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The Weaning Thread

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  • Administrators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,927 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Toots


    Milly33 wrote: »
    Oh the stinkers!!! haha they are quite potent the new poops.... What are these wafer things they sound good and mess free.. Herself loves the lega but it is so messy... Could be the banana flavour, do you or your hubbie have any allergies or something like that with foods? Himself cant eat bananas gives him stomach pains and found herself was the same, while she liked it and would it, similar to your little one she was upset later and spewed a lot more after it..

    These are the wafers, TBH they are probably only marginally less messy than a liga - there aren't crumbs but if she spits a bit out it sticks all over the place. She somehow managed to mash a bit into her hair and ear and I ended up having to soak it off with a wet facecloth. Neither myself or my hubby have any food allergies. It happened with both the banana and the blueberry flavour, so I think it might be just that the wafer itself is a bit hard for her to digest yet. I'll try her with another little bit in a few weeks and see how she goes. Today she had the apple and pear at lunch time and then the sweet potato at tea time and seemed fine.
    Pocos wrote: »
    Hi ladies just following the thread there! Someone mentioned about reducing milk feed during the solid food times and using cups!

    In the cup feeding what are ye giving? Is it milk or water? I’m EBF but haven’t reduced how often I Breast feed should I be? I think it’s kinda happening naturally but is it something I should be doing?? This weaning thing is very confusing :(

    I'm EBF too and haven't reduced how often I breastfeed, I've just been doing it on demand whenever she looks for it. It's all new to me because breastfeeding didn't work out with my son and he got formula instead. That being said, I'm not 100% sure how I weaned with him either, you'd think you'd never forget this stuff!! I know with my daughter, the PHN said basically you give the solid feed and then when they've either eaten it all or won't eat any more, you offer the breast and let them feed/drink as normal. That's what I've been doing for the last week and so far so good. In terms of quantity, she'd only be getting about a tablespoon or so of puree, so I'm not concerned about overfeeding her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    This is a good article on solids and breastfeeding.

    https://kellymom.com/nutrition/starting-solids/solids-how/


  • Registered Users Posts: 446 ✭✭Anne_cordelia


    Always breastfeed/offer bottle before a solid feed. This applies up to age 1 as milk should be their main source of nutrition until then. Keep feeding on demand. Feeds will naturally reduce as they get more established on solids. I haven’t really heard of people getting rid of daytime bottles at such a young age. Most babies I know are still on 3 bottles a day at age 1 even though officially PHN says bottles should be gone by 1. My babies always just ate when we were eating if they were awake so could have eaten 2-5 times a day even from 6 months.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,131 ✭✭✭Ms2011


    Pocos wrote: »
    Hi ladies just following the thread there! Someone mentioned about reducing milk feed during the solid food times and using cups!

    In the cup feeding what are ye giving? Is it milk or water? I’m EBF but haven’t reduced how often I Breast feed should I be? I think it’s kinda happening naturally but is it something I should be doing?? This weaning thing is very confusing :(

    Breast/Formula milk should be your baby's primary source of food until they are one so I wouldn't actively reduce milk consumption. It's fine if your baby does it by themselves but otherwise allow them to have as much milk and as often as they want.


  • Registered Users Posts: 336 ✭✭Pocos


    Thanks all! Some very good advice there! Hard to know isn’t it what’s right or wrong. Like if I offer breast first she barely eats the solids as she is full from the milk!

    But she’s happy and seems to be getting on developmentally so I’ll continue what I’m doing!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    Might have been me mentioned it Pocos, I am not breastfeeding and have been cutting down the milk... I did breast feed at the beginning and well still went with a schedule could never do this feeding on demand....But anywho it is recommended to cut down on the general milk intake for formula anywho, makes sense to me if you are getting a main meal then (unless tis wine) you would drink less milk...

    She still gets her recommended milk intake and a little above (as all babies are different) but the plan would be to cut down on the two smaller bottles (she gets two 3oz btls with meals). Cut these out altogether, either give her a drink or water, some flavoured water, or give her a little milk in a cup.. Must say the cup thing is going rather well, tried the sippy cup and a kinda bottle cup thing but she does much better drinking out of the cup itself..

