zedhead wrote: » But why is it those things are down to the mothers to do? You say childless people in the same department but what you mean is childless people and fathers. Children have 2 parents in the workplace - why aren't fathers missing just as much work for these things?
One of the reasons I am thinking about not having children is because of this. It is my career that will be inevitably affected and not my partners. We need to start not only allowing couples to divide maternity leave however they see fit but also actively encouraging fathers to use this. It is easier for women to ask for a shortened week to spend more time with their family - its normal for women to ask for this but strange if a man was to.
Neutral Definite wrote: » It's personal choice between Mothers and Fathers who is the main child carer if any.
Deleted User wrote: » I would assume that is the choice made within the family unit. There are generally better layers of support for the woman to miss work than for the man. Even today the numbers of fathers staying at home is relatively low compared to women who do so, and there isn't much support for that to change.
Deleted User wrote: » Yup. I see your point. I do. However, as a single male, who doesn't have children, I don't see why childless people should be penalized for others choosing to have children. There should naturally be support provided by the government for families... not the employers. Otherwise, why should single or childless people be required to commit more to a job than those with children? Where is the benefit to working longer hours and being available to work far more readily?
grahambo wrote: » The gas thing is that people don't actually realise, that if women stop having kids the population will decline.
hatrickpatrick wrote: » The population needs to decline, and urgently so. The planet cannot continue to support unchecked human population growth for much longer - as they put it in The Matrix, humans are fast becoming more of a plague or virus on this planet than a mere species.
zedhead wrote: » How are childless people being penalised? I am saying that if parents took time off more equally then there wouldn't be a gender pay gap for the reasons listed in this thread. All of those things would affect mothers and fathers equally.
[Deleted User] wrote: » Yup. I see your point. I do. However, as a single male, who doesn't have children, I don't see why childless people should be penalized for others choosing to have children. There should naturally be support provided by the government for families... not the employers. Otherwise, why should single or childless people be required to commit more to a job than those with children? Where is the benefit to working longer hours and being available to work far more readily?
[Deleted User] wrote: » I objected noting women who chose not to have children or couldn't have children.
[Deleted User] wrote: » Unless you're expecting an employer to pay two employees to do one job...? Won't happen often. They'll pass the workload on to others, and those others should receive some extra benefits for doing it.
meeeeh wrote: » Why would you expect that? Employers in Ireland don't have to pay maternity leave. They can if they want to but they don't have to. At least get the basics right.
andekwarhola wrote: » Which occurred at the end of a sentence where the phrase many women (and by implication, not all) was specified. Whatever pedantic axe you have to grind, I suggest finding other posts to launch off.
VinLieger wrote: » The pay gap is a myth, none of the studies show like for like job comparisons and consistently misrepresent the facts by showing stats from across the board which doesn't work as statistically women simply work more lower paid jobs than men do.
meeeeh wrote: » the_pen_turner wrote: » Have you any evidence to show this pay gap. I hadn't seen any fact put forward that show the true picture. I want like for like facts not overall generalisation s It's a report EU do. I suggest you write to Juncker & Co. and tell them to stop publishing nonsense. Anyway it's a worldwide research conspiracy against men.
the_pen_turner wrote: » Have you any evidence to show this pay gap. I hadn't seen any fact put forward that show the true picture. I want like for like facts not overall generalisation s
Deleted User wrote: » Only if you assume that the gender pay gap rests solely on gender. It doesn't. If you're going home to look after the kids, you'll be facing the same pay gap as your wife currently would be. Why? Because you wouldn't be able to commit to the job as much as a single person. Unless, of course, you're willing to hire someone to watch the children, and take care of all those little emergencies and obligations. In any case, the maternity leave is still a major factor. Having four pregnancies in 4 years means missing work for two years of that time if she takes the full 6 months. 2 years... out of work while others are working to pick up the work she is not doing... since the employer is still required to hold her job for her, and not hire a replacement, which means that others already in the company will likely have to pick up the slack. Unless you're expecting an employer to pay two employees to do one job...? Won't happen often. They'll pass the workload on to others, and those others should receive some extra benefits for doing it.
zedhead wrote: » But thats my point. That currently the maternity leave situation skews it so that women are the ones penalised for having children. If maternity leave was limited to medical leave required to recover from child birth only and then the rest was reclassed as 'parental leave' and was divided between both parents (or could be divided as the couple chose themselves) then it wouldn't be a gender pay gap - it would be down to a family choice that penalised both people making the choice equally.
Also employers have to hold the job but they can hire a temp to cover the role in the interim which many do. It is not a requirement for an employer to pay maternity leave and most don't.
professore wrote: » Why is no one stating the obvious that on average women love babies and men tolerate them? Why force equal maternity/paternity leave if people don't want it? Allocate a block of leave and let each couple divide it up as they see fit And if you are really worried about having children are going to affect your "career" (which in most cases is a job to make someone else rich who doesn't give two ****s about you) then you probably shouldn't have any
TheDavester wrote: » Why don't more organisations hire more women if they are seen to be cheaper than males
kylith wrote: » Untrue. See the link in post #16. When given identical CVs, one with a female name one with a male name, the male name was deemed more experienced and hireable, and would be offered in the region of $4,000 more p/a.
bodice ripper wrote: » So the obvious solution here is compulsory paternity leave. Level playing field.
blanch152 wrote: » Who said it was a personal choice? There is a lot of misunderstanding in this thread. People are taking the basic position that women earn less than men because they choose to stay at home. However, there is no proof of this causation. In fact, the opposite could well be argued i.e. that more women choose to stay at home because men are better paid in the workforce and it therefore makes sense for the man to work. The only way to correct this is to ensure that women are equally paid as men so that couples have a free choice. Here is an excellent article that debunks many of the myths:http://time.com/money/4285843/gender-pay-gap-excuses-wrong/
andekwarhola wrote: » Obviously, baldly shouting sexism is inaccurate because if it were just that, surely women wouldn't progress in the workplace at all. Our company has a number of female directors for example. My overall manager is a woman as well. That said, it's wrong to simply point out the bald fact that many women's careers do stall or end because of children. It's hardly their fault that they're the gender that bears children and that parental leave often isn't equally available.
hatrickpatrick wrote: » The population needs to decline, and urgently so. The planet cannot continue to support unchecked human population growth for much longer.
hatrickpatrick wrote: » So in short, if circumstances are preventing people from having kids, while I'm sympathetic to the disappointment and heartbreak it causes on an individual level, it's a good thing. Future generations will be glad of not having to live on a planet which simply cannot keep up with our population, resource-wise, and enable everyone to live with a high standard of living anymore. I fully believe that this time is coming far sooner than many think, so stories about falling reproduction levels among humans actually give me reason to celebrate.