Huntergonzo wrote: » Well legalish, but it's a very covert industry in Ireland, there's a lot of offenses attached to it, we're not exactly like Amsterdam over here.
One eyed Jack wrote: » Some of them get ferociously horny, but under current law it is unlawful for anyone to have sex with them anyway.
Olishi4 wrote: » Read the thread and that is the message that people seem to be giving. When I am making a point, it is not always about you or what you said directly.
Olishi4 wrote: » If you don't understand the point, fine but it's a waste of time explaining in detail every single sentence.
Olishi4 wrote: » Sexual liberation, empowerment etc. have been associated with sex work in the thread. YOU spoke about right to choice and implied that criminalizing it was suppressing people's right to individuality.
Olishi4 wrote: » Glamorising it.
smash wrote: » There was a documentary on C4
One eyed Jack wrote: » In contrast to that - facilitating the sex industry and attempting to regulate the industry would cost the State far more than it's worth.
One eyed Jack wrote: » Many of them have no education or transferable skills to be able to do anything else, and so they become the State's problem, again.
One eyed Jack wrote: » instead of encouraging and allowing for, and facilitating that choice, should be focused on enabling people and giving them more choices so that they aren't choosing the sex industry out of necessity.
One eyed Jack wrote: » but society should have no obligation then to facilitate those people doing what they like if they already think they're above the laws of that society
One eyed Jack wrote: » But sex is already freely available, to anyone!
One eyed Jack wrote: » That's how marketing works, that's how they were able to monetise bottled water even though 70% of the planet is covered in it!
One eyed Jack wrote: » That's the whole point of the Swedish model though - is that the seller won't be criminalised, but the buyer will.
One eyed Jack wrote: » The other thing I don't think you're acknowledging is that many of the sex workers are from other countries where their first language isn't english, so their ability to seek assistance in a country they know nothing about is somewhat hampered by the fact they also don't speak the language
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » I was pointing out that OEJ had dodged the message of the video he had merely dismissed.
nozzferrahhtoo wrote: » Yes, stating the obvious again. What should also be obvious is that people who go to sex workers do so for more reasons that merely wanting sex to be easily available or free. There are other motivations and reasons for it. And the demand for it is anything but "artificial", nor does it require magical powers of them. Just because YOU can not see a point to the sex industry, does not magically mean there is one. There is just not one for you.
And are the reasons why that happened as opaque to you as the reason people still go to sex workers even if sex is "readily available" as you claim?
I am still waiting for SOME level of reply from you as to why you wish to criminalize something when you lack any argument at all for it being "wrong" in the first place. Surely to argue for something to be illegal, there should at least be some reasoning available for it to be illegal???
As with other points you have made, this has nothing to do with the sex work, but is a general problem we should do our best to address with or without legal or illegal sex work. Because when people come to a country where they do not speak the language, they are prone and open to exploitation of one for or another. Even when seeking a rental contract here in Germany for example, I had attempts to use my lack of German as a means to exploit me into signing and agreeing to things no one would ask of a native.
Little CuChulainn wrote: » The same can be said for all crime.
silverharp wrote: » but that's presumptuous on your part. Its like saying you don't need weed, do a trail run, the buzz is better than any artificial chemical
but nobody knows who future sex workers are going to be , if they include girls going to college its not people in dire straits , its just a choice to make a credit card debt go away or what not. I assume a lot are not even from the host country so it wouldn't be Ireland's problem to sort in this case.
melissak wrote: » Because of the exploitation.
melissak wrote: » Because drug addiction and desperation force some women into this industry
melissak wrote: » so it is not a matter of consenting adults
melissak wrote: » lax laws will encourage sex tourism.
eviltwin wrote: » Should be legal and treated as a legitimate job, nothing wrong with it and what consenting adults do is their own business.
