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Singles Thread - Mark II

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La.de.da

Trebor176 wrote: »

It looks good. A friend of mine recommended it to me a couple of years ago, but I only joined a couple of months ago.

Well, the girl I met was from POF. I know it was only two dates, but it got to me big time.

Like yourself, I need to try and focus on myself (health and that), and my exams, of course. I really want someone in my life, though, but dating sites aren't always the way to go. I need to get more sociable. But, good for you that you're going to focus on those things. It's no harm to impress.

That's exactly my issue need more social outlets. Since I rarely go boozing I've lost contact with a lot of people. Probably better off tbh.

Onwards and upwards treb.:)

Trebor176

La.de.da wrote: »

That's exactly my issue need more social outlets. Since I rarely go boozing I've lost contact with a lot of people. Probably better off tbh.

Onwards and upwards treb.:)

We're pretty much alike in that respect. I do have friends here, but I don't see as much of them as I would like. I may be off to Coppers in a few weeks, and Coppers is renowned for people getting the 'shift.' If I don't even get a number, I'm definitely doing something wrong

Onwards and upwards indeed

La.de.da

Oh I've heard a lot of this infamous coppers.
Jaysus I don't know would I be able for that place. I'm 31 think I'd feel a bit to auld. I know I do for the local "night club"

Best of luck for the shift and or phone numbers

davidk1394

Ye seem to be the same age as myself. Out of interest how often would ye go out ? And would ye get a woman each night?

misstearheus

Well I'm 36. :O :O 36 today actually!! 30fricking6!! Yikes! Am getting nearer and nearer the big 40!! :O

Jaysus I was in a good mood before I wrote this but that thought doesn't bode well with me at all!

I'm dreading being 40!

Absolutely dreading the thought of it.

Well, I've been out more in the last 2/3 years than I have in the last 7/8!!! Am really trying lately to meet new people lately and make new friends, but, the reality I think, is, sometimes it just doesn't work! It's mega exhausting trying though!!

Butttt, I think people just don't want to meet new friends or whatever, it's hassle yadda yadda etc. etc. They'd much prefer sit and moan and whinge about not having any friends and never going out etc., and then there's the crap of people being in-decisive about meeting or whatever and it just all gets tiring after a while! But there's only so much ya can do to try!!

Well I do see absolutely lovely guys out in Gaillimh alright but as per usual don't know if they're single or just out for a few drinks plus may not even be interested in moi anyway!

But I'll live with it! :pac: :P

I'm nowhere near married hah so I've zero experience, - buttttt it just seems like there's no approaching done anymore.....?!? Like, getting out for the night anymore, maybe it literally is just an opportunity to get out for a few drinks and that's it! Sooo I don't even know anymore! I just don't know.... Where are potential partners supposed to meet like?!? I don't know....

POF does get frustrating, 'cos there's like a handful of nice pics on there, and pics of guys I like never seem to like me!

Awwwwww! :P But also POF is getting very stale now lol! It's getting old....

But there's a couple of things there lately that has made me think, Goddd if I had a fella and he did that annoying thing 24/7 whatever it may be, - I wouldn't be able to cope lol, maybe I am better off on my own! :pac: But then there are times it'd be nice to have a fella to go places with and do things and then I may find myself moseying my way having yet another look at POF and getting frustrated with it all again and it gets to hopping back on this wonderful Merry-go-round again! It's a vicious circle/cycle!!

ShakerMaker91

I'm been single myself for a long time I'm hopeless when it comes to getting a girlfriend unfortunately its been my Achilles heel throughout the years I just find it very nerve racking when trying to chat up a young one (very low self esteem and confidence issues) I don't know why it is as I'd be a very outgoing person generally I've only really had one proper girlfriend and I'm now 25 is this normal?

misstearheus

Who mentionned Coppers?!?

KikiDee

La.de.da wrote: »

Would love to use that meetup rather than the dating sites tbh. Not much happens in the south east though.

I'm sick of going looking for someone. Those dating sites are bad for the/my mental health I think. End up trying to impress too much.

I'm going to try concentrate on my health and confidence and make some friends I think for a while.

