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  • #152
    IM0
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,390 ✭✭✭IM0


    *secrect look into the OP boys brain while discussing this...*

    bf "so you watch porn ?"

    * SHE KNOWS WHAT PORN IS :eek: it wont be long now before she realises I watch it regularly all the time like most guys.....ok hang on play it cool, looked shocked*

    :eek: *good thats it...now add some disappointment...*

    :(

    *goooooooood youre getting good at this!, I think she bought that, ****in sucker :)...awesomme now I have some back up for the next time she catches me :) now sh'll be a hypocrite if she tries to say anything when she finds out about me :pac: :) *

    "so you look stressed *starts rubbling shoulders/back........" * excellent [in burns voice] Im so in the good books now :cool:*


  • #153
    Rayne Wooney
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,136 ✭✭✭✭Rayne Wooney


    [Deleted User] wrote: »
    Why would I tell her she needs to leave him? She hasn't said she uses sex as a bargaining tool. Giving anyone advice to do that is madness. Noone should ever do it.

    The only "games" people should play in relationships are the ones that are fun for both - and preferably involve rope :D

    I think he's mad not to watch porn, and I think he's naive to think women don't watch it.

    Hold up a minute.


    What :eek:


  • #154
    Stereomaniac
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,166 ✭✭✭Stereomaniac


    I think Daisy revealed a little quirk/preference of her own in that post. I guess we can only hope he/she/it posts again and we can hear some more about this fun with ropes that happens.


  • #155
    fartman
    Registered Users Posts: 173 ✭✭fartman


    please will you marry me you sound really horny..


  • #156
    harvester of sorrow
    Registered Users Posts: 832 ✭✭✭harvester of sorrow


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    I only watch porn with girls in it, men dont do anything for me in porn!! and yeah Im a girl.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hoS1MCF8AeI


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  • #157
    ScumLord
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,789 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    The only way I can see this being a problem is if your watching porn instead of having sex.


  • #158
    Mariasofia
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭Mariasofia


    Gilbert Grape wrote: »
    My missus has a better porn collection than me.

    At least we now know what's eating Gilbert Grape and why ;)


  • #159
    Czarcasm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    Mariasofia wrote: »
    At least we now know what's eating Gilbert Grape and why ;)


    We also know who Gilbert Grape's been eating :D


  • #160
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    syklops wrote: »
    Sex is a bargaining tool.

    Respect me, treat me nice, say i have nice hair, listen to me = you might get sex.

    Put me down, don't respect my opinions or ideas = No sex.

    Thats not a game, thats common sense. Are you saying you would still sleep with a guy after he disrespected you?

    Well no, no it's not.

    Am I going to want to have sex with someone who puts me down all the time - unlikely - and unlikely that I'll stay with them at all.

    Am I going to use sex to say "if you want sex you better treat me like this". "If I give you oral sex, you have to give me oral sex". "If you don't tell me my hair is nice, I won't have sex with you"?

    No. I will never be in a relationship like that. If a relationship I am in turns into that, I will leave.

    I like sex way too much for that rubbish.


  • #161
    miss flutter ups
    Registered Users Posts: 76 ✭✭miss flutter ups


    Do U think op, that your bf might have a touch of the oul madonna-whore complex?


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  • #162
    Catari Jaguar
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,649 ✭✭✭Catari Jaguar


    Oh Shauna, this thread, some of the replies... I can hear the fappage of AH users from here. :rolleyes:

    Also, I know what the xxx after your user name stands for now. Wheh wheh.


  • #163
    hoodwinked
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭hoodwinked


    maybe show him this thread?maybe being your first you will have to open his mind? especially if you are his first, maybe his family were very conservative? maybe he just isn't into porn? or anything other than plain old missionary sex?

    there could be lots of reasons he feels like he does, but whatever his reasons you have to respect his boundaries like you'd expect him to respect yours,

    lots of girls like porn, i am one of them, my husband never felt threatened by it, in fact he was delighted he didn't have to hide it from me,

    its now something we do individually or share together in addition to everything else,


  • #164
    Shauna.xxx
    Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭Shauna.xxx


    Catari Jaguar wrote: »
    Oh Shauna, this thread, some of the replies... I can hear the fappage of AH users from here. :rolleyes:

    Also, I know what the xxx after your user name stands for now. Wheh wheh.

