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How would you feel if your child was gay?

willmunny1990

Personally, and I'm slightly ashamed to say this, but I'd be very disappointed.

I have no problem with gay people, I know a few and get on with them just fine. But, I would be devastated if I found out my child was gay. It would be an unmitigated disaster in my view.

Why? First of all for selfish reasons. I would love to be a grandfather one day and would find it hard to accept of being deprived that aspiration.

Secondly, I think gay people are unfortunately still heavily discriminated against in life. Especially when they are younger and in School. And it is not my wish to have my son go through hardships like this.

So, how would you feel if your child was gay?

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KeithM89_old

Oddjob wrote: »

I suppose I could always smother the kid and try again.

Banned

ch750536

Thats a harsh ban, meh, for another place. Personally I'd be gutted.

efb

Sir Gallagher wrote: »

I'd prefer a straight son, just so i can bring him for his first lapdance in Liverpool after watching the match that day, just like my father did for me.

On the other hand if he turned out gay i'd just as soon bring him for a game of bingo in The George. I fcking love bingo.

Bring him to the strip club, he'd be like:

"Gurl, where did you get those tassels! love it!! and Gurl u gotta werk it, its all about the grind into his crotch area!!!"

Also pls take me to liverpool match- those guys have got it going on!

Gerrard, Bellamy, Aguilro! (I miss macharano)

sensibleken

try and change him straight by getting him a job in the steel mill. that foreman julian seems like a tough guy, wears nothing but leather and has extra metal spikes for added toughness. but he also seems fair, look at how he incentivises his employess by installing that sauna in the factory.

he also gets on with my son a lot, everytime he sees him he's hugging him and playfull slapping his ass.

OakeyDokey

Not sure what I'm even doing this year. I know I'm dressing up but I may get a move on if anything is going to happen.

Standard Toaster

This thread is still open?

paddyandy

I'd feel rotten to my very core and i'd send him to anywhere as far away as possible if i was wealthy i'd look for a clinic.

[Deleted User]

Which is why I said "relatively small" in my above post and not "non existent". There is always one isn't there.

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

paddyandy wrote: »

I'd feel rotten to my very core and i'd send him to anywhere as far away as possible if i was wealthy i'd look for a clinic.

... and he'd never go and you'd never hear from him again. I think this would hurt you more than him in the long run.

FetchTheGin

Would not care in the slightest.

Frankly it is disturbing that people are willing to use a generalisation of what gay people are, despite the fact that they should know their child better than anyone else, thereby eliminating said ridiculous generalisations.

joan mack

I would just Just think of all the parents who that very day were receiving bad news about their son or daughters health, maybe even a terminal decease and thank my lucky stars thats all I had to deal, with, I would hope to be able to support him or her as best I could

Donal Og O Baelach

I think any man who has listened to the way gay people are spoken of in most manly groups (nights out, football terraces, etc), would rather their child was not subjected to that.

Put it this very un-pc way: if there was a "cure" for gay, a small harmless tablet you could give your baby to guarantee their straightness in later life, would you give it to them?

4leto

Donal Og O Baelach wrote: »

I think any man who has listened to the way gay people are spoken of in most manly groups (nights out, football terraces, etc), would rather their child was not subjected to that.

Put it this very un-pc way: if there was a "cure" for gay, a small harmless tablet you could give your baby to guarantee their straightness in later life, would you give it to them?

Wow a loaded question that, I would give him the pill, but what if he was small, a redhead, fat, etc. What if he didn't want to take the pill.

But there is no pill, there is no "cure", for it is not a disease. But wouldn't it be better to accept them for what they are and give them a loving accepting base so they can deal with their own problems.

I can safely say we all had to deal with some unfairness in our lives.

Killer Pigeon

Donal Og O Baelach wrote: »

I think any man who has listened to the way gay people are spoken of in most manly groups (nights out, football terraces, etc), would rather their child was not subjected to that.

Put it this very un-pc way: if there was a "cure" for gay, a small harmless tablet you could give your baby to guarantee their straightness in later life, would you give it to them?

When and if that day comes, it would probably mean that there'd also be a cure for heterosexuality :P

To be honest, society must not give into the bullies. Instead of hoping to find a "cure" for homosexuality, we should focus on trying to find a cure for misogyny and homophobia. These are the true plagues on society, not homosexuality.

