GreeBo wrote: » But you think its ok for her to text her friends and say the lads raped her? Seems fair.
Mr.H wrote: So BlueWolf didnt lie about what I said? So the user ....... didnt say they would rather be accused of rape than have me rape them?
Mr.H wrote: I have no problem standing behind what I said. Again. I believe what I said. I may have not explained it while I wrote it but I believe it.
Mr.H wrote: All rape victims have access to help
Mr.H wrote: No victims of false accusations have access to any form of help
Mr.H wrote: I am not saying that rape victims are better or worse off. I am saying that in terms of getting help, Victims of false allegations are in a worse position and are less able to move on.
_Dara_ wrote: » This tweet is disturbing. People are losing the plot. I replied to the tweet (in a civil manner) but I'm not expecting a response.
Sidebaro wrote: » I refuse to believe that you think that lads bragging about sex is the same thing as reaching out to a friend when you feel that sex was non consensual.
Worst night ever. So I got raped. :(:(:(:(
Adamocovic wrote: » Exactly! But the outcry against our legal system is just so frustrating to me. Phrases like, "Once again we have been let down by our own country" by people from Dublin. Or people going on about the facts but can't get the most simple fact that it was under Northern Irish law correct.
_Dara_ wrote: » I'm disappointed in the lack of logical thinking used by a lot of #ibelieveher folk in the aftermath of this. I know some of them. They are intelligent people. But there is literally no talking to them. I'm sympathetic to a lot of feminist causes. (not all, which is why I don't call myself a feminist) But I just cannot feel sympathetic to this. The verdict was the right one based on the evidence presented. If the verdict as disregarded, think what that would mean for the justice system. As pointed out though, I have a feminist friend who agreed with the verdict. They are not all on board with this campaign. But I don't feel like I can really speak up about this.
jr86 wrote: » People like that genuinely need help
Brock Turnpike wrote: » A dangerously stupid statement to make. I'd like to see her try to explain her logic
_Dara_ wrote: » As pointed out though, I have a feminist friend who agreed with the verdict. They are not all on board with this campaign. But I don't feel like I can really speak up about this.
average_runner wrote: » Lets be fair here, we do not know what happened. As for the lads boasting, all that does, is tell you the class of the individuals or lack of class. Going by the amount of time it took to reach the verdict, means the evidence was weak and jurors felt they had no choice but to deliver the verdict. It still doesn't mean it happened or not, but one thing for sure, no one comes out well from this. It should never of happened in the public eye.
storker wrote: » So an injustice done to four people is better than an injustice done to one. Got it. Here's the logic that underpins this kind of BS... "Someone must be punished...this is someone...therefore we must punish him."
GreeBo wrote: Yeah, seems like the sort of text a traumatised rape victim would send a couple of hours after the incident.
Sebastian Dangerfield wrote: » That graphic of "facts" going around - interesting that they choose to highlight Dara Florences statement that contradicts Jacksons, but completely ignore the fact she also states it was clearly (to her) consensual. The vast majority of it is nonsense. I read a lot of reaction on Twitter and one thing that stands out on both sides is how many people seem to have made their minds up from the start, and don't deviate from that no matter what is presented to them. Even the less vitriolic ones on the "ibelieveher" side seem happy to discuss until a relevant point is made that throws out their argument, then they respond with a "there's no point talking to you". For what its worth I believe her more than them, but there is absolutely no way a jury could confirm their guilt beyond any reasonable doubt, given the statement from Dara Florence and the lack of anything compelling from the prosecution side. I personally think they were probably guilty of something in the grey area, but its not possible to convict on the black and white issue based on the evidence presented.
Sidebaro wrote: » I'm talking about your interactions with me. Although, the rape one is stupid, nobody CALLED you a rapist or even insinuated that. It was a hypothetical and I think you know that. You did not explain it well, no, hence why I challenged you. True but I feel like you are not understanding how hard it is to seek help. Take depression for example, they are always telling people to reach out. Why? Because they're aware a lot of people don't, not because they don't want to but it's a hard thing to do. This is true and it is unfair. That's a far different thing to what you originally said so I think you can understand why I called you on it. I can concede that they may be in a worse position but the less able to move on seems circumstantial. Not everybody is the same. If everybody was able to reach out then I would have no complaints with what you said. The reality is many people do not feel able and that is not their fault.
lawred2 wrote: the loolah is strong in that one
Sidebaro wrote: » Why not? This isn't Hollywood, it's real life. People have differing ways of approaching stuff. Maybe she was being flippant to see if her friend would recognise that it was a lot worse than she was insinuating with that text. You don't know their relationship or what was going through her mind.
meeeeh wrote: » Why not? There is plenty of nonsense floating about from both side. If anything too many people (me included) speak too much about it.
Gunmonkey wrote: » Doubly so because two of the lads werent even up on charges of rape!
Mr.H wrote: » No your not. You are trying to say they are innocent and attaching an * They are innocent full stop
Mr.H wrote: » The woman for some reason called it rape
Mr.H wrote: » The woman either lied or she thought she was telling the truth.
storker wrote: » Stop teasing...what did you reply?