    Only seen that post there....very clever hahha :p


  • #165
    Shauna.xxx
    Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭Shauna.xxx


    hoodwinked wrote: »
    maybe show him this thread?maybe being your first you will have to open his mind? especially if you are his first, maybe his family were very conservative? maybe he just isn't into porn? or anything other than plain old missionary sex?

    there could be lots of reasons he feels like he does, but whatever his reasons you have to respect his boundaries like you'd expect him to respect yours,

    lots of girls like porn, i am one of them, my husband never felt threatened by it, in fact he was delighted he didn't have to hide it from me,

    its now something we do individually or share together in addition to everything else,


    Thanks for the advice. I would like to do that as well but he seems completely
    Like a big no to it. I do respect that he doesn't watch it or want to watch it, it's just I don't understand why he has to get into a huff if I do. Should be 50/50 in a relationship really....


  • #166
    Czarcasm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    Shauna.xxx wrote: »
    Thanks for the advice. I would like to do that as well but he seems completely
    Like a big no to it. I do respect that he doesn't watch it or want to watch it, it's just I don't understand why he has to get into a huff if I do. Should be 50/50 in a relationship really....


    It's likely because he has ideas about "Girls aren't supposed to watch porn!". It sounds like he isn't going to come round to your way of thinking any time soon tbh, and this could present it's own issues further on down the line in the relationship. That leaves you with a decision to make, and my own personal opinion is that you shouldn't be made to feel bad for watching porn.


  • #167
    Shauna.xxx
    Registered Users Posts: 67 ✭✭Shauna.xxx


    Czarcasm wrote: »
    It's likely because he has ideas about "Girls aren't supposed to watch porn!". It sounds like he isn't going to come round to your way of thinking any time soon tbh, and this could present it's own issues further on down the line in the relationship. That leaves you with a decision to make, and my own personal opinion is that you shouldn't be made to feel bad for watching porn.

    Yeah he is quite traditional in the way women should dress and I do believe it will cause problems because his traditional ways of thinking have before. I just hope it can be sorted out x


  • #168
    Smiles35
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,749 ✭✭✭Smiles35


    I'd say he's secretly mad into it. Just put on some porno next time as a suprise.


  • #169
    Aidric
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,591 ✭✭✭✭Aidric


    Did someone mention Mia Malkova? No, ok carry on. :pac:


  • #170
    jill_valentine
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,090 ✭✭✭jill_valentine


    There's a bang of Reader's Wives off this...


  • #171
    stoneill
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,609 ✭✭✭stoneill


    Shauna.xxx wrote: »
    Yeah we'll I thought that would be sexy....yeno like getting ideas from it that we could try and act out, but apparently not to him? ....so now, I am feeling a little insecure after he got offended and said it was gross. :/ (not exactly what he said but said it wasn't a nice thing anyway)

    I'll watch some with you :)


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  • #172
    Jaxxy
    Registered Users Posts: 4,297 ✭✭✭Jaxxy


    I had one ex that had the same reaction as your boyfriend did when I mentioned that I liked to watch lesbian porn, OP. He lashed out, made me feel pretty insignificant and as though there was something wrong with me because I didn't fit into what his "idyll" of me should be. Someone else mentioned the Madonna/Whore complex, and there was a touch of that there. I was upset and hurt but it was the point when I began to see that he was more than just a tad controlling. He was insecure, got jealous, irrational when it came to my past history, commented if he believed what I was wearing was "inappropriate" etc., you get the idea. I'm not saying your boyfriend is like this at all but his reaction to you enjoying porn is a bit off IMO.

    Simple fact is, you're not harming anyone. In my situation mentioned above after I dried my tears I informed him that I liked watching porn from time to time, he could either deal with it or not, his problem. He didn't want to watch it with me, which was perfectly fine, and we still had a good sex life. Needless to say though we didn't last very long.

    All the other boyfriends I have had loved the idea, and it created a much more open and honest attitude toward sex for us, sharing fantasies and dreams and whatnot.