esforum wrote: » people arent being exploited now as a result of being outside the law and unable to have their grievances aired via legal channels? Making prostitution illegal encourages criminals as they are now the only avenue for it. True Prohibition, if you ban something that people want, criminals will provide it. True those same women will still be in the same boat, no one is suggesting licensing drug addicts who are injecting heroin, therefore a heroin addict hooker shall remain an illegal hooker. legalising wont change anything. But how many irish women who are not addicted or otherwise desperate would sell sex for 50 to 100 euros. Will we be importing people to meet demand? Will there be visas to be got because we can't fill the "job" the definition of consent is voluntary agreement, being paid for performing a sex act for drugs is not consent but being paid to sweep the roads to buy food is? I doubt you will find a road sweeper who dreamed of it Road sweepers can go home to their wife or husband and complain about their day, if they don't like it they can seek other employment hochildI dont know anyone that travels to Amsterdam for a hooker. Unless you are using the likes of Bangkok as an example
melissak wrote: » I am using Bangkok particularly. The red light district in Amsterdam is a bit seedy but it is prudish in comparison
esforum wrote: » Would you be shocked to know that prostitution is actually illegal in Thailand?
melissak wrote: » No. I don't agree, even if legal It shouldn't be treated as a legitimate job Imo. It should be kept discreet and kept behind closed doors.If It is not my business it shouldn't be made my business by flaunting it in front of me.
esforum wrote: » HOw would it be flounted in front of you anymore than strip bars are?
esforum wrote: » people arent being exploited now as a result of being outside the law and unable to have their grievances aired via legal channels? Making prostitution illegal encourages criminals as they are now the only avenue for it.
Prohibition, if you ban something that people want, criminals will provide it.
those same women will still be in the same boat, no one is suggesting licensing drug addicts who are injecting heroin, therefore a heroin addict hooker shall remain an illegal hooker. legalising wont change anything.
the definition of consent is voluntary agreement, being paid for performing a sex act for drugs is not consent but being paid to sweep the roads to buy food is? I doubt you will find a road sweeper who dreamed of it as a child.
how so? I dont know anyone that travels to Amsterdam for a hooker. Unless you are using the likes of Bangkok as an example
One eyed Jack wrote: » Shouldn't we be doing everything we can then to make sure that there is no market to legitimise criminal behaviour? It's the buyers of sexual services should rightly be criminalised as they are supporting the criminal enterprises and continued exploitation of human beings. Society shouldn't and doesn't stand for that, and rightly so, because facilitating such exploitation by legislating for it would be tacit approval of said exploitation. Is that really a society that anyone wants to live in? I certainly don't. And that's why we go after the criminals, those people in society who figure they are above the law, or that the law shouldn't apply to them in exactly the same way it applies to everyone else within that society. Then we get those same women (and men remember? There are male sex workers too in that same boat), out of that boat. What we absolutely don't do, is facilitate the people who would want to keep people in that boat to have their own needs satisfied. There's no voluntary agreement in someone only performing a service because you're paying them to provide a service. People who sweep the roads are being paid to sweep the roads. If they were doing it voluntarily they wouldn't expect to be paid. I know plenty people who dreamed of being a road sweeper as a child, the same as I know plenty people who as children wanted to become porn stars. As they grew up, their expectations for themselves changed as they came to realise the chasm between their dreams and reality. Thanks to society moving on, we no longer shove children up chimneys either. Society has moved past the point where the sex industry is necessary, and some people in the sex industry (the real earners) and the people who want to exploit other people for their own ends, are desperate to drag society backwards. You may not know anyone personally who travels to Amsterdam to avail of the services of sex workers, but there are plenty people that do, and like I said earlier - the local people living in Amsterdam are sick of it. The rest of the Netherlands are just glad they don't have to live there. For years Amsterdam was used as the model to decriminalise sex work. It's not any more. There's a reason for that.
melissak wrote: » Has it not worked out in Amsterdam?
One eyed Jack wrote: » Nope, it's gone tits up, that's why they've been trying to introduce all sorts of measures to clean up the city and they're keen to adopt the Swedish model. Amsterdam has so, so much more to offer tourists besides the sex industry, but that's what it's mostly known for, and local councillors want to change the image of the city for tourists and it's own citizens alike.
Yamanoto wrote: » Hell of a statistic, but you provide no source.