    Thanks Toots must take a looksie at the wafers, seems like all the ingredients are good too which is a bonus.. It has to be less messer than lega, oh tis mad where they get it. Even the old storage spot for food under their chins the things they manage to keep in there, no matter how well you clean it....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    Always breastfeed/offer bottle before a solid feed. This applies up to age 1 as milk should be their main source of nutrition until then. Keep feeding on demand. Feeds will naturally reduce as they get more established on solids. I haven’t really heard of people getting rid of daytime bottles at such a young age. Most babies I know are still on 3 bottles a day at age 1 even though officially PHN says bottles should be gone by 1. My babies always just ate when we were eating if they were awake so could have eaten 2-5 times a day even from 6 months.

    Anything then I have come across then, says to feed after giving the solids :)Makes sense when you think sure they would be full after a feed either formula or breast.. Or that you offer half a feed, then the solids and offer more milk then after if they are still hungry..


    Go with whatever suits though Pocos, Mother knows Best :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    Pocos wrote: »
    Thanks all! Some very good advice there! Hard to know isn’t it what’s right or wrong. Like if I offer breast first she barely eats the solids as she is full from the milk!

    But she’s happy and seems to be getting on developmentally so I’ll continue what I’m doing!

    When breastfeeding the recommendation is to feed maybe 45-60 mins before solids. Considering my fella sleeps every 2 hours it’s tricky to fit it all in though. The way I think about solids is that it doesn’t matter how much they eat, it’s all about them learning to swallow non-BM, get used to different tastes, let their little tummy’s adjust to then food, once they’re eating finger food it’s learning to chew, move food around their mouth, picking it up. Don’t think of food as something to fill them, that’s what breastmilk is for, solids are developmental until they are 1.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,131 ✭✭✭Ms2011


    bee06 wrote: »
    When breastfeeding the recommendation is to feed maybe 45-60 mins before solids. Considering my fella sleeps every 2 hours it’s tricky to fit it all in though. The way I think about solids is that it doesn’t matter how much they eat, it’s all about them learning to swallow non-BM, get used to different tastes, let their little tummy’s adjust to then food, once they’re eating finger food it’s learning to chew, move food around their mouth, picking it up. Don’t think of food as something to fill them, that’s what breastmilk is for, solids are developmental until they are 1.

    This is it exactly plus they don't get the instant gratification to their hunger from solids as they do from milk so having them too hungry at mealtimes can be counter productive as they get too frustrated with the solids to really learn what they should be from the experience.


  • Registered Users Posts: 336 ✭✭Pocos


    Thanks all! Yes I know it’s just getting used to foods at the moment! I suppose I’m back to work soon and she won’t take a bottle so kinda suits me to try and reduce milk intake during the day (9-5) and give it in sippy cups instead! So that’s why I do solids first! It’s more to keep her going while I’m not around!

    Thanks for taking the time to reply :)


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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    Pocos, I'd just give her her food at breakfast lunch dinner (or however many meals she's on now) and fit feeds around that.You will find over time she is less interested in some of the feeds and they will gradually adjust.I don't think I'd be too fussed about whether the milk comes first or not.But definitely milk is the primary source of nutrition, do't forget to tell yourself that on the days she's not pushed about eating.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    Babies are clever anyway. She won’t let herself starve.


  • Registered Users Posts: 336 ✭✭Pocos


    shesty wrote: »
    Pocos, I'd just give her her food at breakfast lunch dinner (or however many meals she's on now) and fit feeds around that.You will find over time she is less interested in some of the feeds and they will gradually adjust.I don't think I'd be too fussed about whether the milk comes first or not.But definitely milk is the primary source of nutrition, do't forget to tell yourself that on the days she's not pushed about eating.

    Thanks shesty today she has no interest in milk and only in solids! Trying to keep up is tough!!! Boobs are hard and sore as she’s not feeding enough! Hopefully in a few days it will all calm down and get into a rhythm


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    They like to keep you on your toes!!


  • Registered Users Posts: 336 ✭✭Pocos


    They sure do!!! There’s so much to learn in such a short space of time!!!