I've joined meet up. They do lots of things in and around Kilkenny. Not sure where you're based exactly in the South East. They're doing a dinner and movie night at the end of the month in Thomastown. It's a good way to get out of the house and have a little bit of craic. They do a catch up every Saturday in Geoffs in Waterford. I haven't gone to that yet so not sure how many people actually go

tomwaterford

KikiDee wrote: »

I've joined meet up. They do lots of things in and around Kilkenny. Not sure where you're based exactly in the South East. They're doing a dinner and movie night at the end of the month in Thomastown. It's a good way to get out of the house and have a little bit of craic. They do a catch up every Saturday in Geoffs in Waterford. I haven't gone to that yet so not sure how many people actually go

What actual age group is this for/age people going

KikiDee

tomwaterford wrote: »

What actual age group is this for/age people going

From what I can see, there seems to be a broad age range. I'm only guessing that based on profile pics mind. I'm 29 and there seems to be people there that get my references and have similar interests to me if that helps you guesstimate

tomwaterford

KikiDee wrote: »

From what I can see, there seems to be a broad age range. I'm only guessing that based on profile pics mind. I'm 29 and there seems to be people there that get my references and have similar interests to me if that helps you guesstimate

This could suit me

KikiDee

tomwaterford wrote: »

This could suit me

You should try it. Worst that'll happen is you'll come across someone you don't particularly like as a person but there's others there that you don't have to talk to

Is it sad that I'm wicked excited for the movie & food meet up?

tomwaterford

KikiDee wrote: »

You should try it. Worst that'll happen is you'll come across someone you don't particularly like as a person but there's others there that you don't have to talk to

Is it sad that I'm wicked excited for the movie & food meet up?

NAh...enjoy it ta fcuk...more exciting than what I'll be doing

KikiDee

tomwaterford wrote: »

NAh...enjoy it ta fcuk...more exciting than what I'll be doing

Ehhhh....it's not happening for another 2 weeks hahahahaha!!!! This is what my single life has come to!!

Chunky_Monkey

im going to the " mcgowans " singles night , anybody wanna tag along ?

tomwaterford

KikiDee wrote: »

Ehhhh....it's not happening for another 2 weeks hahahahaha!!!! This is what my single life has come to!!

I'd not worry until last Tuesday I'd been out once since start of October :-/

davidk1394

ShakerMaker91 wrote: »

I'm been single myself for a long time I'm hopeless when it comes to getting a girlfriend unfortunately its been my Achilles heel throughout the years I just find it very nerve racking when trying to chat up a young one (very low self esteem and confidence issues) I don't know why it is as I'd be a very outgoing person generally I've only really had one proper girlfriend and I'm now 25 is this normal?

I've had 2. And I'm 21

Trebor176

La.de.da wrote: »

Oh I've heard a lot of this infamous coppers.
Jaysus I don't know would I be able for that place. I'm 31 think I'd feel a bit to auld. I know I do for the local "night club"

Best of luck for the shift and or phone numbers

That's IF we end up going there in the end. Anyway, it won't be for another couple of weeks at least. Knowing my luck, I won't even get to chat someone up.

ShakerMaker91 wrote: »

I'm been single myself for a long time I'm hopeless when it comes to getting a girlfriend unfortunately its been my Achilles heel throughout the years I just find it very nerve racking when trying to chat up a young one (very low self esteem and confidence issues) I don't know why it is as I'd be a very outgoing person generally I've only really had one proper girlfriend and I'm now 25 is this normal?

And for those of us nearing 30 and never having been in a relationship, is that normal?

KikiDee

tomwaterford wrote: »

I'd not worry until last Tuesday I'd been out once since start of October :-/

Oh? Why is that? Or am I being way too nosey here?

tomwaterford

KikiDee wrote: »

Oh? Why is that? Or am I being way too nosey here?

I dunno...I just trying to make new friends and stuff....plus I kinda watch a lot of what I eat and don't hugely drink as was kinda sick all winter (nothing serious)...but try to stay fit aswell like

Though to knock all this on head I was out Tuesday Wednesday night and Thursday...going again tonight (not drinking) and drinking again tomorrow night after the match....
(These are the plans)

KikiDee

tomwaterford wrote: »

I dunno...I just trying to make new friends and stuff....plus I kinda watch a lot of what I eat and don't hugely drink as was kinda sick all winter (nothing serious)...but try to stay fit aswell like

Though to knock all this on head I was out Tuesday Wednesday night and Thursday...going again tonight (not drinking) and drinking again tomorrow night after the match....
(These are the plans)