How do you like to spoil your OH?

mollybird · 14-07-2009 11:12am #1

for most of the summer i have been spoiling my OH with little things. cooking nice meals for him, making deserts etc. my way of making up for the busy time ill be having for hte next 9 months in college.

so how do you like to spoil your OH to make them feel special??

Professey Chin · 14-07-2009 11:47am

I'm a bastard for buyinh them little presents at random times. Nothing big so could be a teddy,some make up or a tin whistle depending on my mood.
Wish I could say ive been saving money since ive been single but it turns out I just buy myself crap instead

barleybooley · 14-07-2009 11:52am

Well he buys me perfume which makes him feel good and he brings me treats when he's coming home from somewhere and he's spoiled for choice with buying me presents because I'm not picky.

Of course I'm joking. I buy him little treats like if I see cool underpants, I'll buy them for him. I make him dinner from time to time and I'd bring him home treats like chocolate that he likes and things like that. I also buy him clothes and stuff but I don't know if he sees that as a treat or not. Then of course there's the X-rated stuff but let's not go there. Personally, I love doing stuff for him, not in a subservient kind of way though but I just like fulfilling traditional gender roles and so does he, it works for us. Plus, I think he's a wonderful boyfriend so I think he deserves treats.

Xiney · 14-07-2009 12:30pm

The way to his heart is definitely through his stomach. And I love cooking. Match made in heaven, ha.

Also whenever I see any comic book related boxer shorts I buy them for him, he has underwear that cost more than my most expensive pair! (Hmm. Must go lingerie shopping for myself sometime)

Sweet texts during the day while he's at work are also a way that I show I care. He often texts me the cutest things... when he's sitting on the toilet :rolleyes:

Whispered · 14-07-2009 12:41pm

I get toilet texts too.

When we got together I liked to buy little things, but he'd always give out about me spending my money on him. It goes the other way too, he rarely buys me things "just coz". I was silly enough to let it bother me at the start, but looking at other couples, we defo make up for it in other ways. Sometimes though I do wish that I could buy something for him, and he apprecaites it for what it is, rather than worry about how much it cost me.

Trying to think of treats I do for him and am disgusted to be only able to think of "well I cook....." :eek: Must go, have some serious spoiling to do!

Professey Chin · 14-07-2009 12:42pm

Xiney wrote: »

Sweet texts during the day while he's at work are also a way that I show I care. He often texts me the cutest things... when he's sitting on the toilet :rolleyes:

Best place to think clearly. No distractions

Oh The Humanity · 14-07-2009 12:49pm

Aw!!! I find little back scratch is always appreciated!!!

Joey the lips · 14-07-2009 1:19pm

I scratch lightly in between her toes. She loves this for some reason

What does she do for me??? Its a difficult one she does not need to do much she is spoiling me by being!

chillywilly · 14-07-2009 1:22pm

Joey the lips wrote: »

I scratch lightly in between her toes. She loves this for some reason

What does she do for me??? Its a difficult one she does not need to do much she is spoiling me by being!

i just threw up a little bit

Joey the lips · 14-07-2009 1:23pm

chillywilly wrote: »

i just threw up a little bit

The toes! Try it. The skin is soft, a light scratch is lovely so I am told. Off course make sure the feet are clean.

mollybird · 14-07-2009 1:48pm

my OH loves to play with my feet but they mad sensitive. he not a man of many words but he loves to do things for me from an IT side. and since i'm a poor student he loves to bring me to really nice places.

Khannie · 14-07-2009 2:37pm

mollybird wrote: »

he loves to do things for me from an IT side

Much like me tbh.

I made sure my wife could watch Eastenders when we went to Thailand last year. Not terribly romantic sounding.....but it's what I'm good at.....techie crap.

Also take the kids out for the day if I think she's in need of a break.

I should buy her flowers more often. She likes them and this thread has prompted me to get my finger out.

Whispered · 14-07-2009 2:45pm

Yes Khannie, it prompted me to do the same, so I thought a suggestive text message might set me up for a nice evening.

"Gonna make sure you have a good evening, anything I can do to make it extra special ......;)"

So I waited for a reply, and waited, and waited, finally my phone beeped.

"Yes, roast baby potatoes for dinner please.xx " :rolleyes:

Khannie · 14-07-2009 2:55pm

helena.ryan wrote: »

"Yes, roast baby potatoes for dinner please.xx " :rolleyes:

ROFL.

Snowie · 14-07-2009 3:07pm

an x from about 6 years ago used to give me a bj while i played my xbox, apparently when I'm concintrating its very attractive to her.

Joey the lips · 14-07-2009 3:10pm

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

an x from about 6 years ago used to give me a bj while i played my xbox, apparently when I'm concintrating its very attractive to her.