  • Administrators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,927 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Toots


    Right, well she's worked out that the weird gooey stuff I've been shoving in her gob is actually food and now I can't get it in fast enough! She's barely swallowed one spoonful and she's got her mouth open and is leaning forward looking for the next one :pac: She's exactly like her big brother was when he was starting food. I remember having to say "last one!" every time I got to the end of a bowl of food to avoid a meltdown. I was chatting to my mum as I was feeding her yesterday at dinner, and obviously wasn't shoveling food in at the pace she wanted and she actually growled at me! I think she thinks she's the dog :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,456 ✭✭✭scarepanda


    Toots, your last couple of sentences made me laugh, my girl was the same! She was fine for me because I'd shovel the food quick enough for her, but my husband wouldn't because it looked mad to feed her that quickly. She'd have a melt down with him (and everyone else) everytime until I'd remind them that they need to feed her quicker. She used to whinge and grunt to get her point across.


  • Administrators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,927 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Toots


    My son was the same although you'd really have to leave him waiting before got vocal about it. He'd sit there with his mouth open like a little bird and then he'd open wider and wider and eventually he'd whinge. Madam just goes straight to a good loud shout. :pac: My husband is yet to feed her. He says it's because he's in work when she's getting her lunch and dinner but I think he's afraid he's forgotten how to do it :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    haha the food monsters, herself will shout at me after a while if she see's the food out and I maybe make a cup of coffee and a slice of toast before giving it to her, its like Hi Mom, Hi Mom, HI MOM!! and then carnage... Trying to teach her a little sign language and found that she much prefers the sign for all gone rather than telling her, tell her and its like the world has ended, sign it and she thinks it is funny


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,919 ✭✭✭dori_dormer


    Milly33 wrote: »
    haha the food monsters, herself will shout at me after a while if she see's the food out and I maybe make a cup of coffee and a slice of toast before giving it to her, its like Hi Mom, Hi Mom, HI MOM!! and then carnage... Trying to teach her a little sign language and found that she much prefers the sign for all gone rather than telling her, tell her and its like the world has ended, sign it and she thinks it is funny

    We taught our chubster a few signs too! The only ones that stuck were food and more!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    Chubster :)

    I just tried herself with some brown wholemeal bread, wasn't too sure if I could give it to her but after googling tis grand.. Oh im weak so cute watching her eat it, between the texture and the fact it is food, it both keeps her entertained and fills her up...

    Was finding it hard also to get some nice yogurt that isn't full of sugar, and ingredients and also doesn't come in a huge tub. So the Glenilen Farm stuff seems to do the job, small list of ingredients, not bad on sugar and reg sized pots..Should have known twud be good since tis from Cork


  • Registered Users Posts: 336 ✭✭Pocos


    Milly33 wrote: »
    Chubster :)

    I just tried herself with some brown wholemeal bread, wasn't too sure if I could give it to her but after googling tis grand.. Oh im weak so cute watching her eat it, between the texture and the fact it is food, it both keeps her entertained and fills her up...

    Was finding it hard also to get some nice yogurt that isn't full of sugar, and ingredients and also doesn't come in a huge tub. So the Glenilen Farm stuff seems to do the job, small list of ingredients, not bad on sugar and reg sized pots..Should have known twud be good since tis from Cork

    Hi milly regarding brown bread are they alllwed have it? Is there bran in it? Not sure can they have it before one but I Wouldn’t be sure at all so genuinely wondering!

    We use the glenisk baby yoghurts! Not the kids ones but there’s actually baby ones that are smaller pots and no sugar! They were recommended to me by a dietician! Herself loves them!!! Can you give one a day? I’m assuming so as they are full of calcium??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    Pocos wrote: »
    Hi milly regarding brown bread are they alllwed have it? Is there bran in it? Not sure can they have it before one but I Wouldn’t be sure at all so genuinely wondering!

    We use the glenisk baby yoghurts! Not the kids ones but there’s actually baby ones that are smaller pots and no sugar! They were recommended to me by a dietician! Herself loves them!!! Can you give one a day? I’m assuming so as they are full of calcium??

    Just make sure there’s no honey in the brown bread. That’s the only ingredient they can’t have.

    I get the glenisk yogurts as well. Both for myself and the little fella.


  • Registered Users Posts: 336 ✭✭Pocos


    bee06 wrote: »
    Just make sure there’s no honey in the brown bread. That’s the only ingredient they can’t have.

