Bongalongherb wrote: » Just incase folk were wondering about my odd comment above, It was a test in regards to moderation on this thread. I should have received at least an infraction from my post but I did not receive anything as I should have been infracted at least from my forwarded comment in regards to Nody. Well there ye go, the proof is there, there is no over-moderation or red card bans/infractions. Now there is a slight possibility that I am on every moderators ignore list, in this case they might not even notice I have posted a comment at all interestingly.
Nody wrote: » How did you know?! I was promised no one would see it... Problem is not only PC but a question of deciding what's acceptable in general. I'd agree if people had thicker skin in general things would run smoother (I may be jaded but I think I'm seeing more outrage on various topics compared to earlier times and this is not limited to boards) but at some point you'll end up with a line drawn to say what's ok and what's not. Some people will disagree with where that line no matter where it's placed though and people will threaten to leave because it's to tough/lenient and it will choke/scare away people. And there's always calls for one or the other and judgement calls if it was over the line or not (i.e. the easy once such as "All "insert group" should burn in a fire because they are "insert appropriate slur" is not a problem but the borderline cases which may drive people to leave because "it's not dealt with"). *edit* Wibbs I agree on the redesign; I expressed my dislike for the category change and the new design but for this I'm just another user rather than a Mod complaining about it :P
Wibbs wrote: » This reduction to a couple of headings was pointed out by many at the time, but that was pretty much ignored and here we are. The new site layout has been roundly criticised and though the current layout has gained a reprieve because of that negative reaction, my feeling is too much time effort and money has been burnt through for it to be ditched at this stage.
Bongalongherb wrote: » Name these dick-heads please. It's time Nody came clean about the fungershank in Germany last week.
Why not, it sounds more enticing than the ... 'But' part. Better off leaving the 'but' out of it and focus on getting a good laugh instead of everything locked as PC. hallelujah.
Nody wrote: » That is not a mod mindset though;
look at anything from speeding limits to laws about contracts to anything else with rules. They are not written for "how would a decent person act" because then we'd not need them but rather to set an established line in the sand and state this is the minimum we expect in this scenario.
With the cool folks we'd have a boards wide charter stating "Be cool to each other (with a guitar riff playing)" and it would work but,
Wibbs wrote: » I do feel that too often mods can get into that mindset because of the dickhead/cool folks ratio they may deal with. Any suggestions to improve things may be done more with the dickheads in mind and too often that can put off the cool folks.
Wibbs wrote: » The touch site is also for the chop in favour of this new "improved" layout G. Now somebody is listening as the main site got a temporary reprieve and will keep going for at least this year. I presume that covers touch too.
ancapailldorcha wrote: » I was just making the point that its disheartening when people feel the need to throw such vitriol at volunteers.
Wibbs wrote: » OK ACD and I would share your frustration if I was getting similar. H - and this illustrates my point against the notion of more moderation - in both those latter cases including the mod being a tool the existing framework covers that and pretty clearly. If you get a PM suggesting you are small of cock and you should use same on yourself in a fashion that would require the physical flexibility of an Indian fakir then that's straight to report the PM and they will at best get warned, more likely they'll be taking time off for that nonsense. That has been the case since I first signed up to Boards. No difficulty in drawing that line, nor escalation of moderation/oversight required. Now you would be in pure WTF? territory if you reported such PM's and nothing was done about it. I'd be beyond shocked to find that was the case though.
ancapailldorcha wrote: » It's often quite difficult to draw a clear line though. Anyone blatantly disregarding the rules tends not to last long at all. It's the slower burners who only put a toe out of line every now and again that are the bigger problem. Dealing with them can be quite stressful at times. I can only deal with so many PMs mocking my sexual prowess or encouraging me to self sodomise myself (that one from a mod) before needing a break.
the groutch wrote: » there are some categories where the mods are never seen or heard from except to dole out infractions/bans.
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smash wrote: » This relies on user reporting, which I admit I just couldn't be bothered with any more unless it's blatant spam or scam posts. Then there's people on the opposite end of the spectrum who report everything.
o1s1n wrote: » I'd also like to add that since the topics were changed I don't browse forums outside of my favourites at all now. I don't actively avoid it, its just that previously it was so easy to do that it just happened naturally, as odd as that might sound. Its like with every iteration of boards, less information is available on screen at once and youve to click down through more categories etc. That little bit of extra hassle might not seem like much design wise but it really stops people from exploring the site.
Gebgbegb wrote: » Just to say... I'm happy..,,using the touch site so unaware of the gui grumblings. Tis grand.
Baldy Conscience wrote: » "But that's not the way we think stickies should be used"
o1s1n wrote: » Its like with every iteration of boards, less information is available on screen at once and youve to click down through more categories etc. That little bit of extra hassle might not seem like much design wise but it really stops people from exploring the site.
hullaballoo wrote: » It's hackneyed at this stage but people (not just the young uns) have a dreadfully poor attention span these days as well.
Baldy Conscience wrote: » Many people have stated this, but it's being ignored. Used to be that I'd hover over (for example) "Science" and then the drop down would come, and I'd see the list of "sciency" topics and go into them one by one. I literally never do that any more, because nothing happens automatically any more. It's effort. I've no particular interest in any of the science topics at all, so I don't make the effort to go into them. But "The Office" either don't understand the issue there, or are of the opinion that there is a huge horde of people just waiting for a major site redesign before actually posting. How many different "betas" have we seen in the last couple of years? Has the posting base increased or decreased?
smash wrote: » But on these platforms(specifically facebook) there's no expectation of anonymity because they're your personal profile. Forums are different as they're an open discussion medium where you don't need to disclose personal information. This works for good and for bad as on one end people don't have to put out details they don't want to, but on the other hand there's no personal responsibility for trolling and targeting.
Given that you can't resurrect old threads, one option is to hide inactive threads over a certain age. This would knock SEO on a business level but it would make 'post stalking' a whole lot more constrained and give at least the illusion of some privacy.
I also suggested before that boards could charge for account removal or destruction if people really wanted it.
I'm more so talking about the reason for people closing accounts and starting new ones repeatedly to limit their digital footprint.
I can understand links to blogs/fb etc in signatures for regulars of say the photography or beauty blogging forums who are trying to gain an audience for their work. It's when they step outside of their regular space that they realise how vulnerable they are.
Private forums are becoming popular around here for a reason
Wibbs wrote: » Social networks are upping their privacy more from government influences than anything else. People are only too happy to put their personal details up in public, indeed many are downright competitive about it. Never underestimate the interwebs attention seeker. They're everywhere, or Facebook, twitter, snapchat et al wouldn't be so damned popular.
Wibbs wrote: » As for people feeling "safe", how can a forum like Boards make things any safer? There is an expectation that you're a grown adult, you've a choice of username, more you've a choice of your personal details you put out there.
Wibbs wrote: » You can be as anon and safe as you want, or not. Somewhere like Boards is a lot less personal and vulnerable than somewhere like Facebook. I have no clue who you are, so long as you make the choice not to tell me who you are. As I pointed out at the time of the international celeb phone hack; there are no pics of my willie on the interwebs, because I don't take pictures of my willie and upload them to the interwebs. Blindingly obvious but there you go.
Wibbs wrote: » More than once I've had fellow Board's folk PM me complaining that they were being "stalked on Boards", only for me to find that they had a link to their blog/facebook account in their profile. Yep people can be that slow on the uptake. There is nothing that Boards or any forum can do about this and what can be done has already been done with bans on doxxing etc(including getting the cops involved in some cases).