What age did you lose your virginity?

Latchy · 06-12-2009 11:10pm

brummytom wrote: »

Anyone not done ANYTHING with a girl until quite old?

Well I did indulge in my fair share of fumbling ,fingering ,licking ,sucking ,french kissing as a teen but It wasn't till I was 21 that I lost the ol virginity , a lot older than some of my peers who were 17 year old studs but glad I ' held out '

H1tmonlii · 06-12-2009 11:16pm

OutlawPete wrote: »

When I was 13 my gf's friend phoned me up and said that my gf wanted to be fingered.

I hadn't a notion of what to do and spent a whole Sunday french kissing the face of her, all the time trying to pluck up the courage to drop the hand, but I just couldn't.

She broke it off with me and the next day I found out this other guy fingered her .. slut

I believe it's called meeting nowadays

Keogg · 06-12-2009 11:44pm

Yay I'm in the majority:D
17 FTW!

But woah the amount of under 13s is actually kinda scary, I mean, that's just bad! No offence but I was incredibly innocent until about 16:o

Keogg · 06-12-2009 11:50pm

brummytom wrote: »

Anyone not done ANYTHING with a girl until quite old?

<.<

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Oh Tom, don't worry your little head over it, aren't you only 16 or 17 or something?:D
Thats not really that old now in fairness

upmeath · 07-12-2009 12:10am

17, with a 17 year old girl I'd been seeing for a few months at the time.

milkado · 07-12-2009 9:58am

17 with my first boyfriend! Still with him 3 years later!!

AckwelFoley · 07-12-2009 10:13am

Im still a virgin to love making.

spitfireIRL · 07-12-2009 10:46am

day after my 15th birthday.. she was 19, booya:cool: it is always an anticlimax tho.

Theta · 07-12-2009 10:49am

spitfireIRL wrote: »

day after my 15th birthday.. she was 19, booya:cool: it is always an anticlimax tho.

Nearly the same, she was 18. High Five!

Gillington · 07-12-2009 3:02pm

16,was with my girlfriend.Dont think she knew anything about it though :P

Partizan · 07-12-2009 5:05pm

I was 23 when I lost mine to a student from Monaghan who was in my home town for a weekend with friends. I could have done it a few times before that but I wasnt overly bothered. However I was instantaneously attracted to Sonia and when she took her clothes off later that night to reveal her nice cleavage (with pointed nipples you could hang a duffle coat off) and child bearing hips with nice bush and nicely shaped ass in tow I knew I had made the right choice.

When I left the hostel the following morning around 10am with a big grin on my face, it didnt take a rocket science to figure out that she had a lot more experience than I had. Size 12 Irish women rock.

Iang87 · 07-12-2009 5:07pm

spitfireIRL wrote: »

day after my 15th birthday.. she was 19, booya:cool: it is always an anticlimax tho.

did she think it was an anti climax ya

entropi · 07-12-2009 5:19pm

Later than most in here, 23...lol

Cathy666 · 07-12-2009 5:19pm

17 for me. That may seem young, but I was over a year into a relationship at that stage.

Sheepy99 · 07-12-2009 5:55pm

Hi , I am Kordeza Zhelyazkova, from Sliven in Bulgaria and I lost my virginity when I was 11.

dustyrip · 07-12-2009 9:32pm

I was 8. It was on a Sunday Morning. I think you all know the rest..

spitfireIRL · 07-12-2009 10:35pm

Iang87 wrote: »

did she think it was an anti climax ya

she did in her hole!

GLaDOS · 07-12-2009 10:53pm

spitfireIRL wrote: »

she did in her hole!

You clearly did it wrong, you're supposed to do it in her hole

El Siglo · 07-12-2009 11:03pm

Here's a song that might cheer ya up!:D

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gu1b94_r3l8

brummytom · 07-12-2009 11:05pm

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mg1PEoQ_cq8

May I say I'm loving the tags:

brummytom sucks his tumb, hornybrummy, irish grind fund for tom, lies, makin' brummy babies!, seeeeeeeeeexxxxxxxxxxxxx, stop lookin at abi's sig, tom's becoming a stud!, tom's wanting sex again, too right i am

Carsinian Thau · 07-12-2009 11:24pm

Two of them are mine!

It was that or actually go study...

brummytom · 07-12-2009 11:29pm

Carsinian Thau wrote: »

Two of them are mine!

It was that or actually go study...

'seeeeeeeeeexxxxxxxxxxxxx' and 'too right i am' were the only ones I added. Yours better have been funny :pac:

ashyle · 21-12-2009 4:48am

brummytom wrote: »

I asked the other day;

Her: "Me give blow jobs? Never :') x"

is that smiley meant to be her crying??

Professey Chin · 21-12-2009 4:56am

Aisling(",) wrote: »

15 and with a chap with a gingerish beard

oh the shame!