    I get the glenisk yogurts as well. Both for myself and the little fella.

    Isn’t there something about bran bee? They can’t have too much fibre before one I think! I’m sure the amount they actually eat is so minimal anyway! Most ends up on the floor!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    I think it is just not to go overboard with the brown bread, like I gave her half a slice off a loaf.. To be honest id prefer to give her that than give her white bread full of sugar and all that goes..I get the honey thing too, but id say (now I haven't checked or anything) but when the honey is cooked etc or baked in the bread it would probably kill off whatever the worrying thing is with honey, cant think of the name now..

    Yeah I had a look at the Glinsk ones too just the list of ingredients I prefer to see one or two and leave it at that...I just get the regular yogurts and then mix in the puree into it, I suppose the amount depends on the baby, one yogurt would normally do three kinda feeds for me but that is the regular sized pot..

    Sure tis all about what ya fancy yourself, no rights and wrongs....


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    Milly33 wrote: »
    I think it is just not to go overboard with the brown bread, like I gave her half a slice off a loaf.. To be honest id prefer to give her that than give her white bread full of sugar and all that goes..I get the honey thing too, but id say (now I haven't checked or anything) but when the honey is cooked etc or baked in the bread it would probably kill off whatever the worrying thing is with honey, cant think of the name now..

    Yeah I had a look at the Glinsk ones too just the list of ingredients I prefer to see one or two and leave it at that...I just get the regular yogurts and then mix in the puree into it, I suppose the amount depends on the baby, one yogurt would normally do three kinda feeds for me but that is the regular sized pot..

    Sure tis all about what ya fancy yourself, no rights and wrongs....

    Well there is some wrongs like anything high in salt and honey in any form whether cooked or not before one year. Cooking it does not remove the spores, it needs to be completely avoided


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    Milly33 wrote: »
    I think it is just not to go overboard with the brown bread, like I gave her half a slice off a loaf.. To be honest id prefer to give her that than give her white bread full of sugar and all that goes..I get the honey thing too, but id say (now I haven't checked or anything) but when the honey is cooked etc or baked in the bread it would probably kill off whatever the worrying thing is with honey, cant think of the name now..

    Yeah I had a look at the Glinsk ones too just the list of ingredients I prefer to see one or two and leave it at that...I just get the regular yogurts and then mix in the puree into it, I suppose the amount depends on the baby, one yogurt would normally do three kinda feeds for me but that is the regular sized pot..

    Sure tis all about what ya fancy yourself, no rights and wrongs....

    Honey can contain botulism spores which doesn’t get killed in cooking. It should 100% be avoided in all forms before 1.

    Pocos, I’ve never read anything about too much fibre in any of the research I’ve done. Salt should be kept under 1g and no honey are the only 2 things. Let me double check with the BLW group I’m in.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    Oh yes I get there are warnings but done plenty of research too on it so all is good ill step away from it now as she says..

    I am trying to come up with some more interesting brekkie ideas, what have ye been giving them. So far we have Weetabix, readbreak, sometimes some fruit purees mixed in with them or else puree giving on the side. Tried eggs too but keeping that to the weekends.. Any other ideas


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    When small my daughter liked the bite size shredded wheat, pancakes, toast with peanut butter, breakfast muffins, French toast, scrambled eggs, avocado toast, sweet potato pancakes... that’s all I can think of off the top of my head anyway


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    thanks Angeldeligth, boards was down so could not reply.. Was gutted I said I would try her with the pancakes at the weekend, but sure the flour was gone (never happens) typical.. Will have to try them soon...

    Had the scrambled egg and while she likes it, she doesn't eat much of it tis more of a play thing...


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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    Toast with breakfast? Lots of people do overnight oats and fruit, although maybe your baby is a bit young yet for them.
    I recommended a book called Baby Led Feeding a few pages ago, that has some good breakfast ideas.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    After trying herself with Fish this week she wasn't overly impressed with it, so went back to chicken. Have to say the Annabel K recipes are lovely made some chicken with sweet spud, and tomato and it is yummie would be fantastic as a filler for pasta :) and then made up chicken, thyme and orange very tasty stuff...

