Gauss wrote: » Here's the scenario. You are married with a mortgage and children. Everything is rosy, the kids are happy, the spouse is happy, you may or may not be happy. You haven't been sexually attracted to your spouse for the last few years but are still in love with them. Do you accept it and just keep going as things are or do you break up with your spouse? This is not a personal issue, a hypothetical scenario.
nocoverart wrote: » How do you know the spouse is happy? OP, you sound like a bit of an arrogant twat!
Ihatecuddles wrote: » The spouse can be anything in this scenario, its hypothetical!!! If he says she's happy then she's happy.
Gran Hermano wrote: » Spice things up, dip your knob in chilli.
Gauss wrote: » Do you do it often, I find after about a year I have absolutely no interest, it does nothing for me. Only really like kissing girls I've never kissed before.
Gauss wrote: » Most men can't seduce extremely hot women, actually most men don't even see extremely hot women in real life never mind seduce. So do you think it is a bit crazy not to want to sample a really hot woman even if you have to pay for it? After all you only live once, do you really want to die having never known what it's like to have sex with such a caliber of woman.
Gauss wrote: » It seems like a fairly convenient excuse for the cheater to use but could it ever be a valid excuse. If alcohol addiction is a disease then is sex addiction a disease?
Gauss wrote: » Everyone who cheats has their reasons for doing it. What are yours? A few years ago I cheated, I did it because I wanted to experience the excitement of new pu$$y to put it crudely. I didn't intend to, but in the moment it felt too good to say no. I knew I wouldn't get caught. Being honest if I was In a relationship now and the other woman was attractive enough I'd probably cheat again. So if I ever get into another relationship I'll try not to put myself in situations where I'll have the opportunity. So what were your reasons for cheating? Obviously doesn't apply to non cheaters.
Gauss wrote: » I had sex with a woman I know who is in a relationship a while back, she recently told me she told a friend in work who I know. Then she went on to say that her friend had just cheated on her husband so they were both promised not to tell their secrets. They had a laugh about it. I was really surprised as both are really nice people who'd be perceived as morally sound by friends and colleagues. So do you think your infidelity is a source of light hearted conversation if you do part take in such activities?
Gauss wrote: » Would you dump your boyfriend/girlfriend if you had an offer from a much more attractive person? To the guys would you dump your girlfriend if a Georgia Salpa with a good personality wanted to be with you. To the girls would you dump your boyfriend if George Clooney wanted to be with you or whoever you think is ridiculously handsome.
AnarchistKen wrote: » OP you have two options: 1. Indulge in hookers in your spare time 2. Bring the wife swinging in the hope the other women there are rides
MistyCheese wrote: » *Sigh* First I need to find someone to marry me (anyone - man, woman, kangaroo), then I can let myself go and then I can moan about how my husband (or wife or inter-species civil partner) doesn't fancy me anymore... It will be a journey filled with cheesecake, pie and tears of self-loathing. Form an orderly queue fellas.