Theres no such thing as gingerish, theres just ginger so it gets worse for you :pac:

ashyle · 21-12-2009 5:10am

19. There's no rush guys. This'll disturb ye - Sex Degrees of Separation

Professey Chin · 21-12-2009 5:14am

ashyle wrote: »

19. There's no rush guys. This'll disturb ye - Sex Degrees of Separation

Yes that is a disturbingly low number alright

Hank_Jones · 21-12-2009 5:21am

14. Was always in a hurry to grow up, now I just wish I was younger....

gorjess-girlie · 21-12-2009 6:02am

13. The guy bragged his brother n his brother told his mother. She came down mine started a big show outside my house about the price of nappies or somethin while everyone on the road looked on... It does seem mad young now, but it's ten years on n I've only slept with two other men since. Go me.... :rolleyes:

ashyle · 21-12-2009 6:18am

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

Yes that is a disturbingly low number alright

that's not my number, that was my age!

Sephiroth_dude · 21-12-2009 12:43pm

I was 20

Wazdakka · 21-12-2009 1:54pm

I was 17.. Just..
My Gf was a few months older than me and wanted to wait untill I was Legal

Not a bad birthday present.

brummytom · 21-12-2009 11:28pm

ashyle wrote: »

is that smiley meant to be her crying??

Nope, it's her version of : ) , no idea why she sticks a ' in

electrogrimey · 21-12-2009 11:56pm

There're over 100 virgins on here (I'm guessing a few of Atari Shaguar's are). That's over 100 possible partners for Tom. Or 50 if you're being picky and straight.

brummytom · 21-12-2009 11:57pm

electrogrimey wrote: »

There're over 100 virgins on here (I'm guessing a few of Atari Shaguar's are). That's over 100 possible partners for Tom. Or 50 if you're being picky and straight.

100 it is then :P

electrogrimey · 22-12-2009 1:47am

brummytom wrote: »

100 it is then :P

Brummytom in coming out as bi shocker!

Piste · 22-12-2009 2:57am

Am I the only person who can't wait for the "OMG GUYZ I HAD TEH SEX AN GUESS WHAT IT WUZ ACTUALLY ONLY OK WTF DUDEZZZZZ???" thread?

Not to imply Brummytom speaks like a lolcat or anything >_>

TheDoc · 22-12-2009 3:04am

14 for myself with a girl who I ended up going out with for 3 years ( wasted time)

And it was ****ing ****

Friend of mine came out with a cracker a while back, he lost his when he was 16

"Man your first sex is ****ing ****...you know I wish I had of waited till I was my age now to lose my virginity, cause then it would be proper quality sex like and you'd defo remember it as both being your first, and great sex".

Hes now 22 and it took some time to point out to him that you dont magically become good the longer you wait, the kinda practice years from 16-22 probably had alot to do with it, he just couldnt comprahend

brummytom · 22-12-2009 11:08am

electrogrimey wrote: »

Brummytom in coming out as bi shocker!

Not yet, but give it time and i'll have to be

Piste wrote: »

Am I the only person who can't wait for the "OMG GUYZ I HAD TEH SEX AN GUESS WHAT IT WUZ ACTUALLY ONLY OK WTF DUDEZZZZZ???" thread?

Not to imply Brummytom speaks like a lolcat or anything >_>

Oi! I speak properly!

beauty101 · 23-12-2009 12:32am

i was 18 + so was my bf at the time...glad I waited cos it meant something at the time:)

McChubbin · 23-12-2009 2:20am

18. Non-consentual.

Dudess · 23-12-2009 2:23am

beauty101 wrote: »

i was 18 + so was my bf at the time...glad I waited cos it meant something at the time:)

I was 18 too but it meant sweet fanny all...

dustyrip · 23-12-2009 3:30am

Sex is over-rated, most girls just lie there expecting you to do all the work.

Four-Percent · 23-12-2009 3:56am

cloneslad wrote: »

That's no excuse, I don't drink and I graduated with a 1:1 but I still got action in college.....it helps that i'm an adonis though

Sounds like a man after my own heart :pac:

Professey Chin · 23-12-2009 4:27am

electrogrimey wrote: »

Brummytom in coming out as bi shocker!

Shocker? :pac:

stovelid · 23-12-2009 1:50pm

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

Shocker? :pac:

Exactly. You have to have done it first?

brummytom · 23-12-2009 1:52pm

I'm not fuckin bi!

Monkwood · 14-12-2010 11:21pm

About 8 months ago with my first girlfriend, I was 21. Definitely agree when people say it was an anticlimax. We had each other for nearly 48hrs, but not much magic.

Though I was as keen as the next guy for years to do it, I'm less pushed now. It can feel a little embarrassing to oneself (though shouldn't) if you get to college without doing it.

However, now that I've "ticked the box", I'm happy to go at my own pace without feeling self-pressurised.

I don't regret it for this reason. I think you need the first time in order to overcome that rampant hormonal desire and actually get on with your life rather than obsess over why you don't have a serious girlfriend...