    In the end there is no shame in it. Just because he doesn't like it doesn't mean you don't have to. Keep it separate from him if you must, but you shouldn't have to give up something you enjoy, something that is harmless, just because it doesn't fit in to what his idea of what a woman should enjoy.


  • #173
    Larianne
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    That's mad Jaxx! I thought the OP was making this story up. Obviously not if there's others like him. :eek:


  • #174
    Czarcasm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    Larianne wrote: »
    That's mad Jaxx! I thought the OP was making this story up. Obviously not if there's others like him. :eek:


    There's PLENTY of guys like the OP's boyfriend Larianne, and plenty of girls that stay with them too, despite their "You can't watch porn and you're not going out wearing that", etc, and for a hell of a lot longer than the three years the OP has already spent with her boyfriend.


  • #175
    Larianne
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Yeah, another way of controlling someone I guess. Scary!


  • #176
    Red Pepper
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,567 ✭✭✭Red Pepper


    This thread is doing my head in. I can only read the word "porn" 3 times before I simply have to find some and watch it.


  • #177
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Shauna.xxx wrote: »
    Ok girls, guys...do you think it's weird if girls/gf/friend who's a girl/ watches porn?

    Nope. My gfs watch it alone, with each other, and with me. It has never been "weird" for me.

    I am struggling to think of a valid reason to consider it "weird".


  • #178
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Deleted User wrote: »
    Nope. My gfs watch it alone, with each other, and with me. It has never been "weird" for me.

    Your girlfriends watch it with each other? :eek:

    Lucky bastard!


  • #179
    nucker
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 790 ✭✭✭nucker


    Shauna.xxx wrote: »
    Ok girls, guys...do you think it's weird if girls/gf/friend who's a girl/ watches porn?.....I told my bf I did and he got really offended by it?...but I don't see what the problem is, off he wanted to watch it it's fine with me? :p


    The thing is, girls do participate in the making of porn


  • #180
    syklops
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,966 ✭✭✭✭syklops


    nucker wrote: »
    The thing is, girls do participate in the making of porn

    Yeah but hollywood has taught us that they only do it because they were young and needed the money.

    Not because they enjoy it, no way. And Amateur stuff does not exist.


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  • #181
    Christ the Redeemer
    Registered Users Posts: 463 ✭✭Christ the Redeemer


    Shauna.xxx wrote: »
    .I told my bf I did and he got really offended by it?

    What an asshole.


  • #182
    Ruudi_Mentari
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    Ever see gril porn?

    like sausages, squirting out juice from between soft buttered baps


  • #183
    Shanotheslayer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,191 ✭✭✭✭Shanotheslayer


    Ruudi_Mentari wrote: »
    Ever see gril porn?

    like sausages, squirting out juice from between soft buttered baps

    That just made me want a BBQ


  • #184
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Deleted User wrote: »
    Your girlfriends watch it with each other? :eek:

    Lucky bastard!

    Indeed. The particularly like the Abby Winters site for example which was a woman only site for some time. Made by women - of women. Amateur.

    Recently they have branched out into including couples but they have kept that tame enough and as far as I know all the couples are couples in real life not just on camera.

    Pretty "tasteful" as porn goes and the girls are subscribers and enjoy it.


  • #185
    Gongoozler
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,263 ✭✭✭Gongoozler


    Im curious as to what 'tasteful' means.


  • #186
    zl1whqvjs75cdy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,042 ✭✭✭zl1whqvjs75cdy


    Gongoozler wrote: »
    Im curious as to what 'tasteful' means.

    It probably doesn't involve multiple, well endowed gentlemen hosing down one poor girl. Think gentle, soft, loving etc.


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  • #187
    Gongoozler
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,263 ✭✭✭Gongoozler


    Hmmm ok. I think its possible to have something in between though. Possible also that some might like that.


  • #188
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Gongoozler wrote: »
    Im curious as to what 'tasteful' means.

    It is a floating definition, subjective, hence my use of quotes around it. Some people gravitate towards porn that is more about the people in it than the sexual acts they engage in. That site is influenced heavily by that. Hard to really describe without seeing it for yourself I guess.

    The girls and I watch lots of different stuff - mostly free - but that site is the only one we have ever stumped up money for.


