LexieOnRale wrote: » Are people more interested in the "not interested" vibes people give off?
Specialun wrote: You cant beat agood watch.
Wibbs wrote: » Rolex would be the best known, but I've very rarely had comments from women about the watches I own and there would be a few "good ones" in the mix. Of the ones that were noticed they were all oddball looking watches. It was the style rather than the name. I've had way more comments about my shoes. Shoes get noticed.
Specialun wrote: » Well lads what are your tactics..get her a drink..throw some shapes and try lob the gob..just talking to them normally..whats your approach
Deleted User wrote: » Dont have one. Never have. The idea of going out with the intention of "getting a girl" - in other words treating the opposite sex as a means to an end rather than an end in and of themselves - just makes me feel ikky and disgusting personally. As does the idea of walking up to someone to use a "tactic" or a "line" to try and ingratiate myself sexually with them. I want a shower for merely even thinking about acting like that. Talking about "tactics" and procedures makes it sound to me more like discussing how to capture an animal - like sitting around comparing lures used in fly fishing or some such. Or like if I do just the right mating call or ritual I will attract some mindless mate like I am a finch or a peacock or something. Anyone of the opposite sex I have ended up involved with romantically and/or sexually developed merely from them entering my life somehow - and our relationship evolving and maturing naturally on it's own. So who knows - perhaps the best tactic is no tactic for some people. All that said - when guys I know did ask me for advice on how to "pull" women - because apparently quite a few of them insanely see me as some sort of expert on the subject - I simply made something up on the spot. They implemented it and "pulled" every time. Consistently. Which means I either hit on the best tactic in the world by sheer unadulterated luck - or there is no tactic - you just have to find a reason or motivation to put yourself out there confidently and the rest works itself out. Which is probably why PUA stuff and "tactics" work - like those abhorrent "put them down and build them up" manipulative nonsense some people throw out. Almost like a placebo - if you invest enough belief and confidence in an approach - that makes it work more than anything about the tactic or approach itself.
Specialun wrote: » I have a big red watch..an addidas one..women seem to like to comment on it..which starts off the convo
Deleted User wrote: » The idea of going out with the intention of "getting a girl" - in other words treating the opposite sex as a means to an end rather than an end in and of themselves - just makes me feel ikky and disgusting personally.
Jim Bob Scratcher wrote: » My chat up lines are shoite but my pulling skills are top class, currently pulling the willy of meself to the lovely ladies of babestation
[Deleted User] wrote: » Which is probably why PUA stuff and "tactics" work - like those abhorrent "put them down and build them up" manipulative nonsense some people throw out. .
Olishi4 wrote: » I believe they call it "negging". I don't mind someone being a bit aloof or whatever especially if that is how they actually are or maybe they are just shy or something but going out of your way to put someone down is just weird and mean.
[Deleted User] wrote: » Dont have one. Never have. The idea of going out with the intention of "getting a girl" - in other words treating the opposite sex as a means to an end rather than an end in and of themselves - just makes me feel ikky and disgusting personally. As does the idea of walking up to someone to use a "tactic" or a "line" to try and ingratiate myself sexually with them. I want a shower for merely even thinking about acting like that. Talking about "tactics" and procedures makes it sound to me more like discussing how to capture an animal - like sitting around comparing lures used in fly fishing or some such. Or like if I do just the right mating call or ritual I will attract some mindless mate like I am a finch or a peacock or something. Anyone of the opposite sex I have ended up involved with romantically and/or sexually developed merely from them entering my life somehow - and our relationship evolving and maturing naturally on it's own. So who knows - perhaps the best tactic is no tactic for some people. All that said - when guys I know did ask me for advice on how to "pull" women - because apparently quite a few of them insanely see me as some sort of expert on the subject - I simply made something up on the spot. They implemented it and "pulled" every time. Consistently. Which means I either hit on the best tactic in the world by sheer unadulterated luck - or there is no tactic - you just have to find a reason or motivation to put yourself out there confidently and the rest works itself out. Which is probably why PUA stuff and "tactics" work - like those abhorrent "put them down and build them up" manipulative nonsense some people throw out. Almost like a placebo - if you invest enough belief and confidence in an approach - that makes it work more than anything about the tactic or approach itself.
lawred2 wrote: » Anyone ever read 'The Game'? What a load of unadulterated d!ckheadery
smash wrote: » I thought this was only for lads who still live at home, wash once a week and bulk buy Lynx Africa?
pickarooney wrote: » I've a really expensive watch but the strap is one link too big and I just CBA getting it resized. It was a present. Should I sell it? Or wear it anyway and pull loads of posh birds and get hired by companies?
smash wrote: » Put it on Adverts. I'll give you a fiver for it as long as you'll post it.
pickarooney wrote: » Swap you for a PS1 NTSC?
HensVassal wrote: » ikky? Fcukin IKKY??
smash wrote: » It's not ikky at all.
smash wrote: » Do you have a PAL converter?
[Deleted User] wrote: » No - just ikky thanks. I did not say it was. I said that is just how it makes _me_ feel. It is a comment about me not the activity itself. Hard to put into words what I mean - I just feel ikky at the thought of going out with the agenda of getting _someone_. Like the intention comes before the person you implement it with - rather than the other way around. If that makes any sense. No comment or judgement of anyone who does do it that way - I mean nothing other than _I_ feel ikky at the thought of it.
The Moldy Gowl wrote: » Aren't you the chap that has 2 wives?
ScienceNerd wrote: » I am incapable of the whole "chatting up" thing, simply cannot do it.
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