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What do attractive girls think about being checked out by hopeless people?
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27-11-2015 11:55pm#1
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Women being afraid of posting as it would mean they're saying they're attractive.
There shouldn't be negative reactions to mere glances, smiling, saying hi etc (although I know there are some women who react like right ***** if the man has the audacity not to be attractive to her). It should be taken as a compliment. She should be polite back to him, just not to the point of giving him the wrong idea.0 -
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Eugene Norman wrote: »Nobody male or female lower than a 9.5 should even think about glancing in my direction.
Do you mean IQ?
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I wonder this too OP, I give attractive women I see walking around during the day a kind of stare to say I think you're good looking. I'm not looking to start a conversation with them or anything like that, I'm just trying to let them now I find them attractive.
I don't know if they take it as a compliment or think I'm some sort of freak
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Women being afraid of posting as it would mean they're saying they're attractive.
There shouldn't be negative reactions to mere glances, smiling, saying hi etc (although I know there are some women who react like right ***** if the man has the audacity not to be attractive to her). It should be taken as a compliment. She should be polite back to him, just not to the point of giving him the wrong idea.
Because that's simple isn't, being just nice enough so that some hopeless ****er won't get ideas above his station. It's up to the uggo to aim within his own league and not get the hump when a pretty girl does not want to bang him.0 -
Women being afraid of posting as it would mean they're saying they're attractive.
There shouldn't be negative reactions to mere glances, smiling, saying hi etc (although I know there are some women who react like right ***** if the man has the audacity not to be attractive to her). It should be taken as a compliment. She should be polite back to him, just not to the point of giving him the wrong idea.
I'm with Azalea on this one, and I'm not saying that I'm a model or anything but I wouldn't react negatively to a smile or polite conversation or whatever (I'd feel flattered and take it as a compliment). If someone though is leering or being sleazy or creepy I'd just try to get away to be honest.0 -
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paleoperson wrote: »Well staring kind of implies looking at too for too long, it's kind of built into the word that it's too much. I'm talking about normal looking, or getting "caught" looking, not staring.
I've lost nearly 5 stone in the last few years and when I was heavier I was well used to being invisible. I still forget that I've lost weight sometimes so when I occasionally see a fella looking at me I automatically assume that there's something on my face or I look down at my outfit to see if I have toilet paper on my shoe or something :pac: Then I think ''oh wait, I'm not invisible any more, maybe he's actually just checking me out'' 0 -
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I've lost nearly 5 stone in the last few years and when I was heavier I was well used to being invisible. I still forget that I've lost weight sometimes so when I occasionally see a fella looking at me I automatically assume that there's something on my face or I look down at my outfit to see if I have toilet paper on my shoe or something :pac: Then I think ''oh wait, I'm not invisible any more, maybe he's actually just checking me out''
First off,good for you.I used to box,5 stone off is NOT easy.Secondly your probably right, you were being checked out,but women tend to be a lot more self conscious than us chaps.For example, a body part that a woman might hate about herself, let's use hips for example, could be the very thing that caught the chaps attention to begin with.0 -
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This is so true, I absolutely hate those two weird dimple things on my lower back, would like a normal back, a few guys over the years have said that they actually really love them- not just on me, on any woman! Although maybe they were just saying it so I'd feel less bad about my nasty back :pac:
I think that the dimples are really sexy, so maybe they weren't just saying it to you to make you feel better! 0 -
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Yep those are the ones, honestly don't see the appeal whatsoever, always thought they look like an odd deformity
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Women being afraid of posting as it would mean they're saying they're attractive.
You know what, I am attractive. It took me a very very long time to realise it (21 years). Not only had I myself convinced I was ugly by secondary school, but I had completely accepted it and was completely ready for a single life when I left secondary school after not one boy showed any bit of interest in me up until that time. I was the only person that year who didn't have a date for the debs. I was even bullied where my complete lack of boys was a favourite topic, so it was really solidified in my mind that I was ugly and that was that.
When I went to uni, it was a very weird experience. It was the first time in my entire life that I had ever had any attention from the opposite gender, and since I'm not trying to be modest in this post, I got a lot of it. It was overwhelming. I kept coming up with excuses for it such as it being dark in a nightclub or that they're just taking the piss, before eventually accepting it. I still didn't believe I was goodlooking as such. I mean, I had spent my whole life being told I had any looks at all by only my mother and family, but being told I was ugly by my "friends". However, after 4 years of it (including getting an amazing boyfriend), I was forced to admit that maybe I wasn't so ugly after all.
Now? Next week I'm going into a modelling agency in order to discuss a signing. It wasn't something I asked for, the agent found me.
So yes, I am attractive and I think the mentality this country (and a lot of others have) that someone thinking they're attractive is somehow wrong, is one of the main reasons so many young girls (and boys) have deep rooted insecurities. I don't mean bigheadedness or egotism or the "yeah, I'm just amazing", but I don't believe there's anything wrong with being able to admit that you're attractive. Heck, it took me years to be able to entertain the notion. Even now, I still get periods where my self esteem collapses again, but if I were to give into the idea that we shouldn't admit we're attractive, I would never come out of those lapses. I think this notion we put on ourselves that we shouldn't be allowed to think we're goodlooking, is one of the main reasons so many people have problems with how they look.0 -
Ooh, I concur 0 -
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