5 kiss closes and 1 shag. Week on week improve and improve and improve and within a few weeks you will able to get numbers and kiss closes every time and you'll be getting laid effortlessly.
if you are on a night out and you ignore these women and treat them like utter dogsh*t they will actually want to get to know you
Pen.Island wrote: » So you're telling me if I hit on 100 women I'll get 10 shags? :eek::eek: I love the shags I do!
Candie wrote: » And some other pua proponent suggested it wasn't a numbers game. Sadly what Balaclava learns from each encounter is this gem from another post of his I've just read - You stay classy Balaclava.
Balaclava1991 wrote: » GO GET 'EM CHAMP!
Vitaliorange wrote: » Its not a numbers game. Its a practice and get better game. Being good with women is a skill you can learn through practice.
seenitall wrote: » I find that there is also an element of caution in Europeans vs. Americans. The Americans I've met mostly seemed exceptionally open and trusting of people's motives, especially ones from smaller communities, compared to Europeans. I just keep shaking my head and wondering how all this stuff we've been reading courtesy of Balaclava and some others could possibly work on any woman over here. Heck, I tend to proclaim a guy a smoothie or a player if he pays me more than one compliment, let alone anything else.
Balaclava1991 wrote: »
Balaclava1991 wrote: » I love the door routine. Sick? Hell it works!:D"Then she starts freaking out".
Semele wrote: » Yep, sounds about right. Please keep this thread going...I'm crying actual tears:D Seriously though, what I always wonder with these little scenarios is where the woman's role in the conversation is, beyond enthusiastic agreement. I can't recall ever being in a situation where I'd let a guy I've just met bore the pants off me with a fecking psychotic sounding lecture. I have things to be saying too!
I read The Game and The Mystery Method and a few other related books tried out some of their techniques and had a lot of fun chatting up loads and loads of women which I had never done before and probably wouldn't have done if I hadn't read them. I didn't need to read them in the first place and I don't need them now. All I needed to know and I didn't before was I just needed to get over my fear and relax and take a chance and talk to women. That's all there really is to say.
Wibbs wrote: » Rather than being locked(as I am now: Rioja 1, Wibbs null point), this should be a sticky. No really. More informative and fun that way. Pure AH, informative and fun, with the hint of WTF and heres why thrown in. I bloody love AH I do.
beano345 wrote: » This thread would put you off dating for life!
Talib Fiasco wrote: » The thing that gets me is the fact some guys advocate approaching women with the intention of being rejected to 'warm up'. Like wtf? In a perfect world, I approach only one girl a night and we spend the night together and enjoy ourselves. If the first approach doesn't go well I approach another and so on. To f*ck with overcoming nerves, they are the same eating, breathing and sh*tting creatures as you. Deal with it. If you approach a girl spitting all these lines etc. that seem to hide your interest and preserve your ego, you're fooling nobody. When a girl is approached by a lad she knows exactly why he's done it, especially in a club. So just do everyone a favour, cut to the chase and be honest with yourself and her and state your intentions in an appropriate way. You don't have to be like 'oh baby you're so hot let's smash' but genuine remarks that convey interest and desire for people like 'hey you seem really cool, my name is ___ and I think you're cute' bla bla bla are better...
pharmaton wrote: » I know it's a bit different but I don't think I would be capable (or stupid enough) of approaching a woman deliberately (with the intention of "bagging" one). I remember years ago someone asked me had I read The Game because apparently I "play it well". I genuinely hadn't a clue what they were on about. In my defense I really wouldn't be trying, I wouldn't consider most women in that capacity so it's nice surprise the odd occasion when I find out they do. Admittedly, it is sincere so maybe it only works when you're not actually trying to screw them.
Pen.Island wrote: » But...if you are going out to "bag" someone, which is what most guys try/want to do on nights out you can't treat every girl like she's the only one there. You have to go into it with the mindset that if she doesn't like you, just brush it off and onto the next. .
thegreatgonzo wrote: » But girls can pick up on that and it's a turn off.
Talib Fiasco wrote: » But I don't approach a girl thinking 'oh yeah she's the one I wanna go home with tonight'. I approach girls who catch my eye and think are worth talking to. If I just wanted a f*ck from anyone I'd go to the dancefloor, find someone and take them home. But yeah I approach the girl because she's attractive to me naturally and I'm going to let her know that, how subtly or obvious depends on the moment...if I don't like her based on talking to her etc. I move on. I approach girls out of pure natural desire to be in their company and be part of their time and to enjoy myself. It's a natural thing. I don't go talking to them just so I can have sex with them, that's just an added benefit when it happens.
Femme_Fatale wrote: » Yeh that's the healthy way to go about it. Going out with "Must have sex, must have sex" attitude every time one goes out - I've never understood (I emphasise "every" time one goes out; no harm in it the odd time - you can't help horniness). From men OR women. If sex happens, it's a happy bonus.
Pen.Island wrote: » Pick up on what? Most of the lads I know who are succesfull with women are pricks (i.e couldn't give a **** about them).
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