lawred2 wrote: » I wouldn't say that for a second... but surely your regular congregation at the weekend shows your support for the church and its lay people. By attending next Sunday - you are showing your support for the leadership of the church which is an entirely different thing. It is the pope like. I can see why you would want to convince yourself otherwise but I can't see how it could be considered in any other way really. But my opinions shouldn't matter to you. Hope you enjoy that day and get what you want out of it.
AudreyHepburn wrote: » Most likely I’d be called a coward or told I’m running and hiding from the truth - or something like that. I appreciate the support IrishGrover, thanks. It’s a hard position to be in.
ittakestwo wrote: » Most are going because of thier religious believes rather than supporting the Church. The Catholic Church is probably the most corrupt organisations in the world but just because you go to the mass next week does not mean you are supporting the corruption but going for the love of your religion. FIFA is also another hugely corrupt world organisation. Everyone knows Qatar bribed them to get 2022 World Cup. But for all the fans that go to it will not be supporting FIFA's corruption but going to support thier country in a sport they love.
TheIrishGrover wrote: » That's it? "I don't see so I assume nothing's happening and I don't care"? What about manufacturing? At lease you did reply, which you didn't need to. Seems you are the only one. Yet everyone still seems to be demanding replies from Audrey. And before you say "She doesn't need to reply either" what would be the general census here is she said "Y'know what? I won't reply"?
Hannibal_Smith wrote: » It's not a hard position to be in at all. The survivors of abuse are the ones in the difficult position. You are not a victim here. You say you don't support the church and don't go to mass in general, but are going to the mass in the phoenix park? Am I reading right? I wouldn't go to a concert of a music act I don't support, even though in general I like music.
AudreyHepburn wrote: » Of course they are. I’m not trying to demean them at all. I’m getting tired of having to justify myself though - I’m going to mass for the reasons I’ve already given. Nothing more, nothing less.
eviltwin wrote: » I have more respect for the people who go to mass of a Sunday. The average priest in the average parish is as powerless as we are. To go on Sunday is different, this is the hierarchy itself. The very people who were directly involved in covering up the abuse of innocent children. How can anyone bear to be in the same airspace as such people let alone let them preach about family? You couldn't make it up. It's a real slap in the face to those who were victims.
Hannibal_Smith wrote: » I wasn't asking you to justify yourself at all. I just don't understand the contradiction, how mass every sunday you boycott, but this one you're going to to support the good people of the church. The people who are going to the WMOF in the RDS would have been listening to the 'good word' of Wuerl, all the while he covered up abuse in Pittsburgh (allegedly). How can you be sure the people you'll be listening to in the PP haven't been involved in something sinister too?
Hannibal_Smith wrote: » But when people go to a football match, they're not being preached to by FIFA on how to live their lives like good people. They're there to watch a match. When a priest is standing in front of you preaching about how a good person should live, how can you not question what he knows, or knew or what he did? How can there be a trust there, when so many who held themselves up to be shining examples turned out to be total scum in reality?
AudreyHepburn wrote: » I can’t be sure of course but given that many of those accused in America have pulled out I take it in good faith that those remaining are ok.
Leroy42 wrote: » Surely you should be wanting to see the evidence that things have changed rather than simply hope for it?
Leroy42 wrote: » But past evidence would suggest that that isn't the case. Each time we are told things have changed, we find out something new. Surely you should be wanting to see the evidence that things have changed rather than simply hope for it?
Sam Quentin wrote: » Your sick.
AudreyHepburn wrote: » It’s not so much a boycott as laziness on my part. I’m often out on Saturday nights and struggle to get out of bed the following morning :P I can’t be sure of course but given that many of those accused in America have pulled out I take it in good faith that those remaining are ok.
AudreyHepburn wrote: » It’s not so much a boycott as laziness on my part. I’m often out on Saturday nights and struggle to get out of bed the following morning :P
ittakestwo wrote: » In the same way people go to football matchs because they like football. People go to mass because they like being preached too. Most priests are not corrupt and would thought if people did know of a corrupt priest they would boycott the mass. And in your example how could anybody trust a referee descion in a fifa world cup match?
volchitsa wrote: » You probably need to put down that shovel at this stage : expressing your faith is less important to you than getting locked on a Sarurday night, but more important than showing your solidarity with raped and abused children by staying away from a meeting to support those who covered up that abuse? No indeed you can't be sure. Remember how the Vatican refused the resignation of a number of those involved? Their record is one of blatant disregard for victims and any who have pulled out have only done so because their position became completely untenable thanks to the (non-religious) media. So all we can be sure of is that some of those who have been caught by outsiders have pulled out. You're happy with that, but most of us aren't.
Seth Brundle wrote: » So the mass raping of children and subsequent organisational cover ups all the while preaching at the public on morals is the same as some in FIFA taking bribes? You've a poor moral compass there!
Eric Savory Misogyny wrote: » So we should assume that every priest is a paedophile?
AudreyHepburn wrote: » I’m going to bow out now - this is an emotive topic and I don’t there will ever be a day where we all find common ground. At least not for a very long time. There’s not point in treading over the same ground again and again. I’ve said all I can say, I can’t change what I believe and no matter how much I try to explain my position there will be those who simply will not understand. If I have offended or annoyed anyone particularly anyone who has suffered at the church’s hands then I apologize. It wasn’t my intent and please don’t anyone think I don’t support the survivors to the hilt. I do and I hope those responsible are punished to the fullest extent.
Doctor Jimbob wrote: » No one that I can see is saying that by having faith you're supporting what the Church did, they're saying that by going to this event you're supporting what the Church did.
volchitsa wrote: » Well naturally. What can you expect of someone whose moral compass is informed by a bunch of child rapists and their supporters? Because that is literally what they are at this stage.
AudreyHepburn wrote: » How dare you? So because I have a social life I don’t care about the abuse or accepting it?
I was merely trying to lighten the mood. It was a joke.
Pelvis wrote: » Audrey, no one is commenting on your beliefs, no one here thinks you are okay with abuse, but by attending on Sunday you WILL be showing your support for the organization responsible for the abuse. Don't fool yourself into thinking otherwise. This is what people have a problem with.
Eric Savory Misogyny wrote: » Your response is ridiculous in the extreme. The catholic church has been organisationally corrupt/abusive with high ranking members involved in this corruption/abuse. Posters make the argument that no priests should be trusted for this reason. The poster you replied to gives the example of FIFA, where corruption is known to be rife among high ranking officials, and asks if we should no longer trust any refereeing decisions because we are aware of this corruption.
eviltwin wrote: » The ones who pulled out only did so because they were exposed to the public and only then because of immense pressure I'd imagine. Do you really think the higher ups didn't know? Until the story broke they were perfectly happy to invite then to come here and talk about family and children. Men involved in child abuse talking about family....I have no idea how you can't see the problem there.