Eramen wrote: » "The average age of a girl entering the sex trade is only 14 in the Netherlands" Why does there seem to be a fantastic air of disbelief surrounding the facts on this thread? Are you so caught up in your own ideology or your own behinds that you're putting up deflective walls around a lost position? You guys keep making it out to be a sort of gleeful and 'empowering' affair.. Far from it. As a matter of fact, 14 is relatively 'old' in comparison to most countries in the world (and even Europe) to start out a 'career' in prostitution.- The average age women become involved being just 12yrs old. [UK] - Published by the UK Home Office- 3 out of 4 women in prostitution become involved aged 21 or younger, and 1 in 2 aged 18 or younger- 75% of children abused through prostitution had been missing from school Lads, go off and research.. The Report: http://webarchive.nationalarchives.gov.uk/+/http:/www.homeoffice.gov.uk/documents/paying_the_price.pdf?view=Binary
melissak wrote: » What are the swedes doing?
melissak wrote: » Why did that download a document to my phone? I'm not sure I want a document about prostitution on my phone download records.. I am technologically retarded
Eramen wrote: » You are part of a consultation firm tasked on behalf of the Irish government to figure out whether to follow the Saarland or Swedish model.. As such, these categories of documents will not arouse unwanted suspicion or carousing from enforcement. Everything appears to be in order sir, carry on.
One eyed Jack wrote: » Shouldn't we be doing everything we can then to make sure that there is no market to legitimise criminal behaviour? It's the buyers of sexual services should rightly be criminalised as they are supporting the criminal enterprises and continued exploitation of human beings. Society shouldn't and doesn't stand for that, and rightly so, because facilitating such exploitation by legislating for it would be tacit approval of said exploitation. Is that really a society that anyone wants to live in? I certainly don't.
One eyed Jack wrote: » And that's why we go after the criminals, those people in society who figure they are above the law, or that the law shouldn't apply to them in exactly the same way it applies to everyone else within that society.
One eyed Jack wrote: » Then we get those same women (and men remember? There are male sex workers too in that same boat), out of that boat. What we absolutely don't do, is facilitate the people who would want to keep people in that boat to have their own needs satisfied.
One eyed Jack wrote: » There's no voluntary agreement in someone only performing a service because you're paying them to provide a service. People who sweep the roads are being paid to sweep the roads. If they were doing it voluntarily they wouldn't expect to be paid.
One eyed Jack wrote: » I know plenty people who dreamed of being a road sweeper as a child, the same as I know plenty people who as children wanted to become porn stars. As they grew up, their expectations for themselves changed as they came to realise the chasm between their dreams and reality.
One eyed Jack wrote: » As they grew up, their expectations for themselves changed as they came to realise the chasm between their dreams and reality.
One eyed Jack wrote: » Thanks to society moving on, we no longer shove children up chimneys either.
Eramen wrote: » "The average age of a girl entering the sex trade is only 14 in the Netherlands" Why does there seem to be a fantastic air of disbelief surrounding the facts on this thread?
esforum wrote: » Not really, we ban things because they are damaging to society and as a whole, society wants it banned. Banning something that is popular and society by and large has no issue with will not work. That was why prohibition didnt work, the majority of people wanted to drink and saw no harm in it. According to the attached poll, society is pretty OK with prostitution. Jesus wept man! Have you not been reading my posts? They will always be in the boat, making something a crime pushes the boat further out to sea. It makes those being victimised even more isolated and hard to find. Legal or illegal, trafficking for prostitution will still exist, unlicensed hookers will still exist. The difference is they will be easier to find and easier to deal with as they will not be mixed with the licensed ones. and theres no evidence that men are being trafficked or kept against their will for the purpose of prostitution so no, in my opinion there are no men in that boat. theres gigaolos, they choose to be, I have no desire to force my morals on them. Are you deliberately refusing to acknowledge that Voluntarily means of ones own free will? I am beginning to think that your pal Oirish really did think that Freely meant for no money and wasnt being witty at all when he made the statement earlier. You knew a lot of strange kids. what does that even mean? They dreamed of being road sweepers but realised such a lofty goal was beyond them so settled for a more realistic option? Or they knew no better but as they became adults realised that the stars were out there so fecked off to Nasa to be all that they could be? If someone dreams of being a porn star why the **** not? Its their choice, not yours. (people being paid to have sex with strangers) theres so much wrong with that example, possible because you cant get your head around the difference between forcing someone against their will and someone making a career choice that you dont agree with Not too mention not a single person here is advocating that we sell our children into a life of child abuse and its actually a pretty disgusting comparison.
Eramen wrote: » The average age of a girl entering the sex trade is only 14 in the Netherlands