david75 wrote: » By opposing a woman’s right to choose. For a million reasons she may not be able to raise a child or have the capacity within her life financially or structurally. Forcing a woman to have a child is damaging that woman’s life.
mrsoundie wrote: » However, the Ten Commandments were not written for Christians. They did not exist at the time that these were supposedly written.
J C wrote: » How so? ... and I'd be interested in your answer to my post as well ... given that there are atheist pro-life advocates.
wrote: Originally Posted by J C If there isn't a God ... and it all ends when we die ... then is it not arguably more imortant that we don't kill other Human Beings, thereby depriving them of whatever time nature and fate would otherwise give them? At least a Christian woman can find some solace in their belief that their unborn child has gone to a better place. ... and I'm all for keeping out of other people's decisions, unless they are affecting other people.david75You’re contradicting yourself with that last line.
smacl wrote: » I'm wouldn't be so sure. A man telling a woman that she must go through a pregnancy, regardless of the damage it does her, because he feels that abortion is immoral and goes against his religious beliefs, is about as misogynistic as it gets. Very easy to take the high moral ground when you're not actually the one who'll ever have to do any of the suffering or bear any of the hardship.
smacl wrote: » You seem rather determined to establish an association with abortion and slavery there Nick, but if you think about it trying to force a woman to go through a pregnancy against her will, to suit your philosophical point of view, regardless of the untold suffering it may cause her, is actually far closer to enslavement. Perhaps 'pro-life' could be better termed 'pro-misogyny'.
J C wrote: » If there isn't a God ... and it all ends when we die ... then is it not arguably more imortant that we don't kill other Human Beings, thereby depriving them of whatever time nature and fate would otherwise give them? At least a Christian woman can find some solace in their belief that their unborn child has gone to a better place. ... and I'm all for keeping out of other people's decisions, unless they are affecting other people.
Harika wrote: » There was an US slogan for Planned Parenthood, something like "Easy to access, hardly used" stating that if you want an abortion you can have it without any hassle, but there will be systems in place that will give you all support you need to get through the pregnancy and raise a child, so that you don't want one.
J C wrote: » Of course I can make up my own mind ... but I utilise basic principles when doing so. For a Christian, basic principles include the 10 Commandments ... although there are many more 'real world' reasons, including Human Rights, for limiting abortion than just the principle of 'thou shall not kill' ... although it is a good principle to live by whatever your religious persuasion ... or none.
smacl wrote: » The twelve weeks is the limit there JC. Unrestricted access to abortion within the first twelve weeks of pregnancy, and abortion under certain circumstances beyond that is what is being considered. Unlimited abortion implies unrestricted access to abortion services at any stage during the pregnancy. The title of your thread is misleading in this regard. If you mean within 12 weeks, you should maybe edit the title of the thread.
J C wrote: » You will find it difficult to make that one stick, given the number of women in the pro-life movement ... and the number of women hurt by abortion.
bilbot79 wrote: » There you all go outsourcing your moral values again. Can you not make up your own mind?
Nick Park wrote: » It's like those who support the reintroduction of capital punishment getting upset at being called 'pro-death penalty'. After all, they don't want every criminal to be executed - they just want the judge to have a choice. So they should be called 'pro-choice' too. As for those of us who think slavery should be illegal - we're 'anti-choice' because we are so intolerant as to argue that people shouldn't have the choice whether to keep slaves or not.
eviltwin wrote: » You know, I think that's for her to decide without pressure from people with an agenda. It's not for me to tell another person what's right for them, only they can make that choice. I do know though that whatever she decides she'd have my full support.
david75 wrote: » Not everyone believes in your god Owen. I certainly don’t. Do you still think I’m one of her creations and she gave me a soul? You can have your faith and belief but you have no right whatsoever to force it on me or any woman and her Health choices and decisions for her own life. Do you understand that? You were claiming to speak for god only a few pages back yet someone pointed out your bible strictly forbids that and you ran away. Might be an idea to keep out of other people’s decisions for their own lives and particularly stay out of women’s wombs. You have no business in there.
J C wrote: » ... and why wouldn't she want her child to be fostered/adopted if the alternative was to kill it? Would fosterage/adoption not be best for both her and her child?
eviltwin wrote: » I'm all for adoption and fostering but only if the woman herself wants it. I'm all for financial supports too if that helps. Ultimately though there are women who just dont want to be pregnant and nothing we can give them will change that. They should be able to make that choice.
eviltwin wrote: » I'm all for adoption and fostering but only if the woman herself wants it.
eviltwin wrote: » I want people to have access to abortion yes. Am I pro abortion? No not at all. It's possible to be personally against something but to support the freedom for others to do so. It's about respecting diversity of opinions.
end of the road wrote: » it can't be disputed. you have tried to dispute it but have failed each time. of course we would be having the referendum because some in this country think it's okay, unrestricted and on demand, to kill the most vunerable, the unborn. it's not and it never will be whether the 8th is repealed or not. it goes against humanity and all that is right, and everything humanity stands for. this fact unites both religious and non-religious who see unrestricted and on demand abortion for what it actually is
Timberrrrrrrr wrote: » And yet women miscarry all of the time so your "logic" flies out the window.
J C wrote: » Maybe there should be more support for that. ... and I have always believed that there should be a child tax allowance for working parents, like yourself. I am not judging any woman who has had an abortion ... far from it, I have absolute compassion for her, that she could only see one solution for her pregnancy because of where she found herself. In this regard the availabilty of fosterage or adoption could be something that a woman with an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy should look at. It would certainly be better for her child than aborting it.
J C wrote: » I have no wish to misrepresent you ... I'm talking about the validity of the term 'pro-choice' when it comes to abortion. If somebody were campaigning for the right to choose to use Cocaine ... I don't think it would be unreasonable to call such a stance to be pro-drugs ... and not merely the choice to use Class A drugs. They would be asking for the legalisation of Cocaine use ... and would therefore be pro-drugs. Similarly, why is the 'pro-choice' movement so coy about what they actually wish to achieve, which is unlimited abortion?
eviltwin wrote: » There is no public support for that. You know the kinds of comments people make when those on welfare look for more money. And there is nothing for working families, I work and can manage but another child would mean one of us would have to stay home and we just can't afford that. So judging people who feel they have no other option is pointless because they are the ones who have to make the hard choices based on what's best for them.
eviltwin wrote: » No I'm not pro abortion so don't try and misrepresent me. I'm pro choice. I believe every individual should be free to make their own decision. There are lots of things I personally dislike but I don't believe I have the right to force anyone to live by my morality.
J C wrote: » Fair point ... and indeed, as a society, we need to do much more for such young women than just offering them an abortion. Indeed to reduce abortion, wherever it is being done, we need to do much more in terms of support for pregnant women.
eviltwin wrote: » The supports are not enough if you want to go to college or work. It wouldn't cover childcare. It's something to keep people afloat but that's all it is. If you have aspirations beyond a life on welfare you will struggle to make that happen if you are on welfare.
J C wrote: » ... so you're not pro-abortion ... yet you're campaigning to make abortion freely available. You may describe yourself as you please, but the result you're campaigning for is unlimited abortion. If somebody were campaigning for the right to choose to use Cocaine ... I don't think it would be unreasonable to call such a stance to be pro-drugs ... and not merely the choice to use Class A drugs.