Earthhorse wrote: » Honestly, it feels like you're being quite pedantic here.
Earthhorse wrote: » You yourself describe the situation as weird but then take issue with my describing it as bizarre.
Earthhorse wrote: » You were right the first time though; it is weird. It is unusual. It is strange. It is bizarre.
Earthhorse wrote: » The odds of an individual line or ticket might be one in ten million but the odds of someone winning are contingent
Earthhorse wrote: » If this is an "easy" mistake to make, given the number of pubs, hotels and restaurants in Ireland the rate at which we frequent them I would have expected to hear of such an incident prior to this.
Kivaro wrote: » Good God; you need to get a job or find something else to occupy your time. This is not a Sherlock Holmes case; put away the magnifying glass. The woman was served the wrong drink. She apologised to the hotel and staff for her reaction to the simple mistake of getting the wrong drink.
1641 wrote: » And it is possible that this is what happened. But it does require a lot of coincidence. Mostly cordial is not served like this in a wine glass. But, in this specific case the order from the early pregnant woman came at approximately the same time as the order for the black woman, and the orders got mixed up and the blackcurrant was served in the wine glass to the black woman. It is possible but very coincidental and, at least, questionable. Something like the bartender giving the server the blackcurrant cordial instead of the wine as some kind of joke is just as plausible - and doesn't require all these coincidences. It doesn't require conscious malicious intent on the part of the bartender - just stupidity.
jiltloop wrote: » There's a pretty simple and plausible explanation. She specified that she ordered a glass of house red, hotels and restaurants would quite often have their house wines in larger jugs or carafes. They sometimes also have cordial in carafes for visual purposes which could be easy to mix up during a busy serving time.
katiek102010 wrote: » She is now claiming AGS we wrong for attending the Red Cow last night and they caused it by so many being there. She's a gowl
looksee wrote: » An argument that would not be allowed to hold up under any other AH circumstances (display wine bottles of Ribena, cluttering up the counter on a busy evening, contravening all sorts of h&s rules) is accepted as fact, because we don't like this woman so she could not possibly be right about someone having a dig at her colour. Even though we are agreed that if anyone needs a dig made at her, its this person.
AulWan wrote: » Haven't read the whole thread but I just had to roll my eyes at this. As an aside, I've been in the company of women who have ordered non-alcoholic drinks and asked for them to be poured in wine or highball glasses - usually because they are in the early stages of pregnancy and don't want anyone to know they're not drinking!
1641 wrote: » Of course mistakes happen. Orders get mixed up - I've been on the receiving end and the serving end of such. But this one needs some explaining. The most plausible one that comes to mind is that two seperate orders came at the same time - one including a red wine and one including a blackcurrant cordial - and the server then mixed them up. But this demands that the orders happened to come at the same time and that the bartender served up the cordial in a wine glass to a wine glass measure. The alternatives proferred seem to be around cordial being stored in a wine bottle "for display purposes", and this display bottle then being left in the serving area. Having worked behind the bar for a number of years I do find this extraordinary. But that is not all. It then requires a bartender (usually not the most inexperienced casual staff) to mistakenly serve out the cordial instead of wine. Again, hard to imagine. Mistakes are more likely to be a white wine for a red wine, etc. So maybe something like one of the above happened. But I find it at least as plausible that it was not a mistake but rather a misguided attempt at a pisstake. At the same time I am keeping an open mind. But the general consensus throughout this thread is that no open mind is required. In fact at one point I thought there was going to be a collective orgasm of delight at this woman's discomfort. And there may have been a few premature ejaculations!
sbsquarepants wrote: » Why do you think that? Have you never had an order messed up in a pub or restaurant before? You are missing the most plausible (by a considerable margin) explanation, i.e. it was not an extraordinary mistake, it was a run of the mill, mundane mistake, which would also likely have happened to at least another punter or 2 on that very day - they just didn't make twats of themselves in response to some imagined slight. What i would have done is said "this is not what i ordered" and the situation would have been resolved inside a minute, no doubt whatsoever!
road_high wrote: » What is the PC term now? I guess Coloured or Darky currants is even more “offensive”?
Deleted User wrote: » The reason most of us never encounter weird mistakes is they are rare - and the reason many of us do not hear anecdotes about weird mistakes is most of the time the victim of the error does not try to make a fuss about it, they let it go, and they move on with their lives without thinking it worthy of mention. ... Not sure it is contentious - just an odd use of language. When you said "an unlikely incident to occur" that seems accurate. That does not make it "bizarre" though. Unlikely things happen often and are not bizarre.
Deleted User wrote: » For example - how many people have won the lotto jackpot? The odds last time I heard were 1 in 10 million to win it. Statistically almost no one seems to win or know someone who has won. It is a rare event. When it happens however it is not "bizarre". Just rare.
Deleted User wrote: » Under both of those I will not suspect foul play or ill intention until such time as foul play or ill intention is evidenced. Trial by social media is no trial at all. Worse than mob rule.
Signore Fancy Pants wrote: » Some here label the error of mistaking display bottles as "bizarre". Its not bizarre its plausable. The use of cordial instead of wine as a racist attack is in actuality, bizarre.
Raconteuse wrote: » If a person asks for a red wine in a fancy place like that, they'll say they want a rioja or merlot or malbeck etc, not just "a red wine". And any auld buideal just being picked up would hardly happen.
suicide_circus wrote: » To a man with a hammer, every problem looks like a nail.
looksee wrote: » Here we have a woman who people don't like because she is a loud-mouthed whiner. She also happens to be black and uses that fact to have an excuse to be a loud-mouthed whiner. I don't know anything about her but I will take that at face value. A situation arises where she is served a glass of Ribena or similar blackcurrent drink in a hotel. Based on the fact that we don't like her it is assumed that obviously a genuine mistake was made by the hotel (ie one (possibly part time, temporary) barman). An argument that would not be allowed to hold up under any other AH circumstances (display wine bottles of Ribena, cluttering up the counter on a busy evening, contravening all sorts of h&s rules) is accepted as fact, because we don't like this woman so she could not possibly be right about someone having a dig at her colour. Even though we are agreed that if anyone needs a dig made at her, its this person. So if Gerry Adams went into a bar and was served shot glass of Irish cream and whiskey along side the Guinness that he ordered, it would obviously be an mistake and not a dig at him? Its an easy mistake to make, no?
The Rape of Lucretia wrote: » The answer is in the question.
Agustin Hundreds Celery wrote: » Can someone explain the correlation between the B***Kcurrant and racism?
MMXX wrote: » That certainly would not be a dig. It would be a very generous gesture, and one that I am sure Gerry would appreciate. I know I certainly would.
The Rape of Lucretia wrote: » Is it any wonder though that we have such a nation of racists when Ribena is openly marketed and aimed at kids? Of course they grow up freely using the 'b' word and thinking b***kcurrant is an acceptable term in this day and age. You will still even see grown adults ordering a Guinness with a dash of b***k current. Talk about b***k on top of b***k. How much b*****r than that can you get? The answer is none more b***k. Its appalling.
Raconteuse wrote: » If a person asks for a red wine in a fancy place like that, they'll say they want a rioja or merlot or malbeck etc, not just "a red wine". And any auld buideal just being picked up would hardly happen. I think people here are just raging that not everyone is going "obvious mistake, the bitch!" when they know full well it's weird. But I still think people who look for offence everywhere and insult entire countries, especially those where they make their home, are vile. It doesn't have to be just one stance or the other.