Me thinks that why she is your x.... Playing your x box at this time. I would have thought more like play with your x's box would be more appropiate

rediguana · 14-07-2009 3:24pm

I pick summer flowers from the garden and make an arrangement with them sticking out of a champagne flute.

Lockstep · 14-07-2009 3:28pm

I buy her pens.

She collects them so anytime I see an elegant one I put it aside for her.

Silverfish · 14-07-2009 3:31pm

Joey the lips wrote: »

Me thinks that why she is your x.... Playing your x box at this time.

Damn right, I'd dump anyone who tried any funny stuff while I'm playing the xbox.

Eh, mostly buying him stuff, he likes stuff. Or driving him places, he likes places. Or mostly just trying to stay out of his way when he's doing stuff, he likes doing stuff.

Emmm....

"must try harder"

Snowie · 14-07-2009 4:15pm

Joey the lips wrote: »

Me thinks that why she is your x.... Playing your x box at this time. I would have thought more like play with your x's box would be more appropiate

:pac: she liked......(this is LL but you lady's certanly dont hold back so
she liked it down there,.....

So id play halo and shed get busy :cool:

Silverfish wrote: »

Damn right, I'd dump anyone who tried any funny stuff while I'm playing the xbox.

Well walking in front of the tv naked tends to get a very fast pause while the monks are singing in the background very fitting.... :pac:

/Relise's it does sound very sword fishy

, But its the truth

all_smilz · 14-07-2009 6:52pm

i like to buy him clothes
Make him special dinners
mend tears in his clothes or buttons etc
He loves a lil dessert i picked up on in the fitness forum- sugar free jelly and cottage cheese with whole raspberries in it....
we also like to take one another on mystery tours and give one another clues (really obscure ones)
I go kayaking with him- i am not the most skillful yakker but he loves getting out on the water and often his family (usual paddle partners) are too busy.... it appeals to his saggitarian sense of adventure....
I do nice things for his mum/family- bring them flowers, baking, cards, small gifts....

This · 14-07-2009 6:53pm

drive 3 hours to see him after a days work.

put him to bed whens hes had a few 2 many and make sure there is water, painkillers and crisps near his bed for when he wakes up.

always buy skins and filters when im in a shop so he never runs out. (golden virginia is too expensive!)

give him 2 lighters on a night out coz he always ends up giving them away.

make him coffee in the morn before i leave

leave skype on all night so he can watch me sleep

14-07-2009 7:53pm

having flowers delivered to his office

buying him nice chocolate puddin
back massages
writing him poems
that kinda thing

allandanyways · 14-07-2009 8:14pm

Eh, I exist don't I? He's spoiled rotten!

nah in all seriousness

i buy him something in the shop when im on my way over to his house especially if he hasnt done his shopping and i know all he has is noodles and apple juice
i write him little cards and leave notes on his desktop sidebar
I'll wear nice underwear and pop over when I said I'd be in the library all day
I make him dinner sometimes although he makes it more for me
I text him if I see/read something that relates to our private jokes

well I'm a bit tired and stuck now trying to think but I know I do loads for him. Promise.

valery · 14-07-2009 8:53pm

oh, if he has been a really good boy i like to bj him to oblivion,
and if he has been a bad boy i like to bj him to oblivion,
if he has been neither of the aforementioned .....yep, same thing.
filthy filthy filthy me

:D:D:D:D

Stheno · 14-07-2009 10:34pm

I like to cook for him, he's another stomach man lol

He's also crap with ironing so as a treat, the odd time I'll arrange for all of his unironed clothes to be collected and returned a day later all ironed, on hangers, and ready to populate his wardrobe

Maddison · 15-07-2009 12:45am

Just asked himself what nice things I do for him 10 mins later & Im still waiting for a reply. I dont really think I do really nice things for him,I do stuff yeah but Its stuff that you just happen to do when you live with some one. Ill ring him If I see something he'd like when Im out,ehmmmm make him huge dinners....oh god I am a mean girlfriend....just aswell im generous in other *ahem* ways.

Okay ladies & gents me needs suggestions on nice things to do anything bold & chances are I do them but anything else

This · 15-07-2009 9:29am

do the dishwasher and the hang out the washing etc coz him and his bro are completly incapable of housework!!!