It's sad, even today in 21st century Ireland, young homosexuals (particularly males) are subject to so much mental tortures it's incredible, which in some cases even leads to tragedy. It a combination of bullying, failure to meet societal expectations and the general thought of being perceived as a failure that drives people over the edge.

The problem is not homosexuality, it's society.

Rochelle

I'd be disgusted, moreso with myself for the clear failings in rearing them than with the child.

efb

Donal Og O Baelach wrote: »

I think any man who has listened to the way gay people are spoken of in most manly groups (nights out, football terraces, etc), would rather their child was not subjected to that.

Put it this very un-pc way: if there was a "cure" for gay, a small harmless tablet you could give your baby to guarantee their straightness in later life, would you give it to them?

I don't have an illness I don't need a 'cure'.

Fishooks12

Rochelle wrote: »

I'd be disgusted, moreso with myself for the clear failings in rearing them than with the child.

Wow, you're going to be a GREAT parent.

Beat the gay out of your son so you don't fail him, what a novel idea :rolleyes:

Killer Pigeon

Rochelle wrote: »

I'd be disgusted, moreso with myself for the clear failings in rearing them than with the child.

Homosexuality is not caused by the way you reared your child.

Rochelle

Fishooks12 wrote: »

Wow, you're going to be a GREAT parent.

Beat the gay out of your son so you don't fail him, what a novel idea :rolleyes:

Who's beating anyone?

Prevention is better than cure. I won't bother with any of those gay little "smileys" if that's alright with you.

4leto

Rochelle wrote: »

I'd be disgusted, moreso with myself for the clear failings in rearing them than with the child.

I know, you would berate yourself for not getting him that action man or toy gun and other manly toys.

Obviously you don't have kids. Then you would know, there are many aspects to our personalities that has NOTHING to do with rearing and sexuality is one of them.

Plautus

Rochelle wrote: »

Who's beating anyone?

Prevention is better than cure. I won't bother with any of those gay little "smileys" if that's alright with you.

Obvious troll is obvious.

I think any man who has listened to the way gay people are spoken of in most manly groups (nights out, football terraces, etc), would rather their child was not subjected to that.

Put it this very un-pc way: if there was a "cure" for gay, a small harmless tablet you could give your baby to guarantee their straightness in later life, would you give it to them?

As others have said here - why does the child have to change, and not those giving it abuse for something that doesn't affect them in the slightest? I, for one, wouldn't take any such pill myself.

TylerIE

paddyandy wrote: »

I'd feel rotten to my very core and i'd send him to anywhere as far away as possible if i was wealthy i'd look for a clinic.

The reason you'd feel rotton to your core wouldnt be anything to do with your sons sexuality... more to do with your own character.

Dudess

Love it - homosexuality is a result of how the child is raised. Probably the best one yet.

Fishooks12

Rochelle wrote: »

Who's beating anyone?

Prevention is better than cure. I won't bother with any of those gay little "smileys" if that's alright with you.

Indeed, real men never express views via the medium of emoticons. It's the first sign of homosexuality you know.

:):rolleyes:;):p

Next thing I'll be joining the village people!

TylerIE

Rochelle wrote: »

I'd be disgusted, moreso with myself for the clear failings in rearing them than with the child.

Your disgust should be directed at your reaction, not at your child.

Dudess

paddyandy wrote: »

I'd feel rotten to my very core and i'd send him to anywhere as far away as possible if i was wealthy i'd look for a clinic.

Don't you write all the spiritual, mystical sh1t? Not so full of peace and love now though, I see...

murphhy

He wouldn't be my child anymore...

Killer Pigeon

Rochelle wrote: »

Who's beating anyone?

Prevention is better than cure. I won't bother with any of those gay little "smileys" if that's alright with you.

Oh Thor, God of Thunder, where art thou? (a.k.a., mods)

Giselle

Dudess wrote: »

Love it - homosexuality is a result of how the child is raised. Probably the best one yet.

I knoiw, its ridiculous.

Its obviously caused by letting boys play with dolls.

Fishooks12

Killer Pigeon wrote: »

Oh Thor, God of Thunder, where art thou? (a.k.a., mods)

There seems to be an influx of trolls in the last page or two