    Going to try make up a mini shepards pie now and see how she takes to the beef, on the look out for some nice salmon but it seems to be scarce at the moment..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    My fella isn’t gone on fish either. He’s had salmon a few times and didn’t have much interest. He’ll be having it again tonight so we’ll see how he gets on. Loves chicken and beef. I made meatballs one day and he was mad about them.


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    My second (who, age 2,is a decent enough eater), never liked chicken, even when it was blended.
    She savaged her first plate of pasta and bolognese (I still remember it!!), but totally dislikes shepherds pie.
    They do have their own tastes, even when that young!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    Tis odd with the fish as we gave her from a bite we had to eat while out and she did like it, must try another way to cook it.. The taste thing is funny alright I wonder do they get that from us.. She doesn't really like anything bland and prefers the more tastier stuff, which we or I would be the same.. What do ye think? Still working on the pasta with her must try her again she didn't fancy it much the times I tried, I was wondering maybe she needs a tooth or something to bite into it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    My little boy isn’t mad about pasta either and he has 4 teeth. I haven’t put sauce on it yet so maybe it’s just tasteless?

    He likes fruit and veg the most. Anything with a mushy texture and he just squishs it in his hands and doesn’t try it (like the salmon).

    We had risotto for dinner last night though and he was mad for it which I wasn’t expecting.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    Ah ok, so maybe tis just a taste thing I suppose in fairness it is pretty bland. I mixed it into her veg and she still didn't like it...

    I love it when they squish the stuff in their hands tis the look on their faces.. Thinking I must get a stressball I wonder would they like the feel of that...

    Still have to try my hand at risotto one dish I have never cooked..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    In one of the baby led weaning facebook groups I’m in they always say to keep trying because their tastes are always changing.

    Risotto is pretty easy to cook but it’s kind of time consuming because it requires lots of stirring! Not good for the days when baby is demanding lots of attention.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    True, I shall try again with the fish for sure as I would love her to like fish, as we both do and pasta.. thanks Bee. I can imagine it would not be an easy dish to cook with their demands..


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    Oh put pureed bolognese on the pasta!Or you can get baby pasta in boots, which is tiny shells, mix into the bolognese and try it that way if you want.
    Funny because my older two would live on pasta now, given half a chance.The four year old is only just coming round to eating some potato and the 2 year old flatly refuses it.So thank god they eat pasta.And most small kids I know love pasta, even if they eat nothing else-preferably plain for most of them.Have no clue what that's about.Oh there is a recipe from the "first 1000 days" cookbook, with chicken, broccoli and pasta and cheese mixed in, that is quick, easy and freezes-and always gets eaten round here.
    Keep trying her Millie.Seabass goes down ok here too, especially if it has a sauce of some sort on it.Fishcakes are a hit too, another way of getting it in.Once they are over one I give them fishcakes from the local fishmonger, and fishfingers (look for ones with highest percentage fish) the odd time.I will always give them a bit of salmon or seabass on their plate too, if we are having it, so they can try it (or ignore it!!!)
    Risotto is great although I find it pretty tasteless-I think it's one of those things that I have never really mastered the making of.It tastes lovely when other people make it though!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,657 ✭✭✭Milly33


    Thanks Shesty, might give it a go next week perhaps must think up of lunch ideas now. Back from the HSE nurse and well they are delighted with her, but she said she could have more food maybe every 2 hours like a snack.. She does get a few snacks but nothing major, it was only this week that she was really looking for more food so tis good timing.. I was thinking maybe boiled egg mushed up or something...

    I like the fishcake idea too will have to get looking. I find it odd that for a place surrounded by the sea the fish you get in the shops here is rubbish.. Was smitten today as passing back the local market (we are normally never up this early so first time we made it), I just asked about prices as I didn't have cash on me and the lovely lady there gave me a piece of salmon to try herself with, really made our morning and told me to get the tail pieces as they have no bones in them...

    With you on the risotto I have never tried but my sis in law makes a loverly beetroot and feta one, tis to die for but im sure if I tried twud be more like mush


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭NabyLadistheman


    We have 1 year old twin girls and have ran out of ideas for there evening time meal. They have dinner at say 3-4 which is usually potatoe/sweet potatoe/turnip with a protein etc. There were on baby rice in the evening time but we've stopped with that in light of all the bad press it has received.

