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I have been a dancer in Dublin for a decade started in my early 20s a lot of the girls I work with are sound and believe me it’s definitely nothing you see on tv. However Ireland seems to have this negative attitude towards women in this industry or deems us all sex addicts or easy when the woman who gets bread in her local supermarket could be doing all kinds of dirty things that’s way worse than dancing and it seems to be okay because she’s doing it for free I don’t get the mindset of some of these people we have stage names in work to protect our identity.

Part of this job comes with a lot of stigma there’s been a few girls who had people find out their day jobs and contact their boss to try and get them fired it’s normally women who rat them out and try to ruin their lives over it. There’s nothing I’d love more than to be open about my job and how it’s helped me get through some dark times in my life but I just couldn’t handle all the derogatory labels and insults and lows people will go to try and ruin your life over it. Since covid hit I don’t know how the strip club industry in Dublin is going to survive.

I want to know what your opinions are on strippers and the likes of using onlyfans to make money nothing you say is going to bother me it’s more curios why people have a begrudging attitude towards these things when they do worse things for free with their husbands boyfriend or a random Jack the lad from coppers In Dublin on a night out.

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Gruffalux

Errashareesh wrote: »

And so what if it's judging? People judge all the time. Including people who don't think they're judgemental.

This who are we to judge line is a laugh. The ultimate in fence sitting apathy. I would say the same people might be spurred to a feeling or two if they found their mother's OF back catalogue.

And in 10 or 20 years with the amount of people doing cam work for the house deposit there will be loads of teens and adults who might very well stumble on mammy's "best of" collection. Haha there will be money to be made if you are a therapist.

Mister Vain

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

I didn't say that. I said if you were an adult man whose main, or indeed only, hobby was sitting inside pretending you are an ork or a wizard in some computer game then you've probably made some bad life choices.

It's the same with porn. I'm sure there's still plenty of rather generic porn being produced. However I did listen to the Butterfly Effect podcast by Jon Ronson, and followed that up with some further reading on the US porn industry.

The advent of free porn on the internet has resulted in an industry that has to produce ever more graphic and extreme porn to meet the insatiable demands of its customers (increasingly teenage boys and young men in their 20's). They get bored of generic stuff, and need something harder for their next fix - it's like an addiction in that regard.

So this move to extremism has resulted in more extreme people getting involved as the old players and studios failed to keep up with tastes. So now you have Tube sites ran by shady front companies for criminal organisations. And the main genres aren't boy/girl or a bit of naughty slapping - no, now it's incest and rape fantasies, throat gagging, slapping, multiple anal penetrations, bodily fluids. This is filmed by, released by, and 'staring' male performers who are sex criminals, creeps, and violent misogynists.

The young women involved are mainly from the US care system (fostering, broken homes, support service intervention) or from Eastern Europe and Siberia. They are lured into the system, and churned out a few months later when customers are bored of them, and they've suffered life-changing internal injuries. For very little money.

Mull on that the next time one of you is trying to pull the bellend of yourself to some poor frightended young woman being gangbanged on screen.

There's nothing cool, liberating, or trendy about porn. Made by creeps for creeps.

My point still stands though, you can enjoy it in moderation. I mean how many people are really into the extreme stuff anyway?

rapul

Niner leprauchan wrote: »

Without going back, isn't this the thread where the person was going to start a for fetish account and get back to us on the success or failure?

Where the updates???

Can't remember the details exactly but didn't happen. Think some personal details when signing didn't work out for her and she gave up, anyone can correct me if I'm wrong

[Deleted User]

Niner leprauchan wrote: »

Workout going back, isn't this the thread where the person was going to start a for fetish account and get back to us on the success or failure?

Where the updates???

She gave up after it was a too much of a pain in the hole to sign up..

(Pardon the turn of phrase..)

[Deleted User]

Without going back, isn't this the thread where the person was going to start a foot fetish account and get back to us on the success or failure?

Where the updates???

Ipso

A study a while back found that of all the states, Utah was the biggest consumer of porn in the US. If it’s good enough for the Mormons.
https://conquerseries.com/which-u-s-state-consumes-the-most-porn/

[Deleted User]

Man with broke phone wrote: »

Its something that seems never warned about but I often wonder what is the level you can go until the hinges fall off. Are there women up and down the country risking this happening with once a year birthday treats or do you really need to go to extremes, or is it something that weathers overtime, has it happened to our significant others but they hide it from us?

Who knows. Its time somebody broke this taboo.

