ShowMeTheCash wrote: » Maybe and again I am not saying it is right I am just saying there are scenarios where I think people would think twice, but let's look at this and try and be honest. Football camp run by men in my local town every summer. For boys and girls. - Do not think anyone would have an issue with this. Kids are not required to get showered of changed is it outside parents usually hang around and watch.... Tag Rugby and GAA - Same thing Swimming lessons for young kids - They call it the little swimmers where I am from. They have male instructors but never male instructors without female instructors, I think the main reason for this there is an element where the kids need to get changed. If two guys where running a swimming class for young girls do you think everyone would look at this exactly the same as if it was two women running a swimming class for young girls?
nice_guy80 wrote: » went to a primary schools' inservice last year where there were 9/10 schools present I was the only male scary stuff
In 2014, 68 per cent of principals appointed in secondary schools were men, even though women comprise 70 per cent of the Association of Secondary Teachers Ireland’s (ASTI) membership.
Candie wrote: » You asked if men were out there working with young kids and if it was really an everyday thing. It is, as I said, in every town and village. Men are out there coaching kids, running clubs, taking out scouts, teaching martial arts. It is completely and totally an everyday occurrence. Now you're changing the scenario to two men teaching an all girls swimming class. Now the answer I'd give here is that if two women were teaching an all boys class, they'd be stupid not to have a man around to take the kids to the loo or help them like that. And if two men had an all girls class the same applies. You're inventing obstacles, the truth is that it's happening and men are involved in all kinds of kids activities - as they should be - and not everyone is walking around in a state of paralysis, denying themselves the career of their dreams because they run a risk of a false accusation. The simpler and more prosaic truth is that men aren't entering teaching because they don't want to enter teaching, and the issues that need to be addressed to change that may very well include wariness of working with children, but it would most likely be very far down a list of other factors that present greater barriers. For example, the lack of permanent contracts, the conditions, the prospects and the various other reasons Spurious has posted about earlier from a place of experience.
ShowMeTheCash wrote: » See I am not changing the scenario at all, the original conversion was why men do not teach in national school with very young kids, my original statement was to give at least some weight to the argument men being or feeling uncomfortable due to at a perceived stigma of having to take on an almost parental role like the example you give above such as taking the kids to the loo. I think that male teachers could worry that people might the get wrong idea around something that is innocent. The OP then came in and started to argue this point and talk about volunteer work they did or out reach work to which is vague, two more op's give examples of news reports where male teachers and been falsely accused of wrong doing or some kind of abuse. The OP continued in this vein of men work with kids every day. So now we are looking at after school sport programs.... Kids 3 to 7 from play school to national school are left with staff and teachers. You leave them in their care. My kids as far as after school sports go at that age I usually stay and watch them I do not leave.
Candie wrote: » Now you're changing the scenario to two men teaching an all girls swimming class. Now the answer I'd give here is that if two women were teaching an all boys class, they'd be stupid not to have a man around to take the kids to the loo or help them like that. And if two men had an all girls class the same applies.
evolving_doors wrote: » Why not?
Noveight wrote: » Did you know that the Chinese use the same word for 'crisis' as they do for 'opportunity'?
mikhail wrote: » No, they don't.
evolving_doors wrote: » out of interest (as a male teacher in primary)... have you an eye on a principal's position at some stage?here
ShowMeTheCash wrote: » Also I think this is disingenuous. If you had a class of 5 year olds you think it would be equally silly that a female teacher help a little boy go to the loo? Have you even known a national school teacher who teaches infants or junior infants to be a male?
ShowMeTheCash wrote: » See I am not changing the scenario at all, the original conversion was why men do not teach in national school with very young kids, my original statement was to give at least some weight to the argument men being or feeling uncomfortable due to at a perceived stigma of having to take on an almost parental role like the example you give above such as taking the kids to the loo. I think that male teachers could worry that people might the get wrong idea around something that is innocent.
The less positive responses were: ‘ believe it is a risk too great to take to prevent sexual abuse.’ ‘ would feel uncomfortable with a man minding my children.’ ‘Yes I do but not to change girl’s nappies as I believe women should do it.’ ‘Would feel uncomfortable, woman are more understanding.’ ‘I would prefer a female with female children for toilet training etc., apart from that fine.’ ‘No I wouldn’t like it; it’s a risk I do not want to take for my child’s safety.’ ‘I wouldn’t feel comfortable with a male caring for my children.’
