Masturbation and sex education.

Nevermind about technique....we need the sex education people to first of all start telling young people it's actually OK to experiment with oneself! That it's perfectly normal and fire away!

Saying that I was in a Catholic school so their hands were tied and the teacher couldn't say anything for fear of loosing her job or getting into serious bother.

We have mostly Catholic schools, and in Catholicism its considered a sin to touch yourself








thats why the priests do it for you!

bah-dum-tsh!

Really though, i didnt think there was a specific technique, whatever works really, though getting a blowjob and knocking one off yourself arent the same, likewise for women going down on them and using a vibrator will proabably yield different results

I have a terrible technique myself, which I can't change, whereby I choke the chicken too hard, This makes Oral on me a pain, because I literally Can't cum if I am getting a BJ, there isn't enough pressure so eventually I just go numb.

Tbh, I think your penis going numb while receiving oral might be something to get looked at? It dosn't sound too right at all at all.

I just wanted to ask, do ye think proper masturbation technique should be taught as part of sex education?

No. Why?

A) Somebody has to do it. It's a horrible task, which would induce a lot of stress on a teacher, which is something that isn't needed. And even if it was done via video*, there's still going to be questions asked. I don't think teachers would be too happy telling somebody how to touch themselves.

Things like "Don't Choke the life out of it...." Don't hammer to the fastest finish. That sort of thing.

I don't think it's any teachers place to tell kids that.

Following on from that, people are different, people find out for themselves, what works for one might never work for another. It'd introduce more pressures to the students that 'they're not right' - puberty is hard enough without kids thinking they're even more messed up.

Let it happen themselves, people have been figuring out how to get their jollies for the past 2,000+ years, and I'm sure they can figure it out for the next 2,000 years.

Nevermind about technique....we need the sex education people to first of all start telling young people it's actually OK to experiment with oneself! That it's perfectly normal and fire away!

They've started a campaign like this in the UK, to the best of my knowledge. Afair, the slogan is "An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Doctor Away" - Although I'm not fully sure... And don't really want to Google it - God only knows what fetish's will pop up.

A really ****ty masturbation technique can make sex a real pain, especially when trying the first few times. I failed more than once because I just wasn't hard enough, I think this could be related to the fact that I don't need to be rock hard to Masturbate. The first time I succeeded was because it had been a few days since my last!

Again, I don't think this is down to your masterbation, it's most likely to do with you being under pressure to perform. I wouldn't blame **** and try find out what the real problem is.

CDfm wrote: »

I have never got this whole sex ed in school thing anyway.

What gives a teacher expertise in this?

I think it's more common now to have an outsider coming in rather than a normal teacher.

This way people may have questions they want to ask and can feel more comfortable asking a stranger rather than their teacher who they see every day.

Karsini wrote: »

My class were given sex education in 2nd year in secondary. All I remember from it was the teacher saying that "stimulating yourself is selfish and makes you a bad lover."

When we were given sex ed in first year, someone asked the teacher about masturbation (Probably as a result of a dare I think)
The teacher's response "Eh...yeah...it's OK...but, it's a bit desperate."

tbh wrote: »

sex education in my school involved mucus, thermometers and more maths than necessary.

I thanked this even though it really scared me :eek: