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Friends with benefits

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  • 13-05-2010 5:03pm
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    fluffyotaters
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15 ✭


    Have any boardsies ever had or indeed have you someone that you only see for sex and sex alone?

    How did it work out for you? Did either of you end up having deeper feelings for the other person? How did it end etc?

    Genuine question by the way :)


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    Sykk
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,327 ✭✭✭Sykk


    Well she got some fairly deep feelings.. I do recall taking some sort of viagra that night tho


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    alwaysadub
    Registered Users Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    I used to. We both knew from the off what we were. Would've killed each other if we'd tried having a proper relationship! Just drifted apart eventually.
    It can happen though where one person develops feelings and the other person doesn't-that's when things get awkward!


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    Bolag_the_2nd
    Registered Users Posts: 1,224 ✭✭✭Bolag_the_2nd


    Friends with benefits = :D


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    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Nope, never had one. Its just not something i was ever into. Ann summers invented toys for those kinds of things ;)


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    Midnight_EG
    Registered Users Posts: 9,701 ✭✭✭Midnight_EG


    fluffyotaters wrote: »
    Have any boardsies ever had or indeed have you someone that you only see for sex and sex alone?

    How did it work out for you? Did either of you end up having deeper feelings for the other person? How did it end etc?

    Genuine question by the way :)

    Yep, yo're ma.






    How did it work for me? Take a look in the mirror Son.








    :pac:


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    stovelid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    It's all sounds a bit modern to me.

    What happened to stringing women along with yarns about staying together forever until you squeeze every last bit of sex out of them?


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    alwaysadub
    Registered Users Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    Kiera wrote: »
    Nope, never had one. Its just not something i was ever into. Ann summers invented toys for those kinds of things ;)

    Ah,good old BOB :pac:


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    amiable
    Registered Users Posts: 12,206 ✭✭✭✭amiable


    In my experience it usually ends up that one of the two agrees to it in the first place in the hope it will end up going further


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    seamus
    Registered Users Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    fluffyotaters wrote: »
    Have any boardsies ever had or indeed have you someone that you only see for sex and sex alone?
    That's not a friend with benefits, that a fnckbuddy.

    A friend with benefits is someone that you otherwise treat as a friend, but ride everytime you're bored or drunk and think nothing of it the next day.


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    Einhard
    Registered Users Posts: 6,920 ✭✭✭Einhard


    fluffyotaters wrote: »
    Have any boardsies ever had or indeed have you someone that you only see for sex and sex alone?

    How did it work out for you? Did either of you end up having deeper feelings for the other person? How did it end etc?

    Genuine question by the way :)

    My girlfriend. Wrecks my head, but godammit, she's good for the ride!!


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    Micky Dolenz
    Registered Users Posts: 44,080 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    seamus wrote: »
    That's not a friend with benefits, that a fnckbuddy.

    A friend with benefits is someone that you otherwise treat as a friend, but ride everytime you're bored or drunk and think nothing of it the next day.


    I'll take one of each please.


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    AgileMyth
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,761 ✭✭✭AgileMyth


    stovelid wrote: »
    It's all sounds a bit modern to me.

    What happened to stringing women along with yarns about staying together forever until you squeeze every last bit of sex out of them?
    Ah the good old days, you romantic you.


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    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    stovelid wrote: »
    squeeze every last bit of sex out of them?
    Ew... messy!


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    AnonoBoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    Once or twice.

    It's better if they don't ask you for money at the end.


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    minidazzler
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    Kiera wrote: »
    Nope, never had one. Its just not something i was ever into. Ann summers invented toys for those kinds of things ;)

    Will a toy hold you tight at night...then leave the second it gets what it wants?
    Will it fart silently and not warn you?
    Will it tell you everything you want to hear...then do the deed leave?
    Will a toy text at 3 am asking "Wot u up 2?"


    Those yokes a fcuking useless! :D


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    Rented Mule
    Registered Users Posts: 5,153 ✭✭✭Rented Mule


    I have had a few over the years and it was great. We were generally too busy to put any effort into a relatoinship, but got the 'benefits' that we were looking for. Very up front. Very honest. Very much fun.


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    blueshark22
    Closed Accounts Posts: 205 ✭✭blueshark22


    Yeah, i used to have this guy, i knew him from home but wouldn't have ever been friends with him. Met him out one night and ended up sleeping with him the next time i met him out again and several nights after that, i'd broken up with someone about a year previous to this and it was the first time i'd actually slept with someone since , it was what it was - we never txted, called , it was just if we met out ... we were on the same wavelength thank chri#t , i'd imagine it would be really messy if ye weren't:)


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    Tail Wagger
    Registered Users Posts: 670 ✭✭✭Tail Wagger


    Friends with benefits?

    Well I have one mate who gets rent allowance?

    another who's on sick benefit's

    Bet, I never get a banging allowance?


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    efb
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    Christ yeah. It's great when your not straight!


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    Mr Benevolent
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    fluffyotaters wrote: »
    Have any boardsies ever had or indeed have you someone that you only see for sex and sex alone?

    How did it work out for you? Did either of you end up having deeper feelings for the other person? How did it end etc?

    Genuine question by the way :)

    Tried it with a girl at work, we're together four years now.


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    minidazzler
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    Confab wrote: »
    Tried it with a girl at work, we're together four years now.

    Fail.


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    Mr Benevolent
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,456 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    minidazzler wrote: »
    Fail.

    Perhaps it's a fail on the planet you come from. It's a win for me.


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    antodeco
    Registered Users, Subscribers Posts: 13,449 ✭✭✭✭antodeco


    Do imaginary friends count?


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    My name is URL
    Registered Users Posts: 25,068 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    It's never as starightforward as just boinking them and leaving.


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    #26
    Mr Benevolent
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,456 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    antodeco wrote: »
    Do imaginary friends count?

    Is her name Pa(l)m?


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    Columbia
    Registered Users Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Columbia


    Yes, once, a good few years back.

    I also had a girlfriend without benefits.

    Not excusing my sins, but you can't tell me those things weren't related...


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    ejmaztec
    Registered Users Posts: 24,000 ✭✭✭✭ejmaztec


    Confab wrote: »
    Tried it with a girl at work, we're together four years now.

    I'm sure that someone will eventually un-jam the lock of the archive store-room.


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    Thibor
    Registered Users Posts: 58 ✭✭Thibor


    Had a couple of them over the last few years, they are great when they work and the other person doesn't want anything more from it, can be a right pain when it goes pear shaped though.


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    GiftofGab
    Registered Users Posts: 2,369 ✭✭✭GiftofGab


    Yeah, used to have a **** buddy. No strings attached sex. It lasted a few months. Just tended to drift apart. Used to collect her every Friday, do her in the car then drop her home afterwards.


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    Funky Kingston
    Registered Users Posts: 131 ✭✭Funky Kingston


    Thibor wrote: »
    Had a couple of them over the last few years, they are great when they work and the other person doesn't want anything more from it, can be a right pain when it goes pear shaped though.

    True say . I've had a couple of them , once i started to get proper realtionship feelings for someone ...so i ended it ! Aside from that if it works well and you both stick to the plan....fun!!:rolleyes:


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