Pinched on the butt!

Black Swan · 27-09-2008 2:42pm #1

Have you ever been pinched on the butt by a lad you didn't know? I was in a pub sipping a pint the other night, and standing at the bar cause the place was packed with no seats left, and all of a sudden I felt this pinch! Ouch! I spun around spilling my drink ready to punch someone, and this lad jumped back acting like what he did was OK, holding his hands open and up saying "Whoa girl, it was just a friendly pinch!"

So women, has it happened to you lately, and how did you react? How did you feel and what did you think about it?

OK lads, you can join in if you dare, and tell us if you have ever pinched a girl you didn't know?

Nevyn · 27-09-2008 2:44pm

yeah sexual assault is sooo friendly. :rolleyes:

hunter164 · 27-09-2008 2:46pm

Has happened to me and I've done it. Though it was more of a slap than a pinch.

F.A. · 27-09-2008 2:49pm

Thaedydal wrote: »

yeah sexual assault is sooo friendly. :rolleyes:

Exactly!! Seriously, Blue_Lagoon, why didn't you thank the guy for paying you attention without you even having to ask for it?

I think my drink would make contact with his face and he'd be lucky to escape a quick visit of my knee to his nether regions.

von Neumann · 27-09-2008 2:49pm

Not since i was 15..... but now that it's back in fashion

Peared · 27-09-2008 3:05pm

Wudda floored him.

Maybe used sneakiness, cunning and a surprise element if he was big and strong.

Sometimes violence is the answer.

Also would make him maybe think twice next time he saw a nice arse.

D1ckead.

liah · 27-09-2008 3:10pm

Am I the only girl who doesn't honestly see it as that big of a deal? It's happened to me a lot and I don't care one bit.

Big whoop, he pinched your ass, mountains of molehills much?

Life's too short.

Piste · 27-09-2008 3:20pm

liah wrote: »

Am I the only girl who doesn't honestly see it as that big of a deal? It's happened to me a lot and I don't care one bit.

Big whoop, he pinched your ass, mountains of molehills much?

Life's too short.

Yip I'm the same. While I hate strangers touching me (even trying to hug me pisses me off) I wouldn't make a big deal about it. A filthy look at best is all they'd get.

chickenhawk · 27-09-2008 3:22pm

I have never done it and I hate guys that do it. If you have to resort to that to get a girl to chat to ya then you are crap at pulling or ugly.

jesus_thats_gre · 27-09-2008 3:25pm

Far more women do it to guys tbh...

hunter164 · 27-09-2008 3:26pm

Peared · 27-09-2008 3:27pm

So what, men should be able to touch women wher they want, how they want and when they want?

Where is the line?

How about if they pinch your breast, is that ok?

Would that be a mountain or a molehill?

petethebrick · 27-09-2008 3:28pm

I agree. Its far more common the other way round, drunk girls thinkin they can go around slappin ass at will

Dave147 · 27-09-2008 3:29pm

Note to self: Girl's DONT like when I pinch their ass.

What about pointing at my crotch suggestively? Do chicks dig this?

Zaph · 27-09-2008 3:37pm

I completely fail to understand 1) why guys would do this in the first place; and 2) why they would think that the woman is going to enjoy it. If you think a woman is attractive, talking to her is going to get you further than pinching her ass.

Piste · 27-09-2008 3:40pm

Yeah i don't understand why guys do it either...maybe it's not to get stuck in, maybe they just like the feel of an ass =/

faceman · 27-09-2008 3:43pm

Ive done it twice in my life but only because i thought the person i did it to was someone else!! fortunately i survived both events!

Nevyn · 27-09-2008 4:11pm

Doesn't matter what gender the pincher is it's not acceptable behaviour.

Phlann · 27-09-2008 4:13pm

I've never done it to a girl I didn't know but, like others here, I've had it done to me by girls (and one guy) on several occasions.

I took it in the playful spirit in which it was obviously intended, though.