A study of a primary school in Norway with a 50/50 gender balance in staff showed that young boys with male teachers do better in school.
Gravelly wrote: » It's funny how the conversation on gender balance in the workplace differs so profoundly when people discuss male or female.Why aren't there more female CEO's, engineers, computer programmers? Because we have not made these positions available or attractive to females, we must change the way we teach and work to make these jobs available to women. Companies with female CEO's perform on average 189% better (see the study carried out by my feminist empowerment think tank), female engineers are better at problem solving, female programmers make better software etc. etc. We must change the way evil men have set up society to keep the wimmin down - smash the patriarchy! vs. Why aren't there more male teachers? Ah shure what do you want, priests is it? Isn't there loads of them, and they only want the high paying jobs, and shure they'd only abuse the pupils, and feck 'em anyway.
tastyt wrote: » One point, teachers pay is not anywhere near ****, top of the scales between 60/70k. Will ye cop on, what country are ye living in?
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nice_guy80 wrote: » ShowMeTheCash wrote: » Also I think this is disingenuous. If you had a class of 5 year olds you think it would be equally silly that a female teacher help a little boy go to the loo? Have you even known a national school teacher who teaches infants or junior infants to be a male? yes, to the last question.
ShowMeTheCash wrote: » Well of course you would be one of the few people who knows a male primary school teacher that teaches juniour or senior infants, I literally know no one nor do I know any school that has one. I reckon you would be lucky to find a handful in the entire country! That being said looking at other forums around this here are some of the commments I have seen.https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/primary/1212309-Male-teachers-in-primary-school "[font=Roboto, sans-serif]My brother is a primary school teacher. Somebody once 'joked' to me that he might therefore be a paedophile [/font][font=Roboto, sans-serif]. FFS!!"[/font] And again I do not think this is right there is something wrong that elements in society think like this, but you seem to want to deny that anyone does think like this and is therefore not a concern any man you is contemplating being a primary school teacher......
Jake Orange Molecule wrote: » ShowMeTheCash wrote: » See I am not changing the scenario at all, the original conversion was why men do not teach in national school with very young kids, my original statement was to give at least some weight to the argument men being or feeling uncomfortable due to at a perceived stigma of having to take on an almost parental role like the example you give above such as taking the kids to the loo. I think that male teachers could worry that people might the get wrong idea around something that is innocent. It's opinions like yours (and a small minority of people in society) that are perpetuating the fear and "stigma" (there is no stigma imo except in some people's heads). You obviously have a fear of your kids around men, that's quite obvious. This has no basis in anything except some crazy notion that men must want to work with kids for bad reasons. It's absolute bull and thankfully the vast majority of people in the country would not even let it enter their heads that a man can't be in charge of kids on his own. It's only within a few steps of saying a man can't look after his own child or look after his nieces or nephews alone that's the road we will head down if the opinions you are displaying spread and intensify.
nice_guy80 wrote: » ShowMeTheCash wrote: » Well of course you would be one of the few people who knows a male primary school teacher that teaches juniour or senior infants, I literally know no one nor do I know any school that has one. I reckon you would be lucky to find a handful in the entire country! That being said looking at other forums around this here are some of the commments I have seen.https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/primary/1212309-Male-teachers-in-primary-school "[font=Roboto, sans-serif]My brother is a primary school teacher. Somebody once 'joked' to me that he might therefore be a paedophile [/font][font=Roboto, sans-serif]. FFS!!"[/font] And again I do not think this is right there is something wrong that elements in society think like this, but you seem to want to deny that anyone does think like this and is therefore not a concern any man you is contemplating being a primary school teacher...... ok, but it kinda makes your other point invalid plenty of males are or have been infant teachers mirrorwall has more or less hit the nail on the head teaching is becoming very frustrating it is being treated as a business - initiatives, input and results. primary teaching seems so busy and stressful compared to a decade ago when I started. more or more being asked of the teaching staff, with less time to do it. pay doesn't start off great considering all the hoops you've to jump through, doesn't really improve by much over your career and even if you do get into management the pay isn't great for the responsibility needed.