I believe it is considered a myth unless you have been using excessively sized objects a lot. Which may effect some porn stars to be fair.

There is also some merit to his argument. Sex can only be so weird so porn is constantly striving for more. Bigger boobs, more people, bigger Dick's, more extreme positions and acts.

I read an article about it before and basically it said that yes, porn can effect the outlook towards women and sex to such an extent that normal relationships become impossible. It's also mentioned I believe in 'a Serbian movie' but I turned it off before getting that far in.

Errashareesh

Simply stating that there is extreme porn available now which there is an increasing appetite for, is not guilt tripping. If it makes people who watch that rot feel uncomfortable, well that's on them. It is what it is. And so what if it's judging? People judge all the time. Including people who don't think they're judgemental.

This discussion always turns into nerves being jarred all over the place - and more concern about the feelings of the connoisseurs of extreme porn rather than those suckered into it. Along with flat out denial. If it makes people uncomfortable for it to be simply acknowledged, well what do they want? People to shut up about it so that they won't feel uncomfortable? Not how things work.

Phil Bogan

Apparently women are big consumers of the more extreme stuff.

ShatterAlan

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Do you dance in front of married men? Or only single guys?

If it were single guys or the married guys wives knew and were fine ..i would have no issue with it.

What difference does it make if they are married or not? Are you trying to insinuate that she is some kind of homewrecker or husband thief if a married man comes to the club to see her dance. It's not her business the marital status of her audience. Married men buy Playboy or harder core magazines and definitely watch porn online. They certainly ogled Samantha Fox on page 3 of the Sun back in the day. Should Samantha have insisted that The Sun with her ample bosom only be sold to single men or married men who have a note from their wives ?? FFS.

Phil Bogan

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

It's the same with porn. I'm sure there's still plenty of rather generic porn being produced. However I did listen to the Butterfly Effect podcast by Jon Ronson, and followed that up with some further reading on the US porn industry.

So this move to extremism has resulted in more extreme people getting involved as the old players and studios failed to keep up with tastes. So now you have Tube sites ran by shady front companies for criminal organisations. And the main genres aren't boy/girl or a bit of naughty slapping - no, now it's incest and rape fantasies, throat gagging, slapping, multiple anal penetrations, bodily fluids. This is filmed by, released by, and 'staring' male performers who are sex criminals, creeps, and violent misogynists.

Mull on that the next time one of you is trying to pull the bellend of yourself to some poor frightended young woman being gangbanged on screen.

There's nothing cool, liberating, or trendy about porn. Made by creeps for creeps.

Jokes on you. My go to genre is teen lesbian.

[Deleted User]

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

I don’t watch porn. Porn is one of the reasons there’s so many angry and maladjusted young men around at the moment. Those tube sites are turning their brains to mush.

You don't watch porn, or have never watched porn?

I'd say the guilt trip, and judgmental attitude that people like yourself, have towards people who watch porn is more likely the reason that there's 'so many angry and maladjusted young men around at the moment' although, the changes in society regarding blaming the male gender for everything under the sun is another aspect.

There are layers to watching porn, from the soft right through to the extreme end of things. When you make such sweeping negative statements, that you've just made, you're simply showing how little you understand the people involved, or the various reasons why males might feel disconnected, lonely, frustrated etc in this modern society of ours.

I rarely watch porn, except for the softer side of it. However, I don't see anything wrong with the vast majority of what I'm aware of (I know there's the extreme end of the scale, but I've never had any curiosity to find it). Sure, plenty of it is just damn weird or wacky from my pov, but I wouldn't be considering every who watches it to be equally messed up. People have different interests.

Gruffalux

Tell me how wrote: »

JFC

Why JFC?

Is it part of the deal now that everyone who is to be considered reasonable and hip most be totes relaxed about their partners back catalogue of published pornography performances? I would not be giving the thumbs up to a new suitor if he had a collection of public tubes of him horsing it into wans for a few bob. And I am pretty groovy. Each to their own. Cannot believe the type of shaming those who think they are the epitome of openness engage in.

JohnnyFlash

Mister Vain wrote: »

Aren't you the guy that said computer games are doing the same thing? Everything in moderation man.

I didn't say that. I said if you were an adult man whose main, or indeed only, hobby was sitting inside pretending you are an ork or a wizard in some computer game then you've probably made some bad life choices.

It's the same with porn. I'm sure there's still plenty of rather generic porn being produced. However I did listen to the Butterfly Effect podcast by Jon Ronson, and followed that up with some further reading on the US porn industry.

