kylith wrote: » The pregnancy is terminated.
Captain Obvious wrote: » The back and forth is only pointless because people like yourself refuse to look at the issue from the the point of view of the other side. Pro life people believe a life is being destroyed. Saying "If you don't want or support abortion, do not get one" to someone who believes this is no different then saying "If you don't support child abuse then don't touch children. No need to prevent others from doing it."
kylith wrote: » She can be pressured, yes, but if she says to the doctor ‘I don’t want to do this’ they won’t perform the procedure, the same as any other elective procedure. It may be the case that she is threatened by family or partner, but the final yes or no is hers. And in this day and age developed countries have enough social supports that withdrawal of family support isn’t a ticket to a workhouse any more. Can you imagine the uproar if it was ever discovered that a doctor performed an abortion on a woman who had told him that she didn’t want it?
pleas advice wrote: » Is there a need for that? Really?
pleas advice wrote: » Do you actually really think that?
Joeytheparrot wrote: » I heard if a dreadful situation. A woman decided to have an abortion, scraped all the money together, went to the UK. Got to the clinic. Changed her mind. Decided she didnt want the abortion. Then felt pressured to have it because if she changed her mind again the cost would be unaffordable. Ironically the 8th pressured this woman to have an abortion.
Captain Obvious wrote: » No it didn't. That's not even logical.
January wrote: » Its very logical. If she had been able to access abortion here in her home country then she would have had time to think and decide what she actually wanted. Instead she was forced into spending money on flights and accommodation and then when she got there and didn't want the abortion she felt pressured into having it because if she went back to Ireland and said oh wait I do want the abortion she wouldn't have been able to afford another flight back.
eviltwin wrote: » I should be sterilised
Captain Obvious wrote: » Are you just assuming abortions will be free or cheap in Ireland if the 8th were not in place? Has that been stated somewhere?
RDM_83 again wrote: » Wouldn't this be a perfect example of why a pre-procedure councilling session followed by a few days reflective period should be legislated for. Would you oppose such legislation? If so why?
RDM_83 again wrote: » Wouldn't this be a perfect example of why a pre-procedure councilling session followed by a few days reflective period should be legislated for. Would you oppose such legislation? If so why? Like it seems like a reasonable compromise
eviltwin wrote: » I would encourage you to look at some of the comments on the pro life pages and you will find there are people who are exactly like that. I've been told one of those pages that I'm a slut, I should be sterilised, be jailed, that I'm a terrible mother, that I'm trying to encourage women to lose the run of themselves, I've seen others called similar things or worse. Just for supporting repeal. It's all about control, about shaming normal sexual behaviour and trying to make women feel bad for wanting choice.
eviltwin wrote: » Why? Are you saying women are idiots who rush into a decision the minute they pee on the stick? Do you not think we are capable of deciding for ourselves what we need without having to be treated like dopes? Are we going to offer counselling to every pregnant woman who decides to go ahead with the pregnancy or is it just the ones who want abortion who are incapable of making a decision? Counselling already exists for crisis pregnancies. It's a good idea to expand it nationwide but make it compulsory? I'm all for talking to women privately to make sure they aren't being coerced but making every woman wait is just unnecessary. You can be sure if she's choosing abortion it's because she wants an abortion.
RDM_83 again wrote: » Is it though? Like repeal simply means repeal of the 8th, for example some islamic countries which have genuine day to day restrictions enforced restrictions on women's lives but still have slightly more liberal law in relation to abortion than Ireland as they consider the soul to only become present after a certain stage of fetal development.
eviltwin wrote: » In my experience it is. Granted those pages tend to attract a certain mindset and I wouldn't say all those in favour of the 8th share those views but these are the groups setting the tone of the Save campaign. There is an overwhelming sense that it's a certain type of woman who looks for an abortion and that if they have access to abortion they will be shagging away and it's that freedom they seem to resent, not the loss of what they consider a life.
AnneFrank wrote: » I'd like to hear from the thousands of women who were pressurised into having an abortion at a very vulnerable time in their life,and decided to keep their child,and are now a mother to an amazing child with a great future ahead.
RDM_83 again wrote: » And I could share that video of the angry afro-Irish militant feminist speaking at one of the repeal marches and the fact the audience isn't standing around booing her despite her saying awful stuff. That wouldn't be an honest representation of most Repeal though and in the same way some Facebook pages don't necessarily set the tone of the Pro-life side
Deleted User wrote: » Dont be silly. I wouldn't want to say you're stupid, but if you think all "Repeal" people are that woman then you need to wake up. I'm sure as a pro lifer you are ashamed at some of the things "your" side do. Likewise. We're not all the same.
January wrote: » Did I mention the cost of the abortion? I mentioned the cost of flights and accommodation which are extra to the cost of the abortion and have to be paid up front and cannot be refunded. But yes I am assuming abortion will be free or very cheap when it becomes available here. Maternity care is free for all pregnant people in this country. Abortion falls under maternity care. I envision that the pill will be covered under the GMS and DPS schemes and that surgical abortions will be covered under public care as a day procedure which even if its not free under maternity care will only cost 80 euro bed charge.
Joeytheparrot wrote: » I do. Some so called pro lifers are definitely mysoginists.
Edward M wrote: » Probably, some pro choice people probably are too. The debate doesn't centre on that though.
Andrew Beef wrote: » I cannot support abortion except in very limited circumstances (e.g. medical Savita type cases and rape/incest cases). I do not believe that a woman’s right to choose trumps an unborn child’s right to life.
bubblypop wrote: » Andrew Beef wrote: » I cannot support abortion except in very limited circumstances (e.g. medical Savita type cases and rape/incest cases). I do not believe that a woman’s right to choose trumps an unborn child’s right to life. And what has the unborn child in a rape case done, in your opinion, not to have a right to life?
Andrew Beef wrote: » Nothing, but the woman has not chosen to be impregnated so the analysis changes.