recedite wrote: » Adopted children rarely if ever complain that their upbringing was a disadvantage to them.
recedite wrote: » Maybe being so pro-choice you take a more lenient view of rapists? Let them do whatever they want with their own bodies? Sure we can always abort the rapist's children before they are born.
Delirium wrote: » Pretty difficult without a Tardis tbh.
smacl wrote: » Of course they're still better off than their counterparts from the previous generations who would have enjoyed all the charms of the mother and baby homes with thanks to our generous state. We have a pretty lousy track record when it comes to orphans.
Bob_Marley wrote: » Bit of juvenile thanks fishing - really ?, have you never heard of the phrase should never have been born ? I've yet to hear an adopted person claim they should have been aborted instead.
Delirium wrote: » No more juvenile than your own post. Adopted or not, generally people tend not to state that it would have been better if they'd never been born/ aborted. A persons life would have to be pretty miserable or they suffer from depression to wish they were aborted instead of alive.
smacl wrote: » Good old George Soros, the favourite hate figure for the far right. You're keeping some interesting company with that dig.
“It is a witch-hunt being pursued by authoritarian, rightwing populists,” Jacek Kucharczyk of Poland’s Institute of Public Affairs – which receives some Soros funding – said last year.
smacl wrote: » Reading this thread, apparently unwanted Irish children are rarely eligible for local adoption, end up being bounced from one foster home to the next and do end up at a serious disadvantage as a result.
smacl wrote: » Coming back to abortion, do you seriously believe that forcing women to have unwanted children will be of net benefit to our society? That we should force woman to have more children because we're running out of kids? Seriously?
smacl wrote: » In case you haven't noticed, we have a homeless crisis in this country. As a society we're already failing to look after very many young people. The sad truth is that this is the scenario that those who are unwanted find themselves in.
smacl wrote: » And if you read my posts you'll note that I've stated that abortion should be an exceptional event and am not advocating as a routine method of birth control. Nor is anyone for that matter, how ever much the pro-life brigade would like to see it.
Delirium wrote: » @eotr by denying woman an abortion, you are forcing them to continue with the pregnancy.
Delirium wrote: » how do you propose a woman terminate a pregnancy, if not by abortion?
Delirium wrote: » if you're suggesting that abortion is being used as birth control, then surely better sex education will reduce abortion even where it's available on request?
end of the road wrote: » i'm afraid i don't see it that way, given the fact that it involves a human being who is just as entitled to live as the woman carying them, unless there are extreme circumstances requiring otherwise.
i don't propose any alternative. in my view and currently in the state's view she cannot kill the unborn except in medically necessary circumstances, and while abortion is the only option then the right to life of the unborn must be upheld unless medical reasons require otherwise.
absolutely better sex education is necessary and i'm in full support of it. there is no legitimate reason why it isn't in all schools and isn't up to a high standard. i still won't be supporting the availability of abortion on demand in ireland howeveer.
recedite wrote: » Can you point out where this claim was made? Otherwise withdraw the allegation please. For many years there has been a shortage of children for adoption. By harking back to various events of the 19th Century you are trying to muddy the waters of this discussion with irrelevancies.
Delirium wrote: » I'm not disputing the unborn exists within the woman. But unless you're privy to some new groundbreaking procedure in the realm of pregnancies you're denying the basics of human biology by saying the woman isn't being forced to continue with the pregnancy. She currently faces 14 years in prison is she aborts in Ireland. She legally can't choose to terminate therefore she is forced to continue with the pregnancy.
Delirium wrote: » Terminating a pregnancy requires an abortion, be it a pill or otherwise. That's a medical reason, it just happens to be one you don't approve of.
Delirium wrote: » I was addressing your claim that abortion is used as birth control. Which I find hard to believe tbh. You honestly believe women forgo condoms and other contraceptives in favour of having abortions?
end of the road wrote: » absolutely better sex education is necessary and i'm in full support of it. there is no legitimate reason why it isn't in all schools and isn't up to a high standard. i still won't be supporting the availability of abortion on demand in ireland howeveer.
pilly wrote: » You are force woman to birth. Fact. Doesn't matter what your point of view is. Sorry.
Bob_Marley wrote: » This is a bit like claiming the state forces people to pay taxes, not to steal, and not to kill other human beings, and not to abuse children. You can still do all these things if you choose to.
smacl wrote: » Here, here, here, here, here, here, and here. And the mother and baby homes...
Delirium wrote: » I'm not disputing the unborn exists within the woman. But unless you're privy to some new groundbreaking procedure in the realm of pregnancies you're denying the basics of human biology by saying the woman isn't being forced to continue with the pregnancy.
end of the road wrote: » i'm not forcing a woman to birth. i don't force women to do anything. currently the state effectively shares my viewpoint by prohibiting the killing of the unborn within it bar extreme circumstances.
recedite wrote: » Those are examples of people saying there is a shortage of babies available for adoption in Ireland. That's a far cry from your assertion that they weren't "eligible" for adoption, or that there were too many and they were growing up disadvantaged, being bounced around foster homes and orphanages.
WhiteRoses wrote: » our care system is flooded with children who will never know a home. Domestic adoption is non existent in this country, so unfortunately, long term foster care is the best they can hope for. Children with additional needs are even harder to place in long term foster care, because there are very few fosterers willing to take them on.
Are you aware that giving a child up for adoption in Ireland means a life sentence in the foster care system as adoption is now at a standstill in Ireland?
There is extremely limited domestic adoption in Ireland. We have long term fostering in its place. The option to adopt is only available after long term fostering of the child.
WhiteRoses wrote: » as has already been stated twice now, domestic adoption isn’t available here.
uptherebels wrote: » the state effectively shares your viewpoint of not im my backyard;)
end of the road wrote: » and thankfully face consiquences for doing them as it should be. this is incorrect. i don't have such a view and the state doesn't have such a view.
uptherebels wrote: » It is ok with both you and the state for irish women to have abortions.They must just pass a geographical boundary. You can deny it all you want. You posting history shows the truth
smacl wrote: » Really? Is that the conclusion you arrive at reading the points below?
frag420 wrote: » https://www.theguardian.com/science/...-person-babiesDoctors in Newcastle have been granted permission to create Britain’s first “three-person babies” for two women who are at risk of passing on devastating and incurable genetic diseases to their children. A questions for the Christian pro life side, would you be in support of a three parent child developed in a lab as per the article above if it meant a reduction in abortions as there would be a reduction in the risk of passing on devastating and incurable genetic diseases to children which is a reason that many cite for procuring an abortion?
Bob_Marley wrote: » Unfortunately, some Irish people can and do travel abroad to do all sorts of illegal things to children and other things that are illegal in this country, in practice the state or anyone else can do little about it, as it's outside the state's jurisdiction, and within the jurisdiction of another country.
uptherebels wrote: » and how many of those things specifically have constitutional protection? clutching at straws a bit there