Snowie · 15-07-2009 9:41am

nouggatti wrote: »

I like to cook for him, he's another stomach man lol

Every mans a stomach man

pikachucheeks · 15-07-2009 10:46am

This thread is giving me great ideas for when / if I find someone stupid enough to date me :P

Vinny-Chase · 15-07-2009 11:30am

If I had an OH I'd do loads of this stuff

Professey Chin · 15-07-2009 11:47am

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

Every mans a stomach man

I'm not a stomach man:(

Stupid nutritionist

This · 15-07-2009 11:49am

pikachucheeks wrote: »

This thread is giving me great ideas for when / if I find someone stupid enough to date me :P

will you stop... should be saying when i find someone who is lucky enough that I wanna date!!

jaaavaaa · 15-07-2009 11:56am

This wrote: »

leave skype on all night so he can watch me sleep

That is just too cute!

ButterflyGirl23 · 15-07-2009 12:36pm

I like baking him his favourite cheesecake
cooking him dinner
buying him a chocolate bar or something small as a little surprise
sewing buttons back onto his suit jacket
ironing or cleaning his apartment (don't mind as he has 3 jobs so doesn't have much time plus he never allows me to pay for anything and always takes me out to nice places).

Snowie · 15-07-2009 1:30pm

ButterflyGirl23 wrote: »

I like baking him his favourite cheesecake

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm baked cheese cake

ButterflyGirl23 · 15-07-2009 2:13pm

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm baked cheese cake

Yep it's dark chocolate and lime baked cheesecake, so amazing and rich! Actually I haven't made it for a few months, I should make it soon!

Snowie · 15-07-2009 2:29pm

ButterflyGirl23 wrote: »

Yep it's dark chocolate and lime baked cheesecake, so amazing and rich! Actually I haven't made it for a few months, I should make it soon!

pm me the recpie so i can make it for me

but i use lemon zest as i like butterers i think theres has lemon in one so good mmmmmmmmmmmmm

Saucey-Susie · 26-08-2009 4:26pm

i love spoiling my oh. if its just treating him to dinner or buying him a silly bar of choc that he has been talking about. If I ever go to NY or somwhere in the states i'll always come back witha few bits for him and he is soooo grateful and spoils me too

tatabubbly · 26-08-2009 8:24pm

Always cook for him.
Walk around naked around the house for him
Wear matchin undies 5 out of 7 days (7 out of 7 is hard work)
Try to buy him treats...

I will try harder lookin at all these messages

Joey the lips · 26-08-2009 8:27pm

tatabubbly wrote: »

Always cook for him.
Walk around naked around the house for him
Wear matchin undies 5 out of 7 days (7 out of 7 is hard work)
Try to buy him treats...

I will try harder lookin at all these messages

Little tip: Your undies will always match if you wear no bra!

emma82 · 26-08-2009 8:31pm

Just wee things- you say treats I say prizes. Prizes could be robbing a viscount from work when we've meetings on, buying a chocolate bar in shop or making a really nice dinner. Today it was a photography book.

Warming up his side of the bed is one he really appreciates!!!!:D

Rude prizes work very well too...... naked dinners, dirty texts- you get the drift.;);)

tatabubbly · 26-08-2009 8:32pm

That'd be handy but i'm an E cup... needs must!

Oh and i like to buy ice-cream for him..

Joey the lips · 26-08-2009 8:35pm

tatabubbly wrote: »

That'd be handy but i'm an E cup... needs must!

Oh and i like to buy ice-cream for him..

It scares me cause I am trying to picture my o/h walking around as a naked E cup....... Truly lost!

But by the sounds of it you dont need fancy underware

tatabubbly · 26-08-2009 8:39pm

Yes, rude treats usually go down a storm.

It ain't that hard to do, he only gets it as a treat..

MJOR · 26-08-2009 10:01pm

Bring him breakfast in bed.
Tell him nice things
send him naughty pictures
Cook for him every weekend
give him tiddles

Edgedinblue · 26-08-2009 11:44pm

so i decided to ask the bf heres what i got... i give him massages, cook him the best dinners he's ever gotten, i listen to him talk crap, i wash his clothes, i make him smile everyday even if hes in a bad mood, i make him laugh, im extra cute, i give the best bjs ever, i look after him when hes sick and even when hes not, i give him awesome cuddles, and i love him like noone else ever has.. aww what a cutie

SeekUp · 27-08-2009 12:41am

And often do all of these spoilings happen, ladies? I mean, bringing things from the shop whenever you go in, okay. But some of these things, I wonder if they're rarer treats!

Mackman · 27-08-2009 4:10am

I couldnt think of anything so i texted her:

I always get her treats in the shop if im there,
Massages,
I always drive when she wants to drink,
I cook when she's too tired,
I always make her laugh

Dinxminx · 27-08-2009 1:31pm

MJOR wrote: »

give him tiddles

What in the world are tiddles??

smileysurfer · 27-08-2009 2:01pm

Dinxminx wrote: »

What in the world are tiddles??

Tickles I presume?

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