Maybe I'd have felt differently if they'd walked up and grabbed my crotch but a pinch on the ass is so harmless and silly it's not worth getting annoyed over.

hunter164 · 27-09-2008 4:14pm

Never said it was a point was made though that drunk women (not all) are notorious for it. I am not saying men don't do it.

hunter164 · 27-09-2008 4:15pm

Phlann wrote: »

Maybe I'd have felt differently if they'd walked up and grabbed my crotch

That's happened before.

brianthebard · 27-09-2008 4:24pm

Used to do it as a teen

but that was at teh disco's, people were more likely to grab some ass and start sucking face than to introduce themselves.
Nowadays I wouldn't do it-have been grabbed a few times before but not lately (since I became a recluse it doesn't happen as often funnily enough)

smares · 27-09-2008 4:44pm

Why do men do it? do they honestly think your going to be thinking nice one he pinched my ass!! No im afraid not.
I think it's best ignored becuase you turn to say something to them and they have your attention which is what they were after in the first place

brianthebard · 27-09-2008 4:46pm

Cause they haven't grown out of that teen disco phase.

smares · 27-09-2008 4:51pm

Thats true bacause it usually is younger guys that do it

petethebrick · 27-09-2008 5:25pm

I do remember a funny night out in my younger days. Out at a nightclub in town my mate slapped a girls ass while walkingup some stairs. Turned out she was the manager on duty and both of us were thrown out of the place.

neuro-praxis · 27-09-2008 5:55pm

Me and my friends (male and female) have a habit of slapping each other on the ass.

If a stranger slapped me on the ass I'd consider slapping them in the face.

Reku · 27-09-2008 6:55pm

Never done it and thankfully never had it done to me. Not exactly a good ice breaker IMO. I don't even like it when girls I don't know/barely know rub their legs against mine, I'll ignore it in the hope that it's completely unintentional but I'd rather they didn't do it.
You need to know someone to know what they consider their personal space and what levels of physical familiarity they'll tolerate from you, you can't really just go for it and hope.

Esel · 27-09-2008 7:02pm

chickenhawk wrote: »

If you have to resort to that to get a girl to chat to ya then you are crap at pulling ugly.

FTFY.

half pint · 27-09-2008 7:11pm

It has happenend to me on a few ocassions, usually by one of the lads in my group of friends. They know they are gona get a bit of a thump for it but it's a bit of a joke now.

However some random guy did it to me in a bar once and he left with my handprint across his cheek

It depends who it is at the end of the day, someone you know or a stranger

Pythia · 27-09-2008 7:36pm

Guy did it to me in a club when my boyfriend was right beside me. I actually thought it was my boyfriend who did it so I didn't react. Was only when I saw the bf about to go for your man I realised what had happened.

I wouldn't see it as 'sexual assault', although it may techincally be, but it's very cheeky and certainly and wouldn't get me interested at all.

Drift · 27-09-2008 8:18pm

I'm a guy and I've never pinched or groped a girl I didn't know. In fact I'd even be very wary about doing it to friends of mine, I'm trying to recall a time I did to a "non-girlfriend" and I can't think of one.

However, I have had my ass groped a number of times by random women and one chancer of a young one even had herself a fondle of my cock as she walked by in a club

. Fondling my bits was a bit much but I must admit that I'm not really to bothered about my ass being pinched or slapped - I know it shouldn't be but it's a bit of an ego boost! (Guess I'm shallow

)

bennyblanco · 27-09-2008 9:05pm

I've had mine grabbed/shlapped a few times,doesnt really bother me unless it's by a minger.
I've slapped a few girls on the ass,a few times it was mistaken identity(fast talking ensued to avoid getting digs),the very odd time I might do it girls in college just to be cheeky:pac:

Mr. Presentable · 27-09-2008 9:11pm

Thaedydal wrote: »

Doesn't matter what gender the pincher is it's not acceptable behaviour.

Agreed.

But.
It's not a sexual assault. It's not a big deal. People need to put some perspective on things or pretty soon you'll be claiming sexual harassment because I looked at your breasts.

I imagine you'd hate to be stuck in a lift with eight Italians

Webmonkey · 27-09-2008 9:19pm

I get pinched by girls the odd time, I don't mind

Wouldn't do it to a girl though, girls today are dangerous.

Creamy Goodness · 27-09-2008 9:23pm

just be lucky it's only a pinch and not a what what.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbGkxcY7YFU

Piste · 27-09-2008 9:25pm

I would rather what what him in the butt than be pinched TBH

Zaph · 27-09-2008 9:39pm

Cremo wrote: »

just be lucky it's only a pinch and not a what what.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbGkxcY7YFU

Sweet Jebus, that's the worst thing I have ever been subjected to on the internet. :mad:

LovelyTom · 27-09-2008 9:40pm

I've had it done to me a good few times.I don't really mind it to be honest but I think it's different for a guy to do it to a girl. I'm not sure why but for either sex it's extremely disrespectful and I would never do it and I'd be extremely disappointed if anyone I knew did it.

