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Friends with benefits

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    #32
    Rented Mule
    Registered Users Posts: 5,153 ✭✭✭Rented Mule


    My name is URL wrote: »
    It's never as starightforward as just boinking them and leaving.

    Then one of you is doing is not sticking to the script.


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    #33
    Duggy747
    Registered Users Posts: 13,295 ✭✭✭✭Duggy747


    I avoid that kind of carry on cuz that shìt usually gets messy with one of the two getting a bit clingy.

    Then things turn vicious and they become worst enemies.................or a baby is then brought into the equation :eek:


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    #34
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    never had a friend with benefits

    have had a fcuk buddy though, for about a year

    worked v well for us both

    was all about the sex, nothing else, no emotions, no hassle

    we never contacted each other outside of making plans to meet

    it only ended when i met someone and i did not want to cheat on him.


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    #35
    The_Minister
    Registered Users Posts: 10,255 ✭✭✭✭The_Minister


    GiftofGab wrote: »
    Yeah, used to have a **** buddy. No strings attached sex. It lasted a few months. Just tended to drift apart. Used to collect her every Friday, do her in the car then drop her home afterwards.

    Funnily enough, for a thread about emotionally-void sex, this is the first post that struck me as sordid.:p


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    #36
    corkcomp
    Registered Users Posts: 5,114 ✭✭✭corkcomp


    never works.. she usually falls in love with ya and then the problem of getting rid far outweights the "benefits"


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    #37
    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,240 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    Not if you kick her out of the bed when you're down with her! Anyone do that when you're down with your friend with benefits?


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    #38
    Bazzy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,484 ✭✭✭Bazzy


    sam34 wrote: »
    never had a friend with benefits

    have had a fcuk buddy though, for about a year

    worked v well for us both

    was all about the sex, nothing else, no emotions, no hassle

    we never contacted each other outside of making plans to meet

    it only ended when i met someone and i did not want to cheat on him.

    How considerate of you to consider the needs of your fcuk buddy not wanting to cheat on him

    Gold star for you!


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    #39
    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,240 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    Another one of those friends would come in handy again. I must make a phone call soon enough :p


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    #40
    Novella
    Registered Users Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    corkcomp wrote: »
    never works.. she usually falls in love with ya and then the problem of getting rid far outweights the "benefits"

    :rolleyes: Don't flatter yourself!!


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    #41
    Bazzy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,484 ✭✭✭Bazzy


    Novella wrote: »
    :rolleyes: Don't flatter yourself!!

    Ok well lets hook up and i'll be clingy with you just to even things out ?


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    #42
    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,240 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    Nothing like a Klingon. Impossible to ger rid of!


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    #43
    epgc3fyqirnbsx
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    It's all sh1ts and giggles till someone gets pregnant


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    #44
    InkSlinger67
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,756 ✭✭✭InkSlinger67


    Mandatory Seinfeld clip explaining the dangers!


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    #45
    Alan_007_
    Registered Users Posts: 354 ✭✭Alan_007_


    djhunter30 wrote: »
    Nothing like a Klingon.
    Whatever you're into I suppose ;)

    Giggity :)


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    #46
    MJOR
    Registered Users Posts: 1,796 ✭✭✭MJOR


    It's messy and I'd never do it again. It get complicated and you get stalked.


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    #47
    dsmythy
    Registered Users Posts: 10,511 ✭✭✭✭dsmythy


    Keith Fierce Morning wrote: »
    It's all sh1ts and giggles till someone gets pregnant

    Wow. Whatever you're into. ;)


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    #48
    Caoimhín
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,789 ✭✭✭Caoimhín


    sam34 wrote: »
    never had a friend with benefits

    have had a fcuk buddy though, for about a year

    worked v well for us both

    was all about the sex, nothing else, no emotions, no hassle

    we never contacted each other outside of making plans to meet

    it only ended when i met someone and i did not want to cheat on him.

    That is really lady like..

    Bet your mother is proud of you............


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    #49
    Kasabian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,689 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    seamus wrote: »
    That's not a friend with benefits, that a fnckbuddy.

    A friend with benefits is someone that you otherwise treat as a friend, but ride everytime you're bored or drunk and think nothing of it the next day.


    My mate Tommy fcuking hates that part of our friendship


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    #50
    Blobby George
    Closed Accounts Posts: 690 ✭✭✭Blobby George


    djhunter30 wrote: »
    Not if you kick her out of the bed when you're down with her! Anyone do that when you're down with your friend with benefits?
    Eh, wut?


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    #51
    xxlily87xx
    Closed Accounts Posts: 32 ✭xxlily87xx


    yeah i had one years ago, we were friends and then became friends wit benefits and that went on for about 9 months and i was the one unfortunetely that ended up havin deep feelings for him and i told him i couldn do it anymore because of the feelings so we stopped seeing eachother bout two weeks later he rang me sayin how he was after realising that he had the same feelings for me and wanted a relationship, reluctantly i said no, still cant make out why i said no ha


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    #52
    PeterIanStaker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,072 ✭✭✭PeterIanStaker


    Had a few fb's in my time, they never developed into relationships beyond the roidin' stage.


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    #53
    ashyle
    Registered Users Posts: 699 ✭✭✭ashyle


    Ye had one. They don't work out, it's ultimately humiliating.


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    #54
    kudo
    Registered Users Posts: 16 ✭kudo


    Caoimhín wrote: »
    That is really lady like..

    Bet your mother is proud of you............

    Judge much?


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    #55
    ibarelycare
    Registered Users Posts: 58,456 ✭✭✭✭ibarelycare


    Caoimhín wrote: »
    That is really lady like..

    Bet your mother is proud of you............

    You taking the piss?


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    #56
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Never had one, can't imagine I ever will either. I don't think I'm cut out for it to be honest. I'd have to like and fancy a girl in order to have sex with her. If that's the case, then I couldn't be arsed trying to convince myself I was ok with us just being FWB or FB's as I'd most likely want something more. I also wouldn't be too keen on knowing she could be off out f*****g someone else.

    I think for some people it's probably an ok arrangement. Others I think are too caught up in trying to appear fashionable and cool and that's why they try it. Check out PI/RI for examples of how it often doesn't work.


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    #57
    ChewChew
    Moderators Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭ChewChew


    I would imagine that yes, Caoimhín is taking the piss.


    Nothing wrong with 'friends with benefits' or fb's. Usually though (going by people I know), it's harder for the female to keep it at just sex. They get more needy than blokes.


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    #58
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    Caoimhín wrote: »
    That is really lady like..

    Bet your mother is proud of you............
    kudo wrote: »
    Judge much?
    ibarelycare wrote: »
    You taking the piss?
    Flat pack queen wrote: »
    I would imagine that yes, Caoimhín is taking the piss.

    nah, caoimhin is just a bit miffed because i banned him from health sciences earlier today :rolleyes:


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    #59
    ChewChew
    Moderators Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭ChewChew


    sam34 wrote: »
    nah, caoimhin is just a bit miffed because i banned him from health sciences earlier today :rolleyes:

    LOL.

    Sam, I think what you said is spot on and would agree with you! your situation was fine and it was also fair!!


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    #60
    Sea Sharp
    Registered Users Posts: 2,593 ✭✭✭Sea Sharp


    Friends with benefits = messy, messy, messy, messy.

    Fcuk buddy = coolio, so long as you're not in the same social circle.


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    #61
    Sinfonia
    Registered Users Posts: 3,854 ✭✭✭Sinfonia


    djhunter30 wrote: »
    Not if you kick her out of the bed when you're down with her! Anyone do that when you're down with your friend with benefits?

    I am down with that. :p


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