Olsky wrote: » In my opinion the puritanism and sexual repression demanded by the #metoo movement has begun to exceed anything achieved by the catholic church at the height of their powers or the victorian puritans centuries ago. .
Conservatory wrote: » He went for it she said no chance bucko. It’s not like he ran out from under a park bench and pulled at her hoop. He misread a few signals.Every teenage boy in the country has tried to put his hands down a girls trousers only for her to grab the hand and put it somewhere less fun. Should we lock them all up?
razorblunt wrote: » The wife came back from the bar one night saying "why do I know yer man?". I told her who he was and she replied "he's a bit of a creep".
valoren wrote: » There's a major difference between squeezing someones bum while your dancing with them and actually putting your hand inside their clothes to do the same. A complaint about the former is a bit OTT but for the latter completely warranted.
kylith wrote: » Here's an idea: check if it's ok before putting your hand down someone's underwear.
valoren wrote: » There's a major difference between squeezing someones bum while your dancing with them and actually putting your hand inside their clothes to do the same.
ash23 wrote: » I can't believe that you think putting a hand on a shoulder is giving a green light to a hand in your trousers
ash23 wrote: » Thankfully my boyfriend wouldn't dream of putting his hands into my trousers in public.
ash23 wrote: » And my point was that there is no way I would tolerate a man who, without so much as a kiss showing my interest, would stick his hands in my trousers and grope my arse.
If he put his arm around me on the sofa and i held his hand, I wouldn't expect his next move to be sticking his hand in my trousers. It's not a logical or reasonable escalation of intimacy imo
ash23 wrote: » If he put his arm around me on the sofa and i held his hand, I wouldn't expect his next move to be sticking his hand in my trousers. It's not a logical or reasonable escalation of intimacy imo
Olsky wrote: » So your boyfriend requires explicit informed consent before he touches your bum while ye are sitting on the sofa. Would you consider a formal complaint for sexual assault if he touched your bottom without your consent?
Wibbs wrote: » She said Mr Leslie touched her skin but she was not sure if he put his hand beneath her underwear.claims her mates pulled her away from him which CCTV of the event shows to be untrue
Maxpfizer wrote: » How does that even become a legitimate court case?
ash23 wrote: » It's up to the court to decide if it happened or not. I was just commenting in response to the "no big deal, its to be expected in a club etc" comments.I have no idea if he did it or if she is lying. The court will decide. In terms of the work situation I meant if the hug was consensual does it mean it's ok to then progress to hands down trousers. And of course it isn't. So why would a woman agreeing to dance with a man mean hands down trousers is an ok next move. It's quite the leap and bang out of order to assume a person who talked to you and agreed to dance with you then wants your hands in their pants. There might be a situation where someone is trying to suss someone out and thinks they like them but then changes their mind and doesn't want to kiss them or be with them. Them spending time talking, dancing or even flirting with someone doesn't give an open door to that kind of physical contact.
ash23 wrote: » If someone who didn't pay their TV licence or who stole a twenty quid bottle of booze from an off licence can end up in court, surely someone who groped someone without consent can't be seen as too trivial for court?
Canis Lupus wrote: » I won't lie to you Marge, that's weird.
Asked by fiscal depute Fiona Nairn how she feels now, the woman said it had affected her relationship with her husband, friends and work.
Maxpfizer wrote: » What's going on? She's not really sure if he did it and her story is contradicted by the CCTV footage but it still goes to trial? Why?
Wibbs wrote: » You need consent classes Ted. Off to the gulag for reeducation. Again only half joking. I am fully behind the levels of WTF when any stranger takes advantage and liberties, but when it gets to that kinda level within a romantic relationship? Jesus. If any partner of mine had expected my permission for her to escalate intimacy I'd have thought them more than odd. Vice versa would have had me looking to the door in short order. Talk about taking the spontaneity, fun and basic joy out of it. I must now seek out that panacea of the modern western world counselling for those times girlfriends had roused me from my slumber with some happy mouth time. Though mustering and sustaining a straight face would be beyond impossible.
ash23 wrote: » His DNA is on the inside of her pants which backs up her accusation.
Ipso wrote: » Oasis1974 wrote: » That guy was close friends with Jimmy Saville its been alleged many weekends they spent in that Looney bin hospital in Leeds. Dirty Den also named and shamed is being brought back from the dead so to speak. Watch this space. There were some murders in 1974 and you have that year in your username, care to explain yourself?
Oasis1974 wrote: » That guy was close friends with Jimmy Saville its been alleged many weekends they spent in that Looney bin hospital in Leeds. Dirty Den also named and shamed is being brought back from the dead so to speak. Watch this space.
Canis Lupus wrote: » Or me who literally can't sleep unless I'm grabbing my GFs ass
Outlaw Pete wrote: » Not a hope. Sure look at the Game of Thrones actress who claimed she was sexually assaulted to a degree which was an impossibility. Astonishing that it ever seen the inside of a court.
RacoonQueen wrote: » I didn't say that. I said putting your hand on his shoulder while dancing with him is a green light that you're interested. He made a move that many people would not like, but you can be sure that plenty of women who were just up for sex wouldn't have been bothered by that move. He made a bad judgement on whether she how interested she was, his 'move' was a bit stupid but jeez I had guys do worse groping to me in clubs, I'd be pretty sure most women have. If a man did that to me, he'd be pushed away, but I'd never turn around and call it assault. I think you missed my point. My point was does a partner get explicit consent before they puts the moves on or before putting their hands on you while you sit on the couch? Of course not.
Conservatory wrote: » Ulrika has a terrible time with every man that left her didn’t she.