27-09-2008 9:42pm

Pretty much every time I go out..

But, I really don't see it as a big deal.

Me thinks you lot are over reacting a tad.

Stheno · 27-09-2008 9:52pm

Cremo wrote: »

just be lucky it's only a pinch and not a what what.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbGkxcY7YFU

:eek::eek:

Drift · 27-09-2008 9:56pm

Cremo wrote: »

just be lucky it's only a pinch and not a what what.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbGkxcY7YFU

I mean this very sincerely when I say .... W T F

Zaph can we have Cremo banned for aural (and possibly visual) rape?

Maple · 27-09-2008 10:01pm

Don't make a big deal out of it but if I spot the perpetrator I smile sweetly at him and then stand on his toes. Tosspots.

Esel · 27-09-2008 10:18pm

The talking chocolate starfish at the start of that youtube clip was a bit of a giveaway though! To anyone who watched it all - my sympathies.

Stheno · 27-09-2008 10:22pm

maple wrote: »

Don't make a big deal out of it but if I spot the perpetrator I smile sweetly at him and then stand on his toes. Tosspots.

Excellent idea maple, may I steal that one?

Stillettos would be handy in that situation

Maple · 27-09-2008 10:24pm

nouggatti wrote: »

Excellent idea maple, may I steal that one?

Stillettos would be handy in that situation

Feel free my lovely.

Creamy Goodness · 27-09-2008 10:26pm

Drift wrote: »

I mean this very sincerely when I say .... W T F

Zaph can we have Cremo banned for aural (and possibly visual) rape?

hope you're not serious about the ban.

i'm trying to make a little light humour out of this.

if i was a girl, i would dislike the pinches, any guy that does it is an asshole in my books, but to say it's sexual assault is a bit OTT tbh cause if something like this was assault then there'd be an endless queue of women at the sperm bank because all the guys would be in jail.

Peared · 27-09-2008 10:44pm

Cremo wrote: »

hope you're not serious about the ban.

i'm trying to make a little light humour out of this.

if i was a girl, i would dislike the pinches, any guy that does it is an asshole in my books, but to say it's sexual assault is a bit OTT tbh cause if something like this was assault then there'd be an endless queue of women at the sperm bank because all the guys would be in jail.

Reckon? I don't know any guys who would touch or pinch a girl that they dont know on the arse or anywhere else.

And I know some excitable fellas. And some pervs. And some reprobates. But hey, that's another thread.

Zaph · 28-09-2008 12:53am

Cremo wrote: »

hope you're not serious about the ban.

Hmmm, I don't know, he has a point...

randylonghorn · 28-09-2008 1:34am

I'd never dream of pinching a woman I didn't know on the ass, but I have to admit I've occasionally pinched someone I knew and ducked, just to watch them glare round at a crowd of perfectly innocent strangers ... even if I did get thumped for it when they copped on! :pac:

Thaedydal wrote: »

Doesn't matter what gender the pincher is it's not acceptable behaviour.

Sitting back and treating it as a purely philosophical question, I'd have to agree, but in practice most lads wouldn't take having their ass pinched by a woman particularly seriously, and I certainly don't.

Nor would I tend to be bothered if a male friend of mine was the one pinched, whereas if a stranger did it to a woman I knew I would be seriously annoyed.

Oh, and as some of the guys said, I've experienced full-on frontal groping (grabbing more like!) a couple of times from drunk women. Can't say I was overly impressed with that, but in all honesty it hasn't left any scars on my psyche either.

Tbh, I felt like turning round to them and saying "Well, if that's how you treat them, I'm not surprised you haven't one at home to play with!"

Weirdest I ever experienced was standing in the jacks in a pub, cheerfully recycling the alcohol, and this one wanders in, stands between me and the guy on my left, and proceeds to loudly compare notes!! :eek:

While she was actually quite complimentary, that was definitely a "let's get the fvck outta here!" moment!

It was only when I got back to the gang I was with that I was informed by one of them who vaguely knew her that yer man was her ex ... which I suppose made some sense of it, but she could have left me out of her menage-a-trois, thanks!

challengemaster · 28-09-2008 12:41pm

Should have kicked him (Only cos I know your wrists would fold if you tried to punch him, B!ue !

) Swift kick in the nards and then the rest of your already-spilled pint over his head.:D Probably wouldnt do it again. I'd get out of there quick smart though after. Never know what he could try as payback

Pinched on the butt!

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