    Any ideas greatly appreciated? We've tried some toast and cheese but not sure this will work long term. Bed-time is usually 8.30, they are not sleeping as soundly as a result so I think they may be a bit hungry


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    I would push dinnner back to 12/1, and have a second dinner at 5/6 at that age.Alternatively, evening meal could be beans on toast, scrambled egg and beans, fish cake or fish fingers, boiled egg and toast with fruit like raspberries or something for "dessert", or maybe a yoghurt.As far as I remember they need two "dinners" at that age.


  • Registered Users Posts: 154 ✭✭kastasia


    Ten days in to solids, I just feel like I have so little time and also that he's eating so little, I know from reading other people's experiences that it's quite common but it's different when it's your own? Mainly been trying finger foods and some porridge/mashed potato. Tried porridge fingers the other day, which seems to come up on all lists, but did not turn out great at all. I know I'll get used to this and ideally soon we can all eat the same meals but I've kind of been exhausted the past few weeks and we've been having various ready meals ourselves, so it's not like I'd be feeding him those. I don't have any specific question, just venting a bit and hoping to hear that it gets better.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    kastasia wrote: »
    Ten days in to solids, I just feel like I have so little time and also that he's eating so little, I know from reading other people's experiences that it's quite common but it's different when it's your own? Mainly been trying finger foods and some porridge/mashed potato. Tried porridge fingers the other day, which seems to come up on all lists, but did not turn out great at all. I know I'll get used to this and ideally soon we can all eat the same meals but I've kind of been exhausted the past few weeks and we've been having various ready meals ourselves, so it's not like I'd be feeding him those. I don't have any specific question, just venting a bit and hoping to hear that it gets better.

    I remember feeling the same when I started. Like I spent all day either cooking or cleaning up. My little boy didn’t eat much until he was around 8 months. He’s 10.5 now and a hound for food. He’ll eat everything I put in front of him (except banana and pear!). He’s also much tidier as well so less clean up (the bibado bib helps with this too!). I found any of the specific BLW recipes he had no interest in. I wasted so much time making porridge fingers, savoury muffins etc and they all got thrown on the floor. Proper normal food and he’s mad for it now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 241 ✭✭SmallgirlBigcity


    Question about weaning and dropping a feed:

    My little lad is 8 months old and is exclusively breastfed and has taken to solids really well. He eats 3 meals a day and loves his food. I'm not sure if I should be giving him snacks though. At the moment he doesn't get any. Should I give him a snack or two during the day and think about dropping a breastfeed at this point or is 8 months too early to be dropping a feed?

    I'm hoping to end the breastfeeding when he is 1 if possible. So do I start dropping feeds leading up to 1 year or wait until he turns 1?

    Also, if I was to continue breastfeeding past 1,what would that look like? Typically, how often would a 1 year old breastfeed?

    Thanks in advance. I miss my mothers groups to be able to ask these types of questions!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06


    Question about weaning and dropping a feed:

    My little lad is 8 months old and is exclusively breastfed and has taken to solids really well. He eats 3 meals a day and loves his food. I'm not sure if I should be giving him snacks though. At the moment he doesn't get any. Should I give him a snack or two during the day and think about dropping a breastfeed at this point or is 8 months too early to be dropping a feed?

    I'm hoping to end the breastfeeding when he is 1 if possible. So do I start dropping feeds leading up to 1 year or wait until he turns 1?

    Also, if I was to continue breastfeeding past 1,what would that look like? Typically, how often would a 1 year old breastfeed?

    Thanks in advance. I miss my mothers groups to be able to ask these types of questions!

    Breastmilk should be the main source of nutrition until 1 so you shouldn’t be dropping feeds (on purpose). Continue to offer 30 mins before food. If you think solids intake is reducing feeding. No snacks needed until 1.

    For me, breastfeeding after 1 was pretty much the same as feeding before 1. I fed on demand as I always did. I was working full time from 10 months so I used to feed him before I went to work, when I got home and then if he asked during the evening and at bedtime. Then whenever he woke at night which was every 2-3 hours until he started sleeping through at 15 months. Weekends were on demand. How often he fed depending on how distracted he was. He naturally dropped feeds as he got older and increased his solid intake.


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