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Excluded from WhatsApp group

LegacyUser

I started a course last September. The course co-ordinator recommended that we set up a WhatsApp group between the students for support and for organising swaps in group sessions. Because of GPRD and data protection, this had to be between the students. A sheet of paper was passed around and we put our name and number on it if we wanted to be included in the WhatsApp group and someone was to set up the group.

I wasn't added to a group and thought nothing of it thinking that it just wasn't set up. We went back to college after Christmas and I asked someone was the WhatsApp group ever set up and i was told it was. I was second or third on the list of names so that hard to get lost in
a list of names and numbers. I know I would find it hard to focus on a long list but mistakes happen. I asked the group admin on the day about it and said that I wasn't added. She said there was an issue with her phone and couldn't add me right there and then. She asked me to write my number on the back of an envelope she had. A week passed and I still wasn't added to the group.

It seems like this person has an issue with me and I didn't do anything on her. Her phone was OK to have sitting on her desk for the class and the back of a large envelope isn't a scrap piece of paper that she can lose.

Another girl picked up on how I was being excluded. And she wrote in the WhatsApp group to add me and included my number. So it's going to hit this one in her face and it's very hard to ignore it.

I'm not expecting much to be honest but how do I deal with this situation and this person who very much clearly has an issue towards me or is just being a bully.

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Ursus Horribilis

Good to hear you're now in that group. Now that you've had a look at it, was it really worth this woman's while trying to exclude you? If the others can see that she was having "trouble" trying to add you to it, it might make them a bit wary of her too. Goodness knows what she's at but it's good to know who the snakes in the grass are.

Wrongway1985

lawred2 wrote: »

This is wrongheaded... The chat was set up for a purpose. The OP creating her own for the exact same purpose and inviting all the same people is just not going to work and would look plain weird really.

Why would it be weird? the OP has an issue with one person it appears. Wanted to be in group so force the issue.

Take the bull by the horns and f em, society too soft these days.

LegacyUser

Wouldn't be bothered getting entrenched in any drama or confrontation with that girl.
You're in the group, keep the head down, get the work done.
If there are any further issues with her that are interfering with your studies, then email your class teacher again. Whatever personal gripe she has, I'd totally ignore unless it impacts directly on your studies. You've bigger fish to fry than wasting your time & energy on petty squabbles, let her waste her own time if she wants