Bunny boilers

StormWarrior wrote: »

I think male bunny boilers are the worst, I've endured two, neither of whom had I ever dated! The worst was a bloke named John who I made friends with because we had loads in common. I was friends with him for 2 years and he seemed fine at first but after about 2 years he became obsessed with me and asked me to marry him. He said he wanted me to be his housewife, he would earn all the money and I would just stay home having kids, at least 3. I told him I didn't have those feelings for him, I didn't want to be a housewife and I didn't want kids. He started going nuts and would constantly phone me at random times of day, sometimes even at 3am and nag me non-stop about how if I don't agree to his proposal and don't want kids then I'm really "sad and unnatural and will die alone."

The more I refused him the more it seemed to encourage him. We had a holiday booked (it was booked before all this craziness started) that we were meant to be going on together to Sweden, with some other friends as well. He told me of his plans to woo me on holiday and I told him not to bother, that I was going to try and pull myself some Swedish men. This made him so angry he started ranting about how "disgusting" it is for people to have sex and even go on dates if they are not married, then the nutter even said that he thinks God is going to end the world soon because of all the sinful behaviour like this that is going on. He actually said that his mission in life is to stop people from behaving like this so that the world can be saved!

He then overheard me tell a friend that my number 1 fantasy is to watch men being gay with each other. He went nuts, ranting and raving about how if he ever sees people being gay he will kick their heads in. I told him, don't come to Sweden then, you'll be kicking everyone's heads in. I told him he was getting to weird and just wasn't welcome on holiday any more. I tried to cut contact with him but he phoned and emailed me constantly, raving like a lunatic about how I am wrong, sad and unnatural for not wanting to marry him and have his kids, how everyone who is gay or divorced or has sex outside of marriage is hated by God and will cause the world to end. Eventually I said just stop contacting me now or I'll call the police.

He'll make some lucky woman a real catch one day. He even told me that if his future wife ever puts on weight and stops looking like a "supermodel" or if she bores him, he'll cheat on her. How he expects her to look like a supermodel after having all his kids I have no idea. As punishment for not wanting him, he wrote loads of pornographic stories about me and posted them on the internet, with my name and everything!