  • #189
    Sofiztikated
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    It could be a couple of things, really.

    maybe he's just not into porn. He might see it as an intimate act between two people, that shouldn't be witnessed by a voyeur.

    Maybe it was the type of porn? He might not be interested in the choking, gagging, monster cock stuff that is prevalent in porn.

    Maybe he's lying. Could be off the mindset that "girls shouldn't know that I masterbate" and is ashamed of knocking one out.

    Either way, he does have a right to his opinion. But talk to him about it. Ask him what he thinks about it. Ask him why does he feel that way.

    How long are you together?

    And whoopsie and syklops, I don't think that respecting each other and availability of sex is mutually exclusive. Partners should respect each other anyway. And sex shouldn't be used as a commodity, to be traded or given as reward.

    I'm a sucker for PassionHD stuff myself.


  • #190
    Christen.a
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 6 ✭Christen.a


    What is wrong with him? lol


  • #191
    Sinfonia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,854 ✭✭✭Sinfonia


    Deleted User wrote: »
    Just took a look at the "female friendly" category on one of these sites and I'm still puzzled as to what the difference is. There don't appear to be any additional flowers or better lighting. Anyone else work it out?
    The interior decor is only fablis.


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  • #192
    Sinfonia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,854 ✭✭✭Sinfonia


    Jaxxy wrote: »
    I had one ex that had the same reaction as your boyfriend did when I mentioned that I liked to watch lesbian porn, OP. He lashed out, made me feel pretty insignificant and as though there was something wrong with me because I didn't fit into what his "idyll" of me should be. Someone else mentioned the Madonna/Whore complex, and there was a touch of that there. I was upset and hurt but it was the point when I began to see that he was more than just a tad controlling. He was insecure, got jealous, irrational when it came to my past history, commented if he believed what I was wearing was "inappropriate" etc., you get the idea. I'm not saying your boyfriend is like this at all but his reaction to you enjoying porn is a bit off IMO.

    Simple fact is, you're not harming anyone. In my situation mentioned above after I dried my tears I informed him that I liked watching porn from time to time, he could either deal with it or not, his problem. He didn't want to watch it with me, which was perfectly fine, and we still had a good sex life. Needless to say though we didn't last very long.

    All the other boyfriends I have had loved the idea, and it created a much more open and honest attitude toward sex for us, sharing fantasies and dreams and whatnot.

    In the end there is no shame in it. Just because he doesn't like it doesn't mean you don't have to. Keep it separate from him if you must, but you shouldn't have to give up something you enjoy, something that is harmless, just because it doesn't fit in to what his idea of what a woman should enjoy.

    I really love how this was followed with the sig: 'Would you like to sniff my ranty panties?'


  • #193
    2nd Row Donkey
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,916 ✭✭✭2nd Row Donkey


    Im curious as to what 'tasteful' means
    Sinfonia wrote: »
    The interior decor is only fablis.

    They put additional cushions on the couches. Bitches loves loads of cushions on the couch. And Pillows. Not you standard issue 2 pillows that men have on double beds but usually about 8 of them, of various size and texture. And 'throws', which is just a fancy blanket but smaller. They put them everywhere. Over the bed, on the couch, across the back of the arm chairs.


  • #194
    MonkieSocks
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,349 ✭✭✭MonkieSocks


    I don’t blame him.


    The acting in some of those Porn Flicks is utterly deplorable.
    :pac:

    =(:-) Me? I know who I am. I'm a dude playing a dude disguised as another dude (-:)=



  • #195
    nucker
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 790 ✭✭✭nucker


    syklops wrote: »
    Yeah but hollywood has taught us that they only do it because they were young and needed the money.

    Not because they enjoy it, no way. And Amateur stuff does not exist.


    The thing is, I know you are being sarky over that statement, I'm just putting my point here, if they didn't enjoy it, I think most of them would be nuns

    Correct, amateur stuff doesn't exist *cough* Tulisa *cough*


  • #196
    shane9689
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,184 ✭✭✭shane9689


    damn, making me miss my ex now....i remember the days of googling granny porn and singing songs about licking pussy with her :l glory gone glory gone :(
    *goes to corner to weep*


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