The advent of free porn on the internet has resulted in an industry that has to produce ever more graphic and extreme porn to meet the insatiable demands of its customers (increasingly teenage boys and young men in their 20's). They get bored of generic stuff, and need something harder for their next fix - it's like an addiction in that regard.

So this move to extremism has resulted in more extreme people getting involved as the old players and studios failed to keep up with tastes. So now you have Tube sites ran by shady front companies for criminal organisations. And the main genres aren't boy/girl or a bit of naughty slapping - no, now it's incest and rape fantasies, throat gagging, slapping, multiple anal penetrations, bodily fluids. This is filmed by, released by, and 'staring' male performers who are sex criminals, creeps, and violent misogynists.

The young women involved are mainly from the US care system (fostering, broken homes, support service intervention) or from Eastern Europe and Siberia. They are lured into the system, and churned out a few months later when customers are bored of them, and they've suffered life-changing internal injuries. For very little money.

Mull on that the next time one of you is trying to pull the bellend of yourself to some poor frightended young woman being gangbanged on screen.

There's nothing cool, liberating, or trendy about porn. Made by creeps for creeps.

gooseygander

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Exactly. She knows its likely many are.

And i am certain a lot of clients have even told her. And told her the wife doesn't know.

dartboardio wrote: »

You act as if men are the only ones who watch porn. Porn isn't made just for males you know. Women have that desire too.

Surely it’s mainly a male dominated audience. Maybe 40 or 50/1 in favour of males. Maybe I am way out with this estimate, who knows

DublinWriter

Mr.S wrote: »

100k banked in a few weeks, all before you're 25 is impressive without leaving your room. Power to 'em tbh.

Not really when you consider those earnings will dramatically decrease when the 'car-crash' rubberneckers unsub. Which they will if your content is you having at yourself with a rampant-rabbit in a caravan in your parents' garden and not noticing the fly that's just landed on your breast.

And no, I didn't sub, I'm just watching the current TikTok quarrel-fest.

It's also about putting posts on TikTok crying to the camera about having anxiety attacks because you're having surgery next week, making out that it's like you have cancer, then you see the same person boasting on Twitter the same day about having cosmetic surgery next week to have ass-cheek implants.

She's a car-crash. None of this is going to end well for her. Expect her to collaborate with a hack next year on publishing a book along the lines of "My OF Hell" when the clout and money dry up.

[Deleted User]

CertifiedSimp wrote: »

Hardly.

I don't watch porn for the acting or storyline. There's a chemical in my body somewhere telling me that I need to pull myself. It's a natural thing that a penis desires naked women.

There's no chemical in anyone's body telling them they need to make porn.

All living things' most basic instinct is survival.

Food is required for survival.

Money is required for food.

A job is required for money.

Porn is a job.

Phil Bogan

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

It is a a grubby profession. It’s a profession that’s ran by psychos and sexual predators who run vulnerable young women through the mill of increasingly extreme acts before they’re tossed on the heap a few months later with a drug addiction and a prolapsed arse. All so saddos sitting at home can **** themselves off to the sort of disgusting gonzo porn they need to get hd.

The men are exploited too.

dartboardio

CertifiedSimp wrote: »

Hardly.

I don't watch porn for the acting or storyline. There's a chemical in my body somewhere telling me that I need to pull myself. It's a natural thing that a penis desires naked women.

There's no chemical in anyone's body telling them they need to make porn.

You act as if men are the only ones who watch porn. Porn isn't made just for males you know. Women have that desire too.

Mad_maxx

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

It is a a grubby profession. It’s a profession that’s ran by psychos and sexual predators who run vulnerable young women through the mill of increasingly extreme acts before they’re tossed on the heap a few months later with a drug addiction and a prolapsed arse. All so saddos sitting at home can **** themselves off to the sort of disgusting gonzo porn they need to get hard.

is the porn industry ran by " psychos "

heard it was ran by jews myself ?

PS , above meant to be brass eye kind of funny

suicide_circus

https://dangerousminds.net/comments/dead_at_17_the_fatal_consequences_of_masturbation--a_handy_guide_from_1830

Tell me how

CertifiedSimp wrote: »

I get very jealous when I see these young women that seem to be earning big money. It's the easiest money.

At the same time if I had a daughter I wouldn't want her working in the sex industry. I don't think the girls realise they are working in the sex industry. I'd say they just see it at the same level as posting gym pics on instagram.

There has to be a reason why there's been so few irish porn stars. Must be because Ireland is too small and you'd be known throughout.

The pics get posted all over the internet, in the whatsapps. Not sure if the women doing it know this either. In the whatsapp I'm in (max capacity of randomers) some birds pics were posted and they got her facebook and messaged her boyfriend. He started threatening about the guards, how she can't leave the house etc. Pure spoofer. Once the pics are on a website, they can't be stopped.

I doubt most of them women will ever go on to have regular jobs like accountant or software engineer. Maybe won't matter too much if they're only ever set out for supermarket or takeaway jobs anyways though.

On a broader note, amazing the amount of women that just post softcore porn basically on Instagram. Bend over at the gym, bikini mirror picture, going out pic with the tits hanging out. There's nothing left to the imagination at all.

When I get a woman she won't have any of this stuff up. I don't want my friends seeing everything but lips and nips. Leave something to the imagination ffs.

Imagine you telling your parents you're with this bird and they look her up on fb and there's nothing left to the imagination at all. Open for all to eye.

JFC

CertifiedSimp

dartboardio wrote: »

Yes exactly. That's the issue with the world.

People (including myself) don't respect sex workers, or people who do only fans for a living yet watch porn at some point in their lives.. Us humans are such hypocrites.

Hardly.

I don't watch porn for the acting or storyline. There's a chemical in my body somewhere telling me that I need to pull myself. It's a natural thing that a penis desires naked women.

There's no chemical in anyone's body telling them they need to make porn.

[Deleted User]

^^^^

Username definitely checks out.

CertifiedSimp

I get very jealous when I see these young women that seem to be earning big money. It's the easiest money.

At the same time if I had a daughter I wouldn't want her working in the sex industry. I don't think the girls realise they are working in the sex industry. I'd say they just see it at the same level as posting gym pics on instagram.

There has to be a reason why there's been so few irish porn stars. Must be because Ireland is too small and you'd be known throughout.

The pics get posted all over the internet, in the whatsapps. Not sure if the women doing it know this either. In the whatsapp I'm in (max capacity of randomers) some birds pics were posted and they got her facebook and messaged her boyfriend. He started threatening about the guards, how she can't leave the house etc. Pure spoofer. Once the pics are on a website, they can't be stopped.

I doubt most of them women will ever go on to have regular jobs like accountant or software engineer. Maybe won't matter too much if they're only ever set out for supermarket or takeaway jobs anyways though.

On a broader note, amazing the amount of women that just post softcore porn basically on Instagram. Bend over at the gym, bikini mirror picture, going out pic with the tits hanging out. There's nothing left to the imagination at all.

When I get a woman she won't have any of this stuff up. I don't want my friends seeing everything but lips and nips. Leave something to the imagination ffs.

Imagine you telling your parents you're with this bird and they look her up on fb and there's nothing left to the imagination at all. Open for all to eye.

Man with broke phone

Gruffalox wrote: »

i think you are not giving your truthful opinion here but you do have a way with words. Not all porn is gorno style but there is a lot that is. And it is true that some of the ladies might have rather badly weathered bottoms after their empowering experiences. Nothing sexier than an anal fistula.

Its something that seems never warned about but I often wonder what is the level you can go until the hinges fall off. Are there women up and down the country risking this happening with once a year birthday treats or do you really need to go to extremes, or is it something that weathers overtime, has it happened to our significant others but they hide it from us?

Who knows. Its time somebody broke this taboo.

suicide_circus

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

I don’t watch porn. Porn is one of the reasons there’s so many angry and maladjusted young men around at the moment. Those tube sites are turning their brains to mush.

Guarantee this was typed one handed

Gruffalux

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

It is a a grubby profession. It’s a profession that’s ran by psychos and sexual predators who run vulnerable young women through the mill of increasingly extreme acts before they’re tossed on the heap a few months later with a drug addiction and a prolapsed arse. All so saddos sitting at home can **** themselves off to the sort of disgusting gonzo porn they need to get hard.

i think you are not giving your truthful opinion here but you do have a way with words. Not all porn is gorno style but there is a lot that is. And it is true that some of the ladies might have rather badly weathered bottoms after their empowering experiences. Nothing sexier than an anal fistula.

[Deleted User]

Mister Vain wrote: »

Aren't you the guy that said computer games are doing the same thing? Everything in moderation man.

John is obviously one of the great thinkers of our time.

Mister Vain

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

I don’t watch porn. Porn is one of the reasons there’s so many angry and maladjusted young men around at the moment. Those tube sites are turning their brains to mush.

Aren't you the guy that said computer games are doing the same thing? Everything in moderation man.